WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MARCH 2025

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  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 18,132 Member

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  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,615 Member
    edited March 16

    "Rebecca - I’m always fascinated about your fasting times and what you eat. I personally couldn’t do it, but am impressed with how you do.

    Tracey in Edmonton"

    I truly don't get too caught up in what I am eating, though when I am really paying attention, I try to eat as clean and healthy as I can. Its pretty amazing how your body will reject foods (not hold onto it very long) if its not what I needs. Like if I fast then have a bowl of soup, it pretty much just goes thru me within 20 mins. So I try to give my body things to digest that makes it happy. Pickled things like beets, and asparagus seem good openers after fasting. Also nuts, and cheese. So I just nibble on something as I am fixing my meal for the day. I know seriously diet brain can take hold. I don't practice food restriction, because if I don't pay attention my intermittent fasting can morph into a low calorie diet, which isn't my goal. There is also a fine line between eating and not listening to my body when it tells me I am satiated. Leaving food is not in my wheelhouse, but I am trying!😁

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,615 Member

    Rebecca - I am not a fan of Jello, either - but the colorful bowls of Jello squares mixed with whipped cream were a staple when I was a child, also. I know you probably already know it, but when you feel hungry you should try to drink some liquid - preferably non-caloric liquid. About half the time, your brain registers thirst as hunger. I do a sort of modified intermittent fast… I always have, naturally, tended to eat all my actual food in the afternoon and evening - the only exception and why I am technically not IF - I have a coffee latte every day - made with protein shake and half and half. The thing is less than 300 calories - but, I seldom get truly hungry until late afternoon - the only time I eat prior to about 4p is when I am stress eating! I currently have some zero sugar sausage sticks in my cubby at work for that very thing. RE in TX

    I drink a lot of black coffee, a natural calming agent for my belly if its feeling hungry.🙃😁. Then Pellegrino water. Have you ever read any of Gin Stephen's Intermittent fasting books? Her books are like the Bibles of the IF community👍🏼. She is very strict about what is allowed within the fasting times though. So many things can trigger the hormones that regulate your hunger. Our bodies are so amazing in that respect! Like a walking lab of science awesomeness!

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,615 Member

    Lasagna building is always fun though! I make my sauce using meatballs that are spicy. They are raw and frozen, so I let them thaw, then cook them up in a bit of olive oil and garlic. Then add Hunts sauce with meat, plain tomato sauce, tomato paste and a spoonful of brown sugar. Lee loves it now. He used to hate spaghetti, because he said it was just boring. Kicking it up a bit he likes it now.👍🏼 I am making the sauce this week, and making chicken fried cube steak and cheese bread (which is just New York brand Texas toast).

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,615 Member
    edited March 16

    margaretturk,

    Such a beautiful response to your friend regarding grief. Truly.

    I look at grief, heartache, or any other intense emotional thing as a sort of gift. We can't choose of grievances, our heartaches, we have to accept them all. And in the center of all those feelings is the love. The experience is the gift. Each one transporting us to where we need to be.

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 4,615 Member

    Lisa,

    I really did try to understand your spoiler with numbers, but my brain imploded.🙃😂

    (From a friend that still counts on her fingers sometimes for Pete's sake!). I know that's embarrassing huh?😂

    Rebecca Whidbey Wa

  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,784 Member

    Did a pilates DVD (one of the new ones I got down here) but you need a certain piece of equipment and for the life of me I couldn’t figure out what I can substitute so I’ll probably redonate those DVD’s. Then I did a yoga DVD. Then walked to Wynn Dixie (only1-1/2 miles each way, no big deal). Then laid out by the pool, nowhere. Tomorrow supposed to go walking with a friend

    Re – how wonderful that you’re down 10 pounds! Any secrets as to how you did this? How exciting that you’re getting the bedroom redone

    M – belts can be your friend...lol

    Rosemarie – what a wonderful walk!

    Carol – I’m nota fan of formal gowns, especially since you wear them only once. Maybe you an find one at a thrift store and then just have to have some alterations made to it?

    Re – the only other ceramics place I know of near me is quite expensive and they don’t let you bring in your own bisque. I don’t know what they’re going to do, will the other girl work 5 days/week? Honestly, I doubt it. I never did think she was carrying her weight. She only wanted to work the days/times SHE wanted to work, no thought as to what the people who came there would like. And I don’t think she knows much about pouring, etc. Maybe I will be able to paint with the other gals and just take it there to be fired. I guess we shall see what the future will bring. You know, D (who passed) wasn’t an alcoholic, but he did enjoy his beer. I understand he was in quite a lot of pain so you’re right, he’s in a better painless place now

    Rita – I’m so sorry about Brownie. You’ll do the right thing, I know it

    Took my last antibiotic today…..yeaaaaa what a pain they were.

    Michele

  • IremiaRe
    IremiaRe Posts: 794 Member
    edited March 16

    Hi All;

    I am a little bummed out, because the first contractor who was supposed to come and bid the job couldn't come because his plumber flaked out. This does not bode well… but, I have rescheduled for next Saturday.

    Between now and then, I have three other contractors scheduled, and two more on Sunday. Is contractors not working on Saturday a thing? Or are all the local contractors here Seventh Day Adventists? I have two separate companies coming on Sunday because they don't work on Saturdays. No skin off my nose - just curious.

    So, I am vacuuming the dust out of the windowsills and generally trying to find someplace to put the last of the "stuff" that was in the closet.

    Of course, the only reason I have time to be here, now, is that he didn't come… so, silver lining.

    Lanette - I am with you on Silliness, Shenanigans and Misbehavior!

    Lisa - That's a lot of math. I just sort of stumble around and do what works - which is, always, a calorie deficit - until it stops working - then I try something else. How much of a deficit is the only question. I have changed my calories to 1500 for now. That will get me to the vicinity of the magical 150 pounds, eventually - and hopefully after a year or so at the same calories - I will be in the habit of how to eat at that level. I think that I am going to have to find a few minutes for some kind of exercise, though - if only to keep all the muscles and joints working. Once the house project is done, I should have a little more free time - however, I suspect I wont' have any money left… LOL.

    Michelle - it helps if you're starting at 255 - its SUPER easy to eat at a calorie deficit… plus I am eating low carb. Not crazy low carb - but leaning into the protein and avoiding bread, rice and potatoes, entirely. You know, all the really good stuff… LOL For me, carbs are like crack. If I avoid them, it's much better for me. I hope you can keep some of the fun with the ceramics… I used to go to a beading group once a week and it was a great deal of fun. That was the whole point. Who knows, though - maybe the other gal will step up.

    Rebecca - I am not a hardcore IF person. If I drank my coffee black, maybe I could be - but, I like it creamy and sweet…. so, protein shake it is. But, I have never been a breakfast person… so afternoon/evening is when I eat. Since I am staying in Ketosis most all the time, anyway with the low carb - it's all good - at least so far. If I find myself in a plateau situation, I may rethink that - but, I am trying to make this resumed journey as painless as possible… the less pain, the more likely I am to keep doing it.

    Allie - that grandbaby is beautiful! Now go take a nap!

    Rita - ((hugs))

    All right Lovely Ladies - back to the project. I have to get that done so I can swab out the kitchen. The new first contractors come tomorrow starting at 4pm.

    Happy Sunday!

    Re in TX

  • IremiaRe
    IremiaRe Posts: 794 Member

    Michelle - yes, the contractor let me know several hours in advance that he hadn't been able to reach the plumber so he canceled rather than waiting until the last minute. We'll have to see if the plumber flakes out, again… that will spell this contractors doom, no matter how good the bid is.

    Goodnight, Ladies - tomorrow is another busy day.

    Re in TX

  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,214 Member

    Everyone take care Sue in WA

  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 13,343 Member

    Yesterday's little outing did me so much good! Out in the beautiful sunshine, seeing happy people enjoying themselves, and WALKING with very little discomfort. I even walked down the long shop stairs like a normal person, (holding on to the banister😅) It was me who suggested walking downhill to The Lanes to buy the chocolates, which I would have avoided before. Coming back up, I did feel a little breathless, but I can work on that.

    It's the simple things in life. Being out with John was something we needed. It was good of him to suggest he go with me, and I almost turned him down. Then I remembered the Gottman's 'bids' for closeness and said a warm 'yes'. We don't do a lot together, apart from the grandchildren, and we spend most of our day in separate rooms. Whenever we do a mutual activity, it brings us together. I know he would like to do more. Nice to come back with our £1 bunch of daffodils! Of course, the sunshine helped! 🤩

    Today, for lunch, we will be having some of the heavenly sourdough, wholegrain, granary bread I bought. It weighs a ton! John can finish off the mackerel and I will have prosciutto. I might cut the loaf in half and freeze some. Tonight is M&S's famous breaded chunky cod fillets. A blast from the past for me, as we used to have it a lot in London. I always have it with their tzatziki, and broccoli. Memory lane.

    Tracey - I love the idea of your videos. I relax by watching travel videos. Yesterday, on TV, Alice Roberts was in Greece, touring the ancient sights, such as Delphi. I also went to Monaco with Mr Carrington on YouTube. 😎 Max is going on a school trip to Greece in October, visiting all the ancient sites, so I must tell him it's on. If I had your snowy winter clinging on, I would need a dose of relaxing sunshine too! Gambolling lambs sounds just the ticket!

    Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx

  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 2,017 Member

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  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 13,343 Member

    My son rang just now. My ex still has some infection somewhere, but they can't find the source. They are stopping the IV antibiotics for a while to see what happens. The MRI was clear. Apparently he is skeletal.

    We are doing the school pick up on Thursday instead of Tuesday this week, as it's Parents Evening for Max. I expect we will get fish and chips for us to eat.

    My son has invited us to lunch on Mother's Day, 30th March. He may not be able to do it as he may be up with his dad, but he is anticipating being here to cook. Nice!

    I expect we will get our days mixed up this week.!!!!!! I have my girlfriends' Zoom on Wednesday.

    Cleaner this pm. Chat with L scheduled for 4pm.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx