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    Is it necessary to be that trashy?

    Posts: 781 Member
    edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
    Relationship mistake: Nakie pictures of one another

    Relationship ends...someone has to be immature and white trash and spread those pics around

    what would you do and how should they be punished??

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    • Posts: 34,476 Member
      Be glad you are young and beautiful?

      I don't know, I don't worry too much about that kind of stuff since I usually dump all the friends of the ex when he becomes an ex. Then I never know.....:laugh:
    • Posts: 781 Member
      And let me clarify: social & financial status does not determine if someone is trash! It's about how you conduct yourself! Just because you have money does not mean you have class!
    • Posts: 2,505 Member
      I would do nothing but consider it a lesson learned.
    • Posts: 81 Member
      Be glad he thinks your sexy enough to take pictures of? haha I don't know, I would be sooo mad, I'm not sure what I would do.

      My conscience is telling me to advise you to be the bigger person and just ignore it.

      On the other hand, I am a big fan of Taylor Swift and her suggestion to tell all of his friends that he's gay! haha

      What a jerk!
    • Posts: 443 Member
      That's horrible! I have no idea how to deal with that, just messed up.

      I am not sure about punishment. If they did something like that imagine what they would do if you tried to get them back.
    • Posts: 5,860 Member
      When you take naked photos you must assume that they will be made public. Eventually. Either accept this or don't take naked photos.

      What would I do? Respond in kind.

      How should they be punished? See above.

      I have an ex. We are on very bad terms. We have compromising photos and video and the like of each other. Since we both have them, it's just like the peace that was kept during the Cold War: Mutual Assured Destruction.
    • Posts: 582 Member
      On the other hand, I am a big fan of Taylor Swift and her suggestion to tell all of his friends that he's gay! haha

      AHHHHH!!!! You just made my day!!! I love Taylor Swift.
    • Posts: 164
      This is why I don't do nekkid pics.
    • Posts: 2,247 Member
      Relationship mistake: Nakie pictures of one another

      Relationship ends...someone has to be immature and white trash and spread those pics around

      what would you do and how should they be punished??

      Worse still, I know of somebody who made a few thousand copies of a dirty video on his phone that he and his ex made when together and sent it everywhere.

      What did the girl do? She did nothing and it irked the bloke and still does by the looks of things. The girl is one of my friends and I know her ex too, in fact, it was he who told me what he had done.

      Makes me bloody shudder when I think of some of the vindictive acts some people get up to - it really isn't necessary.
    • Posts: 89 Member
      I'd most likely never be put in that situation because I do not let others have naked pictures of myself. I do not really have any advice for you except to own it.
    • Posts: 1,298 Member
      i know a guy..... (just sayin)
    • Posts: 1,227 Member
      Well, this is specifically why I wouldn't give someone naked pictures of me in the first place. Unless is was a super long term, intention of marriage type thing. Even then, maybe not. That's a risk you take when you give out or take naked pictures.

      How to respond? I wouldn't do anything. No need to descend to their level.
    • Posts: 6,033 Member
      I just operate under the assumption that anything I do or say over email, text, SMS, forum, and skype can and will be used against me at some point. I didn't really want a political career anyway.
    • Posts: 4,493 Member
      Ooooooo... HELL!!! What an *kitten* hole!!!! I am not really sure what actions you should take....Sorry... what a jerk!
    • Posts: 1,014 Member
      I'm not sure about the punishment as once a pic is posted online or leaves your phone, you really can't "stop" it from spreading..

      I would however, let the rounded toe of my Doc Martins meet his *kitten*.

      Just sayin.
    • Posts: 93 Member
      Learn your lesson and don't let it happen again if you don't like it.
    • Posts: 29 Member
      Lure them to a sleazy motel under the impression you want to hook up, hand cuff them to the bed and blind fold them... then just leave them there naked for the maid to find in the morning. Oh, and don't forget to take pictures before you leave! :)
    • Posts: 2,206 Member
      I'm keeping the pics you sent me, to teach you a lesson.
    • Posts: 5,860 Member
      I just operate under the assumption that anything I do or say over email, text, SMS, forum, and skype can and will be used against me at some point. I didn't really want a political career anyway.

      ^^^^^
      Everyone listen to the very smart lady.
    • Posts: 5,510 Member
      I'm going to need to see these pics in order to accurately assess this situation.

      Ok then thanks.
    • Posts: 790 Member
      My ex took my naked pictures and left them all over my apartment complex with my address on them,I wasnt as upset that random people saw them as I was by the fact that I had random people coming to my door and my son could have found them
    • Posts: 123
      Be glad he thinks your sexy enough to take pictures of? haha I don't know, I would be sooo mad, I'm not sure what I would do.

      My conscience is telling me to advise you to be the bigger person and just ignore it.

      On the other hand, I am a big fan of Taylor Swift and her suggestion to tell all of his friends that he's gay! haha

      What a jerk!

      I would do the same thing.... either he is gay or has an STD, both sound like good rumors to start :)
    • Posts: 805 Member
      learn a lesson to never trust a bloke with a naked photo of you again. don't matter how sweet things are now... they can always go pear shaped.
    • Posts: 1,167 Member
      I would probably just send them to everyone he knows and be like "yeah he is probably gonna do this so have at boys." Then again, I am not known for being the classiest person.

      Once there is a Naked, semi-naked or any other photo of you out there... it will eventually end up somewhere you don't want it.. if you are brave enough to take the pictures... you are brave enough to face the consequences...

      Just my 2 cents.
    • Posts: 1,863 Member
      I learned a long time ago that if you are willing to take them and share you are willing to keep those pics to yourself.

      my last serious GF and I both have pics. All my friends found her very attractive and have requested to see these pics. I won't share them. Sorry
    • Posts: 95
      if you have pics of him, make sure you photo shop it( if needed) to make his junk really really small then pass it around !
    • Posts: 230 Member
      Relationship mistake: Nakie pictures of one another

      Relationship ends...someone has to be immature and white trash and spread those pics around

      what would you do and how should they be punished??

      They can be punished. Legally. If you don't mind the police, DA, court, etc. seeing your kibbles and bits, then go ahead and presss charges. The way I hear it, these days the courts would rather go after those perps than the people who are out committing murders.
    • Posts: 1,035 Member
      And let me clarify: social & financial status does not determine if someone is trash! It's about how you conduct yourself! Just because you have money does not mean you have class!

      I agree with this ^^

      Unfortunately, in this situation what are you going to do? Demand that everyone who's now seen the pics "unsee" them?

      Do as the Brits try- "Keep calm and carry on"
    • Posts: 2,351 Member
      When you take naked photos you must assume that they will be made public. Eventually. Either accept this or don't take naked photos.

      Also, when evaluating the relative trashiness of an act you should ask yourself, "what came first, the chicken or the egg?"
    • Posts: 1,223 Member
      I just operate under the assumption that anything I do or say over email, text, SMS, forum, and skype can and will be used against me at some point. I didn't really want a political career anyway.

      +1

      I just had a conversation with my son in the last month about sending pics in text messages/posting in forums/etc....and as I told him "It doesn't matter how hard you hit the delete key, once it's out there it's there forever."
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