GUYS: what do u want in a woman?

I think if I find a woman who's in better shape than me, that'll be the end all.

Not that I'm in fantastic shape, but try to eat better, and exercise more than most. And I can think of maybe 2 girls I know that actually go to the gym and touch a weight. Actually, I know only 2 that go to the gym period.

And a body like this

Yes like this one, I sense a lot of jealous b*#%@!

I think if I find a woman who's in better shape than me, that'll be the end all.

Not that I'm in fantastic shape, but try to eat better, and exercise more than most. And I can think of maybe 2 girls I know that actually go to the gym and touch a weight. Actually, I know only 2 that go to the gym period.

And a body like this

she looks disgusting. just absolutely disturbing. what happen to women looking like sexy curvy goddess with round butts and dd's. why do they want to look like concentration camp victims? guess i'm old school. thank god hubby agrees.

Please do not pat yourself on the back. You are not "old school". You are immature and terribly insecure, talking *kitten* about another woman's body and then making yourself feel better by dragging your husband into the equation.

What's really amusing about this pic is that the girl in the pic would not look exactly like that if she was standing up. The angle she is holding the camera at, is making her body look leaner. Sure, she is a slim girl, but this photo is not a true representation of her body. Her legs are positioned to look slimmer, her hips are sticking out because she is laying down and her ribs are also sticking out because she is stretching her torso to take the pic. It's just another photo representing a female body type that is unrealistic for most women, including the one in the pic. As a mom with a young daughter, who is quickly learning from TV and other media to hate her body, I find it rather sad.

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You know what I find sad is that a grown woman can smugly talk about another woman she doesn't know, pick her body and picture apart, and then try to sound like she can't fathom why her daughter hates her body.

I think if I find a woman who's in better shape than me, that'll be the end all.

Not that I'm in fantastic shape, but try to eat better, and exercise more than most. And I can think of maybe 2 girls I know that actually go to the gym and touch a weight. Actually, I know only 2 that go to the gym period.

And a body like this

I don`t think she looks discusting but it sounds like you`re much more my type.

she looks disgusting. just absolutely disturbing. what happen to women looking like sexy curvy goddess with round butts and dd's. why do they want to look like concentration camp victims? guess i'm old school. thank god hubby agrees.

That is my picture. And I am perfectly healthy. I weigh 135, and i'm 5'7''. It is because i'm lying down that my ribs are sticking out. I've worked hard over my entire life and I was a college athlete. I also lost 70 pounds - healthily - over the course of 2 years. Thanks for calling me disgusting though.

Don't worry about a thing, you look awesome! Jealousy is always going to rear its ugly head!

TKN11 is a sample of heaven on Earth!

Agreed. Lots of ppl sipping on the haterade.

tkn11 is a fabulous friend, a fantastic athlete, and HEALTHY.

I want a woman who takes care of herself, spiritually, mentally, physically, and financially.

Spiritually, respects and lives by her own morals.
Mentally, is optimistic, not a hater.
Physically, is at or near her optimal weight, and is active, and cares about her appearance.
Financially, lives within her means and has a stellar FICO score.

Can't we all just get along!

Happy Thanksgiving

135 at 5'7" is a perfectly healthy, excellent weight.

My ribs and hip bones stick out when I lay down too. And my legs look skinny. Gravity is fun.

this is what i wanna look like. a fit pear shaped woman! now this is sexy



skinny, curvy, chubby...all women are beautiful! none the less

I AM SOOOO JEALOUS OF BEYOUNCE! SHE HAS GOT SUCH A BOD ON HER! and jennifer lopez. sometimes.... AND BIG TIME KIM KARD!

Hubby crushes hard on beyounce. how could you not? shes so pretty!

I think if I find a woman who's in better shape than me, that'll be the end all.

Not that I'm in fantastic shape, but try to eat better, and exercise more than most. And I can think of maybe 2 girls I know that actually go to the gym and touch a weight. Actually, I know only 2 that go to the gym period.

And a body like this

she looks disgusting. just absolutely disturbing. what happen to women looking like sexy curvy goddess with round butts and dd's. why do they want to look like concentration camp victims? guess i'm old school. thank god hubby agrees.

What happened to curvy bodies and round butts and DDs..? Is that they are still over weight!! ..they get diabetes,,heart conditions..high blood pressure...I applaud those who accept their chunky curves and feel sexy That's GREAT but at the end of the day its still unhealthy!! I, myself, have dropped a ton of weight..People say I look great...and compared to what I was...I do!! BUT I am STILL at 158lbs ..UNHEALTHY!!!!...5'2" I should be between 104 and 130lbs!!! You can equate "curves" with sexy all you like..you can put down skinny women all you like...that end of the day..She will live to be 80...others...not so long...(And of course your hubby agrees with you...what else can he say?? "No Babe you're too fat for me I prefer her??" Yeah..he might be saying one thing and thinking another)

I think if I find a woman who's in better shape than me, that'll be the end all.

Not that I'm in fantastic shape, but try to eat better, and exercise more than most. And I can think of maybe 2 girls I know that actually go to the gym and touch a weight. Actually, I know only 2 that go to the gym period.

And a body like this

she looks disgusting. just absolutely disturbing. what happen to women looking like sexy curvy goddess with round butts and dd's. why do they want to look like concentration camp victims? guess i'm old school. thank god hubby agrees.

She is one of my MFP friends ands works her *kitten* of supporting her friends and she is beautiful! Nobody should belittle anyone on here because individual tastes are different.

someone nice and kind who likes me for me i.e. doesn't care I am a big guy.... I am yet to find one though :ohwell:

There is someone out there for you somewhere!!! I started dating my husband at nearly 300 lbs!! Even now he is about 270 (he would kill me for telling people that). I love him for him and you'll find your lady too!

honest, trustworthy, outgoing, active, sane, independent, attractive to me, not insecure about herself. (forgot non smoker & no kids from previous relationships)

I think that's about it.

P.S my hip bones stick out on TKN11's angle also. Umad?

A woman who is smart, funny, loves the outdoors, animals, likes to travel, she must have her stuff together and not have emotional baggage, children from a previous relationship or relationships, she must be intofitness, must have a job, must have a car and doesn't talk about herself or work 24/7 and doesn't have to take 2 hours to get ready to go somewhere. She has to be as comfortable in jeans or sweats as she is a dress?

umm have we met? i think u just described me

ok maybe i take 1 hour to get ready but that's pretty normal for girls

Hey one hour is great, it's something I can live with, lol

Most girls I know take very little time to get ready. My bf takes WAY longer than I do to get ready. I take a good 20 min, maybe 30 if its for a wedding.

I will agree that body fat % is the best way to calculate being fatty versus fit.

But health isn't necessarily that. Health has a lot to do with your heart (which body fat % doesn't calculate - it only somewhat effects) and also a lot to do with simple genes (another thing body fat % doesn't calculate).

To say that someone is unhealthy because they have curves is wrong. Same like calling some one anorexic because they are thin.

Umm all the hating and jealousy = :sick:

I guess if you've never been thin, you wouldn't know that your hipbones stick out like that when you're lying down.

I've been thin....I weighed 130 at 5'3" but my hip bones never stuck out like that. I'm definitely not jealous, I just stated that it wasn't 'attractive' in my opinion.

I agreed. i am 5'4, (130 now, been 115, 120, etc, its according) and have been 103lbs before(when i was getting into drugs in my teen years), still never had my bones stick out like that lying down. neither did my ex-anorexic sister at her worst (bad) I'm not jealous, not of her. I'm jealous of what i can NOT have, like a 20 in waist cute piggy toes a button nose, two arms even (when i want to fix my hair) not of that. ANYONE CAN LOOK LIKE THAT IF THEY STOP EATING LONG ENOUGH.

NOW, i have had friends who were naturally super thin, i felt bad, they hated it. one tried eating as much as she could for weeks and couldnt gain. she would cry so hard, she hated it. all three of them did. the one bought her curves later and feels a bit better now. i think that there are different ideas of beauty, and 12 yr old pre-pubescent skeleton bones is just not mine. sexy comic book hero chicks, pin ups, play boys, lingerie models (not vs ones, to thin now) beyonce, kim kard, those are girls i envy. or super fit ones like beil. love jessica beil. still underweight, but so pretty and fit. fit, toned, thats attractive, bones (to me) just are not. I'm sorry. no offense to anyone. i wish everyone a fab holiday, a great nights sleep, and a long and peaceful life. xo