Am I a b*tch?

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  • livinginwoods
    livinginwoods Posts: 562 Member
    Oh I think your thoughts and feelings are normal. The fact that you did not post or act on them does not make you a *****. I used to think the same way. My mom had lap band and she lost so much weight. One of my friends has the gastric bypass and I see how much work has gone into it. I never really considered it even at my heaviest at 381. I am down a little bit now by hard work but I don't want to be cut into. I KNOW I can do this on my own and YES it will feel great to know that I did. But those who didn't think they could need support and love.
  • ruqayyahsmum
    ruqayyahsmum Posts: 1,513 Member
    how was she hiding it? did she have it captioned that she had lost 100lb thru diet and exercise only?

    no she didnt hide it she just didnt feel it necissary to tell the whole world and his wife her personal buisness
  • seattlerain
    seattlerain Posts: 189 Member
    All women are *****es.

    :D
  • judykritikos
    judykritikos Posts: 161
    uh....actually yeah, it does. She obviously needed to loose it and did. So she chose a different way. Your way is harder and takes discipline, but that doesn't take away from her loss - and MUCH better health. having 3 CLOSE friends who've done it - I would NEVER do it. I can't give up all the things you have to give up once you do the surgery. So - it won't be easy for her just because her weight is dropping. Be happy for her - be proud of yourself. And - if YOU'VE lost significant weight - be loud and proud. Just don't go on ad nauseum, cuz then I'll get tired of hearing yours, too! lol
  • judykritikos
    judykritikos Posts: 161
    oh yeah - one more thing....you can have ANY FEELING that you want. What you DO with them is another story.
  • Avalonis
    Avalonis Posts: 1,540 Member
    All women are *****es.

    :D

    Yes, yes they are. :D

    I should clarify that I think all men are *kitten* too.

    Catch people at the wrong time and EVERYONE is an asshat.
  • MelissaGraham7
    MelissaGraham7 Posts: 406 Member
    You might be. For those not in the know, the lap band and gastric bypass surgeries are not for sissies. The postoperative regimen is grueling on what they can and cannot eat and they end up with dozens of complications. It is not an easy way out. Lots of people do not have that kind of weight loss even following the surgery and lots of people don't keep it off but end up miserable because of the serious changes to the body. So, don't be *****y. Technically, we have it easier because we can eat without vomiting, diarrhea, etc. Maybe she is fishing but aren't we all? Every time we make a comment about ourselves, isn't it because we want someone to day "good job," "atta girl", etc.? Isn't that why these social sites are so popular because we can get encouragement and compliments from complete strangers that we don't get from home? Isn't that why you felt compelled to write this? you feel better than her and you want that to be validated here by a bunch of anonymous strangers?

    Lighten up and live your life. Don't judge others and don't be *****y. It isn't becoming.
  • MissAlexxMarie
    MissAlexxMarie Posts: 171
    As long as you weren't the one typing " Didn't you get a procedure done to lose those 100 pounds? " then no you are not a b****. Just keep doing what you're doing and focus on bettering yourself. In the end you'll have defined muscles and I'm sure your legs will look hell of a lot better in that dress and those new heels when you are done ;)
  • boomboom011
    boomboom011 Posts: 1,459
    oh yeah - one more thing....you can have ANY FEELING that you want. What you DO with them is another story.

    THIS - FINALLY a voice of reason!

    Feelings come and go. Have your feelings and move on which apparently thats what you have done.
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    All women are *****es.

    :D

    Not all of us are, but yea... generally... women are *****es.
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