If someone called you attractive

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  • YassSpartan
    YassSpartan Posts: 1,195 Member
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    A major compliment for me :)
  • maryjay51
    maryjay51 Posts: 742
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    i take it as a compliment and always say' thank you for the nice compliment '
  • gazz777au
    gazz777au Posts: 157 Member
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    I have a low self esteem so I would think they were full of *kitten*. I say thank you, and then wonder what in the hell they were trying to kiss up for.
    This
  • Miss♥Ivi
    Miss♥Ivi Posts: 461
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    Ivi is attractive but she is from another state, doesnt work out that well for me. hah

    Awwwwwww lol thank you Louis :blushing:
  • Luckldy31
    Luckldy31 Posts: 34 Member
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    attractive to me is like "well...you're not ugly..." but it's way better than "you have a lot of other things going for you..."
  • keg619
    keg619 Posts: 356 Member
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    I've never really been complimented so it's hard for me to just accept it. It was usually jokes in school! But this past week has been strange, quite a few people talking to me and complimenting me. A guy came up to me at my work, gave me a card and said, "this is for you because you have a great smile, and you made my entire day so much better." The card included a thoughtfully written note, along with his name and number. Another customer at my work came up to me and asked if I was the model for the company. Unfortunately all the men that have complimented me have been far too old for me to call. If only I can attract those young fellows ;) But it would absolutely be a compliment!
  • sarahbear1981
    sarahbear1981 Posts: 610 Member
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    at·trac·tive
       [uh-trak-tiv]

    adjective
    1.
    providing pleasure or delight, especially in appearance or manner; pleasing; charming; alluring: an attractive personality.

    I would say based upon the definition of the word it is most definitely a compliment.
  • CSummers316
    CSummers316 Posts: 74
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    Compliment, and then I would give them the pre-agreed to $25.... BAZINGA!!!
  • becoming_a_new_me
    becoming_a_new_me Posts: 1,860 Member
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    I've never really been complimented so it's hard for me to just accept it. It was usually jokes in school! But this past week has been strange, quite a few people talking to me and complimenting me. A guy came up to me at my work, gave me a card and said, "this is for you because you have a great smile, and you made my entire day so much better." The card included a thoughtfully written note, along with his name and number. Another customer at my work came up to me and asked if I was the model for the company. Unfortunately all the men that have complimented me have been far too old for me to call. If only I can attract those young fellows ;) But it would absolutely be a compliment!

    You are stunning! I am not surprised you have been getting compliments...you deserve them!
  • firesoforion
    firesoforion Posts: 1,017 Member
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    Just on its own? Complement. Added to other stuff? I'll judge according to circumstances. Usually I try to take things as a complement, though, no use in overanalyzing them. :)
  • mariobrochill
    mariobrochill Posts: 19
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    lol. oh yes! def take it as a compliment haha.
  • iamsam373
    iamsam373 Posts: 9
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    Today one of my coworkers said that a customer was "attractive." He totally had the hots for her! I think its just not a term that people use as often these days. Definitely a compliment though.
  • tmarie2715
    tmarie2715 Posts: 1,111 Member
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    I'd rather be called attractive than hot. Contextually I think being called hot is kind of sexual, where attractive is much more conversational and polite if it is coming from a stranger. I am not comfortable with strangers coming on to me sexually.

    I'd call it a win, though! :)
  • blueandigo
    blueandigo Posts: 296
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    Ask them to marry me.
  • misscaligreen
    misscaligreen Posts: 819 Member
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    Absolutely a compliment! But somewhere deep inside I'd be wondering if they were just saying that.
    such honesty...... BUT you shouldn't wonder... you really are a beautiful girl :)
  • WickedGarden
    WickedGarden Posts: 944 Member
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    I was always told I was ugly when I was growing up. By my mother, kids at school, etc, so I have a really hard time taking compliments.

    So one of two things happen:
    a) I either get really embarrassed and mumble 'thanks' or make a joke, "oh you're just saying that!"

    or

    b) get really creeped out because a creepy drunk old guy is saying it.
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
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    Maybe I'm misunderstanding the question. But how can someone telling you that you're attractive not be a compliment?

    I may question the judgement or taste of the person complimenting me, but never the sincerity.
  • AntoniaK89
    AntoniaK89 Posts: 29
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    Absolutely a compliment! But somewhere deep inside I'd be wondering if they were just saying that.

    Totally!
  • tataliciousd89
    tataliciousd89 Posts: 465
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    I would say I know, lol. And no I'm not conceited, I just love myself.
  • _Ben
    _Ben Posts: 1,608 Member
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    All depends on who. Most the time, given my life, I wouldnt take it to serious. People dont really just walk up to you and say, you're attractive, at least not often

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