Guys....when you send a FR to a girl....

tageekly

Who is sending these to you and not to me?! Really now... :ohwell:

I'm lactose intolerant so I'd have to deny that one.

yvonnej1

Man.. chicks ought to come withe instruction manuals.

We do, men just never read manuals...

If there weren't revisions every 2 hours, maybe we could keep up!

j/k :-D

Men don't read manuals! lol They look at the pictures!

Karma Sutra?

*kama sutra* not karma. And no.

That's the one that goes around and comes around. :-D

classic :laugh:

erikblock

And girls: When you send a friend request to a guy, please DO say "it's because you look hot." Even if you don't mean it.

sjmgde

I'd like to chip my tooth on your stomach?

How's that?

CREEPY CLOWN GUY> NIGHTMARES LOL

TheKitsune6

I would be okay with it

As long as he was hot too

tageekly

And girls: When you send a friend request to a guy, please DO say "it's because you look hot." Even if you don't mean it.

That's what I wasn't doing right! Ctrl + C and saving this note for later...

hedgiie

ok, i'll drop the "you look hot", instead i'll replace it with "you look smart" maybe it will work.

now if you will send me a friend request can you please say "you look hot" "I like your booty" or anything hot?

dictations

But seriously, what else do we really have to go on??? You have a sexy profile pic up, naturally we're going to be drawn to that, and chances are, that's all we have to go on since we are not yet friends. You ladies are too hard on guys for being guys. A friend request is sent, to get to know you and your fitness beliefs........now, if after accepting, a guy makes inappropriate comments, then cut him free. But dont assume a guy is a *kitten* because he compliments you on how you look when sending a fr.

EXACTLY!
Ladies, don't lie, you know you like it at least a TINY bit to be complemented on your *kitten*. ^___^

hennyben

Can't see why anyone would have a problem with being told their hot - male or female. The men want to be told they're hot, the women secretly do but we like to pretend we don't because that is not why we want to lose weight and get the perfect body - to not be told we're hot...

WifeNMama

That's why my FRs say "I don't think you're hot, but I can only see so much through your curtains."

:noway:
:frown:
:sad:
There's no smiley for "phobia of someone looking through the windows in the evening."

BoxingCoachMo

.....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

it is the fastest way to be declined.

But thank you for the compliment

i tell them that, doesn't get me declined lol

lq022

If only friend requests could be sent with a shot of patron and strobe lights ... thats when i do my best work

littlepinkhearts

That's why my FRs say "I don't think you're hot, but I can only see so much through your curtains."

haha that's cute :P

KickassAugust

Lol. At least pretend you are interested in our brains.

"I find your intellect to be incredibly arousing."

Would that suffice?

...very. :]

Avalonis

I like to send tactful FRs.

Like "I find your intelligence and wit so attractive. Can I motorboat them?"

auticus

lmao

riiiiiiiiiiiight

mattkellett

I like to send tactful FRs.

Like "I find your intelligence and wit so attractive. Can I motorboat them?"

well played!

Rokwell

Okay let me get this right. MANY women on here dress halk naked, showing their body parts(not progress pics) and you want someone to talk about how smart you are...lol. If you're a woman and you are not doing this, then i get your point but if you have sleezy pics on your page...be real with yourself.

CoryIda

.....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

it is the fastest way to be declined.

But thank you for the compliment

Agreed... 110% (also with the "At least pretend you are interested in our brains" thing)


And I *love* the responses to this post. My boss gave me a funny look because I laughed out loud. Oops

meganmarie21

Hilarious!

Fit4Evolution

I FR just for support and ideas ..

j4nash

I enjoy compliments. But it is probably different coming from a woman vs. sending to a woman.

Mommareed4

LOL.

catic

It's ok, tell me it's because I"m hot. I'm not gonna complain as long as your hot too. LOL

CoryIda

I enjoy compliments. But it is probably different coming from a woman vs. sending to a woman.

Example of an appropriate complimentary FR:
"You look great!"

Example of an inappropriate complimentary FR:
"Holy crap you're hot! I want to add you so I can stare at your picture all day!"

PeekABooGirl

This thread is hillarious! I really hate those FR when there is no message at all. Then I'm left wondering WHY do you want to be my friend?

EmpressOfJudgment

I don't mind the "you're hot" FR, but if I find the person boring otherwise I usually ignore them. It's usually evident after 3 messages.

"You're hot."
"Thanks. Is that usually one of your prerequisites to adding someone as a friend here?"
"LOL"
"Did that really make you laugh out loud?"
"LOL...i love funny hot chicks."
*delete*

LOL

Exactly. You proved my point.

I love proving a hot chicks point. But you're all I got at the moment.

i think I just got dissed.

paisley2288

In all fairness, if I were a guy and stumbled across a girl half naked (showing their weight loss or not) I would do the same thing.

^LOL! this!

RH_Brazell

I've never been bothered by a guy saying I was hot..if he said something rude or perverted that'd be different

warmachinejt

i wish there were more girls under 20 on the site....just saiyan