Guys....when you send a FR to a girl....

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  • Bronx_Montgomery
    Bronx_Montgomery Posts: 2,284 Member
    Can I write that I get penis envy when I see you
  • bikermike5094
    bikermike5094 Posts: 1,752 Member
    so.. you WANT me to look at your cleavage but you dont want me to say anything like your hot or sexy in a FR? Even if I'm looking at your eyes in your picture when I do it? Man.. chicks ought to come withe instruction manuals.
  • I've actually never sent a FR. Guess that's why I only have one friend.
  • Jipples
    Jipples Posts: 650 Member
    When I reach my goal, I'm taking a picture of myself in a banana hammock and making it my profile pic. We'll see who's denying friend requests then.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    I rarely send friend requests, but when I do, I say exactly why I am doing it.

    Last week I sent a friend request that said "Women always say they want honesty, so I am going to just be honest. I am sending a friend request because you are hot, and I'm an internet creeper. In the "non stalk you, harmless: sort of way."

    She accepted.

    That was today!
  • Z_I_L_L_A
    Z_I_L_L_A Posts: 2,399 Member
    Lol. At least pretend you are interested in our brains.

    Yeah I get the same thing. Whats wrong with you women, at least act like your interested in my brain.
  • Fit_Canuck
    Fit_Canuck Posts: 788 Member
    OMG Poor you ;) , people find you attractive! This must be the same affliction affecting those who wear the lowest cut tops possible and then get upset if you happen to glance at their cleavage. That being said I'm not saying it's ok to stare for hours at a time but let's all be realistic here, people show what they want others to see.

    While I truly believe we have to be respectful of one and other sometimes I just shake my head and wonder...
  • RockaholicMama
    RockaholicMama Posts: 786 Member
    But seriously, what else do we really have to go on??? You have a sexy profile pic up, naturally we're going to be drawn to that, and chances are, that's all we have to go on since we are not yet friends. You ladies are too hard on guys for being guys. A friend request is sent, to get to know you and your fitness beliefs........now, if after accepting, a guy makes inappropriate comments, then cut him free. But dont assume a guy is a *kitten* because he compliments you on how you look when sending a fr.

    ^^That. exactly.

    I'm with these two. I would take it as a huge compliment and it would probably not only boost my confidence but I would add him. If he wasn't supportive and turned into a douchenozzle after that, then I'd delete him.
  • andrejjorje
    andrejjorje Posts: 497 Member
    But we're not. Not at the beginning. Just kidding.:tongue:
    Lol. At least pretend you are interested in our brains.
  • AlSalzman
    AlSalzman Posts: 296 Member
    See, here's everyone's problem... they're trying to make friends when they just want to get off. Just *kitten* to their profile pics and call it a day.
  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    lol
  • Another control freak. You dont want attention for your pics you post then put a pic of a condom or something.

    Hey you see that pizza, dont salivate when you see it. Just because some guys arent polished doesnt mean they have ill will, just that they like big, round......ahem, anyway...lighten up.
  • See, here's everyone's problem... they're trying to make friends when they just want to get off. Just *kitten* to their profile pics and call it a day.


    OMG lol scary
  • drmerc
    drmerc Posts: 2,603 Member
    This thread is easy to *kitten* to
  • DawnOf1969
    DawnOf1969 Posts: 726 Member
    I always point out that I am typing my request one handed.....
    ^^^^ WINNER^^^^ thats so funny.. took me a second to get it though...

    One time I typed it no handed but it looked more like.. iksa tyypoiunmgh thiusd weith mno hands
    Were you using your tongue to type it then?
  • Cold_Steel
    Cold_Steel Posts: 897 Member
    .....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

    it is the fastest way to be declined.

    But thank you for the compliment

    Wow that is a passive aggressive way to toot your own horn... Must suck to be you huh ? Those pesky requests from guys who think you are attractive...

    But in all seriousness... This "is" the internet...
  • Jipples
    Jipples Posts: 650 Member
    .....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

    it is the fastest way to be declined.

    But thank you for the compliment

    Wow that is a passive aggressive way to toot your own horn... Must suck to be you huh ? Those pesky requests from guys who think you are attractive...

    But in all seriousness... This "is" the internet...

    *kitten* just got realz
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
    I don't mind the "you're hot" FR, but if I find the person boring otherwise I usually ignore them. It's usually evident after 3 messages.

    "You're hot."
    "Thanks. Is that usually one of your prerequisites to adding someone as a friend here?"
    "LOL"
    "Did that really make you laugh out loud?"
    "LOL...i love funny hot chicks."
    *delete*

    LOL
    Exactly. You proved my point.
  • mmuzzatti
    mmuzzatti Posts: 704 Member
    Try this one...never works but what the hell!

    If I told you that you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me?
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    .....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

    it is the fastest way to be declined.

    But thank you for the compliment

    Wow that is a passive aggressive way to toot your own horn... Must suck to be you huh ? Those pesky requests from guys who think you are attractive...

    But in all seriousness... This "is" the internet...
    ...and she is trying to be helpful to all those guys who get butt hurt because they get denied.
  • Jipples
    Jipples Posts: 650 Member
    I don't mind the "you're hot" FR, but if I find the person boring otherwise I usually ignore them. It's usually evident after 3 messages.

    "You're hot."
    "Thanks. Is that usually one of your prerequisites to adding someone as a friend here?"
    "LOL"
    "Did that really make you laugh out loud?"
    "LOL...i love funny hot chicks."
    *delete*

    LOL
    Exactly. You proved my point.

    I love proving a hot chicks point. But you're all I got at the moment.
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    I just get.... "I seen you around in the forums"....... (But they didn't send a friend request) lol
  • Jellyphant
    Jellyphant Posts: 1,400 Member
    .....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

    it is the fastest way to be declined.

    But thank you for the compliment

    Wow that is a passive aggressive way to toot your own horn... Must suck to be you huh ? Those pesky requests from guys who think you are attractive...

    But in all seriousness... This "is" the internet...

    *kitten* just got realz
    burn! :O
  • Fit_Canuck
    Fit_Canuck Posts: 788 Member
    Could it just be that people are getting way too uptight in today's society? PC is gone into over-drive and folks are offended way too easily. It might just be that the person sending you a FR it's not eloquent, maybe they are shy..who knows but deep down they may be the friendliest person you could get to know. It's and old saying but I do still believe it, don't judge a book by it's cover.
  • Jipples
    Jipples Posts: 650 Member
    I don't mind the "you're hot" FR, but if I find the person boring otherwise I usually ignore them. It's usually evident after 3 messages.

    "You're hot."
    "Thanks. Is that usually one of your prerequisites to adding someone as a friend here?"
    "LOL"
    "Did that really make you laugh out loud?"
    "LOL...i love funny hot chicks."
    *delete*

    LOL
    Exactly. You proved my point.

    I love proving a hot chicks point. But you're all I got at the moment.

    :bigsmile: just pickin
  • angied80
    angied80 Posts: 713 Member
    My favorite is when they send you a friend request, and you deny it. Then they write you hate mail wanting to know WHHHHYYYY????
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    .....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

    it is the fastest way to be declined.

    But thank you for the compliment

    Wow that is a passive aggressive way to toot your own horn... Must suck to be you huh ? Those pesky requests from guys who think you are attractive...

    But in all seriousness... This "is" the internet...

    *kitten* just got realz
    He caught me. It only took 5 pages before i get called an attention *kitten* LOL
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    .....do not write it's because ''you look hot''

    it is the fastest way to be declined.

    But thank you for the compliment

    Wow that is a passive aggressive way to toot your own horn... Must suck to be you huh ? Those pesky requests from guys who think you are attractive...

    But in all seriousness... This "is" the internet...

    Relax a bit,there have been some serious creepers on here so it is in a guys best interest to not act like one.
    That is all she was saying.
  • ScatteredThoughts
    ScatteredThoughts Posts: 3,562 Member
    Lol. At least pretend you are interested in our brains.

    "I find your intellect to be incredibly arousing."

    Would that suffice? :)
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    My favorite is when they send you a friend request, and you deny it. Then they write you hate mail wanting to know WHHHHYYYY????
    Those guys will be...

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