Ex's/Cheating - What have you done?

Take a long hard look at yourself. If your dude is looking elsewhere to shuck his oysters, maybe you should brush up on your oyster skills at home.

Including you apparently...

My wife started showering and wearing perfume before going tot he gym. I cut the internet and her gym membership.

Bam. Problem solved

My ridiculous ex (he was absolutely flipping ridiculous) cheated on me with someone we both worked with. The day I found out he didn't bother turning up to work. When I arrived, I emailed her telling her I knew everything and that I expected nothing less than professional conduct between us at work and thanked her part in the whole mess. She was so upset she started crying at her desk and got sent home (boohoo).

Anyway, everyone at work knew so that sucked for my ex and her. For some reason he used to confide in me about all his problems with her; such as screaming and crying that she couldn't trust him as he was a cheater :noway:

When I got with my new fella, the ex phoned me at my desk to tell me it was too soon and he wasn't over me. Erm, it was 18 months after we had split and his girlfriend was pregnant with his baby at this time! I am almost grateful to her for taking that utter idiot off my hands and allowing me to be happy with someone else.

I did put an immature photo up on myspace (remember myspace??) of him and her (that he took on my camera whilst he was cheating on me with her; moron!) except I had replaced her face with wurzel gummidge's. Not that anyone could tell :laugh:

Erm and once he stood in my house having a row with her on his phone because she was at her ex's house "having a poo". Seriously. :noway: :noway: I have nothing to do with him whatsoever now.

I see what you did there. :yawn: :yawn:

I wouldn't go back to someone who cheated on me, I'm not into necrophilia.

I'm need a like button for this post, it's hilarious

LAMO also

I wouldn't go back to someone who cheated on me, I'm not into necrophilia.

:laugh:

i was the one that talk to a girl , and the reason i did this because i had trust issues in our realtionship , i was scared to get rejected , i know it was wrong of me to talk to a girl online , the worst thing about this i was in a long distant relationship with my girlfriend that i met online , i told her before she found out , its been nearly 5 months breakup and she has ignored me for nearly 3 months ,i told her i ended the affair after she broke up with me , i though we were right stared comunicating and getting closer, then she has ignored me for ages , she doesnt understand the reason im contacting her is to explain how she doesnt have to be scared of me and trust me , and it wasnt the best getting my mum involved plus her friends , but i know her friends probbley told her to breakup with me , im still friends with her friends on facebook , i have ignored her for a month because i give up its her loss , im lost how to fix the relationship when im not dating any girl and i havent when we where together and im not talking to a girl online now ether . and the hardest part for her to belive i love her so much , when i havent been able to vist her since ive know because of a busy life and i cant travel , i would do anything to fix my life with her , if i have miss her this long she is differently marriage marterial , this is my first time betraying a girlfriend , ive never been in this situation before , so im not coping well , so its not true if you betray your partner it does not mean you dont love them , i always loved my ex girlfriend , the truth is i never loved the girl i had an online affair with she pressured me to love her when i wasnt very excited to get an email from her , in my affair we never skype or facebook , the only contact this other girl gave me was email , i have been scamed in the past on dating sites , this girl could have been a scammer a guy , ive lost money before

I wouldn't go back to someone who cheated on me, I'm not into necrophilia.

I like your style haha!!

my ex wanted space and i didnt talk to this girl for 6 weeks , does this really show i cared for the other girl , i really didnt , there was nothing wrong with my girlfriend , yes space fustrated me because ive never been in this situation before and did not know space is good for a realtionship , i forgot to mention my last relationship was 7 years ago , does this really show im a serial cheater and made a mistake , because sex is not important to me i can go without it for a long time , meaning i wouldnt have a sexual affair when i have a girllfriend

the hardest part of longdistance is its hard to trust , and i dont bame her why she is likes this , i hurt a girl that really loved me loved me thats why its so hard for her to cope withs this and forget i betrayed her , im a christan but that doesnt make up for the mistakes i did

When I was younger..... I was a bitter little "lady"
My ex flew me to him interstate after I broke up with my bf and I knew he was with the girl he left me for (he'd cheated on me with her, I found this out when I found a dated 1st anniversary card to him...hence true anger)... I left a pill packet "hidden" under the bed.
Needless to say she found it- but yet they now have a kid together. Go figure! lol

I have better things to do with my time than involve myself in my exes lives and social relationships. Mainly because once I break up with someone I stop caring about what they are doing with other people and focus on my own business and relationships.

Right?? I can’t imagine plotting ways to ruin my exes current relationships. First of all, my two most recent exes from before I got married are two of my closest friends. So when they get into relationships, I’m genuinely happy for them. Second, by doing this kind of thing, you are sinking to the cheaters level; do you really want to do that? Last, if your ex was that bad to you, why do you even still care? I mean seriously, move on with your life.