my very secret goal...what's yours

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  • jcstanton
    jcstanton Posts: 1,849 Member
    My secret goal is to be able to purchase an item of clothing from a Victoria Secret Catalog.. and know that it will fit perfectly:)

    ^^^This is a good one! I can get pretty bra/panty sets from Lane Bryant and other plus size stores, but they lose their "cuteness" once they are off the hanger and on my body. :huh: :noway: I'm thinking about tucking away about $25 or $30 for every 10lbs I lose (will be about $300-$360 when I reach my goal). Then I'm gonna take that money and use it to go on a clothes shopping spree. Victoria's Secret is one of the first places I'm going.

    Also, I'd like to treat myself to a trip to Cedar Point in Sandusky, OH. It's always been my favorite amusement park, and I haven't been there since I was 17 (I'm now 35). I love roller coasters and amusement parks, but I took a trip to Six Flags over Georgia with my brothers a few years ago (I weighed about 250lbs at that time), and I had a hard time fitting on the rides. It was really embarrassing, so I swore I wouldn't ride another coaster or amusement ride until I was under 200lbs. I've got 61lbs to go before I reach Onederland.
  • coraliethomas
    coraliethomas Posts: 336 Member
    I also want to not run for the light switch whenever my hubby gets frisky... I wanna leave the lights on and love it!
  • audra1ee
    audra1ee Posts: 56 Member
    My secret goal, as petty as it may sound, is to walk into a room with my best friend and be the one that people are checking out. She has always been thin and pretty and I've been fat my whole life. I've gotten too used to being the 'fat friend.'
  • serendipity22
    serendipity22 Posts: 248 Member
    My exercise goal is to take some trapeze classes this summer.

    My secret goal when I lose weight is to buy a slinky red dress and have dinner at the fanciest restaurant in town.
  • fearie_jae
    fearie_jae Posts: 107 Member
    So my secret goal sounds kinda dorky but I was watching Ellen one day when Michelle Obama was on and they had a push up contest.. I can barely do any (full.. not girl ones) and I would love to be able to just make it look so easy like they did.
  • Evelyn_Gorfram
    Evelyn_Gorfram Posts: 706 Member
    My current weight means that I wear a 44F bra. At best, that's way too much of a good thing (or, one might say, two good things). I would love, love, *love* to fit nicely into a D cup bra again.
  • kfox15
    kfox15 Posts: 97 Member
    To squat big girl plates (45's) and get my hockey legs back, to have visible back muscles, and to finish my first triathlon this July :-)
  • Jezebel_Barbie
    Jezebel_Barbie Posts: 198 Member
    Mine is to slim down to a size 8. No one knows that's really my goal.
  • CookieCatCatcher
    CookieCatCatcher Posts: 324 Member
    This probably sounds stupid - but, my secret goal is to be small enough that my husband can lift me up for........... night time escapades.... Its a huge fantasy of his, but he has a bad back, and he can't lift me right now. :(
  • FoxWilkinson
    FoxWilkinson Posts: 46 Member
    Wow there are so many really good "secret goals" here. Very inspiring!
    Biggest goal - to buy a victoria's secret bikini and finally show off my rib tattoo. I want my boyfriend to become so inspired by all my hard work and determination to get fit with me, and with both of us in shape, our 'night games' will become more interesting!

    Now, most of my friends know those goals. But secretly, I want a particular person to notice the difference. I have a guy friend whom I've known for years, and he's SUPER buff! Like, washbourd abs, chiseled everything, and even has that sexy little 'V' between his hips. A few years ago, I overheard him talking to another friend, "Yeah, I thought about dating [Fox], but she's just gotten so big. She used to be a stick in highschool. Way hotter then." Yep. Well, we're still friends, and I'm happily dating someone else. But it's my secret little goal to have him look at me and think "damn, I messed up and missed the boat" or something to that effect.
  • Evelyn_Gorfram
    Evelyn_Gorfram Posts: 706 Member
    ....when I move to Korea, I don't want to be the 3% of obese people. I want to stand out as a foreigner for being pretty, not for being fat.
    Even here in the US, whenever I walk into an Asian shop or restaurant or whatever, I always feel like some huge tall clumsy behemoth with big feet .
    It'd be so sweet to just feel like a tall clumsy Caucasian with big feet. :)
  • Evelyn_Gorfram
    Evelyn_Gorfram Posts: 706 Member
    Mine's a bit stupid... But I have a friend who is amazingly awesome in every way. And I would love him to look at me and think that maybe he liked me as a little bit more than a friend... I'm at a healthy weight already, I just want to tone up a bit and slim down a little bit more so that I don't have to worry about what I look like (so for confidence really). And I know I still wouldn't have the confidence to say anything, but maybe, maybe, he might. :blushing: Although I know that it really would never happen really, and we have all the same friends, which is why it is a very, very secret goal...
    FWIW -
    I had a friend like that. It turned that he did, too. We've been together for over fifteen years now. :heart:

    (And i know it sounds like it; but no, I don't live in a Hollywood-movie-reality, or between the pages of a cheesy romance novel. :smile: )
  • That is a great secret goal....:smile:
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    make a men drive into a poll because i am too hot. Almost did last summer....hopefully it will happen next summer lol.
    But for real, my goal is sexy muscular legs....i hold alot of my fat in my legs and never liked them.
  • SueD66
    SueD66 Posts: 405 Member
    I am so appreciative to you all for sharing your secret goals. We sure can work hard to try to achieve them can't we. thank you also for the kind words. I ended up sobbing by the time i finished typing my secret.
    Now let's get to it and work twords our goals:)
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    I want to win a trophy in a race. Medals are great, but I really want a trophy!

    I want to get carded again sometime after I turn 40 in June. I'd like to keep up the tradition of getting carded at least once a year as long as mother nature, liberal use of sunscreen and really good moisturizer will allow. Last time was Halloween.
  • My secret goal is to wear shorts and a tank top in public. I'm 17 years old and have never done that, unfortunately.
  • brittanyscherich
    brittanyscherich Posts: 355 Member
    That's an amazing goal! When I get into a size 9, I'm going to get blue contact lenses! I also can't wait to dress in short shorts!
  • CSimi
    CSimi Posts: 3
    That is awesome!!! I could not run for 90 seconds three years ago, and then I did C25k.
    I have since ran 38km, and currently training to run The Policeman's Half in April with my sister.
    She jokes about her slowing me down but she isn't. I secretly love the walk breaks and the slower pace of long runs.
    Great job!
  • funkycamper
    funkycamper Posts: 998 Member
    climb Mt Rainier. I'm not a mountain climber at all or a hiker even, but that is one of those... before I die things.

    Hey, that's on my bucket list, too. :drinker:

    I'm planning on being ready for it by 2014. This year, I'm crossing Seattle to Portland bike ride off my bucket list, back to back century rides. It's gonna be awesome.
  • Malrose01
    Malrose01 Posts: 25 Member
    My secret goals: 1. Wear a tank top and admire my arms instead of trying to hide them. 2. Wear a bikini. Yes, I have stretch marks. Yes I am pasty white. Whatever- I WILL wear a bikini someday in the near future. 3. Run a 5k without feeling like I'm going to die or finishing dead last.
  • raevynn
    raevynn Posts: 666 Member
    My secret goal is to look good enough that guys hit on me.

    Not that I would date anyone - I'm married - I just want to have the experience of being hit on. Maybe a free drink in a bar? yeah... something like that.
  • audra1ee
    audra1ee Posts: 56 Member
    My secret goals: 1. Wear a tank top and admire my arms instead of trying to hide them. 2. Wear a bikini. Yes, I have stretch marks. Yes I am pasty white. Whatever- I WILL wear a bikini someday in the near future. 3. Run a 5k without feeling like I'm going to die or finishing dead last.

    As a fellow pasty white, stretch mark ridden woman, I support and second your goal to wear a bikini. Maybe then we wouldn't be so pasty white? Haha
  • jineat
    jineat Posts: 25 Member
    I want to body build after I lose the fat and I can't wait.
  • plushkitten
    plushkitten Posts: 547 Member
    My secret goal-

    to become an alternative/fetish model



    :3
  • JennieAL
    JennieAL Posts: 1,726 Member
    I don't really have a secret goal. I'd just like to make jaws drop. I want to be able to walk into a gym somewhere and do 50 push-ups, 25 pull-ups as my warm-up... and lift weight with the best of form. Excellent form is my goal. Low body fat so that all my muscles are well defined. My *kitten* will be enviable and every guy will want to bounce a quarter off it :P Really want some nice shoulders and arms too... I've never had that.
  • Trinketona
    Trinketona Posts: 190
    If I told you mine you would think I'm crazy. Even my family would be like wth!!!!!!!!!
  • cazwillis99
    cazwillis99 Posts: 238 Member
    M secret goals - too be slimmer than my stepdaughter's mother when my stepdaughter gets married (very shallow of me), to run a 5k ( have run/walked 2), to be able to go braless without my boobs hitting my waist ;-), to do the moonwalk in London, to ride my bike without killing myself!!
  • determinedbutlazy
    determinedbutlazy Posts: 1,941 Member
    I have a couple.

    1: The man I'm in love with hasn't seen me in 7 years... I weighed 160lb last time he saw me, I want to at least LOOK like 160lb by the time I see him again.
    2: He's in the Navy and super fit, I want to be able to go for a run with him without dying.
    3: I want a flat stomach again.
    4: I also don't want to be fat when I move back to Asia. I studied in Japan for a year and people always commented on how pretty I was but that I would be prettier if I lost weight.
  • cazwillis99
    cazwillis99 Posts: 238 Member
    Mines retarded... but is a secret goal none-the-less.... when I stand with my feet together, I want to see a little space between my thighs, instead of squelchy unhealthy flab pushing together!

    Hahah,,, it looks dumb when I see it written down.

    This is one of mine too - thought of it whilst I was walking today - I used to have a gap years ago and I want it back (along with my hip bones!)
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