Guys....when you send a FR to a girl....

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  • tageekly
    tageekly Posts: 3,755 Member
    Who is sending these to you and not to me?! Really now... :ohwell:

    I'm lactose intolerant so I'd have to deny that one.
  • yvonnej1
    yvonnej1 Posts: 904 Member
    Man.. chicks ought to come withe instruction manuals.

    We do, men just never read manuals...

    If there weren't revisions every 2 hours, maybe we could keep up!

    j/k :-D

    Men don't read manuals! lol They look at the pictures!
    Karma Sutra?

    *kama sutra* not karma. And no.

    That's the one that goes around and comes around. :-D

    classic :laugh:
  • erikblock
    erikblock Posts: 230 Member
    And girls: When you send a friend request to a guy, please DO say "it's because you look hot." Even if you don't mean it. :)
  • sjmgde
    sjmgde Posts: 381 Member
    I'd like to chip my tooth on your stomach?

    How's that?

    CREEPY CLOWN GUY> NIGHTMARES LOL
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I would be okay with it

    As long as he was hot too
  • tageekly
    tageekly Posts: 3,755 Member
    And girls: When you send a friend request to a guy, please DO say "it's because you look hot." Even if you don't mean it. :)

    That's what I wasn't doing right! Ctrl + C and saving this note for later...
  • hedgiie
    hedgiie Posts: 1,226 Member
    ok, i'll drop the "you look hot", instead i'll replace it with "you look smart" maybe it will work.

    now if you will send me a friend request can you please say "you look hot" "I like your booty" or anything hot?
  • dictations
    dictations Posts: 199
    But seriously, what else do we really have to go on??? You have a sexy profile pic up, naturally we're going to be drawn to that, and chances are, that's all we have to go on since we are not yet friends. You ladies are too hard on guys for being guys. A friend request is sent, to get to know you and your fitness beliefs........now, if after accepting, a guy makes inappropriate comments, then cut him free. But dont assume a guy is a *kitten* because he compliments you on how you look when sending a fr.

    EXACTLY!
    Ladies, don't lie, you know you like it at least a TINY bit to be complemented on your *kitten*. ^___^
  • hennyben
    hennyben Posts: 313 Member
    Can't see why anyone would have a problem with being told their hot - male or female. The men want to be told they're hot, the women secretly do but we like to pretend we don't because that is not why we want to lose weight and get the perfect body - to not be told we're hot...
  • WifeNMama
    WifeNMama Posts: 2,876 Member
    That's why my FRs say "I don't think you're hot, but I can only see so much through your curtains." :tongue:
    :noway:
    :frown:
    :sad:
    There's no smiley for "phobia of someone looking through the windows in the evening."
  • BoxingCoachMo
    BoxingCoachMo Posts: 420
    .....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

    it is the fastest way to be declined.

    But thank you for the compliment

    i tell them that, doesn't get me declined ;) lol
  • lq022
    lq022 Posts: 232 Member
    If only friend requests could be sent with a shot of patron and strobe lights ... thats when i do my best work =)
  • littlepinkhearts
    littlepinkhearts Posts: 1,055 Member
    That's why my FRs say "I don't think you're hot, but I can only see so much through your curtains." :tongue:

    haha that's cute :P
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    Lol. At least pretend you are interested in our brains.

    "I find your intellect to be incredibly arousing."

    Would that suffice? :)

    ...very. :]
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
    I like to send tactful FRs.

    Like "I find your intelligence and wit so attractive. Can I motorboat them?"
  • auticus
    auticus Posts: 1,051 Member
    lmao

    riiiiiiiiiiiight
  • mattkellett
    mattkellett Posts: 82
    I like to send tactful FRs.

    Like "I find your intelligence and wit so attractive. Can I motorboat them?"

    well played!
  • Rokwell
    Rokwell Posts: 143
    Okay let me get this right. MANY women on here dress halk naked, showing their body parts(not progress pics) and you want someone to talk about how smart you are...lol. If you're a woman and you are not doing this, then i get your point but if you have sleezy pics on your page...be real with yourself.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    .....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

    it is the fastest way to be declined.

    But thank you for the compliment
    Agreed... 110% (also with the "At least pretend you are interested in our brains" thing)


    And I *love* the responses to this post. My boss gave me a funny look because I laughed out loud. Oops
  • meganmarie21
    meganmarie21 Posts: 11
    Hilarious!
  • Fit4Evolution
    Fit4Evolution Posts: 375 Member
    I FR just for support and ideas .. :)
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    I enjoy compliments. But it is probably different coming from a woman vs. sending to a woman.
  • Mommareed4
    Mommareed4 Posts: 144
    LOL.
  • catic
    catic Posts: 156
    It's ok, tell me it's because I"m hot. I'm not gonna complain as long as your hot too. LOL
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I enjoy compliments. But it is probably different coming from a woman vs. sending to a woman.

    Example of an appropriate complimentary FR:
    "You look great!"

    Example of an inappropriate complimentary FR:
    "Holy crap you're hot! I want to add you so I can stare at your picture all day!"
  • PeekABooGirl
    PeekABooGirl Posts: 218 Member
    This thread is hillarious! I really hate those FR when there is no message at all. Then I'm left wondering WHY do you want to be my friend?
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    I don't mind the "you're hot" FR, but if I find the person boring otherwise I usually ignore them. It's usually evident after 3 messages.

    "You're hot."
    "Thanks. Is that usually one of your prerequisites to adding someone as a friend here?"
    "LOL"
    "Did that really make you laugh out loud?"
    "LOL...i love funny hot chicks."
    *delete*

    LOL
    Exactly. You proved my point.

    I love proving a hot chicks point. But you're all I got at the moment.
    i think I just got dissed.
  • paisley2288
    paisley2288 Posts: 913 Member
    In all fairness, if I were a guy and stumbled across a girl half naked (showing their weight loss or not) I would do the same thing.

    ^LOL! this!
  • RH_Brazell
    RH_Brazell Posts: 339
    I've never been bothered by a guy saying I was hot..if he said something rude or perverted that'd be different
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    i wish there were more girls under 20 on the site....just saiyan

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