FLIRTY WOMEN - AGE DIFFERENCE

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  • CarolinaGirlinVA
    CarolinaGirlinVA Posts: 1,508 Member
    I'm starting to think something "happens" to women when they get close to 40 or so.

    Oh how right you are!! (and I still have 2 more years before I hit 40!)

    Wait till you hit menopause - totally liberating!

    Curious...how so? I'm actually worried I'll lose interest when I hit menopause. Of course, then there'd be less stress in my marriage because neither one of us will want it! :angry:
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    i wouldn't mind but i'd feel more comfortable with girls under my age bracket down to 18 yo ;P
  • hurleycutie142
    hurleycutie142 Posts: 479 Member
    i honestly dont care... u just have to keep my interest :]
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    If you're old enough to be my dad, no unless you look amazing, and don't look like you're pushing 40...I'm so okay with that =O

    Kinda reminds me of a comment a guy made in another thread.

    The same exact suggestive message from two different guys (one attractive, one old, fat, ugly) will result in different reactions. The attractive guy gets a pass, and the other guy is labeled a creeper.

    Definitely true. I don't see anything wrong with that though, its a matter of attraction. I'll be 20 in five days, I don't think it's wrong for me to not want to flirt back with someone in their forties.

    With that said, I wouldn't mind if a female ever flirted with me irrespective of age.

    I don't see anything wrong with that either. However, an older man or unattractive man should not be considered a creeper, instead should be considered not your type.
  • mariuch11
    mariuch11 Posts: 24
    I am 41 and I have always been a flirt. I love it. The youngest guy I have flirted with was 13 years younger than me (he was 21 & I was 34) and that was awesome!! I have been told by male friends that when I flirt with them I make them feel sexy even though they know I'm not going to sleep with them. I have also flirted with some women. So I guess I'm also an equal opportunity flirt :tongue: men, women, age...it's all good as long as it's legal, your upfront with your intentions and your at least 10 years older than my oldest son he's 21. :happy: But alass I haven't flirted with anyone in many years. I currently have no flirty friends in real life and none on MFP, that I know of :happy: so no flirting going on here :ohwell: but I am open to some flirting if anyone is interested :wink:
  • Expialidojess
    Expialidojess Posts: 441 Member
    When you're flirting age doesn't really matter to me. Maybe when I was younger it would have, but now it's no big deal.
  • Steve_Runs
    Steve_Runs Posts: 443 Member
    Love to flirt and I'm 57. But hey, its the internets and attitude is everything. If they're under 25 I might be a bit wary, but it's always great to have younger guys thinking you're hot! Not that I have anything against guys around my age, either, though... :wink:
    I hear that! You are hot btw!
  • Kerri_is_so_very
    Kerri_is_so_very Posts: 999 Member
    I'm 40 and I work with almost all men (3 women and 40 guys) and almost all of them are over 50, most 60+. One was 75 and we flirted regularly, had lots of laughs until he retired last year and he and I still get together for lunch or speak on the phone now and then. I'm a flirty person and I love all men equally! :flowerforyou: However, some are more receptive than others to my personality type and if I there is a good connection it can turn into a very flirty friendship (and at times more :wink: ). I do tend to like older men over younger ones, always have.
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    I was about to comment on a younger mans excellent ABS when the girl b4 me posted " I can flirt with him, Its not like Im 40 or anything"

    sheesh!
  • Kerri_is_so_very
    Kerri_is_so_very Posts: 999 Member
    I'm starting to think something "happens" to women when they get close to 40 or so.

    HA HA!!! You got that right!!!! It's called "I'm in my sexual prime and it's all about ME"!!! :drinker: :smooched:
  • jbella99
    jbella99 Posts: 596 Member
    If you have more in common with my 19 year old son than me then you are too young to flirt with. In my experience this about 30.

    Datingwise... I like older men. But I would date someone a couple years younger if he was mature enough to hold a conversation about something other than nascar and hockey.
  • jbella99
    jbella99 Posts: 596 Member
    I'm starting to think something "happens" to women when they get close to 40 or so.

    HA HA!!! You got that right!!!! It's called "I'm in my sexual prime and it's all about ME"!!! :drinker: :smooched:

    Ya I don't quite get this.. I mean other than stamina what the hell does a 20 year old know about anything........ Sure they look good with their tight *kitten* and rockhard abs but other than that I'd prefer a man who actually gets that it's all about me........ ;)
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    Ya I don't quite get this.. I mean other than stamina what the hell does a 20 year old know about anything........ Sure they look good with their tight *kitten* and rockhard abs but other than that I'd prefer a man who actually gets that it's all about me........ ;)

    :laugh:
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    If you're old enough to be my dad, no unless you look amazing, and don't look like you're pushing 40...I'm so okay with that =O

    Kinda reminds me of a comment a guy made in another thread.

    The same exact suggestive message from two different guys (one attractive, one old, fat, ugly) will result in different reactions. The attractive guy gets a pass, and the other guy is labeled a creeper.

    I will flirt with a younger guy if he starts it (21+, ok ,maybe 24+), because that would make me feel pervy if I started it. 30s I would be ok starting myself. If he's old enough to be my dad, that might be a little creepy for me, but most of the guys who do flirt with me are younger, for some reason. As for labeling an unattractive guy a creeper, even an attractive guy can give me a creeper vibe. They don't all get a pass! Not saying an unattractive guy would automatically get the creeper label, either. :smile:
  • Bikini_Bound150
    Bikini_Bound150 Posts: 461 Member
    I prefer older guys, personally...but I'm an equal opportunity flirt :bigsmile:

    Hahaha I LOVE this!!

    My boyfriend is 5 years older than me. I like older guys, I wouldn't mind dating someone even older as long as they don't pull the "daddy" thing on me. I'm not looking for a father! lol

    But I find is especially fun to flirt with nerdy guys because I know it made their days lmao!
  • littlelaura
    littlelaura Posts: 1,028 Member
    I draw the line on anyone who hypothetically speaking could have biologically been my father or son lol, pretty much I keep it to no more than 10 yrs age difference in either direction from my own age. I will still compliment someone of any age on a great photo or nice weightloss results and looking nice for all their hard work but not as flirting.
  • Kerri_is_so_very
    Kerri_is_so_very Posts: 999 Member
    I'm starting to think something "happens" to women when they get close to 40 or so.

    HA HA!!! You got that right!!!! It's called "I'm in my sexual prime and it's all about ME"!!! :drinker: :smooched:

    Ya I don't quite get this.. I mean other than stamina what the hell does a 20 year old know about anything........ Sure they look good with their tight *kitten* and rockhard abs but other than that I'd prefer a man who actually gets that it's all about me........ ;)

    Ahhhh sister, where have you been!?!?! My thoughts exactly!!!
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
    I am a total equal opportunity flirter (does not matter gender, age, etc) :wink:
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    I feel a little dirty flirting with the 20 somethings on my list. But I get over it quick :wink:
  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
    I enjoy flirting with both sexes...if you have a salty sense of humor, and we can laugh at eachother, it's on!
  • kimberly0416
    kimberly0416 Posts: 123 Member
    Flirting is just flirting so age doesn't matter, doesn't mean I am going to jump in the sack or even date the person.. I do have to admit I enjoy flirting but that is all it is.. It does take me a bit to feel comfortable enough to flirt though.... :ohwell:
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,412 Member
    I'm starting to think something "happens" to women when they get close to 40 or so.

    HA HA!!! You got that right!!!! It's called "I'm in my sexual prime and it's all about ME"!!! :drinker: :smooched:

    Ya I don't quite get this.. I mean other than stamina what the hell does a 20 year old know about anything........ Sure they look good with their tight *kitten* and rockhard abs but other than that I'd prefer a man who actually gets that it's all about me........ ;)

    LOL some things really do get better with age. However, I'll flirt with any age I want to.
  • ktfitzgerald
    ktfitzgerald Posts: 369 Member
    Hey! Some women like men AND cats. The two are not mutually exclusive.



    Never forget that a COUGAR is essentially feline. :laugh: :bigsmile: :noway:

    - - -

    young men - be VERY afraid! RAWR!

    Well said!!!!
  • Rick_SH
    Rick_SH Posts: 71 Member
    I'm starting to think something "happens" to women when they get close to 40 or so.

    HA HA!!! You got that right!!!! It's called "I'm in my sexual prime and it's all about ME"!!! :drinker: :smooched:

    Ya I don't quite get this.. I mean other than stamina what the hell does a 20 year old know about anything........ Sure they look good with their tight *kitten* and rockhard abs but other than that I'd prefer a man who actually gets that it's all about me........ ;)

    Ahhhh sister, where have you been!?!?! My thoughts exactly!!!

    The stamina in youth is wasted on the young. Oh what I would do now with what i know if only i had the ability and energy like i did 30 years ago. its a funny backwards thing - life is. just when you figure it out, you can't or don't want to anymore. lol
  • DAM_Fine
    DAM_Fine Posts: 1,227 Member
    I'm starting to think something "happens" to women when they get close to 40 or so.

    Oh how right you are!! (and I still have 2 more years before I hit 40!)

    Wait till you hit menopause - totally liberating!

    Curious...how so? I'm actually worried I'll lose interest when I hit menopause. Of course, then there'd be less stress in my marriage because neither one of us will want it! :angry:

    LMAO - no loss of interest here! No TOM, no fears of unwanted pregnancies, and its only a lack of hormones that effect most women. I seem to have been blessed with an abundance of them.
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    I've learned no matter what age a woman is she likes these two things A LOT!

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    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRvf0EWn38xsKuMVB4oJlz6rO0X_rKyXaAImphqoaLRkp_beI4N

    If you have both it's not even a fair game anymore. It's like having cheat codes to your favorite game.
  • CarolinaGirlinVA
    CarolinaGirlinVA Posts: 1,508 Member
    I'm starting to think something "happens" to women when they get close to 40 or so.

    Oh how right you are!! (and I still have 2 more years before I hit 40!)

    Wait till you hit menopause - totally liberating!

    Curious...how so? I'm actually worried I'll lose interest when I hit menopause. Of course, then there'd be less stress in my marriage because neither one of us will want it! :angry:

    LMAO - no loss of interest here! No TOM, no fears of unwanted pregnancies, and its only a lack of hormones that effect most women. I seem to have been blessed with an abundance of them.

    Oh hell girl, I had a hysterectomy 4 years ago! Still have the ovaries so I still get hormone cycles...but no mess, no babies! Given how *****y I get with PMS, I think I have plenty of hormones to spare!! :drinker:
  • DAM_Fine
    DAM_Fine Posts: 1,227 Member
    Love to flirt and I'm 57. But hey, its the internets and attitude is everything. If they're under 25 I might be a bit wary, but it's always great to have younger guys thinking you're hot! Not that I have anything against guys around my age, either, though... :wink:
    I hear that! You are hot btw!
    Mmmmm - you're not so bad yourself1
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    Love to flirt and I'm 57. But hey, its the internets and attitude is everything. If they're under 25 I might be a bit wary, but it's always great to have younger guys thinking you're hot! Not that I have anything against guys around my age, either, though... :wink:
    I hear that! You are hot btw!
    Mmmmm - you're not so bad yourself1

    You are rocking those jeans, but much prefer those sexy legs bare!!! :wink:
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    I've learned no matter what age a woman is she likes these two things A LOT!

    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQ4OrXdKf65f2LR9HE-uudRQ0_od3uP-Apbw7VHBpM62Ah-YLkojw

    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRvf0EWn38xsKuMVB4oJlz6rO0X_rKyXaAImphqoaLRkp_beI4N

    If you have both it's not even a fair game anymore. It's like having cheat codes to your favorite game.
    If you have the top thing I will stay away...