Ex's/Cheating - What have you done?

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  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,611 Member
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    I have better things to do with my time than involve myself in my exes lives and social relationships. Mainly because once I break up with someone I stop caring about what they are doing with other people and focus on my own business and relationships.
    well that is great thanks for your negative comment. This post meant as a light hearted, fun, post, not everyones stand on how great they are becasue they leave ex's in the past!
    It is kind of pathetic, though, don't you think?

    After seeing this and many of your posts on the forums I have a new profile pic for you.

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  • weighlossforbaby
    weighlossforbaby Posts: 847 Member
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    My hubby was my first so no cheating here! :)
  • JennaM222
    JennaM222 Posts: 1,996 Member
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    haha! What a great break in my day! I left items of clothing in my ex's dirty clothes basket. Like he EVER did his own laundry! lol. He had called me to come over one day when his new girlfriend was out of town. I left him because he was a cheater to begin with. So, I went over left my clothes in his basket, and left. She was not happy when she came home =)

    ha ha! Thank you for sharing! :)
  • KaciWood19
    KaciWood19 Posts: 553 Member
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    I wouldn't go back to someone who cheated on me, I'm not into necrophilia.

    :laugh:
  • Warmbloodwear
    Warmbloodwear Posts: 387 Member
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    My wife started showering and wearing perfume before going tot he gym. I cut the internet and her gym membership.

    Bam. Problem solved.

    :laugh: Indeed
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,677 Member
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    I wouldn't go back to someone who cheated on me, I'm not into necrophilia.

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  • curvykim78
    curvykim78 Posts: 799 Member
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    Well when I suspected cheating I answered the phone the same time he did. The new girl gave him directions to her house. Once he was there, we left a giany sign saying BUSTED on his windshield. I went back to 'our' apartment and rearranged the furniture so he couldn't walk through the doorways (HAHA Couches blocked them!), loosened all the lightbulbs so he couldn't see to walk and he ran into everything, poured cologne into his amplifiers and then scrubbed the toilet with his toothbrush. =) Which, soon thereafter he keyed my car for karma I guess. *sigh* the good ol days! LOL Ironically, we're friends now!
  • shellicious777
    shellicious777 Posts: 48 Member
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    I have better things to do with my time than involve myself in my exes lives and social relationships. Mainly because once I break up with someone I stop caring about what they are doing with other people and focus on my own business and relationships.

    I was just thinking the same thing...who wants to waste their time and energy on that drama!!!
  • marieautumn
    marieautumn Posts: 932 Member
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    i have no fun stories to tell such as these. I've only had 1 boyfriend that cheated on me that i know of, and he was the father of my child. I never gave him a chance after i saw his true colors. :smile: plenty of other fish in the sea.
  • GrnEydGrl86
    GrnEydGrl86 Posts: 154
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    It's called self respect. Boom.
  • JennaM222
    JennaM222 Posts: 1,996 Member
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    Well when I suspected cheating I answered the phone the same time he did. The new girl gave him directions to her house. Once he was there, we left a giany sign saying BUSTED on his windshield. I went back to 'our' apartment and rearranged the furniture so he couldn't walk through the doorways (HAHA Couches blocked them!), loosened all the lightbulbs so he couldn't see to walk and he ran into everything, poured cologne into his amplifiers and then scrubbed the toilet with his toothbrush. =) Which, soon thereafter he keyed my car for karma I guess. *sigh* the good ol days! LOL Ironically, we're friends now!

    hahahaha!! crazy, and funny!!
  • JennaM222
    JennaM222 Posts: 1,996 Member
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    I have better things to do with my time than involve myself in my exes lives and social relationships. Mainly because once I break up with someone I stop caring about what they are doing with other people and focus on my own business and relationships.
    well that is great thanks for your negative comment. This post meant as a light hearted, fun, post, not everyones stand on how great they are becasue they leave ex's in the past!
    It is kind of pathetic, though, don't you think?

    Please go away.
  • w_i_n_d_y
    w_i_n_d_y Posts: 216 Member
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    No one has ever cheated on me, so...I dunno.

    You mean that you know of...
  • MeliciousGibson
    MeliciousGibson Posts: 300
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    OK, so here's my take:
    Part 1) My ex cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend. I left him. They got married - and she cheated on him with his friends, her friends, and became an internet porn worker while he was at his day job. Lesson learned for him - Karma is a b*tch. 4 years later we got back together and have been together for over 5 years now.

    Part 2) If you don't have a story that involves the theme of the post - why respond? To be negative and prove that you're "better" than someone else? What gives you the right to be so judgemental of others' life situations? Good for you for being perfect. Must feel nice.
  • andreacord
    andreacord Posts: 928
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    Nothing. I had to find out FROM the girl (who happened to be a friend at the time) four months after the fact. It kind of "tumbled out" of her mouth and she said "What, he didn't tell you? I thought you guys had an open relationship deal." (We did at the time and I DON'T recommend it if you're not 100% certain it will work, we had decided since we were doing LD that we could see one person each ..stupid I KNOW.. and anything outside that was cheating.) I never did cash in my "one person" for the open relationship thing but my best friend and I did happen to have some romantic interest in each other as my relationship grew apart after that, so I started seeing him after ex-boyfriend and I broke it off. It wasn't intentional revenge but boy did it ever make him mad. :laugh:
  • JennaM222
    JennaM222 Posts: 1,996 Member
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    OK, so here's my take:
    Part 1) My ex cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend. I left him. They got married - and she cheated on him with his friends, her friends, and became an internet porn worker while he was at his day job. Lesson learned for him - Karma is a b*tch. 4 years later we got back together and have been together for over 5 years now.

    Part 2) If you don't have a story that involves the theme of the post - why respond? To be negative and prove that you're "better" than someone else? What gives you the right to be so judgemental of others' life situations? Good for you for being perfect. Must feel nice.

    :flowerforyou:
  • Stinkerbelle84
    Stinkerbelle84 Posts: 328
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    OK, so here's my take:
    Part 1) My ex cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend. I left him. They got married - and she cheated on him with his friends, her friends, and became an internet porn worker while he was at his day job. Lesson learned for him - Karma is a b*tch. 4 years later we got back together and have been together for over 5 years now.

    Part 2) If you don't have a story that involves the theme of the post - why respond? To be negative and prove that you're "better" than someone else? What gives you the right to be so judgemental of others' life situations? Good for you for being perfect. Must feel nice.

    haha! I love it! Why does everything have to be sooooooo serious ;-)
  • mrsmerrithew
    mrsmerrithew Posts: 74 Member
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    Well... my ex cheated on me.

    After I left, I lost 100 lbs and became mega hotttt. He ended up marrying that thing he cheated on me with. *Shudders*

    One day when he was picking up our daughter he said to me, "Wow, even with all that weight you're loosing, your *kitten* is still big"

    He's an *kitten* man. Even when I was 100 lbs heavier he loved it, so for him that was a compliment.

    His new-wife (aka that thing) acts like she hates me for some reason, but I don't know why?! I don't want the man back. Never did. I was never one to cry and beg anyway, PLUS, I know what he's working with, and let me tell you - it's not worth it. AT ALL.
  • jadedlili02
    jadedlili02 Posts: 5
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    One of the girl's my ex cheated on me with actually kept texting and calling my phone. Of course by this time I had already dismissed him but apparently she didn't know that. She was young and stupid and just would not leave me alone so I decided to have some fun with her. I told her to get tested because he has hepatitis and has been spreading it around. OMG! Her reaction was just priceless! Needless to say, she stopped playing on my phone after that and he lost his playmate.
  • thedeegan4
    thedeegan4 Posts: 422 Member
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    So this question came on the radio this morning when I was driving to work - and I got to work too soon to hear most of the callers responses.

    QUESTION: What have you left at someones place/car/room etc. so that their significant other would catch them cheating?

    Here is mine -

    about 3-4 years ago my EX of 1 1/2 years cheated on me, we broke up, and the girl he cheated on me with soon after moved in with him.

    Anywhoo - one morning VERY early he texted me for a booty call. He was also drunk. I was hungover and in need of some heavy petting - Perfect. Well, when I got there, he was PASSED OUT. Like, there was no waking him up. So, I got on his computer and changed his screen saver to a big close up picture of me and him kissing.

    New GF moved in the very next day and was the first to hop on the computer :)

    DO tell your stories!!

    That is awesome revenge!!!!

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