WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR FEBRUARY 2025

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  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,854 Member
    I had Mac and Cheese yesterday for dinner. Mine looks like the Scottish one in the skillet. I braise cauliflower and broccoli, and boil the macaroni,. I make a cheese sauce while they are cooking, then add mix all of them together in a casserole dish. Yesterday I added some chicken from our Sunday roast, and braised leeks. Topped it with grated cheese, then baked in the oven until the cheese was golden brown. Very tasty. It covers all three macros.

    🤗🤗🤗 and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for those who need them.

    🙋‍♀️ céad míle fáilte to our newbies

    ☘️ Terri


    Yum! Yum!

    We often have macaroni and cheese with steamed veggies. In fact, that was dinner 2 nights ago.

    Machka in Oz
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,854 Member
    drkatiebug wrote: »
    Lisa, I’m so sorry you are going through such a hassle with your knee pain. I feel for you. Knee pain is no joke.

    Heather and other Clutterbug fans and those who watch High Potential: did you see this week’s episode? Morgan referenced the 4 organizing styles at a suspect’s house. The suspect was a butterfly. She said she was a ladybug and Adam is a cricket.

    I got all of my autopay accounts changed over to the new account as well as my Teacher Retirement check. That one required a call to TRS because my password didn’t work then they told me the answers to my security questions didn’t match. Like I told the lady at TRS, I don’t know why. Unless I spelled my 3rd grade teacher’s name wrong, I am clueless. She deleted the whole account for me and I started over by re-registering. Social Security is going to be a problem. The earliest they would let me choose was our April deposits. That means Feb and March will go into the old account, which is where my Feb TRS payment is also stuck. So back to the bank tomorrow. I am so grateful that this is just a bump in the road and will eventually work itself out. So many are dealing with serious health problems or worse.

    Today my daughter was in a 7-car accident on the way home from work. Luckily, nobody was seriously injured. It was really 3 separate accidents, all at the same time. She was in the middle set. The first set of cars wrecked in front of her, she was able to get stopped and avoided hitting the car in front of her, but the car behind her hit her. Then there was another collision directly behind them. Her car is not that bad. It’ll need a little body work on the rear. It did break the hair clip she was wearing, but otherwise she’s fine.

    I saw it. So cute when her partner referred to the old guy as a butterfly when he was talking about the case with everyone. She is having an affect on him! He remembers all her eccentricities.💖👍🏼
    Lets see what am I?
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    I am a bee. I like to see everyday items, and I like organized systems. I put stuff away. I do pile stuff on my desk periodically and then deal with it every week or so.
    What are you?
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa

    I'm a Cricket and my husband is a Butterfly. That combination is challenging!

    Machka in Oz
  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 3,072 Member
    Rebecca, it's all just absolutely beautiful. That quilt is stunning.
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,529 Member
    Today we went grocery shopping just fine. The roads were bone dry, but its melting so tonight all that is gonna freeze again. Bought a handful of extra meals in case the weather turns and he can't get out and about next week.
    My eldest sister said she had sent me a box. Now the last time we chatted she had said she was sending me a soldered anchor that was made by our maternal grandmother when she worked at the shipyard in Vanport (ship town that was between Vancouver WA and Portland OR). So I was expecting that and also a Mason Jar for my coffee she wanted to gift me. So this is what she sent.
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    I bawled my eyes out💖🤗. It is so her, and so much time and work and LOVE in it. Just beautiful!
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa

    Love it!
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,072 Member
    Machka9 wrote: »
    drkatiebug wrote: »
    Lisa, I’m so sorry you are going through such a hassle with your knee pain. I feel for you. Knee pain is no joke.

    Heather and other Clutterbug fans and those who watch High Potential: did you see this week’s episode? Morgan referenced the 4 organizing styles at a suspect’s house. The suspect was a butterfly. She said she was a ladybug and Adam is a cricket.

    I got all of my autopay accounts changed over to the new account as well as my Teacher Retirement check. That one required a call to TRS because my password didn’t work then they told me the answers to my security questions didn’t match. Like I told the lady at TRS, I don’t know why. Unless I spelled my 3rd grade teacher’s name wrong, I am clueless. She deleted the whole account for me and I started over by re-registering. Social Security is going to be a problem. The earliest they would let me choose was our April deposits. That means Feb and March will go into the old account, which is where my Feb TRS payment is also stuck. So back to the bank tomorrow. I am so grateful that this is just a bump in the road and will eventually work itself out. So many are dealing with serious health problems or worse.

    Today my daughter was in a 7-car accident on the way home from work. Luckily, nobody was seriously injured. It was really 3 separate accidents, all at the same time. She was in the middle set. The first set of cars wrecked in front of her, she was able to get stopped and avoided hitting the car in front of her, but the car behind her hit her. Then there was another collision directly behind them. Her car is not that bad. It’ll need a little body work on the rear. It did break the hair clip she was wearing, but otherwise she’s fine.

    I saw it. So cute when her partner referred to the old guy as a butterfly when he was talking about the case with everyone. She is having an affect on him! He remembers all her eccentricities.💖👍🏼
    Lets see what am I?
    jz6i9gijab1u.jpg
    I am a bee. I like to see everyday items, and I like organized systems. I put stuff away. I do pile stuff on my desk periodically and then deal with it every week or so.
    What are you?
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa

    I'm a Cricket and my husband is a Butterfly. That combination is challenging!

    Machka in Oz

    I bet! But the combination is order.👍🏼
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,072 Member
    Thanks ladies! Its warm too, I just took a nap with it. My sister spent a whole weekend from 9 am to 9 pm with her sewing machine and about 50 other ladies at her cute little church community room. There is a large kitchen so the ladies were cooking up a storm as much as they were running their sewing machines! Her embroidered birds on the pillow, I remember her making. She is really talented! Then all her hard work and time, she gifts it to me. It will stay on my side of the living room forever. She is getting her colonoscopy today so I told her to call me when she's able.💖👍🏼
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,072 Member
    Pip, pretty blue tee shirt and jersey! You work so hard, so its nice to get those perks.
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,854 Member
    Machka9 wrote: »
    drkatiebug wrote: »
    Lisa, I’m so sorry you are going through such a hassle with your knee pain. I feel for you. Knee pain is no joke.

    Heather and other Clutterbug fans and those who watch High Potential: did you see this week’s episode? Morgan referenced the 4 organizing styles at a suspect’s house. The suspect was a butterfly. She said she was a ladybug and Adam is a cricket.

    I got all of my autopay accounts changed over to the new account as well as my Teacher Retirement check. That one required a call to TRS because my password didn’t work then they told me the answers to my security questions didn’t match. Like I told the lady at TRS, I don’t know why. Unless I spelled my 3rd grade teacher’s name wrong, I am clueless. She deleted the whole account for me and I started over by re-registering. Social Security is going to be a problem. The earliest they would let me choose was our April deposits. That means Feb and March will go into the old account, which is where my Feb TRS payment is also stuck. So back to the bank tomorrow. I am so grateful that this is just a bump in the road and will eventually work itself out. So many are dealing with serious health problems or worse.

    Today my daughter was in a 7-car accident on the way home from work. Luckily, nobody was seriously injured. It was really 3 separate accidents, all at the same time. She was in the middle set. The first set of cars wrecked in front of her, she was able to get stopped and avoided hitting the car in front of her, but the car behind her hit her. Then there was another collision directly behind them. Her car is not that bad. It’ll need a little body work on the rear. It did break the hair clip she was wearing, but otherwise she’s fine.

    I saw it. So cute when her partner referred to the old guy as a butterfly when he was talking about the case with everyone. She is having an affect on him! He remembers all her eccentricities.💖👍🏼
    Lets see what am I?
    jz6i9gijab1u.jpg
    I am a bee. I like to see everyday items, and I like organized systems. I put stuff away. I do pile stuff on my desk periodically and then deal with it every week or so.
    What are you?
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa

    I'm a Cricket and my husband is a Butterfly. That combination is challenging!

    Machka in Oz

    I bet! But the combination is order.👍🏼
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa

    Unfortunately it is order on one side of the room and chaos on the other ... from my perspective.
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,072 Member
    Machka9 wrote: »
    Machka9 wrote: »
    drkatiebug wrote: »
    Lisa, I’m so sorry you are going through such a hassle with your knee pain. I feel for you. Knee pain is no joke.

    Heather and other Clutterbug fans and those who watch High Potential: did you see this week’s episode? Morgan referenced the 4 organizing styles at a suspect’s house. The suspect was a butterfly. She said she was a ladybug and Adam is a cricket.

    I got all of my autopay accounts changed over to the new account as well as my Teacher Retirement check. That one required a call to TRS because my password didn’t work then they told me the answers to my security questions didn’t match. Like I told the lady at TRS, I don’t know why. Unless I spelled my 3rd grade teacher’s name wrong, I am clueless. She deleted the whole account for me and I started over by re-registering. Social Security is going to be a problem. The earliest they would let me choose was our April deposits. That means Feb and March will go into the old account, which is where my Feb TRS payment is also stuck. So back to the bank tomorrow. I am so grateful that this is just a bump in the road and will eventually work itself out. So many are dealing with serious health problems or worse.

    Today my daughter was in a 7-car accident on the way home from work. Luckily, nobody was seriously injured. It was really 3 separate accidents, all at the same time. She was in the middle set. The first set of cars wrecked in front of her, she was able to get stopped and avoided hitting the car in front of her, but the car behind her hit her. Then there was another collision directly behind them. Her car is not that bad. It’ll need a little body work on the rear. It did break the hair clip she was wearing, but otherwise she’s fine.

    I saw it. So cute when her partner referred to the old guy as a butterfly when he was talking about the case with everyone. She is having an affect on him! He remembers all her eccentricities.💖👍🏼
    Lets see what am I?
    jz6i9gijab1u.jpg
    I am a bee. I like to see everyday items, and I like organized systems. I put stuff away. I do pile stuff on my desk periodically and then deal with it every week or so.
    What are you?
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa

    I'm a Cricket and my husband is a Butterfly. That combination is challenging!

    Machka in Oz

    I bet! But the combination is order.👍🏼
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa

    Unfortunately it is order on one side of the room and chaos on the other ... from my perspective.

    I get it!
    My husband is kind of a butterfly, likes everything out in the open. So on the top of the dresser is chaos on one side and a three tiered wooden jewelry holder (my side) on the other plus my glasses case. I don't mind it.
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,127 Member
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  • minicooper452
    minicooper452 Posts: 683 Member
    Beautiful quilt and pillow, Rebecca. I can see why you cried. How lovely.

    I'm sort of a cross between a Butterfly and a Bee which drives my cleaning-Bestie absolutely NUTZ! Poor Tammie. Constantly trying to help me de-clutter, to no use. I'm a "closet" non-closet hoarder.

    Happy Weekend!
    Love and Blessings
    Carla, in MN
  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 3,072 Member
    edited February 7
    Mo - I used to run my taxes on TurboTax electronically, but without actually filing them, to either give my friend something to shoot for or to try out how much it would be if we filed separately. She knew I was doing it - and would compete to see if she could beat the figures I came up with. Best friends are wonderful, aren't they. 💗 Filing jointly always either got more back or cost significantly less than filing separately.

    That $20,000+ tax bill is one we incurred as well, the one I called paying "stupid tax." The penalty to pull money out of retirement accounts early, even if it's for a house and you're going to get a tax break for mortgage interest, is SO stupid high that it's just staggering. And by the way, TurboTax was terribly unhappy with me - the number of reminders to finish my taxes (and pay them for doing it) was overwhelming, all in caps, by April 15. 😂 They must have thought I was a serial tax dodger....

    Speaking of serial - Kylia, that really is a running joke with my sister, one of our favorites. I never laugh harder than on the phone with her. I'm trying really hard to get her to Zoom meetings with me so I can post them up online, but pinning her to a time is like trying to nail Jell-o to the wall.

    Chaos personified, my sis is very much a butterfly - but one who wouldn't know what an "organizing system" was if it bit her on the behind. She lived with me once, and I lived with her once, and we drove each other right round the bend both times. Pretty sure she'd be a hoarder if she could, one of the ones who has piles of stuff head high and teetering. But to be a hoarder, you have to a) have money to buy things, and b) keep the things you buy, and she's so generous she gives almost everything away. There is none of this I wouldn't say to her face, by the way.

    I love her dearly, and haven't seen her in person since before the pandemic. 😢

    Heather - you tagged me right in that comment. I almost asked for a close-up of the stitches... 😂 Sorry John's still struggling with the ear issues. LOVE the book design. Nice work. Best in portrait, rather than landscape, I thought. But if you can do it both ways, why not!

    Barbie - thinking of you.

    Annie - ditto. Hope everything's OK. Don't let the usual flood of messages stop you, just step back in where you are, dear heart.

    Off to the races. Smack in the middle of a completely different handbag. Letting the last two painted ones marinate a little longer. And in the midst of creative throes, there's still life itself. Need to put together a Walmart pickup. Even suffering artists still need to eat, ya know... 👀😉😂🐈‍⬛

    Love y'all!
    Lisa in AR

  • mcmillonmail
    mcmillonmail Posts: 172 Member
    Hi, I am up with the dog. Rose didn't like the breakfast I blended into her dog food, so perhaps she wasn't hungry. I am pondering staying home today, but my head hurts, and I am stuffy. We will see. I am thinking of texting my doctor, Lauren, for antibiotics for what I believe is a sinus infection. I have been getting dizzy when I bend over.

    Lisa, I agree about the stupid tax. He should have rented, or we could have found a house we both like. The place he got is a coop, meaning there is no equity. He also pays HOA fees. He asked me if I wanted to take a lump sum from my retirement to buy a place for DS, and I said no. I say let him figure out what he wants to do. I need all of my money to live on. I love the work done on your purse. It is beautiful.

    Pip, I love your jersey, and it was well deserved. Let's get another one this year!

    Rebecca, I love the pillow and the throw your sister made; it is so pretty.

    Heather, I do like the design of the cover for your book. It is eye-catching.

    Kylie, I am so proud of you for eliminating that smoking habit. Does your DH smoke? Your lungs are happier, too.

    Annie, I hope all is well. We all get nervous when we don't hear from you.

    Allie, I hope you feel better soon. I think Alfie is your emotional support animal. Rose is mine. She goes everywhere with me. I sometimes wonder if I need to exercise her more, too. Now that she is older, she likes to sleep more, as do I. Rose was barely able to finish walking three miles with me. Rose is nine, and sometimes, she gets the zoomies. How old is Alfie?

    Lanette, Bonnie is more religious now, and her faith keeps her going. Although she has gained weight, she is not interested in walking with us. This is hard for her because she and her DH grew up together. They met in grade school.

    I am ready to lay down now. Please be safe, everyone. I wanted a sweatshirt that said, "I don't need a Valentine. I need a nap." Debbie, ensure the water has receded before driving to your mom's. Take care everyone.

    Tight hugs to you all,
    XO,
    Mo in Mississippi



  • drkatiebug
    drkatiebug Posts: 2,005 Member
    I am a bee with a few cricket tendencies. My husband is also a bee, but more with butterfly tendencies. He puts things out to remind himself to do them, like way early. This drives me crazy. The two that drive me craziest are a new trash bag on the counter the night before trash day and a new roll of paper towels before the old one is finished. Why? He is way more “out of sight, out of mind” than I am. He also doesn’t see it as clutter if it is something he’s going to use - his sweater on the back of a chair in case he gets cold, for example.

    Some of y’all asked if weather was a factor in the 7-car pile-up my daughter was in. No. It was a beautiful early spring like day. She said it was a weird place - at a red light that was right over a hill, and that people drive crazy. A fender bender in front of her that she avoided hitting, but slamming on her brakes to do so caused the guy behind her to hit her, then the next one missed him, but more hit that one. One of those rush hour, everybody’s tired and in a hurry kind of freak things. 3 separate but consecutive fender benders in a row involving 7 cars altogether.

    The bank saga continues. I couldn’t figure out how to change my preferred account for bill pay so had to call customer service. They will have to manually do it for me. I’m waiting on a call back from them now.

    Rebecca, I love the quilt and pillow. Both are breathtaking.

    Pip, I’m glad you finally got your swag. I will donate to your new run but wait until closer to the deadline.

  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,901 Member
    No appointments today at the doctor! No idea why. :# Just a ansaphone message. John has resorted to using the left over antibiotic spray. I hope that sees him over the weekend. He is miserable, and tired.

    I did an hour's editing and made my 32 meatballs! That is 4 meals for the two of us. Tonight is with tomato sauce, frozen peas, linguine, parmesan, and a garlicky green salad.

    My nap went over to about 85 minutes. Too long! I hope I sleep tonight. I've been reading the magazine app I cancelled on Wednesday morning, as today is it's last day. I will miss it, but I hate monthly bills. I've enjoyed my two free months.

    This morning I had another message for a physio appointment that I applied for last March! I self-referred. Rather than just not turn up, I, like a good citizen, decided to cancel it. Half an hour later, with dropped calls, wrong transferrals, unanswered calls, with the help of Google, I finally got through to the right person! We had a good laugh, but honestly. If you can cancel a restaurant booking easily online, I have no idea why the health service cannot organise themselves. She said they had a 'new system', and the queue system wasn't operational yet. Grrrrr!

    Love you all, Heather UK, with an achey tooth where the filling hole got bigger this morning. Boo! Xxxxxxxx
  • GodMomKim
    GodMomKim Posts: 3,722 Member
    Lanette,
    It's interesting I read and write all of what I do on this forum on a desk top with a decent sized screen and never knew what the big pictures, spoilers ect end up doing on the smaller screens... thanks for the insight.

    I know nothing about Utah law but I would encourage your friend to check with a Utah trust attorney as with the brother being the next of kin (or maybe your friend) sometimes there are some work arounds that can get a bigger chunk to go to the next of kin instead of to taxes. - Such as keeping the money in a IRA not rolling it into a regular account in which taxes would be owed.

    Smiles Kim in N California
  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 3,072 Member
    edited February 7
    Lanette - commands overlap each other on a phone so much that spoilers really are very hard to create. That means the easiest way to use a spoiler is just to type in the word [ spoiler ] in brackets at the beginning and [ / spoiler ] at the end of what you want to put in a spoiler. Don't use spaces inside the brackets - I used them in these to keep it from actually using that as a command. Once you post your comment, whatever is between those two bracketed commands will be hidden in a spoiler. Use the "preview" button to see it before you actually post.