Ex's/Cheating - What have you done?

Not exactly the same, but I found out an ex of mine from years and years ago was cheating on me and I found the girl he was living with. He claimed she was his cousin. I called and asked.... she said she was not his cousin and that he told her i was a crazy stalker who had found him on an old gaming site - which was a lie... he and i had met in college and rekindled (or so i thought) after his divorce. I told her that i was the one who got him this very expensive first edition, hard back, signed copy of his favorite childhood book and i sent her about 40 pics of he and i together at my kids bday party and then at a concert that happened a few weeks after the party. She was grateful and even mailed my book back to me before throwing all his stuff out on the lawn & changing the locks.

Can I cheat on you too, OP?
I need a new screen saver and I'm too lazy to change it myself (plus I need a booty call)!

Thanks.

lol, wrote a song about her and we still had a lot of mutual friends so we hung out still. used to play the song camping that detailed a lot of the things she did. people would get all huffy about it and say things like "what a b!tch, I hope I never meet the girl you wrote the song about" it became a popular campfire song about how crazy exes can be. She was usually right across the fire when I played it. lol

Do you listen to KDWB?? It would be a crazy coincidence that two different stations were talking about the same thing this morning

Yes!! this is where I heard it

KDWB FTW!
BTW (haha), I didn't realize there were so many of "my" locals up in here.

So this question came on the radio this morning when I was driving to work - and I got to work too soon to hear most of the callers responses.

QUESTION: What have you left at someones place/car/room etc. so that their significant other would catch them cheating?

Here is mine -

about 3-4 years ago my EX of 1 1/2 years cheated on me, we broke up, and the girl he cheated on me with soon after moved in with him.

Anywhoo - one morning VERY early he texted me for a booty call. He was also drunk. I was hungover and in need of some heavy petting - Perfect. Well, when I got there, he was PASSED OUT. Like, there was no waking him up. So, I got on his computer and changed his screen saver to a big close up picture of me and him kissing.

New GF moved in the very next day and was the first to hop on the computer

DO tell your stories!!

I was with my ex for 2 years, and I knew he was cheating. I just couldn't prove it. So I hacked his MySpace account and found all of their correspondence, I couldn’t even read it all. I immediately went to the bathroom and vomited. It’s one thing to know, and another to KNOW.

Anyways, I woke him up and confronted him. He continued to deny it, so I kicked him out. I refused to be one of those girls that went totally bat sh** crazy, so I was nice throughout the whole thing. I made him feel so terrible. He didn’t know what he had until I was gone. We stayed in contact, and he let me vent at him whenever I was feeling bad about what had happened between us, and eventually I wasn’t angry about it anymore. We remained close friends, and he has always been there for me no matter what was going on in my life.

Fast forward about 3.5 years: I was in a relationship with a nice guy. No one has ever been able to compare to my ex, no matter how great they were, no one ever made me feel like he did. My new boyfriend and I were getting serious, but there were things that I just wasn’t happy with. I ended up breaking up with him based on the feeling that it wouldn’t work out in the end. My ex was there throughout the whole thing and when the moment was right he confessed that he’s never been able to get over us. He hadn’t even attempted a serious relationship since ours ended. He told me he loved me and he wanted to try again. I agonized over it, I always said I would never take back a cheater, but then I realized, over the past 3.5 years he has been there when NO ONE else was, he is my rock. He is my best friend, and the person I call when I need to talk. Long story short, I took him back.

We’re engaged to be married next Spring, and I honestly think there isn’t anything we can’t get through now. We’ve proven to each other how much we care about each other. We’ve grown up, and realize now what’s important.

I don’t think it is ever ok to betray someone’s trust and I would NEVER have taken him back if I hadn’t been 100% sure that he understood the boundaries of our relationship.

My oyster skills are just fine, thank you!

I don't think any of my boyfriends cheated on me, but my husband did (because I wanted to spend time with our kids, not running around like we don't have any), and I went back because for some reason I still loved him and was trying to keep our family from falling apart. I told his gf that we were sleeping together, and all she could come back with was "well guess who he was with last night!" Uh, ok, the point is he's not being faithful to you, either, but whatever. I got to the point where I didn't want him to touch me, but while he was still living in the house, looking for someplace else to live, I would "accidentally" drop his food on the floor or let the dogs lick it before I served it. He didn't know, it just made me feel better! If that makes me a bad person, then I guess I'm a bad person. I never cheated on anyone, so at least I have that! I never had the opportunity to leave anything behind, but at that time I probably would have. Go on, JennaMarie! :flowerforyou:

lol u legend x

The way some folks have responded, you think the OP had gone all Lorna Bobbit on the ex. She put a picture (that he must have had on his computer) as the desktop. This sound perfectly fine and funny. If the new girl left over that, then the OPsaves that young women a lot of heartbreak over dating a douche.

I give the OP a "Well play, my friend, well played"

THANK YOU, JENNA! I needed a good laugh at work.

It completely blows my mind that people are on here being negative and annoying. This post is in the CHIT-CHAT, FUN, AND GAMES board. I mean REALLY? I understand if you have an opinion on the topic, but you really should get a life if you have nothing better to do than start fights on MFP.

If you don't have a story that contributes to the post, then don't answer the thread. It's THAT simple. Better yet-- start your own post about how jokes, laughter, and humor of any kind is unacceptable. That should make you happy!

HAHAHAHAH this.

Do you listen to KDWB?? It would be a crazy coincidence that two different stations were talking about the same thing this morning

Yes!! this is where I heard it

That's a terrible station.

Oh Quiet Binary...I assume you are a 93 x fan

I love Dave Ryan! I am sending you a friend request. :-)

I listened to that station when I lived in MN!

Remind me to hide my laptop next time you come over for a booty call. We still on for tonight?

I always hide it when you come over...

I've been cheated on by a boyfriend... the girl didn't leave anything, I found out because he's best friend told me about it! What a loyal companion! :laugh:

My oyster skills are just fine, thank you!

I don't think any of my boyfriends cheated on me, but my husband did (because I wanted to spend time with our kids, not running around like we don't have any), and I went back because for some reason I still loved him and was trying to keep our family from falling apart. I told his gf that we were sleeping together, and all she could come back with was "well guess who he was with last night!" Uh, ok, the point is he's not being faithful to you, either, but whatever. I got to the point where I didn't want him to touch me, but while he was still living in the house, looking for someplace else to live, I would "accidentally" drop his food on the floor or let the dogs lick it before I served it. He didn't know, it just made me feel better! If that makes me a bad person, then I guess I'm a bad person. I never cheated on anyone, so at least I have that! I never had the opportunity to leave anything behind, but at that time I probably would have. Go on, JennaMarie! :flowerforyou:

Seriously made my day!!! Thank you!

My cousin's wife cheated on him with his so called best friend. So he had an affair with his best friend's wife, then they all moved in together. That swing scene lasted two years and they all went their seperate ways. :huh: