WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JUNE 2024
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Re: all of the small children- Three years ago, I got licensed to care for up to 12 children in my home. In Michigan, 12 is the max for "family/group" type childcare; then if you want more children, you become a "center" or school. My husband got all of his certifications to be my assistant. Having the group license (12) allows us to have the following ratios: infants (age newborn through 18 mos) = 4
toddlers (age 19 mos through 29 mos) = 4
toddler on up (age 30 mos and up) = up to 12
This means that we can never have more than 4 infants. We can never have more than 8 under 29 mos. We can never have more than 12 children total in our care at any given time.
DH is the baby whisperer. Holding, feeding, snuggling the infants is his forte. I am finding, that is not something I really enjoy doing. I like the busyness of toddler and school aged kids. I like the activity and sometimes chaos. There are things that SH can't do, bc of his RA. The bending to lift or put down babies is hard for him. So I generally hand him children and take them when they are done with him. I put them into stroller seats and buckle them and he pushes the stroller on walks. (It is a three seat stroller; so the exercise is good for him and the stroller works the same as a cane or walker for stability).
I had an incident earlier this week. Back story: Over the course of the past two years, a friend of mine has called to try to set up care for her grandchildren. She and her husband have been caring for them M-F, full time, while parents work. Two years ago, she approached me and asked if I would take them two days a week. At the time, I said sure and gave her my rates. She then told me that it was too high and they would pass. "Maybe in a few months when the family is a little more financially stable." A year later, she made contact again. We went through the same thing, she complained about the high cost of childcare and again said, "maybe in a few months...". Well, darned if she didn't call again and ask the same question. This time, I told her that I couldn't take the kids because I had no spaces available. To which I get the reply; "Pretty please?! Can't you find room for them? We have been friends for so long and I really want them with you!"
I am not sure if she actually expected me to get rid of established families, but I told her again, that I don't have any open spots and won't until September of 2025. Needless to say, she is quite angry and has announced our friendship over. It makes me a little sad; but more kind of "whatever" because I just don't have time for that kind of nonsense.
I have been talking it over with DH and have decided that I am not going to take anymore new families for a while. This batch of "babies" will keep my childcare full for the next two years. We will take stock after that; and I will probably be able to pare down my hours and childcare numbers for the last few years of my career. I am definitely looking forward to that.
DH and I took two walks yesterday. It was nice, but we "walk" differently. I have become a stop and look at nature type of walker; and he has become a walk to get it done type. Ten minutes into our morning walk, as I had stopped for the fourth time to look at some plants, he said "Should I be looking for something?" lol I then explained my interest in the plants, foraging, medicinal uses of some...and he just said, "You are so weird. You get interested in the strangest things." I yam what I yam.
That is all for now. I need to head out and dead head my rose bushes. They were lovely this year! Lots and lots of blooms. I have bags full of petals for the kids to play with. ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)10 -
Happy Father’s Day to all those who celebrate
Did a Kettlewerx Abs DVD then took Ganon for 2 walks. When I put the gentle leader on him the second time, I could almost see the look in his eyes saying “not again!”
I saw this strange blanket in the room where the kittens are so I asked Vince about it. Seems he bought three of them. “Why didn’t you use the one I made” “Well, it was only $8” “Do you realize that $8 would be a new towel rack for the bathroom down the condo?”
Ginny – we spoke to Jess before we got the kittens. I wanted her to have input on names since she’ll be inheriting them if something happens to us realizing that the cats might outlive us. But with her being a vet, a few more animals wouldn’t be a big deal. She has a cat and a dog. Her hamster died and she’s talking about wanting another one. I have no doubt in my mind that when Shadow (her cat) passes on, she’ll get another one. She’s so very passionate about animals.
Lisa – what a wonderful thing that guy did for you! We need more people like that in this world
Lectored last night but left early and Jess, Colby and Vince had ribeye and I had a veggie burger. I’m just not a big fan of red meat. Had tater tots and veges and grape tomatoes. However...for dessert had brownies and jello. Then as I was cleaning up, munched on Kisses, M&M’s, and cheese. Why do I do this to myself?
Think I’ll make fudge for Vince today. We finished the brownies. I did have some for Jess to take home
We were going to NY Hibachi for Father’s Day (Vince wanted to go there) but now his stomach is bothering him so he’s telling Jess and Colby that he really doesn’t want to go. That’s fine by me. He’s also saying that he’s somewhat dizzy and is wondering if his cat allergy is acting up. Evidently that’s a sign of the allergy and he has been spending a lot of time with the kittens and they’re just in one room for now so whatever allergen is concentrated. I just told him not to spend so much time with the kittens. There’s some sort of drug (like Dramamine) that’s also an antihistame. He took an antihistamine so he couldn’t take this today but he said he’d like to get some.
I want to buy a ceramic water dish for Ganon to keep here. Right now he's using this plastic bowl. It does the job, but it can also easily be tipped over. I'd make one but I'd like to have one asap. So when I'm out and about, if I see one, I'll pick it up.
Michele NC3 -
Morning ladies
Went down and picked up a covid test at the pharmacy..took that..no thats not it..
I have post nasal drip and my ustation tubes seem clogged up.
Don't think its the Trulicity, think it could be sinus related
But just to be sure im going to lay low today.
Its beautiful outside..but im not up to it..2 -
Allie - Passing out without warning is terribly scary. Keep taking care of yourself!
Ginny - Thanks! Found a knockoff for $21 for the PCM cooling ones, they'll be in this week. Fingers crossed - I hate the thought of being trapped inside all summer.
Margaret - Thank you so much! It's been interesting seeing all this in one place. I'll be pushing more up over the weeks to come, part of getting my computer uncluttered.
Ate a couple boiled eggs for breakfast - just the egg whites, gave Corey the yolks for the potato salad he's building. Got all the plants watered, and am back inside for the rest of this scorcher of a day. Time to take a shower so that I don't gross out our company... Decided not to even declutter, not that there's lots. I do have three projects going, Corey's bottling beer in the kitchen. We're just living our lives, and glad to have them in it for a little while. Time to relax about this stuff. Man, I love being 64...
Later, y'all,
Love,
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@Allie, could it be GERD? I’ve had the same thing happen to me once, but I was sitting at the table. I get GERD easily and am planning on discussing that with my Gastro next visit. My mother-in-law had a hiatal (sp?) hernia and caused her to gag and upchuck unexpectedly. You best go to a doctor and ask them what could cause this.
RVRita who has to work the pay booth in a couple minutes at Bottomless Lakes1 -
Today is Fresh veggies, Turkey, Fudge and Star Trek the Next Generation!!! My kind of day!!
RVRita 🛸🛸👽
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Took a walk with my friend. Annie insisted on going with us. Annie likes to walk back and forth and sniff and wander so it's a challenge to walk with her but she's walking farther every time. We still got to have our conversation and have fun together. For Father's Day, Jake wanted us to eat ice cream so we bought our favorite Ben & Jerry's to eat later. Our meal will be one of his favourites---ravioli with red sauce made with garlic and green olives.
Barbie in NW WA2 -
I am so sad for my son's family! Going to the beach for a week is the high light of their year. They got to Crescent Beach near St Augustine on Saturday and son just called to say that our granddaughter had broken her leg riding a boogie board. They will have to come home so she can get it set after the swelling goes down. This is so bad for her because she will not be able to go to church camp, cheer, and play soccer. Prayers for them would be appreciated.
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Carol - Wow! What bad luck for the summer holidays. I can just imagine how she feels.
Heated up Moussaka was fab, and we enjoyed a couple of truffles each.
England football match tonight. John is watching it downstairs. This summer is a washout for me, as I have zero interest in sport, and it takes over the TV schedules. We have the Euros, then Wimbledon, then the Olympics. Grrrrrr. I have no objection to people following sport, but it pushes out my favourite programmes. Plus the General Election ruining the schedules. Not a happy bunny.
John's cold is miserable.
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Carol, I am so sorry your granddaughter broke her leg! Smooth healing.💖🙏
Thanks everyone for the Birthday wishes. Hugs to ya all! It was a great day yesterday, the meal perfect.
Just kind of road the happy vibes from people all day. Was able to chat with middle son, Athena wished me Happy Birthday in her sweet tone, my eldest son texted me while out on his carrier, and today youngest son video chatted with us. All in all everyone did well! I feel blessed.😁💖
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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Kylia-we cross posted this morning. Stay cool during our upcoming mess this week! (and the air quality alerts!). Hope the kitty improves.
KJ-I am sorry you lost a friend but I do find myself questioning her concept of friendship. You are running a business and have made a commitment to your families. Hopefully she will mellow out.
Michele-I figured Jess being a vet put you in a different situation than me!
Lisa-I have found the cooling stuff to be helpful due to my heat intolerance. I also have one of the battery operated fans you can wear as a necklace. And of course, a variety of hats.
Barbie-how nice of you to help Jake celebrate with Ben and Jerry's!
Carol-so sorry you GD suffered the broken leg. Prayers for healing.
Heather-We have an overabundance of television options here!
Rita-my SIL had GERD and one of the largest hiatal hernias her surgeon had ever seen. Even with the repair, she needs to be careful.
Worked around house today. Got in a good walk (3 miles). Lower back bothering me and realized I skipped back stretches for three days. Did my regular series this pm-notice a bit of relief.
Off to clean the kitchen and need to tend to the litter boxes. Will get lunch set for tomorrow.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
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Lisa when I would ride horseback in the heat, we would put some hand towels in a cooler with ice. By the break time, the ice had melted and we would wrap the icy wet towels around our necks for a few blessed minutes. We were already sweaty, and the water felt wonderful!
When I was weeding, I would take a break and run cold water from the faucet over my head. Not fashionable, but very effective!
Annie in Delaware1 -
Good afternoon - the day is whizzing by!
Carol - so sorry to hear about your granddaughter's broken leg. She is so active in cheerleading and different activities. Hopefully it will heal quickly this summer and she'll be better than new in a few months and able to resume what she loves to do. I know, at that age it's the end of the world.
Michele - Vince has a soft spot for kittens, that's for sure. My old (17) shop cat keeps hanging on. Not losing weight yet but she's a matted mess, I try to cut the mats out with manicure scissors. I can generally get about 2 minutes worth of trimming then the claws come out.
I think about if I were to get a kitten, at my age, and it lasts 17 years, I'll be 89! Probably won't be living here.
Kylia - wonder what's wrong with that little kitten losing weight? There's a LOT going on in your world these days, hang in there and thanks for popping in and catching us up!
Ginny - keep us posted on that retirement community. I'm getting excited for you!! Reminds me of when Karen moved into hers.
Karen - when you get a second, please pop in and give us a wave. Hope all is going well in VA. I'm re-reading the Thursday Murder Club and sometimes I wonder if you are involved with someone like Elizabeth who is taking you on exciting adventures with questionable people, lol. Now, I'd be looking forward to THAT type of retirement!
Heather - glad to hear you are venturing out farther each day, and that your after surgery appointment got the green light. Moussaka sounds delicious.
Debbie - those raspberries looked great. Sounds like local raspberries and strawberries have survived our cool wet weather and they are starting to appear at the local fruit stands.
Lisa and all of you in the cooker right now - it was 39F at my house this morning. We'll probably see the mid 80's later this week before it cooks back down into the 60's.
Barbara - I know you're busy. Sending good thoughts south to you.
Machka - love what you've done with that room, neat colors. Do you have a "move in" date set? Maybe you said and I skipped over.
Rita - thank you so much for posting your weekly "lessons" for the Healthie 80/20. I want to take time to review it before my next "class" tomorrow afternoon. Looks like it's all about logging foods. I think I know it all but coach M might have some new tips.
Kelly - I don't blame you for standing firm about not taking in the grandkids of your friend. Doing "favors" for friends often don't have a good outcome, and you were wise to figure that out. Glad your DH is doing a good job as the "baby whisperer". Also you did such a good job volunteering but agree, you can't do it all.
I'm done with volunteering, at least in "groups". Don't need to get out of the house and be around people that badly. I did my stint in Master Gardeners, for example, and endured the politics, people's hurt feelings, listening to them sniping behind each other's backs, the unwarranted criticism of those who were going the extra mile. Childish. In a way, I'm glad Covid came on the scene and stopped the required monthly meetings. I was ready to quit anyhow with DH. Now I have enough volunteer work in my own back yard and don't get any back talk, lol.
Need to get busy, sorry I didn't get to everyone. Sending HUGS!
***Weekly Check-In Reminder*** please get info to me no later than tomorrow noon. TIA!
Lanette
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Housecleaning etc- 2hrs 48min 34sec, dust, vacuum, make/refill hummingbird food, trim front and back hedges, laundry fold/put away, Sweep front patio and front entryway, etc= 771c
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Hi Gals,
Carol – sending good thoughts! Hopefully it will heal quickly and well!
Heather – sorry to hear about your TV schedule issues, but I must admit I had to laugh about the General Election – as yours is just 6 weeks, we get campaigning from someone about something every day of every year – or at least it feels like that. I so wish we had some controls over the amount of time campaigning could happen.
Rebecca – happy belated birthday!
I have Olallieberry vines in my back yard, I have them trained on a chain-link fence they are really quite easy to care for, and I LOVE olallieberries, they are a hybrid of a blackberry and a raspberry, the size and color of a blackberry but a sweet tart flavor. I have picked most of them, made a pie, a batch of jam, will freeze some and think I will try to make some “fruit leather”. This is the 4th year and I have never shared any before, but finally am getting a big enough crop, so shared some with a few friends, I may have converted some folks to olallieberries! They don’t have a long shelf life, so you only see them in farmers markets. If you have ever tried Marion berries, they are a hybrid of Olallieberry and another specific blackberry – so that is the closest in flavor.
There was a boat load of drama about Fathers Day celebration (this year it landed on my nephew’s birthday) between my Mom, brother, nephew and his girlfriend. I was so happy that I hung back on committing to what I would do. As I was able to see that between lies my mother was telling and other lies my brother was telling, that I was being set up to be caught in the middle. So I just sent my RSVP NO and missed it all! That was a win! I worked in my yard for 3 hours this morning to celebrate.
Thinking of you all,
Kim in N. California
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Annie - Thanks for the tips! Anything that keeps the heat from getting to me--we're already in the oven, and the temperature will only get hotter from here. I'm already watering Corey's garden nearly every day, and soon it will have to be every day.
Lanette - Those groups always remind me of your little chickens, anyway, BAWK-bawk-bawk, scratch, scritch, BAKAWK! Only joined a few and can't get myself to do it again, though I do threaten to on occasion. There will be no more kittens for us until and unless Egg kicks over, so hopefully a long, long time. Wouldn't do that to her. She's only seven, so it could be a decade or more.
Kylia - It was good to see you, glad those babies found the right home.
Carol - I'm so sorry about your granddaughter's leg! Her athleticism will do her well in her healing, much like Heather's physical fitness has been so good for her recovery.
Had fun with the son, his DSO and my DBIL. Lovely time to come together, eat yummy food and just sit around and eat and chat and relax together. Plus I got that quintessentially Southern satisfaction of being able to send them all off with a couple pounds of pasta salad and potato salad and cold fried chicken to munch on after they got home, even threw in some of my butternut squash puree that I froze this winter. Fun.
Reminded me of my great-Aunt Belle--you never left her home without a car trunk full of freshly cooked food, eight or ten jars of home-canned bread & butter pickles, jams and jellies, and a bushel of corn or peas or beans, whatever was in season, and quilts, everything she lay her hands on, or could get you to take with you. Southern hospitality was still a thing then, and such a precious memory now.
Anyway, was glad to see them, and glad to see them go... Corey and I love our lives, and open them up to so very few people, and that's OK too. Makes for good times when they're here. And when they leave, did I say that part? 😜
Time to finish this up, turn on something mindless on the telly and shoo Corey off to his Sunday night ritual before the week begins on Monday, a long, hot bath. Hope your week is grand.
Love from Arkansas,
Lisa
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Rita – Fudge Day, and I just made fudge! Perfect timing. I’m trying a new recipe so we shall see how it goes. Update: I didn't care for the consistency so I'm adding some unflavored gelatin to see if that helps
Carol – how sad for your son’s family. Hope your granddaughter is OK
Question for all gardeners: I would like to put in different plants where the guy gave me juniper. I HATE juniper. Even tho I told him “no juniper”, he still gave me some. But then again, I had the hardest time trying to find someone who could do the excavating (who would I should say) that this is a small price to pay. Anyway, when is a good time to plant? I planted 5 plants already and SO FAR they haven’t died. I have 16 more that I’d like to change. I probably (I’m thinking) shouldn’t do them now, probably wait until around Sept. when it’s cooler. Am I correct in my thinking? As a point of reference, the temps are in the 80’s right now. Lisa – what do you think? Your temps are about how ours are, sort-of
Guess I’d better take a shower and make the bed and then get to bed. Maybe watch some TV, play some mahjongg.
Michele NC
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Michele - The master gardeners can weigh in better than I can, I'm sure, but it seems to have less to do with the time than to ones that have the most maturity when you put them in and that are suited to your area. My mulberry tree didn't make it, but it's not native to this area, and was about three feet tall when we planted it. The redbud was quite a bit older, and grown to about eight feet tall. Plus it's native to the area - and it's thriving.
So, if possible, native plants, well established and healthy before you put them in the ground, and make sure they get a lot of water to get them through the transplant shock. Heat doesn't seem to matter as long as they get the water they need to get through the summer - and again, still has so much to do with the plant. If they like shade (it will tell you on the tag) put them in the shade. If it likes full sun, put it in the sun.
Good luck!
Love,
Lisa
PS - The other option is to learn to love junipers.3
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