Guys....when you send a FR to a girl....

Jipples

My favorite is when they send you a friend request, and you deny it. Then they write you hate mail wanting to know WHHHHYYYY????

Still waiting for a response....jus saying.

Micheller1210

I never understood girls, who post half naked pics of themselves in various stances, or showing off there cleavage,wearing garters or some form of ...assets, and cry I don't have any friends for support...blah blah I don't understand why guys only want sex, or talk dirty to me in message...etc...Hmmm What message are you sending these visual creatures in your profile? and then cry I should be able to dress how I want...lol you cry for attention then cry when you get it.

reedkaus

i generally don't request others. i prefer to have people add me, because i don't want there to be any confusion of motives. i'm here to share what i know and to learn. i won't lie, if you're attractive i might hit accept a little quicker, though hahaha

Cold_Steel

.....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

it is the fastest way to be declined.

But thank you for the compliment

Wow that is a passive aggressive way to toot your own horn... Must suck to be you huh ? Those pesky requests from guys who think you are attractive...

But in all seriousness... This "is" the internet...

*kitten* just got realz

He caught me. It only took 5 pages before i get called an attention *kitten* LOL

I know I know, I got to the forum to late. But in all seriousness you are not a *kitten*, at least I would not assume as I do respect women.

BeeElMarvin

This reminds me of the worst MFP FR message that I've gotten to date. The guy put "*kitten* *kitten* *kitten*" and wanted me to add him. Obviously, I didn't :laugh:

and I am still wondering why...Why? WHY?!?

Nerdy_Rose

This reminds me of the worst MFP FR message that I've gotten to date. The guy put "*kitten* *kitten* *kitten*" and wanted me to add him. Obviously, I didn't :laugh:

Friend request denied. *kitten* while crying.

1. Tears make the best lube.

See, here's everyone's problem... they're trying to make friends when they just want to get off. Just *kitten* to their profile pics and call it a day.

OMG lol scary

2. Why is *kitten* scary? Everyone does it.

Niki130

No way. I keep it 100 with everybody. If a girl is pretty and it's enough for me to send a request...I'll tell em' exactly how I feel.

If you're physically attractive take pride in it!

Agreed!

Farfourah

This reminds me of the worst MFP FR message that I've gotten to date. The guy put "*kitten* *kitten* *kitten*" and wanted me to add him. Obviously, I didn't :laugh:

Friend request denied. *kitten* while crying.

1. Tears make the best lube.

See, here's everyone's problem... they're trying to make friends when they just want to get off. Just *kitten* to their profile pics and call it a day.

OMG lol scary

2. Why is *kitten* scary? Everyone does it.

LMAOOOOO!

Cold_Steel

It goes both ways when someone messages you "Hey you are really fat and ugly and should have been aborted 29 1/2 years ago, will you be my friend?"

That is how it is done right ?

I mean... because someone sent me that and they are like the coolest person on my friends list...

forums...I am doing it wrong...

_binary_jester_

I never understood girls, who post half naked pics of themselves in various stances, or showing off there cleavage,wearing garters or some form of ...assets, and cry I don't have any friends for support...blah blah I don't understand why guys only want sex, or talk dirty to me in message...etc...Hmmm What message are you sending these visual creatures in your profile? and then cry I should be able to dress how I want...lol you cry for attention then cry when you get it.

I think you might want to re-read her statement. She isn't saying she is offended. She is a friend and I have never seen her post ZOMG a guy just said I was hot.
What's she is saying is if a guy is consistently rejected, his message MIGHT be the problem.

Reading comprehension > you

But thank you for getting up on your soapbox and berating people for their profile pics.

BrettPGH

I never understood girls, who post half naked pics of themselves in various stances, or showing off there cleavage,wearing garters or some form of ...assets, and cry I don't have any friends for support...blah blah I don't understand why guys only want sex, or talk dirty to me in message...etc...Hmmm What message are you sending these visual creatures in your profile? and then cry I should be able to dress how I want...lol you cry for attention then cry when you get it.

Careful sweetheart. You keep being logical and rational like that and people are gonna think you're a dude.


*runs while he can*

maidentl

But seriously, what else do we really have to go on??? You have a sexy profile pic up, naturally we're going to be drawn to that, and chances are, that's all we have to go on since we are not yet friends. You ladies are too hard on guys for being guys. A friend request is sent, to get to know you and your fitness beliefs........now, if after accepting, a guy makes inappropriate comments, then cut him free. But dont assume a guy is a *kitten* because he compliments you on how you look when sending a fr.

What do you have to go on when it's someone that's not half naked in their profile pic? Is that your sole reason for the FR? I have seen plenty of male specimens on here that are a pleasure to look at, but not once did it occur to me to request their friendship because they have washboard abs. Maybe it's just me, but I only request people that I have seen around on the forums or my friends walls and I think they make sense.

And to everyone wondering why someone would post this pics if they weren't seeking sexual attention, maybe they wanted to show off their fitness, you know as this IS a fitness site.

RH_Brazell

This reminds me of the worst MFP FR message that I've gotten to date. The guy put "*kitten* *kitten* *kitten*" and wanted me to add him. Obviously, I didn't :laugh:

Friend request denied. *kitten* while crying.

1. Tears make the best lube.

See, here's everyone's problem... they're trying to make friends when they just want to get off. Just *kitten* to their profile pics and call it a day.

OMG lol scary

2. Why is *kitten* scary? Everyone does it.

It is not I just thought it was kinda creepy but FUNNY that he was saying just to do it to people's profile pics

SwannySez

1. Tears make the best lube.

I'd stop the world and *kitten* with you.

BodyRockerVT

Meh...honesty is easier to handle. I would rather have honest than "you sound neat"...

DawnOf1969

Could it just be that people are getting way too uptight in today's society? PC is gone into over-drive and folks are offended way too easily. It might just be that the person sending you a FR it's not eloquent, maybe they are shy..who knows but deep down they may be the friendliest person you could get to know. It's and old saying but I do still believe it, don't judge a book by it's cover.

and....^^^this...

Jipples

I never understood girls, who post half naked pics of themselves in various stances, or showing off there cleavage,wearing garters or some form of ...assets, and cry I don't have any friends for support...blah blah I don't understand why guys only want sex, or talk dirty to me in message...etc...Hmmm What message are you sending these visual creatures in your profile? and then cry I should be able to dress how I want...lol you cry for attention then cry when you get it.

With all due respect, you seem bitter......almost jealous even. Your post kind of comes across like "well what else can those hot lil hussies expect with their tight little bodies "blah blah blah"...always flaunting their stuff out there".

jasonr1442

What is *kitten*? Ignorance is bliss I guess..

Jipples

But seriously, what else do we really have to go on??? You have a sexy profile pic up, naturally we're going to be drawn to that, and chances are, that's all we have to go on since we are not yet friends. You ladies are too hard on guys for being guys. A friend request is sent, to get to know you and your fitness beliefs........now, if after accepting, a guy makes inappropriate comments, then cut him free. But dont assume a guy is a *kitten* because he compliments you on how you look when sending a fr.

What do you have to go on when it's someone that's not half naked in their profile pic? Is that your sole reason for the FR? I have seen plenty of male specimens on here that are a pleasure to look at, but not once did it occur to me to request their friendship because they have washboard abs. Maybe it's just me, but I only request people that I have seen around on the forums or my friends walls and I think they make sense.

And to everyone wondering why someone would post this pics if they weren't seeking sexual attention, maybe they wanted to show off their fitness, you know as this IS a fitness site.

I have all kinds of mfp friends with all shapes and sizes, both male and female thank you.

treetop57

.....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

it is the fastest way to be declined.

But thank you for the compliment

I'm guessing that men who do that want to be friends with women who will accept that type of invitation.

You're not, so it saves both of you time when they ask like that and you refuse.

_binary_jester_

What is *kitten*?

jasonr1442 meet google and urban dictionary.

Farfourah

What is *kitten*? Ignorance is bliss I guess..

I was having that problem too, but in context, it's pretty easy to find out...-.-

dg09

I've actually never sent a FR. Guess that's why I only have one friend.

I haven't sent a FR either, and I somehow have 34. Just keeping posting on the forums, people will send you a request.

OfficialPR

Yeah I would imagine the request needs to have some motivation for the recipient to accept it...I sure as hell do...yet there are times when she's so attractive it's blinding and tough to find the right words...that's when you just hold off till you get you "S(&*" together fellas

treetop57

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=*kitten*

AlSalzman

See, here's everyone's problem... they're trying to make friends when they just want to get off. Just *kitten* to their profile pics and call it a day.

OMG lol scary

2. Why is *kitten* scary? Everyone does it.
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I'm doing it right now!

Spinelli2288

See, here's everyone's problem... they're trying to make friends when they just want to get off. Just *kitten* to their profile pics and call it a day.

OMG lol scary

2. Why is *kitten* scary? Everyone does it.

I'm doing it right now!
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Hot..... and true! lol :laugh:

RH_Brazell

See, here's everyone's problem... they're trying to make friends when they just want to get off. Just *kitten* to their profile pics and call it a day.

OMG lol scary

2. Why is *kitten* scary? Everyone does it.

I'm doing it right now!
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lmao...have fun with that

ThePhoenixRose

I once sent a friend request that said, "We've got some mutual friends. Also - your pics are HOT, and i'm kinda pervy."

He accepted.

HauteP1nk

See, here's everyone's problem... they're trying to make friends when they just want to get off. Just *kitten* to their profile pics and call it a day.

I'm doing it right now!

....great way to burn extra calories. Don't forget to add it to your exercise diary! lol