What are you going to do when you reach your goal?

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  • becoming_a_new_me
    becoming_a_new_me Posts: 1,860 Member
    Tummy tuck and boob lift. Bobbies are big enough, but just need them to be hefted up a bit.
  • AssembledIncorrectly
    AssembledIncorrectly Posts: 64 Member
    i rewarded myself with plastic surgery. Without all the extra skin flopping around, I feel human again : )
    P.S you look fantastic!
  • AssembledIncorrectly
    AssembledIncorrectly Posts: 64 Member
    I'm sorry to hear that :( If you ever want to talk, let me know.

    As for what I'm doing, the first thing I'm doing is getting my cross tattoo :) And buying a CUTE wardrobe. LOL

    Don't be sorry..it was a fast marriage we knew eachother a month before we got married..it's been 5 long years now..and I CANNOT wait till I leave him :)..I'm not even that big I just want more options..haha I love men shoppng, havent been able to do it since me and my husband split last :(

    Sounds like your leaving him because you can't control your lust for men, maybe?

    No not at all..I'm not THAT bad...I just wanna replace the boring one I have with a better one..Why should I be with someone who tells me everyday how he hates me..wants me to die..always yelling infront of my children..He's not a very pleasant person even when he's sober...Therefore I am going to continue to waste his money..until I am skinnier, done with college and have enough saved up to bounce.:) Afterall why should I be miserable and unhappy forever?
  • sapphiretyger
    sapphiretyger Posts: 79 Member
    Sadly I reached my goal once! I bought a ton of clothes that fit me at that weight, then have slowly gained back 20 pounds. So ... I would say when I reach my goal (again) I will be able to comfortably wear those clothes again.
    Also I must add that once I reach my goal, this time I plan to make maintenance a priority. Still counting those calories and keeping track of my fitness, etc. I have learned the hard way that I am going to have to do this for the rest of my life if I want to stay at my ideal weight.
  • AssembledIncorrectly
    AssembledIncorrectly Posts: 64 Member
    I will continue to stay fit so I don't gain but maintain a healthy weight! Also, I would have dumped him longgg ago gurl! You are too pretty to have a jerk face like that. If he is stuck on such trivial things then he is no good!

    Jerkface :) LOVE the word..lol. He's def. gone, he just doesn't know it yet..but he wishes it everyday! I just figure my options will be better when I'm a little lighter..right?
  • AssembledIncorrectly
    AssembledIncorrectly Posts: 64 Member
    So what's everybody going to do when they reach their goal? Me? Well I am going on a hunt for a new husband and ditching the idiot I have now..afterall if I'm not good enough "chunky" what makes him good enough when I'm not? lol

    If he is that bad....why wait until you reach your goal weight? Noone should ever make you feel like your not good enough or worth it. Someone will appreciate you...round or small.


    I think I am going to have a FULL Spa day....head to toe when I reach my goal weight. THE WORKS.....Hair Done, Nails Done, Toes Done, Massage, Body Scrub, Brazilian Wax, ANY Thing I can think of.

    Your right..It'll be easier later then now though. I have to save money..finish college and then I'll be ready..until then I'm just floating through this "relationship". And he doesn't make me feel not good enough..I know I am beautiful :)
  • nnylee
    nnylee Posts: 811 Member
    So what's everybody going to do when they reach their goal? Me? Well I am going on a hunt for a new husband and ditching the idiot I have now..afterall if I'm not good enough "chunky" what makes him good enough when I'm not? lol

    Why don't you just ditch the idiot you have now? :/
  • bombsfadeaway
    bombsfadeaway Posts: 29 Member
    I've never worn a bikini a day in my life. When I reach my goal I am going to buy one and strut myself down the beach with pride!

    But, since I live in Illinois, I guess I'm also going to have to treat myself to a vacation somewhere where there is a beach ;)
  • AssembledIncorrectly
    AssembledIncorrectly Posts: 64 Member
    i find it really disturbing that you wouldnt leave him now vs when you are thin.

    thankfully my hubs loved me when i was 100 lbs, and loves me at 170 too.

    when i reach my goal im going to go on a shopping spree
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    Good for you!
  • AssembledIncorrectly
    AssembledIncorrectly Posts: 64 Member
    So what's everybody going to do when they reach their goal? Me? Well I am going on a hunt for a new husband and ditching the idiot I have now..afterall if I'm not good enough "chunky" what makes him good enough when I'm not? lol

    Hon you better check into divorce laws in your state... if you wait too long you may be in for a really rough courtroom drama and it'll cost more money
    We split up last year and I already filed divorce papers..but we got back together:( I have a year left yet to get them signed..so I better hurry huh?
  • Jessintherain
    Jessintherain Posts: 67 Member
    I've never worn a bikini a day in my life. When I reach my goal I am going to buy one and strut myself down the beach with pride!

    But, since I live in Illinois, I guess I'm also going to have to treat myself to a vacation somewhere where there is a beach ;)

    haha. Don't forget the sunscreen.
  • sthrnchick
    sthrnchick Posts: 771
    I am going shoe shopping... and MUST buy and sport a bikini on an island with crystal blue water!
  • abberbabber
    abberbabber Posts: 972 Member
    I'm going to Disney World!! :laugh:

    <thinks> Actually, I wouldn't mind...since I'd know for sure I could ride all the rides :bigsmile:
  • abberbabber
    abberbabber Posts: 972 Member
    Buy lots of sexy clothings! I really want to get some 50 style pin up dresses!

    I love love love that style of clothing! That's been on my "Skinny List" for awhile now, too :)
  • pearsy67
    pearsy67 Posts: 104 Member
    I am going to let my wife have an affair with a trim, fit and muscled bloke, just like she deserves.



    It WILL be ME!!

    I hope :-)
  • abberbabber
    abberbabber Posts: 972 Member
    I'm sorry to hear that :( If you ever want to talk, let me know.

    As for what I'm doing, the first thing I'm doing is getting my cross tattoo :) And buying a CUTE wardrobe. LOL

    Don't be sorry..it was a fast marriage we knew eachother a month before we got married..it's been 5 long years now..and I CANNOT wait till I leave him :)..I'm not even that big I just want more options..haha I love men shoppng, havent been able to do it since me and my husband split last :(

    Sounds like your leaving him because you can't control your lust for men, maybe?

    No not at all..I'm not THAT bad...I just wanna replace the boring one I have with a better one..Why should I be with someone who tells me everyday how he hates me..wants me to die..always yelling infront of my children..He's not a very pleasant person even when he's sober...Therefore I am going to continue to waste his money..until I am skinnier, done with college and have enough saved up to bounce.:) Afterall why should I be miserable and unhappy forever?

    Darling, that's not boring...that's abusive and you need out. Yesterday.
  • AssembledIncorrectly
    AssembledIncorrectly Posts: 64 Member
    I'm sorry to hear that :( If you ever want to talk, let me know.

    As for what I'm doing, the first thing I'm doing is getting my cross tattoo :) And buying a CUTE wardrobe. LOL

    Don't be sorry..it was a fast marriage we knew eachother a month before we got married..it's been 5 long years now..and I CANNOT wait till I leave him :)..I'm not even that big I just want more options..haha I love men shoppng, havent been able to do it since me and my husband split last :(

    Sounds like your leaving him because you can't control your lust for men, maybe?

    No not at all..I'm not THAT bad...I just wanna replace the boring one I have with a better one..Why should I be with someone who tells me everyday how he hates me..wants me to die..always yelling infront of my children..He's not a very pleasant person even when he's sober...Therefore I am going to continue to waste his money..until I am skinnier, done with college and have enough saved up to bounce.:) Afterall why should I be miserable and unhappy forever?

    Darling, that's not boring...that's abusive and you need out. Yesterday.

    I know that too:) But when he's not being abusive he's very boring. I guess I got accustomed to the money..I'm in college and homeschooling my second grader...also chasing a 3 yr.old around. Right now I am not financially able to do it.. It will happen...I usually don't see hi much anyways he works ALL the time
  • abberbabber
    abberbabber Posts: 972 Member


    Darling, that's not boring...that's abusive and you need out. Yesterday.

    I know that too:) But when he's not being abusive he's very boring. I guess I got accustomed to the money..I'm in college and homeschooling my second grader...also chasing a 3 yr.old around. Right now I am not financially able to do it.. It will happen...I usually don't see hi much anyways he works ALL the time

    I understand about being in school and not having the money...I'm pretty much in the same boat. Hopefully you can find a way out sooner rather than later :)
  • tenunderfour
    tenunderfour Posts: 429 Member
    I'm going to run a race in a sports bra and shorts! It will mean a lot to me if I can show off my abs! That's my goal!
  • Walk into Victoria Secret and buy something other then Lotion...:blushing:
  • I am going to let my wife have an affair with a trim, fit and muscled bloke, just like she deserves.



    It WILL be ME!!

    I hope :-)

    LOVE IT... :)
  • sukatx
    sukatx Posts: 103
    I see a lot of people on here talking about getting new tattoos when they reach their goal weight. I'm the opposite. When I reach my goal, I'd like to have one of mine removed! Since I'm able to wear less clothing with confidence, I'd like to be able to show off that skin without this particular ink in the way.

    I also plan to wear my leather pants out in public.
  • abberbabber
    abberbabber Posts: 972 Member
    Walk into Victoria Secret and buy something other then Lotion...:blushing:

    Yes!! Also, for me, walk into "normal stores" without feeling like everyone's wondering what the fat chick is doing there lol.
  • kmq1111
    kmq1111 Posts: 11
    I'm going to say hello to my abs. I've never seen them before :)
  • mikey1976
    mikey1976 Posts: 1,005 Member
    when i get where i'm going i want profeshional pic done to do two thing with one to post up to show the difference that says you lady didn't want me then so why on earth do i need you now and the seacond would be to track my ex down and show her what she missed out on. revenge is sweet that way
  • I'm rewarding myself with a much needed vacation.. maybe a cruise? hhhmmm.. and of course I must have new clothes, a new hair style, manicure, the works for the cruise.
  • lol. :-) I hear you. I wish you much luck! You can do it! Hopefully, I will have reached my weight loss goal by my birthday (2 months from now), and I will celebrate with a party and tons of new clothes...A trip to an exotic island would be great too! I guess we'll see what happens...
  • I will probably freak out and be hyper. I might even run in circles for a while. :happy:

    I need to lose around 160 lbs, so it will take a while, but I'm trying to look at things one day at a time~

    Oh, and I'll also buy lots of cute shirts and some smaller pants! :smile:

    Maybe my family and I can celebrate, but I won't invite the ice cream and Dr. Pepper.
  • chevy88grl
    chevy88grl Posts: 3,937 Member
    I've been at or below my goal weight for .. wow... getting close to 2 years now.

    What have I done?

    I buy adorable clothes that aren't black. And I can buy a size 10 off any rack at ANY store and know it'll fit.

    I got a new job

    I am confident

    Most of all? Now, I'm going to LIVE. I am happy and plan to enjoy life!
  • DesignGuy
    DesignGuy Posts: 457 Member
    Honestly, I've no clue. Think my reward will be looking better and feeling better. But I might take a trip too. Seems like the thing to do.
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