girl's confident in her body == slutty?

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  • DietingMommy08
    DietingMommy08 Posts: 1,366 Member
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    I saddens me to see women be so hateful towards each other. I'm pretty sure we are all here to actively improve our health and overall aesthetics.

    I'm a huge advocate of " if you've got it, flaunt it". If this philosophy isn't to your liking, why not just keep it moving? I fail to see the need for a person to go out of his/her way to report people who are merely trying to exhibit their favorite features.

    I dont take the time to report ppl.
    Its kinda childish.

    What they wanna show off is thier business.
  • FitKate
    FitKate Posts: 169 Member
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    I think if you worked your *kitten* off for months to loose weight and get the abs you want then FLANT IT!!!! I'm working hard to get rid of the fat and as soon as my body is back to bikini ready you better believe my tiny booty is going to be all over my profile in sexy attire. I earned it Damn IT!

    That is all.

    PS You are super sexy and I think you should show more of your best assests!
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
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    this has actually been bugging the crap out of me lately.


    I have a group of ~beautiful~ girlfriends on here and we LOVE our bodies - or at least parts of them. Sure, some of us are trying to improve them and many are trying to maintain the beauts they already achieved - but fact remains, we are still happy with what we've got.

    Well, part of being happy with what we've got - we are proud to show them off. Yeah - we share them amongst eachother and a few of us even share with a few boys too. I'm not talking porn - i'm just saying pictures that may feature our best assets. as little or as much as that entails is up to each one of us girls.

    Now, in our dealings of pictures and tlaking about it and trying to get away with funny profile pictures on fridays - i've seen backlash. I've personally been defriended. I've been called "slutty" (actually, we were all called slutty the other day, but i digress...) we've been reported.

    I've seen plenty of man-assets shown around here. tight pants, itty bitty shorts, chests, bellies. I'm sure they are never reported. So what is with the double standard of women? Yes, americans are all freaked out about bare boobs (which are NEVER in public places), but come on, live a little ~or~ just simply ignore it.


    I guess I'm not sure what I'm asking. How about this ... Do confident girls piss you off? offend you? do you just ignore it? should girls act more "ladylike"? Or should there be more of us?

    Well, if you like having your picture taken I have a disposable camera and basement you can use.:flowerforyou:
    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRBvhA6hITIilzmarv2jleo4s-HSgdSfU8St_7MRcqBcPd0Oz2S
  • DietingMommy08
    DietingMommy08 Posts: 1,366 Member
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    Its called having respect for yourself not to let the world see it simply bcuz you think its some form of confidence.
    Your body is meant for you and the person you want to share it with.


    hrm. i also burlesque dance. for real live people. ah. apparently i have no self respect and it's ~not~ confidence. got it. check.

    Love it when ppl twist what you say because they simply dont like your opinion.

    Smh....
  • Loko_Ino
    Loko_Ino Posts: 544 Member
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    I once posted my *kitten* on here..am I a slut too? And when I say *kitten* I mean no underoos or nothing on...


    i think i would rather see the underoos. not that i want to see that other than your *kitten*, but underoos are SO cool.

    They are the Superman ones..sweet sauce
  • FitKate
    FitKate Posts: 169 Member
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    this has actually been bugging the crap out of me lately.


    I have a group of ~beautiful~ girlfriends on here and we LOVE our bodies - or at least parts of them. Sure, some of us are trying to improve them and many are trying to maintain the beauts they already achieved - but fact remains, we are still happy with what we've got.

    Well, part of being happy with what we've got - we are proud to show them off. Yeah - we share them amongst eachother and a few of us even share with a few boys too. I'm not talking porn - i'm just saying pictures that may feature our best assets. as little or as much as that entails is up to each one of us girls.

    Now, in our dealings of pictures and tlaking about it and trying to get away with funny profile pictures on fridays - i've seen backlash. I've personally been defriended. I've been called "slutty" (actually, we were all called slutty the other day, but i digress...) we've been reported.

    I've seen plenty of man-assets shown around here. tight pants, itty bitty shorts, chests, bellies. I'm sure they are never reported. So what is with the double standard of women? Yes, americans are all freaked out about bare boobs (which are NEVER in public places), but come on, live a little ~or~ just simply ignore it.


    I guess I'm not sure what I'm asking. How about this ... Do confident girls piss you off? offend you? do you just ignore it? should girls act more "ladylike"? Or should there be more of us?

    Well, if you like having your picture taken I have a disposable camera and basement you can use.:flowerforyou:
    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRBvhA6hITIilzmarv2jleo4s-HSgdSfU8St_7MRcqBcPd0Oz2S

    This basement looks very legit! I think you should take him up on it. I'll go with you.
  • thump418
    thump418 Posts: 251 Member
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    If you have it you should have the right to show it off. I know that since I have lost weight and have started to tone up, I want people to see what I have accomplished. I want to go shirtless. Basically after years of being un-noticed for so many years it feels good to actually have people "check you out".
  • fatboypup
    fatboypup Posts: 1,873 Member
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    fatboypup@gmail.com accepts all slutty photos
  • ElleOQuent
    ElleOQuent Posts: 431 Member
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    There is a difference between being confident and being slutty.

    There is also a difference btween taking pictures to show off your accomplishments and simply seeking attention.

    Its called having respect for yourself not to let the world see it simply bcuz you think its some form of confidence.
    Your body is meant for you and the person you want to share it with.

    Not the internet.

    How would you discern the difference between taking a picture to show off accomplishments and taking one solely to seek attention?

    Wouldn't intent be the underlying distinction? Isn't any picture going to seek attention? If you wanted to not garnish any attention, you would have left that faceless blue man up, wouldn't you?
  • DaughterOfTheMostHighKing
    DaughterOfTheMostHighKing Posts: 1,436 Member
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    I once posted my *kitten* on here..am I a slut too? And when I say *kitten* I mean no underoos or nothing on...

    not even pampers?!?!?! lol!!!

    We're all supposed to be mature enough to be here on this site... I mean hey, if we can decide to look good and be healthy then we should be able to know when to ignore something. If it's not hurting anyone then let it be. Personally, I do look, but not at women. Guys, love those torso shots just above! lol!!! and those abs and arms!!!! Oooooohhhh,..... lol!!!
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,305 Member
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    i just looked at "someone's" pictures... hrm. one of the pictures on the "internet" is definitely showing some "confidence".

    that is REALLY funny.
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
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    confidence= awesome , not slutty unless there's a hidden intent behind it.
  • nammer79
    nammer79 Posts: 707 Member
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    I would never call a female a slut and well I feel that if you have the body and feel like showing off a bit its sexy. Women have some of the most beautiful bodies and deserve to show off if they feel the need.

    I wouldn't mind adding a few of you to my friends list but I rather not feel like a creep for inviting just for that reason alone .... :noway:
  • DietingMommy08
    DietingMommy08 Posts: 1,366 Member
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    There is a difference between being confident and being slutty.

    There is also a difference btween taking pictures to show off your accomplishments and simply seeking attention.

    Its called having respect for yourself not to let the world see it simply bcuz you think its some form of confidence.
    Your body is meant for you and the person you want to share it with.

    Not the internet.

    How would you discern the difference between taking a picture to show off accomplishments and taking one solely to seek attention?

    Wouldn't intent be the underlying distinction? Isn't any picture going to seek attention? If you wanted to not garnish any attention, you would have left that faceless blue man up, wouldn't you?

    None of my pictures reveal anything underneath my clothes.

    When somebody posts they are posting pictures simply for attention that basically says why they are posting the picture.
  • theleftie
    theleftie Posts: 366
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    Bottom line - confidence is sexy.... Regardless. If people can't deal... fuck em.
  • bellevie23
    bellevie23 Posts: 208 Member
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    :laugh: Pretty much. I don't care to see tits and *kitten* all flaunted on my screens, I can visit a porn site for that, however, I don't care if anyone does it, just not my cup of tea.

    I also agree that people shouldnt get so offended that the woman above who spoke her opinion has a different definition of slutty. Its her opinion, get over it lol.

    I dont care if someone calls me a slut, bring it, doesn't mean I am one, and even if I was, should just worry about wiping your tears Im not your slut LOL. :happy:
    If you've never been called a slut online or offline, you're doing it wrong.
  • Il_DaniD_lI
    Il_DaniD_lI Posts: 1,593 Member
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    Who cares? Be yourself & love yourself. "Those who mind don't matter & those who matter don't mind" ..yeah I just quoted Dr. Seuss. :glasses:
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,305 Member
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    There is a difference between being confident and being slutty.

    There is also a difference btween taking pictures to show off your accomplishments and simply seeking attention.

    Its called having respect for yourself not to let the world see it simply bcuz you think its some form of confidence.
    Your body is meant for you and the person you want to share it with.

    Not the internet.

    How would you discern the difference between taking a picture to show off accomplishments and taking one solely to seek attention?

    Wouldn't intent be the underlying distinction? Isn't any picture going to seek attention? If you wanted to not garnish any attention, you would have left that faceless blue man up, wouldn't you?

    None of my pictures reveal anything underneath my clothes.

    When somebody posts they are posting pictures simply for attention that basically says why they are posting the picture.


    you sure about that?
  • manderson27
    manderson27 Posts: 3,510 Member
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    I like to see a woman who is confident and not afraid to strut her stuff. Nothing wrong with cleavage, nice toned legs, or a flat stomach on show. It is all about how you present it and how you act.

    To me a slut is a loud, uncouth woman who sleeps with anything with a pulse and gets her clothes from Wh8res R Us
  • deftanker
    deftanker Posts: 105 Member
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    I cant wait to get reported a whole bunch honestly, If i have any friends on here by then I can keep in touch with them AFTER I get my *kitten* booted.


    Can I be slutty?? I dont know but ill try my best!
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