????DO MEN REALLY LIKE BIG WOMEN

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  • Shausil82
    Shausil82 Posts: 218 Member
    I been dumped because of being obese, and it's heartbreaking. The guys that dumped me were looking for a one night stand because they only seriously date smaller women. I think there are some men that like bigger women, but I think the majority of them want someone who is average and healthy, and with curves.

    I've lost about 16 pounds since joining this site, and I'm just starting to get men's attention.
  • TJtastic
    TJtastic Posts: 97 Member
    Really, I like ALL women (almost). Also, are we talking about "like" or "I'd hit it"?

    LOL - there's def a difference! MEN! :ohwell:
  • Luismora69
    Luismora69 Posts: 5 Member
    Curves are way more fun to explore then a straight line, I say a woman has to have something big about her body and mind, big heart big some something....smart, as long as she is smart the curves are fine...
  • TMcBooty
    TMcBooty Posts: 780 Member
    It's all about the curves
    :happy:
    Like those....
    *happy dance*
  • Luismora69
    Luismora69 Posts: 5 Member
    as long as there is something to grip, I say a big thick woman is sexy as hell, I think even pregnant woman are sexy, and right after they give birth...the fact that they are so voluptuous is a sexy thing...all and all its all about the curves like you said, but it also has to do with the man, Kat Williams said it best " We don't have no time to worry bout no **** like stretch marks... They came from either 1 of 2 things... Either you was big & got small, or you were small & got big ! Either way we.... Either Waaay!" KATT WILLIAMS, ...Hahaha ...real talk.
  • dumb_blondes_rock
    dumb_blondes_rock Posts: 1,568 Member
    I think to some extent yes.

    Completely unrelated but that pic of the dog is ADORABLE :] had to be said xD

    I agree ... with the weiner dog pic ! Ha ! Love it ! ♥

    You aren't allowed to say weiner on mfp anymore....lolol
  • teagin2002
    teagin2002 Posts: 1,900 Member
    My husband married me when I was bigger than I am now, I managed to gain about 70 lbs after marriage, then lost about 100 lbs over the last year. He is just as attracted to me now as he was when I was 100 lbs ago and when we first got married. When I ask him he says he sees me smaller but I have always been beautiful and that has not changed.
    I try to put him on the spot to see if he thinks I am prettier now than before, but he just says he never saw me as fat at all.

    I thank God for him being in my life all the time!
  • killerqueen17
    killerqueen17 Posts: 536 Member
    My husband married me when I was bigger than I am now, I managed to gain about 70 lbs after marriage, then lost about 100 lbs over the last year. He is just as attracted to me now as he was when I was 100 lbs ago and when we first got married. When I ask him he says he sees me smaller but I have always been beautiful and that has not changed.
    I try to put him on the spot to see if he thinks I am prettier now than before, but he just says he never saw me as fat at all.

    I thank God for him being in my life all the time!

    YES! Mine is the same way. Praise God for supportive husbands!! :heart:
  • NeuroticVirgo
    NeuroticVirgo Posts: 3,671 Member
    All women are sexy in their own way....just have to find the right man who see's that. But I think "most" guys probably like average girls...not to skinny, not to fat...just right...Kinda like Goldie Locks likes her porridge. lol

    CompareGirls.jpg

    I showed my son these pictures (he's 25) and he said numbers 3 ad 4 tied as being the most attractive body types, then number 5 then number 2 and number 1 was the least attractive to him. Actually when he first saw them he liked number 5 the most but then got side tracked by the tattoo and the hair which he didn't find attractive. That's one man's opinion.

    Yes, that is ONE man's opinion...I can almost bet money on the fact, that number 2 would be the fave with 80% of the vote alone, followed by 15% on number 3, and the last 5% spread on the last 3 pics!!

    I disagree I think it would be split pretty even between 2 and 3 at maybe 30% each and then 20% on 4 and the last 20 between the two extreams of 1 and 5.

    Someone should start a new topic with those pics and ask men to vote!!!

    I agree with this. I think 2 and 3 would be the top pics.
  • Schwiggs
    Schwiggs Posts: 222 Member
    I'm pretty sure there's more than body type that come into physical attraction. Just sayin'.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I'm pretty sure there's more than body type that come into physical attraction. Just sayin'.

    Definitely agree with this.
    I've lost 40 some pounds and I can't really notice that any boys have paid more attention to me or whatever. I usually go out to the bar with friends that are bigger than me, and for the most part, they get more attention from random people in general (not just when we're dancing, but just wandering around the bar). That makes me think a lot of attraction has to do with your face rather than your body. I'm not ugly but any means, but my friends do have more beautiful faces than me. I do get my fair share of boys on the dance floor haha but as for actually MEETING a guy...i'm 0 for a million chances this school year!
  • tjradd73
    tjradd73 Posts: 3,495 Member
    I'm pretty sure there's more than body type that come into physical attraction. Just sayin'.

    Definitely agree with this.
    I've lost 40 some pounds and I can't really notice that any boys have paid more attention to me or whatever. I usually go out to the bar with friends that are bigger than me, and for the most part, they get more attention from random people in general (not just when we're dancing, but just wandering around the bar). That makes me think a lot of attraction has to do with your face rather than your body. I'm not ugly but any means, but my friends do have more beautiful faces than me. I do get my fair share of boys on the dance floor haha but as for actually MEETING a guy...i'm 0 for a million chances this school year!

    I also think that it has a lot to do with self confidence...men tend to flock to women who APPEAR confident on the outside :)
  • KLLever
    KLLever Posts: 39
    My husband loves my curves! He also loves when I can keep up with him on a hike, because I haven't eaten like the Hamburglar all week! It's nice to be loved for who I am, but it's even better that he supports my efforts to improve my health :)
  • PZlady
    PZlady Posts: 137 Member
    If men preferred big women, I'd be beating them off with a stick...and I'm not. Back to calorie counting.
  • Deathwithab
    Deathwithab Posts: 462 Member
    ummm NO. Mine soo does not! That's y my fat azz is doin this.

    lol mine too
  • tjradd73
    tjradd73 Posts: 3,495 Member
    check this out!

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/355509-men-we-need-your-help?page=7
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