DO ALL MEN!! WORRY ABOUT WOMEN WEIGHT

I wanna know, too

That may be your man, but it's not men. Don't blame all of us for the actions of whatever insensitive *kitten* you're with. Wise up and start choosing better partners.

That may be your man, but it's not men. Don't blame all of us for the actions of whatever insensitive *kitten* you're with. Wise up and start choosing better partners.

Preach it!

Because they're a jerk. Not all men, that one.

TO ALL!!
DO ALL MEN WORRY ABOUT WOMEN WEIGHT AND WHY....You tell us that we are beautiful...but if we gain weight or have a baby...then you dont treat us the same anymore ....WHY?

I've known both types. Some men are obsessed with this, others are not. My husband doesn't care and doesn't judge me by what I weigh. He's treated me the same through all the different weights I've been.

A friend of mine who is a guy happens to feel differently. He thinks a woman who is overweight doesn't take care of herself well enough. He wants someone who will take care of herself. He doesn't judge women for what they weigh, but won't date a woman who is overweight.

Others I've known just seems to have only one body type they like. Not all men are the same.

I swear it is not you. Its me. I'm sorry.

That may be your man, but it's not men. Don't blame all of us for the actions of whatever insensitive *kitten* you're with. Wise up and start choosing better partners.

Seriously. How you are treated is the direct result of the quality of man you choose. If you can't find a man of quality stay single.

My husband doesn't worry about my weight. He doesn't treat me differently when I'm overweight vs. skinny (the sex is better when I'm skinny but I think that is my own self confidence not him)....

I think it's the men you have. I have been with my husband for 25 years (married for 23). When he met me I weighed 108 pounds. Throughout our marriage I have had 4 children and obviously my weight has been up and down. At my highest point I was just over 200 pounds. I currently hover between 135 and 140. My husband has never treated me any differently no matter what my weight was. If they truly love you, they aren't going to treat you different whether your fat or skinny.

^^This! Almost exactly the same for me. Weighted what my goal weight is now when my husband & I first got together. He has loved me through thick & thin no matter what!

Okay.......first, I have to say to Snake Darling, your pup is ADORABLE!!! What breed is he/she and her/his name?

On topic: I think that its not just men.........its everyone. We aren't in tune with getting to know a person first before any judgements take place. Therefore our looks--face and body-wise are our "in" even if we don't want to do that nor want that to happen to us.

If someone treats you differently because you either gain/lose weight......or whatever it might be, then they should not be the one for you. If you feel like you are being treated differently by someone, tell them and ask them why, if they deny it and you still feel like they are doing it, its up to you to decide whether or not you should stay with the person. If they fully admit to it, then thats when you ought to talk about it and how it makes you feel. If they can't change the way they treat you, then everyone here is correct in saying that you need to dump them on their *kitten* and wait for someone else to come along that's going to be more sensitive to you and that will treat you with dignity and respect.

But that is just me and how I feel.........