What is it about women....???
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Most of the time I'm not wrong. But when I am, I admit it. Even to my husband. It's only happened once or twice.0
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I am sorry you were irritated by your wife for not admitting she was wrong and I am sorry that you are pissed that she didn't apologize.
I'm not your wife but sometimes its nice to be heard.0 -
Well that and your lack knowledge on how to use quotes...
Your first mistake was using CAPS. It's img not IMGWish I knew how to post pictures. I have the perfect one for you.
Excellent. Thanks for posting that. I need to learn how to do that.
Was that my first mistake or my only mistake? Clarification woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!0 -
Well that and your lack knowledge on how to use quotes...
Your first mistake was using CAPS. It's img not IMGWish I knew how to post pictures. I have the perfect one for you.
Excellent. Thanks for posting that. I need to learn how to do that.
Was that my first mistake or my only mistake? Clarification woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oooh....burn. Should I point out the grammatical error in YOUR post???0 -
Maybe your wife is just a *****... just a thought.0
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Maybe your wife is just a *****... just a thought.
Maybe that's a thought you should have kept to yourself. I may be pissed off at her, but she is still the love of my life and the mother of my kids. So, watch your mouth.0 -
Go ahead, won't hurt my feelings
Well that and your lack knowledge on how to use quotes...
Your first mistake was using CAPS. It's img not IMGWish I knew how to post pictures. I have the perfect one for you.
Excellent. Thanks for posting that. I need to learn how to do that.
Was that my first mistake or my only mistake? Clarification woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oooh....burn. Should I point out the grammatical error in YOUR post???0 -
Maybe your wife is just a *****... just a thought.
Maybe that's a thought you should have kept to yourself. I may be pissed off at her, but she is still the love of my life and the mother of my kids. So, watch your mouth.
A good...no, a GREAT hubby sticks up for his wife! kudos to you, sir0 -
Maybe your wife is just a *****... just a thought.
Maybe that's a thought you should have kept to yourself. I may be pissed off at her, but she is still the love of my life and the mother of my kids. So, watch your mouth.
hahahahahahahaha0 -
Maybe your wife is just a *****... just a thought.
Maybe that's a thought you should have kept to yourself. I may be pissed off at her, but she is still the love of my life and the mother of my kids. So, watch your mouth.
A good...no, a GREAT hubby sticks up for his wife! kudos to you, sir
^^^ agree
and this person just joined last month and makes her first entry into the forums with that?
wait. maybe it's his wife??0 -
Maybe your wife is just a *****... just a thought.
Maybe that's a thought you should have kept to yourself. I may be pissed off at her, but she is still the love of my life and the mother of my kids. So, watch your mouth.
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Maybe your wife is just a *****... just a thought.
Maybe that's a thought you should have kept to yourself. I may be pissed off at her, but she is still the love of my life and the mother of my kids. So, watch your mouth.
A good...no, a GREAT hubby sticks up for his wife! kudos to you, sir
^^^ agree
and this person just joined last month and makes her first entry into the forums with that?
wait. maybe it's his wife??
Nah. We don't live in California.0 -
Maybe your wife is just a *****... just a thought.
Maybe that's a thought you should have kept to yourself. I may be pissed off at her, but she is still the love of my life and the mother of my kids. So, watch your mouth.
A good...no, a GREAT hubby sticks up for his wife! kudos to you, sir
^^^ agree
and this person just joined last month and makes her first entry into the forums with that?
wait. maybe it's his wife??
Nah. We don't live in California.
yeah and i'm not really 39 either0 -
nope my hubby is here on the other couch playing skylanders, and we are in clearwater FL..... :-D I wish my hubs would join MFP! but he wants to do his own thing with weightloss0
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Maybe your wife is just a *****... just a thought.
Maybe that's a thought you should have kept to yourself. I may be pissed off at her, but she is still the love of my life and the mother of my kids. So, watch your mouth.
A good...no, a GREAT hubby sticks up for his wife! kudos to you, sir
^^^ agree
and this person just joined last month and makes her first entry into the forums with that?
wait. maybe it's his wife??
Nah. We don't live in California.
yeah and i'm not really 39 either
But you SAY you are because you want to be like me. I understand. I'm pretty cool.0 -
Hrm seems the opposite for me. My husband is ALWAYS right. Cause he knows everything. And I'm a stupid girl, what do I know? :P I feel your frustration... it's like saying "I'm sorry" is the hardest thing for him to do...
Saying sorry is the easiest thing to do.... They are just words. Being sincere and genuine when you do so, is a different story.0 -
Hrm seems the opposite for me. My husband is ALWAYS right. Cause he knows everything. And I'm a stupid girl, what do I know? :P I feel your frustration... it's like saying "I'm sorry" is the hardest thing for him to do...
Saying sorry is the easiest thing to do.... They are just words. Being sincere and genuine when you do so, is a different story.
crazy talk!0 -
We (hubby and I) have tried to do things his way and they don't work out, so he knows everything needs to be done my way and he doesn't argue with that. We do argue and fight, but we do NOT go to bed mad at each other.
I'm sorry she pulled this off on your birthday.. Happy birthday :flowerforyou:0 -
I have a really ad habit of apologizing in a pretty backhanded way...I say "I'm sorry you feel like that" it used to work on the hubs but he definitely caught on that it's not a real apology...I acknowledge that I hate to apologize...probably most women as well! Hope everything works out tonight...0
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I used to be really stubborn and not admit when I was wrong. Growing up in the woods with my mom, sometimes we would have fights and I noticed over time that she would try and resolve things (even if it was my fault). Realizing this, I began to admit when I was wrong or made a mistake.
Instead of being in denial of my mistakes, it is better to learn from them and grow.0 -
If a man is alone in the forest, and he says something and there is no woman to hear it, is he still wrong?
Probably.0 -
Some people, men or women, they just feel they shouldn't have to apologize or admit fault.
I'd actually know why they think the way they do, because then I could understand their actions better. 0 -
if its his fault but he doesn't realise it i generally don't speak to him for a few days... we work and live together so its not fun! he's a stubborn bugger.... i always bloody apologise if i've done something wrong because i can actually see what ive done wrong!0
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dude, you can't go putting a post titled "what is it about women?" and then rant about your wife and women in general (though I note that you understand not all women are like this) and not expect to get slightly ****ted on. Just saying...
but to my point, I am definitely on the side of apologizing too much, especially with my boyfriend. when my feelings get hurt about things, I take a while to sort out what I'm actually feeling and why, and then I eventually tell him, but then I feel like I'm just overly sensitive so I end up apologizing for being so sensitive and getting so easily hurt and risking tension over nothing. so i'm still figuring out how to handle this conundrum. I end up getting upset about being upset and feeling like it's all my fault and doubting what I thought was right. So maybe you should be thankful that your wife can stick to her guns. maybe you wouldn't like the opposite end of the spectrum which is me....0 -
Edited. I made a sarcastic comment about being married. But I see that will offend the OP so I'll delete it. See how respect works?0
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I'm sorry that you're wrong.
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Most of the time "men nor women" don't apologize to their spouse because they do not feel they can trust them to forgive without critisisim Which to read your post I am guessing that is the issue here...just guessing. Maybe if you let her off the hook and forgive her without explaining why you were right she would feel more trust
When a women or a man for that matter apologize they are making themselves vulnerable to correction.....when we feel it is unneccessary we clam up. No one want to be around a "know it all."
Just food for thought....and you dont even have to log this food in! Calorie free!0 -
Most of the time "men nor women" don't apologize to their spouse because they do not feel they can trust them to forgive without critisisim Which to read your post I am guessing that is the issue here...just guessing. Maybe if you let her off the hook and forgive her without explaining why you were right she would feel more trust
When a women or a man for that matter apologize they are making themselves vulnerable to correction.....when we feel it is unneccessary we clam up. No one want to be around a "know it all."
Just food for thought....and you dont even have to log this food in! Calorie free!0 -
Men don't apologize much either, at least mine doesn't verbally. He does with his actions when he's wrong, and I apologize in words when I am. It's our human pride that gets in the way.0
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I'm the most stubborn person i know. I will straight faced tell you the sky is effin purple and that the cows flew home. I'm never wrong even when i know i'm wrong. Common household objects get thrown around, there's yelling and stomping of the feet. I'm never wrong. I go to bed pissed off and don't you dare effin ask/tell me to have sex unless you want your balls tied up around your throat.
then the next day when the storm blows over I'll laugh and apologize. Clearly i was wrong.
I should note i'm divorced and have never made a relationship last longer than 4---4 years, 4 weeks, and the last one was about 4 months. But i've been to therapy and am in touch with my inner self--i got tired of replacing common household object.
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