Guys....when you send a FR to a girl....

in all honesty this has been said numerous times before, we are guys, what more can you expect from us? Sending you the "hey you're hot" is better than sending you the "God what I would do to you..." message. All of you want to know why we would want to be friends, what are we suppose to write?? Hey, I want to be friends because you seem like you have been successful? well where will that conversation ever lead in friendship? to me just asking you for advice? I mean honestly i think this is a pointless post haha, and i mean if it was something derogatory said in a message okay I can see that but this is just stupid...you started working out and eating healthy to be a healthier person, which you knew looking better would come with the territory. if you dont like the compliments than take your pictures off of MFP and save them to you computer....

end of rant...

I just want to thank everyone who contributed..... I've never laughed so hard in all my life. I actually got dizzy a few times!! Oh and to the guy who said "I just FR for ideas and support..." Yeah what you doin in this thread then?? I'm sure you read playboy for the articles too! I needed a good laugh!! Mission accomplished!!! <and I shared it too!>

This is a funny thread. I don' t have to worry yet about ulterior motives. Friend away!

I don't mind the "you're hot" FR, but if I find the person boring otherwise I usually ignore them. It's usually evident after 3 messages.

"You're hot."
"Thanks. Is that usually one of your prerequisites to adding someone as a friend here?"
"LOL"
"Did that really make you laugh out loud?"
"LOL...i love funny hot chicks."
*delete*

LOL

Exactly. You proved my point.

I love proving a hot chicks point. But you're all I got at the moment.

i think I just got dissed.

You totally got dissed! But I think "you're hot"

I'll go get the baby oil.

Bring your tripod! Assuming, of course, that you want to apply the baby oil for us and your hands will be too slippery to hold the camera.

I always point out that I am typing my request one handed.....

^^^^ WINNER^^^^ thats so funny.. took me a second to get it though...

One time I typed it no handed but it looked more like.. iksa tyypoiunmgh thiusd weith mno hands

omg!!

Soo many comments on here about girls showing themselves off but being put off by being leered at. I'm genuinely surprised.

Seriously people, these women want to show off their achievements, but that doesn't meen they want you to spend all day trolling through their profile pics and screaming their name while belting the underside of your desk.

I couldn't care what people look like on here. Yes I have several attractive people in my friends list, and I am happy to compliment them on their looks and/or acheivements. But never have I wanted to fill up my home page with pics of hot girls - that's not what I'm here for!

If you are hot and a raving nutter, or are frequently inactive, you're still hitting the trash pile.

Ok, now on topic :P. I have only sent a couple of invitations to females on here, and usually based on them having posted something I found useful on the forums. To date I have only had one declin/no response... you know who you are!!! :huh:

I enjoy compliments. But it is probably different coming from a woman vs. sending to a woman.

I enjoy compliments too.

I think some people are just to full of themselves. Get a lil humble.

one time i wrote "nice *kitten*". :laugh:

I sent that to a woman once. She denied me....

That made me lol for real.

Does being an MFP friend really do anything anyway? I feel extremely removed from my MFP friends!

Editd to add - I wll gladly accept any guy who tells me I am hot. Just sayin'....

ACK!!!! Don't tell them these secrets...if they PRETEND to be normal non-creeps, I'll accept their FR's in error! At least when they ACT like creeps, I know to hit the decline button!

I agree!

That's why my FRs say "I don't think you're hot, but I can only see so much through your curtains."

:noway:
:frown:
:sad:
There's no smiley for "phobia of someone looking through the windows in the evening."

There's also no smiley for sarcasm and a sense of humor.

Love it!

But seriously, what else do we really have to go on??? You have a sexy profile pic up, naturally we're going to be drawn to that, and chances are, that's all we have to go on since we are not yet friends. You ladies are too hard on guys for being guys. A friend request is sent, to get to know you and your fitness beliefs........now, if after accepting, a guy makes inappropriate comments, then cut him free. But dont assume a guy is a *kitten* because he compliments you on how you look when sending a fr.

^^That. exactly.

Kinda half to agree. Especially since most of the profile pics are half naked with an emphasis on boob!

so.. you WANT me to look at your cleavage but you dont want me to say anything like your hot or sexy in a FR? Even if I'm looking at your eyes in your picture when I do it? Man.. chicks ought to come withe instruction manuals.

So true...so true...

Does being an MFP friend really do anything anyway? I feel extremely removed from my MFP friends!

Editd to add - I wll gladly accept any guy who tells me I am hot. Just sayin'....

Your Hot!

That's why my FRs say "I don't think you're hot, but I can only see so much through your curtains."

:noway:
:frown:
:sad:
There's no smiley for "phobia of someone looking through the windows in the evening."

There's also no smiley for sarcasm and a sense of humor.