Worst negative comment about your weight?

I didnt realize you were expecting......

When my second son was about 8 months old I went to visit my parents in Virginia. When my Dad picked me up at the airport his first words were, "Man, you've gotten fat"...I was a size 7 back then.

Two more kids and years later he wouldn't dare say anything to me like that because his belly is huge! He does still pick on my sister though. He went to see her last Easter and told her how fat she was...now she doesn't invite him over any more...great job Dad.

Let's see... Like all there have been many....
I get very fustrated when people think I'm fat because I sit around all day and eat junk...and that just isn't the case.... I can admit at times I have given up on myself and given into the tempation because" I'm fat already...what the H#LL"... but a lot of my weight gain has been as a result of medical issues.... and definitly food addiction...I'm not discounting it.... as well as I got fatter my family decided to question everything that went into my mouth...so I began to eat less and less..because that is what I do... (thank god my hubby loves me for who I am)

So comment wise....
I have had my father tell me what a disapointment I am to him because I'm fat...
I have also had him eat a chocolate bar infront of me (which I didn't really notice) until he told me he was going to get me one, but then decided I was too fat so I didn't need one. (he himself is overweight but refuses to see it because he still wears the same size pants he did when he was 20...what he doesn't take into account is he needs suspenders to hold them up)
My mother is extreamly negative and will quite often just make snide remarks... or mean jest. Also quite often at family gatherings if I decide to indulge in a desert if she knows it is for me she will make quite a show about only giving me a mouthful and make sure everyone in earshot knows why she is doing it.... and that while she is looking out for me...I'm just way too fat.....
If we are at a resterant I have had her grab the server after my order and change me order to a salad with no dressing.... (this at age 34) its not like I live with her. as a result I tend to not go out with her.
I had a boss who would contiunally make a point of pointing out how she would have to make a special order for lab coats in order to account for my size! She would regulaly make these comments at department meetings.... When confronted she stated she did it with my best intereset in mind....

Sorry... I can see i ended up venting but I guess it's been stored in there... Thanks for understanding

My husband (who is wonderful but has terrible foot-in-mouth disease) once told me that he didn't think I was attractive even though he was attracted to me.
I've heard nastier things, but that was the worst because it came from someone I care about.

My boyfriend's 'friend' told him I wasn't pretty or skinny enough to be his girlfriend...Nice! And he wonders why I can't stand him...

At my heaviest I was asked by a custoemr at the bank if I was pregnant, when I said no he actually fought with me saying I was lying to him and why cant I admit i'm having a baby. I told him In a nice but stern dont f**** with me voice, I am not pregnant. His reply......Oh sorry I guess you really stopped caring and packed a ton of weight on then!! really?????? Any time I have motovational issues I think ofthat comment, about 25lbs down from then!!:smooched:

Whatta @sshat!

I never really heard anything while I was fat...except from my daughter lol
I get insulted more now.
"You're head looks too big for your body"
"You're a good looking woman, but if you had bigger boobs you'd look a lot better"
"Why's your chest look so boney"
"You're not proportional anymore"

hmm, would have to be right at my BIGGEST weight. I was told I wasnt nasty fat just over weight. hmmmm?!?

Also, my husband brings up my weight when things arnt going good. I have recently told him to look in the mirror...not a 6 pack he is carring. :0) Im now 22 lbs down and still over weight but feel great about myself.

I remember in highschool being told that I had a "gut"

an old boyfriend hung pictures on the fridge and told me he wanted me to be like the pictures...He would grab my plate and toss it (across the floor)...Then he would beat me to a pulp and make threats to try and get me thin....It didnt work.....I sent him to prison instead for a long long time.......That is why i cannot post pictures......
Other negative comments from other pple were: You have such beautiful blue eyes, if only you lost some weight...
you could be a model, If you would lose weight.....Fatty Fatty two by four, couldn't through the kitchen door....You name it its been said....Now i just say that they must be really insecure with themselves if they have to make fun of me......

I had a backhanded compliment hehe. An older lady who was a complete stranger said "you dress lovely for a big lady".

Was having fun but cried all night after that!