Women 200lb+, Let's Rock 'n Roll this January!!!
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kristinwoods919 wrote: »1/01: 236.6
1/05: 228.1
Wow I may want to re think my goal for the month. I know this has to be water weight! But I also have worked out every day. I’m going to set a new goal of 16 lbs for the month.
Incredible! Congratulations ❤️
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Okay!! Super happy, first official weigh in of January lost another 3lbs!
since December 28th lost 7lbs 🤩🤩
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Good morning everyone!
Saturday weigh in day!
Christina
35 years old
5'4"
SW: 220ish
Re-SW (Feb 2022): 200.4
UGW: 150
2024 goal weight: 155!
SW 2024: 182.7
🎉 January Goals!🎉
🎉 January GW: 180
1/6: 182.3 (-0.4)
A reminder for readers- these are averaged weights, not my actual weight, which was 182 and would have been more impressive. But I think the average is going to be the healthier way for me to go, just remember- if it looks like I'm losing every single weigh in, it's because -on average- I am. My real weight is fluctuating. And yours is probably doing the same. If you'd like to get on the averaged weight train, you could use an app like Happy Scale or LIbra.
⭐Stick to weight loss calories 7! days! a week!✅
⭐Log everything in grams✅
⭐Read 2 books✅ _
⭐Set up my home pole and take pictures for you all of my home gym in my garage waiting on the pole in the mail
⭐Do not deviate from the workout plan!✅
daily stars:
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Good day yesterday, the spinal flexibility routine was good, made better by the fact that Kiddo wanted to do it with me, AND I bought a heater for the garage, which is going to help a lot.
Whatsisface wanted to go out to lunch yesterday, and I was very proud of the way I handled everything.- A coworker brought in chicken biscuits, good ones, after I'd already eaten my oatmeal, so I took one, cut it in half and separated the pieces, and put them in the freezer for me to eat half for breakfasts later.
- Then, at the place for lunch, I brought my scale and weighed my sandwich to make sure I didn't go over what I planned, and gave the rest to Whatsisface before I could reconsider.
- He bought me a big coffee with breve on accident instead of a matcha latte, which was way more calories, so I gave that to him as well, even though the coffee was delicious.
- I planned to get a salad at our pizza place to be sure I was in calories, but as we were driving there, they called to say they were out of salad, so instead I ate a little leftover orzo at home and rewarded myself with a single piece of cheesy bread.
- All that, and I stayed in calories.
Finished Good Fortune, I did my book game for the first time:
Food, Cultural, eh? I've got one.
Today, it's another gym day- a dancey twerky class, just fun, and I'm excited about it. I have a meeting on Tuesday I had forgotten about, so I need to rearrange my workout plan for this week to make sure I still get the same number and types of workouts in.
Dinner tonight... I don't know. I'll probably just throw something together.
I'll see if I can get some flooring on the floor in the garage today so I can put in my pole as soon as it gets here.
Tag party time:
@melissaaridgeway I always hated that, having been there myself. I went from 220 to 155, got pregnant, my high pregnancy weight was 210, ugh, I get it all. And the weight came off me pretty quickly after I gave birth both times, but started to go upward again as I stressed about my milk supply and overate to try to stimulate it, and because I was so exhausted food seemed like a great idea. So keep that in mind- be kind to yourself, you're going to be going through a lot, and whatever happens is okay, because you are still a person that can take weight off if you want to, no matter what you're currently going through. I made a choice to overeat to try to breast feed longer, and that was a choice I'm still fine with to this day.
@dutchgirl188 look at you go!!! Great job! And small loss is good loss!
@sharon81 you're doing so well, too!
@bea021pa74 you're going through a lot, but I love that you're making sure you take care of yourself, too. I hope to see a lot more of you around here, and chat it up with us.
@Reign1321 you're doing great! The clothes fitting vs scale is so important.
@skintight303 I swear the doctor's scale has a secret extra little weight on it, lol. I know what it is- it's because I weigh at home with nothing on, first thing in the morning, whereas at the doctor, I've been eating and drinking, and I have clothes on. Still!
I used to run a lot- I found that the mental component was only really helped when I actually got out and pounded the pavement- a treadmill just wouldn't quiet my thoughts like a run would. Is there an indoor track anywhere near you that you could use? I know some YMCAs have one. Because that was always my holy grail as a runner, to avoid the treadmill- find an indoor track, haha.
@sarah12277 sorry you didn't get to see the girl or go bowling! It's good to benchmark where you are, so you can progress and improve!
@eloiraw great loss! and as you know, weight loss is made in the kitchen, that's all you really need. Workouts are for health.
Have a great day, everyone!
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Goal Check
Exercise - 6x a week ✔️
Water - working towards 64 to 100 ounces daily ✔️
Averaged about 40, which is in line with my plan (32 week 1, 48 week 2, 64 week 3, 80 week 4)
Better Nutrition *Work in Process ✔️
Was on vacation thru 1/2 but since 1/3 good meals and healthy snacks (mostly, I did have 1.5 ounces of chips (one of my weaknesses) on Wednesday night.) And 2 ounces of Cheetos on last night (vs half the bag = progress)
Less Alcohol * Work in process. Currently doing dry January with 2 exception days. ✔️
1/2, 1/3, 1/4, 1/5 AF
Get back to 10,000 steps a day (minimum) 🚫
Struggling here. Averaging about 7,000
My Mantra:
🏋🏾♀️ Don't think, just do it!!
My Mantra has helped me get out of bed twice this week!!
Saturday Weigh In
1/01: 223.6
1/06: 219.0 😎 (fluff weight)
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Total month loss so far: 4.6
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Hey, ladies, and Happy New Year!
This is the last full year I have before I hit 40 in 2025, so I'm going all guns blazing into 2024 to get my life in order.
Here are my resolutions⭐️, plans in place✏️, and end of year goals💛.
⭐️ Improve my A1 level Spanish
✏️Joined a language class & got a study partner
💛 Have extended conversations with native speakers
⭐️ Get the stories in my head onto paper and flesh them out
✏️ Joined a group chat with my writing friends to motivate/keep each other accountable
💛Write at least 70,000 words
⭐️ Get into better shape
✏️ Move my body for 30 minutes a day and eat in moderation
💛 Go hiking, rock climbing, and be able to travel more easily
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So I love to plan and am continually in a cycle of over-planning, being too strict, feeling trapped and helpless because I didn't stick to the plan, and then failing.
Therefore in 2024, I'm trying to give myself soooooo many options and possibilities. My main exercise goal for the next three months is just to move my body for 30 mintues most days of the week. I can:
1. Stay home and practice hula hooping
2. Stay home and do floor exercises
3. Stay home and do a video work out
4. Go outside and take a walk
5. Go to the pool and swim
6. Go to the gym and do cardio
7. Go to the gym and do weight training
8. Go to a dance/yoga/movement class
9. Any combination of the above
I could exercise for 30/45/60+ minutes and it doesn't matter at this point. I could exercise 4 times a week or 7 times and it doesn't matter at this point. I can't beat myself up when I don't accomplish a strict goal that I set for myself when I was in a different headspace, so what "most days a week" means might vary from week to week.
My main food goal is to eat in moderation. I'm trying not to cut foods out entirely, but to avoid my trigger foods as much as possible. Logging food on here is helpful as it keeps me aware of how much I'm eating and allows me to clearly see my protein macros.
I do want to lose a significant amount of weight in the next 18 months, but I've realized I can't keep looking at numbers. I think I'll weigh myself maybe twice a month. I did weight myself on January 1st so that I know where I'm coming from.
💜 Thanks to the ladies who been in this group for a while who continued to show up on months when I wasn't mentally able to and thanks to all the new women who have recently joined. We're going to kick so much butt this year! Here's to a rockin 2024!!!💜1 -
Hi, welcome to the newcomers and glad to see everyone that is coming back to live their best life.
Thank God I made it through 2023. It honestly was the worst year of my life medically. I have my heart surgery on 1/12/24. I am scared and nervous, but I want it over with.
For those who don't know, an implantable cardioverter-defibrillator (ICD) is a small battery-powered device placed in the chest. It detects and stops irregular heartbeats, also called arrhythmias. An ICD continuously checks the heartbeat. It delivers electric shocks, when needed, to restore a regular heart rhythm. I've been told it is like a horse kicking you in your chest when you are shocked. THIS WILL KEEP ME ALIVE, YAY!
So, I have an electricity problem in my heart. I have been diagnosed with Heart Failure and Sudden Cardiac Death, meaning I can die at any moment without my cardiac vest. It has been an enormous adjustment. This has led to healthier choices overall. I had an unsuccessful surgery last year. My vein was too small. It was painful. So this Friday I am having it done again.
All I can focus on is not bingeing daily and making better choices. I will not overload myself with too many goals right now. My main goal is to survive the surgery and the 6 weeks of recovery. I still need to document my food plan, weight, blood sugar, blood pressure, give insulin, and practice self-care daily. This is done in a spiral notebook. I show the results to my doctors. My nutritionist upped my protein to 110g a day! Yay!
My goals, not resolutions, are as follows:
-finish heart surgery
-recover
-be able to dance by the end of the year (I miss it.)
-finish cardiac rehab
-finish Physical Therapy for my right and left hip bursitis
-finish the Eating Disorder's clinic program with flying colors
-Hit Onderland (199 lbs.)
-become the happy and carefree woman that I really am without this extra adipose tissue
-to truly learn what moderation is and implement it, stop bingeing, changing this maladaptive behavior
-be able to have 2 pieces of pizza and a salad with Coke 1x a month
-Develop a better character, leading into my true self
-Ideally, I want to weigh 130lbs. by the end of September, definitely by the end of the year
-get off my diabetes medication, have my A1C be 5.5
-Read the book "Six Factors to Fit"-Robert and Nancy Kushner
-Read the book " Mental Toughness" by Andy Friscella
-to not let the number on the scale define my self-worth or make me feel like crud
-to see, when I align my thoughts and actions, what results I can truly produce
-to rid myself of my fat suit that has been plaguing me for years
-To complete all of these tasks by December 31, 2024
-To be a finisher and mark these off as done! I will finally be rid of the eating disorder that has had me for 38 years. No more. I am worth more and deserve better than this.
-No matter what life faces at me to face it with courage and an overcoming spirit
-To switch from procrastinator to accomplisher
Off to chop a large salad, eat it with sweet and spicy tuna, and a half of an apple.
It doesn't matter whether I feel like doing it anymore. No excuses=my dream life and everyone else's too! Good luck ladies! High fives and smiles.
I am an obese woman that decided to stop lying to myself and trade the life I was living into one I really can get excited about...
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I bought this off of Etsy. You can't see it on the the first heart. It has a heart beat on it. This is to remind me to keep living and stop settling for a life that I don't want.
When you almost die, there is no other choice than to face what you've always feared and DO IT!
Going from the cowardly lion to Dorothy in 2024! lol
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@kiteflyer105 Good luck on your surgery. That is all so very scary but it seems like you're in a good place mentally. I will keep you in my thoughts next Friday!1
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Happy Sunday y'all! I weighed in yesterday with a 4lb loss, so I'll take it.
SW: 260
1/6: 255.4
Not that I'm intentionally trying to lose much right now, but I have a little bit of ground to make up for since I had such a huge gain my first 2 trimesters. Hoping I can turn things around for this last one.
@skintight303 thank you for the encouragement! I'm hoping my next appointment (this coming Wednesday) will show a good weight change in the other direction a little, but who knows because you're right...the doctor's scales are the worst! Lol But I can't wait until baby comes because the damage will be even worse.
As for workout recommendations in the cold.... I got none. Lol. I'm also a outside jogger and do prefer to workout in the evenings (I live 30 minutes away from the nearest gym and I don't want to add an hour commute onto my workout). Are home workouts an option? Occasionally I'll turn on a YouTube workout channel for some indoors workouts if the weather is bad. But I know that's not for everyone either.
@CupcakeCrusoe Congrats on staying under calories Friday despite the added chaos! I love your little monopoly boardgame idea! Such fun! I also struggle to produce milk, so it was a constant strain for my 1st and 2nd kids (made it to 12 months and 10 months respectively) so I'm going to try with #3 too....but I'm not going to sweat it too much. I feel like at this point my boobs are useless sacks hanging on my chest for decoration at this point since they don't really do the job they are intended for. So if I have to supplement with formula this time, well, I'll do what I can while trying to maintain a bit of a weight loss as well.
@kiteflyer105 Girl...you GOT this! You're going to own 2024. I love the positivity despite the cruel hand fate has given you. You sound like you have a good plan to get going and your goals sound very doable. Live your best life and don't let life's hurdles stop you from taking care of business.1 -
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Sharon age 42
SW 230
Jan SW 193
Feb GW 187
UGW 150 (will reassess once this goal is reached)
1/01: 193.0
1/8: 189.0
1/15:
1/22:
1/30:
Total month loss: 4lbs
Weekly goals:
Add more activity into the day to day
Be at calorie deficit 6/7 days.
***will do better with Goal number two this week. I was under 5/7 days…
Here’s to a better week and hoping to lose any amount this week (loss is loss) would like to maybe see 188 by Monday.2 -
* portion control, portion control, portion control
* make good food choices (going to be hard with the holidays coming up)
SW: 294 (7/4/23)
Jan SW: 219.4
CW: 211.0 (1/8)
GW (short term): 208.8 (the lowest I got in December before gaining a bunch back)
GW (long term): 165
1/8 update: Doing good so far. The last couple days I decided not to eat my big after-work meal and just had a helping of Veggie Straws one night and some popcorn last night. I left the rest of the bag of Veggie Staws downstairs so I wouldn't be tempted to eat more. So far so good. It's a bit of a struggle because I'm always worn out and hungry after work. I think I'm going to distract myself with crocheting a new blanket for my bed and/or playing Sims (I got the 2 newest expansion packs for the kids for Christmas but haven't played them myself yet).1 -
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Random thoughts...I noticed if a eat a big salad with many veggies daily, I don't eat "junk food". I don't want it. I don't want the normal fillers (empty calories) in my plan. If I cut back calories too much (very strict), it sets up a binge cycle. I want to learn calligraphy instead.
We all will be more mentally sharp and healthier the more we take care of our bodies. We deserve the best within ourselves and for our family, friends, and employer deserve the best we have to offer. Our partners deserve the best within ourselves for longevity. Why would anyone choose addiction over being healthy? This defies common sense. I just want off the ride of insanity. I am the only one to get off of it with one choice. I am getting ice water and going back to bed. My stomach is not full at all. It still is a foreign feeling to me at times. Overeating will not take away my problems. It just creates more, then it is harder to dig out of the hole.
I came here because I want to overeat now. That will create a larger problem; this keeps me sick longer.
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Good morning everyone!
Weight is a little up the last couple of days, unclear why, but it's fine. My calorie intake has been a little up as well, but still lower than maintenance cals.
daily stars:
⭐ duolingo: ✅
⭐ weight loss calories: ✅
⭐ logging in grams: ✅
⭐ reading: ✅
⭐ exercise routine: ✅
The exercise routine was hard to get myself to do yesterday, as I did a lot over the weekend, and I'm tired, haha. But I did it! Because I really want those cards! Lol. I'm such a kid.
My pole comes today! I still have to put down flooring and take out the light fixture about where it's going to go, but I needed to let the laminate sit a couple days, as the garage is cold, it had to acclimate. I should be able to start on that today, continue Thursday, and then the pole will go up probably the weekend, as tomorrow's a gym day.
@itladyee you're doing so great!
@RavenStCloud I thought of your exercise flexibility yesterday when I was struggling to do my at-home workout! I was like, if it's exercise, it counts, so I did a dance choreography video.
@kiteflyer105 I love all your inspirational quotes, and best of luck on your surgery. I understand that impulse to eat until you're full. I absolutely still feel that urge sometimes. You're right about volume- there are a lot of people on this site who share tricks about volume eating, lots of vegetables, that kind of thing, one such thread is called Volume Eaters Thread, here it is: https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10563959/volume-eaters-thread#latest
@melissaaridgeway yeah, I'd take a 4 lb loss too
@sharon81 you're doing great!!!
@justanotherjen13 distracting yourself to keep from eating more than you want is a solid plan. And especially video games, I find- I don't want to alert the babies in the kitchen that I'm there, so might as well stay at the computer, haha. If I go into the kitchen, suddenly everyone wants me to make them snacks, instead of getting them on their own.
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Yesterday, I had a lot of trouble with food. I was starving all day. Today the plan is less food and healthier choices.
I woke up late this morning, and didnt get my morning workouts in. so I will do them after work.3 -
Yesterday wasn't great. I banked about 500 calories for dinner, but ended up going to a pizza joint that didn't have calories listed on anything and it's a mom and pop shop, so it wasn't a chain place that MFP had listed and sold food that MFP doesn't have. So I chose a sandwich that sounded good because gosh darn it, I was hungry. I only ate half of the sandwich though (though it was a huge sandwich) and only half of the fries (again their fries weren't even normal fries...like potato wedges but less fried? Idk. Hard to record those too!) So I honestly have zero idea how much I ate last night but it was definitely more than 500 calories lol. I estimated at least 1100. Oh well. I was over. I recorded it. I have moved on.
That's the thing: move on. Don't dwell on past mistakes. Don't continue to make mistakes if they can be helped, but if they happen you should accept them and move on. Don't let them hold you back from living your best life. Weight loss isn't a downward slope; it's a rollercoaster. There are downs and there are ups. The thing that makes it work is that they're more downs than ups! Tell yourself that today will be a better day.
We have a huge storm system hitting us today and I woke up with my crappy wrist in lots of pain. Lol. I say this because old wives tales say that healed broken bones and bad injuries can be weather-wise and I have this wrist that got absolutely shattered about 10 years ago and needed tons of surgery and therapy to fix (it still doesn't bend right) and rarely does it ever bother me. I can probably count on one hand how many times it has throbbed in pain, once healed, in the last 10 years. So I think this is going to be a doozy of a storm.
On top of that, I'm hungry. I'm still adjusting to a lower calorie lifestyle and my body wants to eat. Probably boredom eat because I had breakfast not too long ago, but man the struggle is real today. It might be also do in part to the storm...idk the storm, the cold wet weather, the cooped up all warm inside, nothing to do...all combined just makes me feel like snacking. I'm determined not to give in because of my bad dinner last night AND I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow afternoon and I'm determined to show them I haven't gained in the past 2 weeks. Hopefully I'll be victorious today.
Good luck on your journeys today everyone! Remember, it's not about perfection, just doing your best.2 -
I'm working from home today due to snow so taking a little time for me ...
@Ravenstcloud ~ Thank you for this thread!
@Aswennu ~ I think smaller goals are more attainable. It's ok to have big goals, but when it comes to taking action, something that seems "doable" work better for me, at least! You got this!
@Kristinwoods919 ~ you may have thrown in the towel in December but you're back and ready to go in January! That's half the battle, just showing up!
@Skipjjordan. My motto for 2024, don't think...just do it! You can do this too!
@Reign1321 ~ Looks like it's time to make you a priority! I know it's hard and you've got a lot going on but find some time for you!
@CupcakeCrusoe ~ work out plan looks solid! I agree with you re the scale. While I still weigh everyday, I not giving it the time of day....as long as I stay within calorie goal, hit my macros and exercise, I am doing well !!! Weight average trending down is awesome! Congrats. Can't wait to hear about and see pictures of your pole! I can't decide if I want to get back to using Happy Scale or my spreadsheet (I track just about everything there!)
@CEB335Mon ~ Great smart goals! Good Luck to you!
@mmatcha_latte ~ looking good. You went through a lot, now it's time to focus on you and it looks like you've got that covered. Please share any new, good, easy recipes that you find🙂
@eloiraw ~ I stalked in December too!🙂 I love dogs (just recently lost my puggle). What kind do you have, pictures a bonus!🙂 Nice progress with weight so far! You got this!
@justanotherjen13 ~ 75lbs IS amazing!!! Nicely done. I wish you well for 2024. Yes, it is interesting how much time this process takes...but if you don't make the time, no one else will!
@dutchgirl188 ~ Good luck on your continuation. 15lbs thus far is great!!!
@sarah12277 ~ glad you're jumping back in! Get ready to celebrate that birthday....then get right back on plan!
@skintight303 ~ Nice work at the end of 2023! 194 vs 192 is not bad at all! How's your dry January going? I am also doing it but called out 2 exception days which have passed...now it's on!!
@sharon81 ~ December is a difficult month coming from holidays in November and then more in December....and all the treats. Add vacation and gee whiz!! But, you've owned it, hopefully enjoyed it and now ready to get going! Good Luck
Congrats on the quick downward spiral! That's awesome and motivating!
@melissaaridgeway ~ How exciting to have a new one on the way! When I was pregnant (YEARS) ago, I also gained upwards of 50lbs. I did lose it...but it took a while. But that was then! Don't rush yourself after the baby is born. You will have a lot to adjust to....the time will come! Can't wait until March as I'm sure there will be tons of pictures (please!)
@bea021pa74 ~ Welcome! Sorry to hear of your DH's diagnosis, but you are 100% right. You need to take care of yourself first! I like your plan, very reasonable and doable!
@Kiteflyer105 ~ Good luck with your heart surgery. that does sound scary but I'm sure you have the best of best looking after your care so no worries are needed. And...know that I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers as well! I that bracelet!!!
Well, I think I got to know a little bit about everyone. I sure hope I didn't miss anyone (definitely not intentional)
Well, better get back to work. Have a great Tuesday everyone
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Second week of the new year off to a good start! Yesterday, I walked on the treadmill; I've been bringing my kindle and it helps me forget about how long I've been walking. Today, I swam some laps and, providing me enrichment (like an animal in the zoo), there were scuba divers at the bottom of the pool doing some practicing!
My mantra is 'Move Your Body.' That's it. It's so simple and it's something I've been repeating to myself every day. Just move your body; you can be a couch potato again after you've moved your body.
I think that no longer measuring and painstakingly journaling my work outs (by duration/intensity/etc) is helping me stay motivated and will prevent me from getting frustrated with myself. If it was 30 mins or more of exercise, I put a sticker on my calender. So walking on the treadmill for an hour on a slow speed gets just as many stickers (1) as swimming 30 laps or taking a yoga class.
I've ordered a bunch of new stickers from Etsy and I can't wait until they arrive!!!2 -
Weekend was a mess from trying to get a dog from a rescue that ended up being a wannabe rescue if not scammer. I had applied for them in the past but they didn't like my vet records compared to application so Mom knew any dogs with them she'd apply for. She did. Too many red flags after seeing lots of dog scammers elsewhere. The last straw was changing the payment method after acknowledging the type the day before and them not acknowledging another worker posting the dogs on another site. Universe has been certainly saying there will be a dog just not right now. Taking the sign to wait for this one at a legit rescue that's having multiple surgeries and just had updates stating she'll be available soon.
Went to the gym yesterday for lower strength training.
Today not going with the storm coming and extreme high winds. I will expect there to be shoveling in my future to compensate though lol.2 -
Hello!
My name is CeCe I’m 28 trying to get my body back.
I’ve been “thick” all of my life and was able to get down to 170/175 a few years ago but life has been living and I’m now teetering between 230-235 which is the heaviest I’ve ever been.
Over all goal:
Lose 60-70 pounds by my birthday in August.
1st Milestone Goal:
Lose about 15 pounds for a trip to Vegas at the end of March.
Monthly goal:
Lose 4-5 pounds a month
Weekly Goal:
2-3 workouts/ days of movement
Daily Goal:
64oz of water
Expected Challenges:
PCOS
Seasonal Affective Disorder
Reverse body dysmorphia
Open to friends request an accountability buddies. Looking forward to connecting with you all and seeing how we all grow!
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Good morning everyone!
It happened, I went over my calories yesterday. Now that we've gotten that out of the way.... Time for some screenshots.
This is showing my lunch and after, to the end of the day, condensed so I could fit it in one screen. My coworker brought me korean fried chicken and tteokbokki, so I decided I would partake. After all, it was very nice of him, and I gave away half of it so I wouldn't eat it all. At home, I had more of my butter chickpeas from the weekend for dinner, then was still hungry, so I grazed on Baby's rice, a mini powdered donut, and some chocolate But I logged it all! And ended the day at 2126, lol.
I ended up with the scale downward this morning, so my average has actually gone down for the first time this week, haha. I love when this paradoxically happens.
And because I logged it all, and my weight went down, my expenditure number for MacroFactor went up. The expenditure number is my total calories expended, so from there, MacroFactor adjusts my food calories in order to lose or gain weight according to my goals. (BTW, I went through a long period of not logging everything, and then not logging at all- so my expenditure number is not right, right now- that's why the line is grayed before, like, 2 days ago, haha.) If I hadn't logged it all, my expenditure number wouldn't be right, and I would continue to be recommended fewer calories than I really could have. It's just data, but I have to relearn this every so often. Until I lock in my real expenditure number, I have to just log everything and do my best.
Anyway! No matter how much I know it's just data, it's hard to get over the shame of logging through a bad day, and to let go of the shame. It's just data. It's just data. The more data, the better.
daily stars:
⭐ duolingo: ✅
⭐ weight loss calories: ❌
⭐ logging in grams: ✅
⭐ reading: ✅
⭐ exercise routine: ✅
Tag party time!
@kristinwoods919 we all have those days! I had one yesterday!
@melissaaridgeway the wrist thing sounds like it sucks! I hope you have a better day today.
@itladyee I know that's right! Wonderful attitude.
@RavenStCloud your 'enrichment' comment had me rolling That's so cool that there were scuba guys there while you were swimming!
@sarah12277 these things happen, and I think you're right- a dog will come in its own time, and it will be great.
@CeCeFlyy welcome to the best thread on the site! Can't wait to hear more from you!
Have a great day, everyone!
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Last night while I was feeling like a failure for calories, I was determined to plan next week better. So I found a meal planning template online and modified it for my purposes:
And Wednesday is the day I put in my grocery order to pick up from the store on the weekend, so today's the day. I have a much better feeling about next week, because I'm planning for it. No more wondering on the weekend how many calories I have left- I'm planning for it. The veggie delight sandwiches are just hummus and pickled onions and a bunch of veg on that wonderful 40-cal-a-slice schmidt bread.
Averaged across the week, my planned calories are lower than my goal, so I have a tiny bit of wiggle room as planned.
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@RavenStCloud I love the sticker idea! What exactly is your goal with your sticker plan? Do you "earn" something after a certain amount of stickers or do you just collect cool and fun stickers to show off? What do you put them on? I'm curious about your cute idea!
@CupcakeCrusoe Bad days happen. They just do. And although it sounds counterintuitive, I think the occasional bad day is actually very useful for two reasons. 1 - It helps you realize this is a lifestyle, not a crash diet. Crash diets have "end dates". You tell yourself "if I am good until March 21st, then after I can have what I want" may help you stay motivated until March 21st, but after any weight you lost will come back, with friends. Accepting bad days as they come, forgiving yourself and not allowing the shame to drag you into the "I'm a failure, I should just give up" thinking is healthy. Lifestyle changes mean you're on this for life. You can't be perfect the rest of your life! So accept them, try to make them infrequent, and move on. And 2 - bad days are good to shock the system sometimes. If you steadily eat 1200-1300 calories day in and day out, your body gets used to the calories and adjusts your metabolism that lead to plateauing. Throwing in that random 1700 or 2000 calorie day every once in a while can shock your metabolism out of its rut and back into weight loss mode. I'm not a nutritionist. I do not know if this is a valid or scientific process at all....but I have noticed it helps me sometimes in this exact way. So I very well could be blowing smoke out of my butt right now, so take this reason with a grain of salt, but it seems to be at least somewhat true.
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Morning everyone! I'm Kyleigh, my SW is 288 the highest I've ever been... I'm down to 280 already in the first week which is mainly water weight, I'm sure, and the fact that I'm moving consistently for the first time since having my last kid in 2021. My goal right now is just to get to 250 by doing cardio and rebuilding all my muscles, then I plan to add strength training in when I'm confident my muscles can handle it. Then I'll make a new weight goal, although I'm trying mostly to focus on NSVs -- blood sugar, sleep, energy, fit, endurance, etc.
I'm really looking to make a few friends to add and cheer each other on as I'm doing this by myself for the first time and I'm definitely better motivated when there's someone on the track with me. So if you want to be friends, add me!3 -
@Ravenstcloud ~ I also need a distraction when on the treadmill. I'd only last about 5 minute otherwise. I have music playing but I also have a game that I play on my phone that keeps me preoccupied. Got in 40 minutes today up from 30!
@sarah12277 ~ Dog scammers....Boooooooo!
@ceceflyy and @kpoultney ~ Welcome!
@CupcakeCrusoe ~ what app are you using? You mention Macrofactor...is that it? I also like that meal planner with the grocery list!
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@itladyee MacroFactor is the app. It's paid- I decided if I was going to pay for premium MFP, I might as well pay for something with more features, which MacroFactor has. I did a big post right here about the features. The features look a little different now, but function the same.
And this is a link to the planner- I just added a column in the middle for calorie count estimates, and added a snack row, because I love to snack, haha. I got meal ideas from a website called Eat this Much., which is free to use with a limited number of recipes, but you can plug in your calorie goal and number of meals, and it will spit out some ideas.3 -
Hi all,
I read Andy Friscella's Andygram daily. This ended up in my email and thought someone else might enjoy it. I like Andy a lot. I don't agree with everything he says, but he is an expert on mental toughness, which I need to build more of in my life. Enjoy! He cusses a lot. I don't care for that. I madly respect him though.
“Thinking the journey will get easier is faulty thinking; it doesn't.
The goal is to make yourself more capable of enduring and thriving along the way.
Wishing it to be easier in itself is a constant stimulus that makes us perceive the journey as harder than it really is. Acceptance is key. Yes, it's hard. So what?
Are you committed to the process?
Are you committed to overcoming?
Are you not committed to proving to yourself that you cannot be messed with and that your drive, determination, vigilance, and pursuit of your own true potential is unbreakable?
You have nothing to prove to the world, but you have a lot to prove to yourself.
What can you build yourself into? It's the ultimate game.
I hope you find the courage and commitment to play it.
If not for yourself, for the people who will become the greatest version of themselves by witnessing it.”
--Andy Friscella
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