WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JULY 2024
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »
I've ordered another lazy Susan for the top shelf of the fridge where I keep opened jars. It's a new type that fills the whole shelf, is squared off, and then pulls out so you can rotate it. I am sure that will help with keeping check on out of date jars etc. Some things I can't reach.
Every time I use my two in the cupboard it makes me so happy. John thinks I'm nuts. 😜
Love Heather UK xxxxxx
It is my opinion that shopping intentionally means that everything you buy should make you super happy. Otherwise, you don't need it.
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Carol - you got this.. no worries
All will be well...
In one way I feel a bit better ,in other ways not so much..
I guess I was a bit stopped up I know ( TMI) felt better afterwards..
But still a bit tired.. so I took a nap... I will lay low for the weekend and start fresh tomorrow and will take a shower a bit later...
Your right about getting the cut first and we shall see from there..
And my SIL sent me the paperwork for Seans court date..which is Tuesday August 27th.. she wont be there.. and she just assumes I'll take him up to Moultonborough .2 -
Here is this weeks prediabetes class:Week 7 Overview
Session 7: Carbohydrate, Protein, and Fat
There are three major nutrients that provide calories to your body. These nutrients are carbohydrates, protein and fat. In the last session, you learned that many diets ask you to avoid one of these nutrients. However, you need a balance of all three. This session will explain the important role carbohydrates, protein and fat play in your diet. You’ll also learn the best foods to eat to receive these nutrients.
Carbohydrate
Many fad diets encourage little or no carbohydrate intake. The truth is that carbohydrates are the body’s favorite source of fuel. Your body changes carbohydrates into glucose (blood sugar). Your body then uses this sugar for energy for your cells, tissues and organs. There are two
types of carbohydrates: complex and simple. The goal is to eat mostly complex carbohydrates and less simple carbohydrates.
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Include More
Eat Less
Fresh Fruit Sugary Drinks Vegetables Sugary Cereal
Simple carbohydrates are the quickest source of energy, as they digest quickly.
This can cause your blood sugar to spike. Simple carbs can also cause high triglycerides (blood fat that increases your risk of heart disease).
❖ See Handout: Tips to Reduce Simple Sugar
✓ Skill Building Activity: Label Reading For Simple
Sugars (your coach will lead you through this activity)
Complex carbohydrates are typically rich in fiber, making them satisfying, healthful, and less likely to spike blood sugar. They are usually found in whole plant foods and are high in fiber, vitamins and minerals.
❖ See Handout: Grocery List of Complex Carbohydrates
✓ Skill Building Activity: Label Reading for Fiber (your coach will lead you through this activity)
Whole Grains (Whole wheat bread, pasta)
Sweets (Cookies, candy, cakes)
Beans
Candy
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Benefits of Carbohydrates
The benefits of eating a diet rich in high quality, complex carbohydrates include:
➢ Good brain function
➢ Improved mood and energy
➢ Fiber (soluble and insoluble) in carbs is needed for bowel health and bowel movements
➢ May lower cholesterol levels
❖ See Handout: Types of Fiber Carbohydrate Recommendation
About 45-65% of your diet needs to come from complex carbohydrate (e.g. fruits, vegetables, whole grains & legumes). To get the right amount of carbohydrate, use MyPlate and fill your 1⁄2 of your plate with fruits and vegetables and 1⁄4 of your plate with grains.
Protein
Protein is a powerful nutrient made up of amino acids. Amino acids are involved in almost every function of the body. Your body can make some amino acids,
Session 5: Carbohydrates
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but you must get others from food. Protein can be found in both animal and plant based foods. The goal is to get a good mix of lean animal and plant based protein in your diet.
Animal Protein
Plant Protein
Lean cuts of beef
Fish and Seafood
Dairy: Milk, Yogurt & Cottage Cheese
Tofu
Quinoa Tempeh
Turkey and Chicken
Legumes, Beans
Eggs
Nuts & seeds
Pork
Seitan
❖ See Handout: Choosing Healthier Meats Benefits of Protein
➢ Needed for skin, hair, muscle, bones, and organs
➢ Used to fight disease
➢ Makes you feel full and satisfied
➢ Helps to stabilize blood sugar
Protein Recommendation
Protein needs can vary. Up to-35% of your calorie intake should come from lean sources of protein (animal and plant). To get the right amount of protein,
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use MyPlate and fill 1⁄4 of your plate with meat and include a cup of dairy.
✓ Skill Building Activity: Adding Up Your Protein (your coach will lead you through this activity)
Fat
Fat is needed by
your body, and
performs many
important
functions. Many
diets promote a
very low fat intake,
but reducing your fat intake too much can be unhealthy and leave you wanting more to eat. When choosing fats, quality is key. There are 3 main types of fats: unsaturated fats, saturated fats and trans fats. Saturated fats and trans fat can have a negative impact on your heart and health. Healthy, unsaturated fats have a positive impact on health. The goal is to get most of your fat intake from the healthier unsaturated fats.
❖ See Handout: Types of Healthy Fat
❖ See Handout: Adding Healthy Fats
Eat More
Olives and Olive Oil
Nuts and Nut Butter
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Avocado
Fish and Fish Oil
Seeds
Benefits of Healthy Fats
➢ Proper brain functioning
➢ Healthy metabolism
➢ Heart health
➢ Proper hormone functioning
➢ Fullness (takes longer to leave the stomach than carbs and protein)
➢ Needed for absorption of fat-soluble vitamins (vitamins A, D, E & K)
➢ Source of fuel
➢ Acts as oil for joints
Fat Recommendation
A general rule of thumb is for 20-35% of your diet to come from healthy sources of fat. This should be spread throughout the day. Try to include a healthy fat at each meal. To get the right amount of fat, use MyPlate and choose leaner cuts of meat, lower fat dairy products and lower fat, grain-based foods.
**Each gram of fat contains more then double the calories of protein or carbohydrate. Be sure to check portion sizes and practice moderation.
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✓ Skill Building Activity: Adding Up Your Fat Grams (your coach will lead you through this activity)
Summary
Your body needs carbohydrate, protein and fat. With the guidance of MyPlate, and the help of your coach, you can create a balanced eating plan that gives you the right amount of each nutrient.
Activities
□ Look over your food uploads for the last week. Do you notice any simple sugars?
□ Include one plant-based source of protein this week.
□ Check the portion size of the fats you eat most often. How does it compare to the amount you eat?
Keep Moving
This week, think about getting a pedometer or device that counts your steps. Once you know how many steps you are taking, you can set goals to increase your steps each day.
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□ Goal setting: Work with your coach to set one goal this week associated with this session. Example: I will try one new source of plant-based protein.
List your goal here or message it to your coach: ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________
Discussion/Questions
□ Ask your coach to help you make a grocery list based off the information in this session.
□ Ask your group members how they put together balanced meals, which include all of the major nutrients.
□ Tell your group members or family members about one food myth that your learned was untrue this week.
“Next to love, balance is the most important thing.”
- John Wooden
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Tips to Reduce Simple Sugar
How to Reduce Simple Sugar in Meals and Snacks
● Choose high fiber cereal instead of sugary cereal
● Use fruit for dessert rather than sweet treats
● Eat plain yogurt with fruit instead of sweetened yogurt
● Use nut butter instead of jelly on toast, bagels and muffins
● Check labels for added sugar
● Avoid fruit canned in sugar
● Decrease your serving of cookies, cakes and candy
● Use vanilla (or almond) extract, cinnamon, allspice or nutmeg to add flavor rather than sugar
How to Reduce Simple Sugar in Beverages
● Drink black coffee rather than sweetened coffee drinks
● Drink unsweetened tea rather than sweetened tea
● Drink water or sparkling water instead of soda
Grocery List for Complex Carbohydrates
● Whole wheat or sprouted wheat bread
● Whole wheat pasta
● Steel cut oats
● High fiber cereal (more than 5 grams of fiber) ● Brown, wild and long grain rice
● Quinoa
● Rye crackers
● Barley
● Beans
● Lentils
● Soybeans (edamame) ● Sweet potatoes
● White potatoes
● Corn
● Peas
● Carrots
Types of Fiber
There are 2 types of fiber: soluble and insoluble. Both sources of fiber can be found solely in plant foods (fruits, vegetables, legumes, nuts, and seeds).
Both types of fiber offer important health benefits.
Insoluble Fiber:
Does not dissolve in water
Is not easily broken down during digestion
Creates bulk, which helps prevent constipation
Sources:
● Skins of fruits & vegetables (apples, cucumbers,
grapes, etc.)
● Wheat bran, whole grains and popcorn
● Dried fruits
Soluble Fiber:
Dissolves in water
Reduces LDL cholesterol (“bad” cholesterol) Helps to regulate blood sugar
Sources: ● Beans
● Fruits (fresh & dried) and vegetables ● Oats, rice and whole grain pasta
Choosing Healthier Meats
There is a wide variety of animal protein available today. Choosing healthier options can help you to reach your
goals and improve your overall health.
Here are 4 tips to help you choose healthier meats:
1.) Choose fewer processed meats
✔ Processed meats like deli meats, bacon, sausage, hot dogs, pepperoni, beef jerky, and salami are typically high in sodium and/or sugar.
2.) Choose lean cuts of meat
✔ Leaner cuts of meat such as “loin,” “round” or “sirloin” contain less fat and fewer calories.
3.) Use healthier cooking methods
✔ Grilling, braising, baking, and stewing are all healthier cooking options than deep-frying, pan frying or using gravies and sauces.
4.) Choose leaner types of meats
✔ White meat such as chicken and turkey is a lower fat option than red meat.
✔ Fish is also a good option that typically contains a higher content of unsaturated (heart healthy) fats.
Types of Healthy Fat
Healthy fats are important to include in our diet due to their heart healthy benefits.
Monounsaturated and Polyunsaturated
These fats can improve total cholesterol when used in place of unhealthy fats.
Sources of these fats include:
● Avocados
● Olives
● Nuts: almonds, pecans, hazelnuts and
macadamia nuts
● Seeds: pumpkin, chia, flax and sunflower seeds
Omega-3 Fatty Acids
These fats can lower blood triglyceride levels, decrease inflammation and lower blood pressure.
Sources of these fats include:
● Walnuts
● Flax seeds
● Chia seeds
● Fish: salmon, mackerel, herring, sardines,
albacore and rainbow trout
● Tofu and other soybean products
Adding Healthy Fats
What foods contain healthy fats?
Many foods naturally contain healthy fats.
You can find these fats in avocados, nuts, seeds
and olives.
Ways to Add Healthy Fats:
● Prepare a fruit smoothie with avocado
● Choose white meat chicken instead of red meat ● Dress your salad with sesame, olive or flaxseed oil ● Top salads with nuts and/or seeds
● Try flaxseeds in smoothies, yogurt or on salads
● Try different nut butters on celery or apples
● Choose fatty fish like salmon and tuna
● Enjoy a vegetable crudités with olives or on salads ● Try soymilk on cereal
● Use olive oil in place of butter
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Ginger – so nice to see you back! Congrats on the weight loss
Last time we were at Denise’s, Pete said that PJ’s school teaches Math and Science all in Spanish. Not sure if this is correct.
Still no word on the relay for my oven. I did take pizza home from the soup kitchen for Vince so we can microwave that. Vince talked about going to Red Lobster for dinner. Who knows?
Did a Core Cardio DVD then walked around the neighborhood. Jess came down with Colby and Ganon (the dog). Took the dog for a SHORT walk, I think it got too warm for him. I was sweating in the sun. Now it’s raining
Rita – like the way you take yoga breaks between cars. Hey, better than standing there doing nothing. I’m proud of you
Carol – best for you for tomorrow
Tracey – love Kaitlyn’s smile
Barbara – yea for showers at home!!! I remember having to shower at the Y when we were without water
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grandmallie wrote: »Carol - you got this.. no worries
All will be well...
In one way I feel a bit better ,in other ways not so much..
I guess I was a bit stopped up I know ( TMI) felt better afterwards..
But still a bit tired.. so I took a nap... I will lay low for the weekend and start fresh tomorrow and will take a shower a bit later...
Your right about getting the cut first and we shall see from there..
And my SIL sent me the paperwork for Seans court date..which is Tuesday August 27th.. she wont be there.. and she just assumes I'll take him up to Moultonborough .
Clearly say no. He can Uber or Lyft if she can't take him. Not your responsibility.
I'm excited to see your new cut.
Happy weekend to all.
Flea
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Hey, kidlings...
Well, the rain only lasted about three hours, but did wonders for the plants. Possibly rain tonight, according to which weather widget you watch, so we'll see.
We did a bit of shopping, got bird seeds for the feeders, which they are attacking unmercifully... I know they're not starving, by any means, but it's fun to watch them swoop in and out. So far I've identifed cardinals, including the babies of the current generation, nuthatches, chickadees, house wrens, finches, chickadees, and a few others.
The blue jays, robins and doves are too big for the feeders, so they try once or twice and then head off for more secure footing. So much fun - I can see how people get utterly fascinated by them. We've also got more than a few hummingbirds, and their feeder got cleaned up and refreshed today, too. With the cool weather, I was able to stay out in the sunroom and watch them for quite some time.
The shopping trip was the only productive time - I just got up from a bit of a nap, and Corey's been relaxing all day, which I love to see.
Hope it is/was a peaceful Sunday for everyone,
Love,
Lisa in AR6 -
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Well, we did go to dinner at Red Lobster. I couldn't get over the prices!
Had only water to drink. Was good for dinner, shrimp (not fried) and steamed cauliflower. But then I had this chocolate dessert. Well, I knew that Vince wouldn't share it with me, so I ordered my own and ate the whole thing. But it WAS good, even if the ice cream wasn't that good. Oh, well, back to sensible eating tomorrow.
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Lisa- I don't know if your interested but there is an app for your phone called Ebird ,I have it on mine and it identifies the sound of the bird if your outside and tells you what kind it is and gives you the facts..
I have all my moms birding books here,and I can usually tell what most birds are..
Flea you are right.. but an Uber from Connecticut to N.H. would be a bit much.. we shall see what happens..and I sure hope he doesn't think he is moving in here..I love my brother dearly ,but No... he smokes and Im not having a smoker live here.. plus its a one bedroom.
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Broke 160 today! I skipped lunch intentionally. I had a great time with cousin and her husband at Munsinger Gardens in St. Cloud. It is right on Mississippi River. We listened to Blue grass music. A delight. Again hope to post pictures in the coming days.
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Ginger ... welcome back and congratulations on the weight loss!
Rebecca ... I missed why you are now needed as a sitter, but I'm hoping that you find a routine that works for you while taking care of your grands.
Heather ... sorry to hear about your brother's illness. Had you mentioned to your surgeon that the new hip is hurting? That doesn't seem right to me. Praying for your surgery later this week.
Carol ... praying for a successful surgery and complete recovery tomorrow!
Machka ... you have been incredibly busy!
Facebook ... I've snoozed and unfollowed so many people it's pretty much just me and the ads. And now that Machka has shown me how to manage those, hopefully many of those will change soon too!
Barbara ... yay for finally having water!
Debbie ... keep the pressure on your mother's roommate! Every time you visit remind her of the move out timeline.
I got so far behind that I've forgotten much of what I wanted to comment on.
I continue to be busy with my mom, visiting her every day. She is physically stable, but her cognitive health is a mixed bag. I left her today in tears because apparently she believed the aide and I "yelled" at her when she tried to do something she shouldn't have. No one actually "yelled" ... we were just frightened by her near fall. I tried to reassure her that no one was angry or mad at her, just worried about her getting hurt, but it wasn't getting through. Sigh. Tomorrow is her 93rd birthday and my husband and I will visit in the morning and then my brother is driving in with some of his family to bring in her lunch and visit in the afternoon.
My eating habits have tanked and my recent blood work shows numerical evidence of that. I have a doctor's appointment on Tuesday to discuss my lab results. I know that I have to re-tool my food choices and restructure my day to allow time to prepare healthy meals. Exercise has become non-existent. I have to make changes now before things get out of hand.
Beth near Buffalo
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Yes, restaurant prices are appalling. We have gotten restaurant food lately only on very special occasions (like out of town company that when we don't want to have to do the work and don't want to have to figure out how to please everyone). It was truly a gift we gave ourselves. Otherwise we love our own cooking and personally chosen foods.
Barbie in slightly cooler NW WA
Dh told me that he and his friends got drinks- just slushy/icee type drinks. He said he thought they were a good deal because they were only $6. To me, that doesn't sound like a good deal. I don't like spending that much on a burger or what ever, let alone a drink(full of sugar and two of the three guys are diabetic)
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Today’s gratitude: Pastor’s wife’s, loving, understanding, forgiving response when I dinged her new car door. Meeting up with D and V at music in the park, chat stroll with D, pleasant time later with both at Chetco brewery. Shadow was welcome in both venues.
Heather Huzzah! Sorry to hear there was discomfort in both hips but your triumph shines through! Love your lazy Susans. In my next kitchen all base cabinets will be big deep pot drawers, no static shelves with hard to reach depths.
Machka thank you so very much for “…use the feeds”. Will take a stab at this, maybe tomorrow or Tuesday, after tea…
Annie hope you decided to nap. Your well being is more important than your Dad’s car’s. Kelly said it better.
Lanette the water guy had grands visiting the past week. We are expecting/hoping to see him and his digging helper this week, to set the 1500 gal tank and trench so it can be connected. Then all that will remain is reorganizing the pump room to make it easier to change the UV bulb and clean its sleeve. BUT “scheduled” is way too strong a word ;}
Tracey sorry to hear about the air quality cutting Rodger’s hours. Not what you need right now. your answer about priorities and REALLY the pic of Aspen. What a joyous little child.
Barbie would you share your how you creatively got Annie home after she chewed through her leash? A skill that could come in handy
Carol ((hugs)) and prayers all goes well with the surgery tomorrow, and that the recovery is quick, complete and with as little pain as possible. ((hugs))
Allie glad you got some relief. Hope the nap helped. Stick to your guns about your bro moving in with you. NOT what you need.
Rita a word about seitan, approach with caution. It’s basically wheat gluten. While I don’t have celiac and am not generally gluten-sensitive, I’ve never been as sick as I was after eating a “seitan reuben” sandwish at a vegetarian restaurant. :sick:
Michele any idea when the stove part will arrive? Thanks for understanding about the shower, I feel your pain about the stove.
Margaret con VERY gratulations. Your healthful, whole food way of eating is having wonderful results.
Beth so glad to see you pop in, you’ve been on my heart the past few days. ((hugs))
Later, lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
Move more than yesterday, fuel better than yesterday, live NOW.
Open heart and mind before mouth.
2024: Strengthen: body, mind, heart-connections
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Good morning all:
Spent Saturday evening an some time yesterday catching up on here. Had a great 10 days in Arizona with family. Grandkids are growing like weeds. DS and DIL somehow manage to keep up with everything. The kids have started their new school year-should be exciting for them. It will be difficult getting them to and rom with the timing but I am sure it will work out. Survived the heat. Scale says three pounds up-expect it will go away over the the next couple of days.
Visited another retirement option yesterday. This is primarily just the "villas" and townhouses. In a small community near Columbus. All new builds. Liked the units but it is more like traditional apartment living-no workout facilities or community center, etc. I am concerned that living there I would isolate-you can come in, pull into your garage and never see anyone. I will check another facility that is part of their overall community that is more the traditional apartment style independent living.
Need to go over to OSU for lung ct checkup today. My bloodwork looks fairly stable so will see what the pictures has to say about nodules-go over to followup visit with doctor on Wednesday. Will work from home this pm. Then pt on Tuesday am and Friday for foot and si joint. Will basically be working part-time this week-go way to come back from 10 days off!
Hope all with their medical concerns and family issues improve. No way I can catch up on individual comments.
Take care all,
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Restaurant prices ... I haven't noticed an increase during the time since I moved to Australia 15 years ago. I did, of course, notice an increase when I moved to Australia from Canada because Australian prices are more than Canadian prices.
It's not at all unusual to pay $5 or so for soft drinks or coffee. In fact, that's a pretty decent price.
But it's OK. One of the reasons why I work is so that we can afford to eat out once a week or so.
Minimalism ... I have downsized twice. I had furnished and decorated my apartment and really liked the way it looked. But then circumstances changed, and I got rid of about 1/3 of my stuff. Most of the rest of it went into storage for almost 5 years while I travelled and got my Bachelor of Education. Then I got rid of another third and was down to 300 cubic feet of stuff ... enough to fill a small bathroom. That went into storage for a little while, and then was shipped to Australia. It was well over a year before I got my stuff.
My husband has also downsized twice, once purposely and once when a bushfire came through.
Both of us have also spent quite a bit of time travelling by bicycle and living with whatever we had with us - the longest being 8 months.
When we started putting a house together here, we decided we did not want to be minimal anymore.
Intentional Living ... I have read a bit about intentional living, and the idea raises my stress level. Everything I read about it suggests a level of structure and purpose that makes me feel very uncomfortable. Things like defining my mission in life and what kind of contribution I want to make. Ensuring your day follows a decided routine. Doing things for deep meaningful reasons. Journaling ways you contributed to living with purpose that day. Having long-term goals.
Just not me.
Sure, I've had goals. Over the past 25 years or so, my life has divided itself quite neatly into 5-year segments with a goal for each segment but when I completed that goal, I didn't know what my goal for the next 5 years was going to be. I like to let goals sneak up and surprise me!
And I don't like it when my days are planned to death. This past weekend, I planned our days in great detail and we got a lot done. But I'm sure glad I don't do that sort of thing very often.
I like a healthy dose of impulse ... we'll see when we get there ... I bought it because I liked it ... let's get a pizza at that new place ... why not!
Machka in Oz
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Good morning beautiful ladies!
Carol best wishes for your surgery and recovery!
Allie, just say No! Listen to Meghan Trainor's song My name is No.
Margaret Yay for the weight loss! You are doing so well!
Barbara water progress Yay! And yes I took a nap. I'm a little embarrassed that I whined on Saturday when my dad woke me up early. Sorry about that, girlfriends.
Beth you are doing a great job looking out for your mom. It's tough when she doesn't recognize that.
Ginny good luck on the lung check.
Machka I don't think intentional living meshes with being a caregiver. We have to be so flexible to deal with whatever comes up, so it's more reactive and plans are always tentative. But I don't know much about intentional living so I could be wrong.
Michele restaurant prices have really gone up around here too. When I was a child we ate out at a diner less than once a month. It feels luxurious to go out more often.
I did sleep Sunday morning and I feel much better. I will run the car today while Dad is at Sing-along. One of my goals is to give the political situation a week to settle down before I get back into it. This week is going to be chaos.
Party planning is going well. I estimate sixteen people!
Have a marvelous day! May you be happy, healthy, safe and free!
Annie in Delaware3 -
Carol: Thinking of you today 🙏
Heather: So pleased that you made it to the sea.
Virtual (((hugs))) and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.
🙋♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.
☘️ Terri2 -
I'm enjoying my sterile regime this week. Changed all the bedlinen, pyjamas, towels, bath robes, bath mats, clothes. Everything washed, and my body and hair antiseptic! Washed down toilets, and used wipes on my phone, tablet etc. Cleaned bottles, new toothpaste, deodorant.
I even bought a new eye mask.
Strangely satisfying.
My cleaner is coming this afternoon. A good start. John wants to deal with some small patches of mould in the shower, so I ordered him some spray, which is arriving today. The cleaner only has time for a quick dash round, not deep cleaning.
The window cleaner came today, so we are good to go.
Much love, Heather UK xxxxxxxx8 -
Barbara, my creative solution to the leash was not that creative. She chewed the leash leaving enough connected to the gentle leader that I could knot it around the handle of the retractable leash and hold it awkwardly for the three blocks or so to get home and get Bessie's leash for the rest of the walk. According to Chewy, the new leashes will be here by the end of the day today.
Intentional living and minimalism are pretty general terms for a way of living that is careful and purposeful. They fit in with spoon story about having to make choices about how to live your life, how to spend your money, how to spend your time. The things that I choose to do or buy make me happy or fill a need or I don't do them or buy them. It reminds me of the phrase during World War II, "Is this trip really necessary" regarding the use of driving during gas rationing. It's a way to make the best use of scarce resources whether they are time, money, fuel, energy, or calories.
Hugs to Carol
Barbie in NW WA
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »Good morning beautiful ladies!
Machka I don't think intentional living meshes with being a caregiver. We have to be so flexible to deal with whatever comes up, so it's more reactive and plans are always tentative. But I don't know much about intentional living so I could be wrong.
Annie in Delaware
I have the same impression ... from the articles I've read, it seems to be about planning your day and doing everything you planned. And as you go through your day, you ask yourself if what you're doing now contributes to the plan or not. If not, you try to get back on track.
In addition to that, you set up plans for the next 5, 10, 20, 30, 40 years. And again, as you go through your days, you constantly ask yourself if what you're doing is keeping you on track for your goals or not.
From the looks of things, you're even supposed to plan in relaxation times!!
From my experience as a caregiver, it's much easier to go with the flow. You can plan (like I did this past weekend) but it wore both of us right out and definitely wouldn't be good long-term. We were on the brink of disaster by the end of the weekend.
During the week, when I get home from work, I usually have 1 thing from my list I would like to do if I can. That 1 thing should only take, let's say, half an hour ... so theoretically, I should be able to plan in several other things, but I've discovered that I have a much better success rate if I hope to get 1 thing done, and leave the rest of the evening open for whatever comes along. Same with the weekends. I might plan 2 things each day ... and see what happens. The whole weekend could be completely different from what I had planned.
It does make it difficult to keep up with stuff, but that's how it goes. I try to do the urgent things, at least.
Work can also be like that quite often. I have plans but an email comes in and the plans go right out the window while I deal with something else.
Right now, I've got so much unpacking to do ... I'll get there eventually. Probably.
M in Oz
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Best wishes for a smooth surgery Carol! My thoughts care with you today.💖👍🏼🤗
Speaking of good thoughts, son and daughter inlaw are meeting up with a potential babysitter thus Tuesday evening. I hope its a good fit! If yes, then when we all go to my sisters on Saturday then I will just stay there for a couple days. Don't know if the trip traveling up with sister will happen, as she cancelled Tucker's doggy day care slot. I might just take a train home on the 30th or something.
Of course Athena woke up this morning with pink eye in both eyes! So hopefully they will get her in to get meds for that.
Rebecca
Whidbey
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Barbara, my creative solution to the leash was not that creative. She chewed the leash leaving enough connected to the gentle leader that I could knot it around the handle of the retractable leash and hold it awkwardly for the three blocks or so to get home and get Bessie's leash for the rest of the walk. According to Chewy, the new leashes will be here by the end of the day today.
Intentional living and minimalism are pretty general terms for a way of living that is careful and purposeful. They fit in with spoon story about having to make choices about how to live your life, how to spend your money, how to spend your time. The things that I choose to do or buy make me happy or fill a need or I don't do them or buy them. It reminds me of the phrase during World War II, "Is this trip really necessary" regarding the use of driving during gas rationing. It's a way to make the best use of scarce resources whether they are time, money, fuel, energy, or calories.
Hugs to Carol
Barbie in NW WA
I think both intentional living and minimalism (which appear to be a little bit related), require a certain personality type and likely work well for people with that personality type.
For me, however, I think being careful and purposeful all the time or most of the time would be stressful.
One of the things I liked best about cycling in different countries for 8 months was that we only had a very loose plan. We had flights booked ... and ended up changing a couple of them anyway. A couple weeks before we went to a new place by air, I would book our first night's accommodation. When we got there, if we liked the accommodation, we'd book our last night before the next flight. Otherwise we'd go where the wind blew us. 😀
M in Oz
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@ Carol I hope you had a smooth surgery experience and the healing is quick and pain free (or as little pain as necessary!)
@Heather Your next surgery will be a breeze after your last one. You are a pro now!! Good luck to you too!
I had to work 7 hours in the booth again yesterday. Not as tired as Saturday, weird. It was a lot slower than yesterday so lots of standing yoga and dancing and stretching between cars. Got a good workout! LOL
Breakfast: yesterday and today Muesli, 1/2 banana/ 1 T craisins and Oikos Tripple Zero yogurt. Yesterday snacks: orange, whole banana, 3 fudgicles. Supper was English muffin with butter and cream cheese with a nectarine.
Dinner was 1/2 cup spaghetti and 1/2 cup shrimp in white sauce with onions, celery, mushrooms, and parsley for veggies and an orange for desert.
Sounds like a lot but under my calorie allotment.
RVRita in Roswell 👽3
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