Wanting to lose weight, but likes the bigger guys...?

TimeToDoMe87
TimeToDoMe87 Posts: 62
edited November 9 in Chit-Chat
So I'm a thicker girl obviously... I work out eat healthy and am determined to lose weight and look and feel great.

But, when the guys I like try to do the same thing I lose a bit of interest... I Think I'm a chubby chaser. Not like I like HUGE men that just don't care. But I like the thicker, more meat kind of guys.

Is it just me? Is it weird?

I find it weird ;)
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  • mamamc03
    mamamc03 Posts: 1,067 Member
    Thick girl...whatever!! You're a beauty!! As for a chubby chaser...you fall in love with who you fall in love with. Good for you for not being shallow...BUT do you go after them because you think less of yourself and dont think you are deserving, or are you truly turned on by their personality?
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    It is the carnal sense of safety and feeling safe around a big guy. Makes sense.
  • Miss♥Ivi
    Miss♥Ivi Posts: 461
    Omg no. I'm exactly the same! I can't see myself with a small, thin guy. I don't even like an overload of muscles.

    My hubby <3

    carriage-1.jpg

    mybaby-1.jpg

    :blushing:
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    My wife would prefer me to be thicker and muscular rather, I think I look better when I'm leaner and muscular.

    My body, my preference wins.
  • sruffin9834
    sruffin9834 Posts: 80
    Where have you been all of my life! I need to find someone like you. I say that because even at my ideal weight, I am still above my suggested weight by the charts standards and the doctors. So if we were to get together even when I'm at my happy weight, you will be happy because I would still have a little meat on my bones!:blushing:

    Match made in weight heaven!:blushing:
  • TimeToDoMe87
    TimeToDoMe87 Posts: 62
    Thick girl...whatever!! You're a beauty!! As for a chubby chaser...you fall in love with who you fall in love with. Good for you for not being shallow...BUT do you go after them because you think less of yourself and dont think you are deserving, or are you truly turned on by their personality?

    Awe Thank You!!! Well... I Had a muscular boyfriend for about 7 years and we just didn't click, but I have had guys that were chubbier not OBESE but 6ft 2 and about 240 or so... And I found our personalities matched better, and I could be myself more around them... I think even if I came down to 130 or so pounds I'd find myself looking at bigger men. I like it like that.
  • TimeToDoMe87
    TimeToDoMe87 Posts: 62
    :heart:
  • TimeToDoMe87
    TimeToDoMe87 Posts: 62
    Where have you been all of my life! I need to find someone like you. I say that because even at my ideal weight, I am still above my suggested weight by the charts standards and the doctors. So if we were to get together even when I'm at my happy weight, you will be happy because I would still have a little meat on my bones!:blushing:

    Match made in weight heaven!:blushing:
    LOL sounds like it would be huh :love:
  • TimeToDoMe87
    TimeToDoMe87 Posts: 62
    Omg no. I'm exactly the same! I can't see myself with a small, thin guy. I don't even like an overload of muscles.

    My hubby <3

    carriage-1.jpg

    mybaby-1.jpg

    :blushing:

    I love it!!! Very cute and adoring couple... and I couldn't agree more. I don't like them small or thin. And muscles intimidate me
  • rammsteinsoldier
    rammsteinsoldier Posts: 1,552 Member
    I agree with you. I like bigger men. I feel protect and they are great to snuggle with. A big bear of a guy is perfect for me.
  • mamamc03
    mamamc03 Posts: 1,067 Member
    Thick girl...whatever!! You're a beauty!! As for a chubby chaser...you fall in love with who you fall in love with. Good for you for not being shallow...BUT do you go after them because you think less of yourself and dont think you are deserving, or are you truly turned on by their personality?

    Awe Thank You!!! Well... I Had a muscular boyfriend for about 7 years and we just didn't click, but I have had guys that were chubbier not OBESE but 6ft 2 and about 240 or so... And I found our personalities matched better, and I could be myself more around them... I think even if I came down to 130 or so pounds I'd find myself looking at bigger men. I like it like that.

    I agree though. I dated a slender guy in high school for a year...and it was just weird. Guys that are softer seem to be more supportive and fun loving than the muscular or skeletor guys.
  • Miss♥Ivi
    Miss♥Ivi Posts: 461
    Thank you!! :smile:

    He's the cheese to my macaroni :heart:
  • albinogorilla
    albinogorilla Posts: 1,056 Member
    nothing wrong with being a chubby chaser................muscular girls or skinny girls never turned my head.............I have always preferred my ladies soft............
  • TimeToDoMe87
    TimeToDoMe87 Posts: 62
    nothing wrong with being a chubby chaser................muscular girls or skinny girls never turned my head.............I have always preferred my ladies soft............

    its nice to read a guy admit to that too... I like my men soft too. I feel protected and feels better when cuddling !! I get butterflies just thinking about it. haha
  • hsmithway
    hsmithway Posts: 191
    I like that my husband is a little bit thicker these days, though we were both really buff when we started dating. Some of it's attraction, because he's just so darn *cuddly* now, but some of it is insecurity. I feel smaller next to a bigger guy, and dating really skinny guys always made me feel like a cow, even when I was in decent shape, lol
  • misskerouac
    misskerouac Posts: 2,242 Member
    My husband is slender but MAN do i have a crush on Dan Connor (John Goodman on Roseanne lol) and I LOVED Drew Carey (before he got skinny)
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    WOW then you girls would love me! haha! There are allot of women that like bigger men. I have always been complimented because I have a nice looking face, and I am big and tall. lol
  • TimeToDoMe87
    TimeToDoMe87 Posts: 62
    My husband is slender but MAN do i have a crush on Dan Connor (John Goodman on Roseanne lol) and I LOVED Drew Carey (before he got skinny)

    oh i know what you mean... I crush on Kevin James like you wouldn't believe! he is so cute. <3
  • Miss♥Ivi
    Miss♥Ivi Posts: 461
    Kevin James is adorable. I have a crush on Adam from Man vs food lol Soooo bad :smooched:
  • Fockertots
    Fockertots Posts: 221
    Kevin James is adorable. I have a crush on Adam from Man vs food lol Soooo bad :smooched:

    Adam is the man o'my dreams.
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    <<<<< Currently chubby.
  • Wendi_S
    Wendi_S Posts: 489 Member
    My husband is slender but MAN do i have a crush on Dan Connor (John Goodman on Roseanne lol) and I LOVED Drew Carey (before he got skinny)

    Yes, Drew Carey!!!! :heart:
  • RAFValentina
    RAFValentina Posts: 1,231 Member
    I'm exactly the same! You don;t look big in your pic though!
  • Elizabeth_M
    Elizabeth_M Posts: 562 Member
    No, i want to be with a guy who is bigger than me. If they wear jeans smaller than me, I would feel like an amazon. BUT, having said that, I still want them to be healthy, and, you fall in love with who you fall in love with!

    My hubby is bigger than me, football shoulders (and a big tummy to boot lol) and I like feeling 'protected'.
  • BigPapaGato
    BigPapaGato Posts: 96 Member
    Omg no. I'm exactly the same! I can't see myself with a small, thin guy. I don't even like an overload of muscles.

    My hubby <3

    carriage-1.jpg

    mybaby-1.jpg

    :blushing:

    Is that Carlos I see in that picture? If so... Tell him Gato says whattup!
  • sf08003
    sf08003 Posts: 30
    Nope, no weird at all. I like 'em too! Always have, always will. :happy: Same thing. I like 'em with meat on their bones. Just not sloppy.
  • rinangel
    rinangel Posts: 35
    the love of my life is a chubber...but I ADORE him so!!!
    go for what you love , who cares what fashion magazines try to sell us all.....
    and by the way...please you are not that thick yourself! :)
  • luckybunny84
    luckybunny84 Posts: 82
    I am the same way. I prefer guys with a barrel chest and strong arms, but I get completely turned off buy 6 pack abs. I am actually kind of sad to see my boyfriends beer belly getting smaller, but I dont tel him that :)
  • OliviaJoey1
    OliviaJoey1 Posts: 18
    I'm the same way! When me and hubby got together we were both thin,NOW 12 years later - I'm trying to loose weight, and I find him very HOT! He is not a huge man just has some meat on his bones! I think it is all what you like, but on the other hand I think Larry the Cable guy is good looking, and I think Dale Jr is Hot, so I guess I like my rednecks! I just know what you are saying, I've never been attracted to the buffy guys maybe in High School but I was 90 pounds so every guy was built with muscles! Go for what makes u happy! Sorry I'm tired and just ramblin!
  • keddabee
    keddabee Posts: 81
    My partner is just a bit taller than me and is smaller than me but hey I dont care I love him to bits! I have always chased the bigger guys and felt attracted to them but I found that they never had much interest in sex? Anyone else find that?
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