Always single!

Don't worry about it. I think most of us involved in long term relationships wish their significant others would just disappear once in a while.

Are they blind? You look great, and sounds like you have a good personality.. don't know what's wrong with them, but I don't think it's you.

Stop blaming yourself. There is NOTHING wrong with you. Don't change for a guy. They won't change for you, and you shouldn't change for them. Be yourself. If it isn't meant to be, it isn't meant to be. You will find someone...don't worry.

However, maybe you should just ask. It might not hurt to find out why...especially if it will stop you from scrutinizing yourself.

Some days I feel destined to be single forever. We just have to remember that if it is meant to be it will happen then find a way to enjoy just being you. If you can't be happy out of a relationship you'll never be happy in one. Find ways to love yourself first!

it seems in my opinion as I watch my daughter struggle w/ the same thing... there are very few men... real men out there....sorry men who read this that are the real deal... but you know what I mean

Ugh....so I'm not sure what is wrong with me. But yet another guy just disappeared....Asked me out on a few dates....I thought they went well....all of a sudden the texts slow down and then nada. I just don't get it. Used to blame my weight....now I'm afraid its just me haha. Ugh...sorry just wanted to vent

I hear ya!!! The same thing just happened to me....GREAT first date (HE said so afterwards, more than once), made plans to see each other again, then he just stopped replying to my texts. I was tempted to ask for an explanation, but what is the point??? It is really hard to believe that there isn't something wrong with me, even though everyone tells me that it isn't me. I don't really have much advice to offer since I feel like lately I am in the same boat, but I can let ya know that you're not alone! You look great, your progress is amazing, so don't let it get you down...I just try to tell myself that I wouldn't want a guy who thinks it's OK to just disappear with no explanation - that says a LOT about their character, and very little about anything you could have done wrong. Seems like people are always looking for the next best thing - they might think you are great, but maybe there is something greater. There are just too many options these days, that makes it hard. I swear that guys were much more committed and willing to settle down with me when I was in my early & mid 20's than they are now. I know what you're dealing with!

I called and left a message and sent a couple of texts....no response.

That sucks. I hate that. It's time to move on. Anymore texts/calls to him and you are starting down the path of stalker.

I was actually at the point of resigning myself to being that "cat" lady after about four YEARS of horrible dates, fizzled relationships, and just bad experiences ... to the point where I was legitimately writing a book about my awful, awful adventures and then I met my current man. That was almost four years ago. So there is hope, and there are great ones out there! Unfortunately, you just have to pick through all the not so great ones in order to reach them. In the mean time, focusing on yourself, and being totally happy with the person you are and the life you lead is a great start!

Well, I must say...Your experience sounds like a repeat of what I have been through. What you had happen is so standard in the dating world these days. This guy just does'nt know how to have a proper conversation with you about why he might not want to go out again. This is not about YOU. it is about him. And his lack of class.
Do not play movies in your head and waste your valuable time even giving it a second thought. Keep your head up and if you should decide to take a break from the stress of dating do so. Otherwise, if you want to continue dating. It's been my experience not to put any expectations out there .It will save your sanity
Sorry this had to happen to you.
kiki