Ladies which do you prefer???

So reading over the pages of responses makes me a little irritated. I have always been attracted to heavier men. I was when I was 145lbs at 5'9" with 3 hrs of excercise daily and at my current weight (which is quite a bit more). It has never had to do with my size or fitness level its just what I have always found attractive. Furthermore I find it offensive that the 30% guy is often labeled "lazy". Just because he is heavier does not make him lazy. His fitness level may not be his top priority but who is to say he isn't heavier because he works two jobs (leaving no time or money for the gym) to make ends meet for his family? Who is to say that 30% guy doesn't spend all of his spare time volunteering or giving back to others instead of focusing on himself? I am not trying to bash those who like to workout and keep themselves fit. More power to ya. But please dont make assumptions about why I am attracted to heavier men or that heavier men are lazy....

I believe that people are more attracted to the others around the same fitness level mostly, because are the same goals and paths in life which makes them more suitable for each other. As far as I can tell, you're right. People should not judge. And that goes also for those 30% guys/girls toward the 10% one. If we were to get irritated, we all have reasons, because there is not a day that I go for shopping and when I look at a product and read their lables, I get a lot of eyes on me mostly from the normal looking people or higher, that seem to be annoyed because of that. My point is that if we feel comfortable with what we are and won't take on account bullies, we'd save ourselves some headache, because the truth is that everyone at some point will fall short. As long as this world is populated by different individuals, there always will be judgment. Fair or unfair it's up to you to ignore of continue this never ending battle.

id have to say NONE of them. Id like the build of the 1at on someone the size of the last, lol. I like BIG BIG. lol

the 10% guy. just enough muscle!

20% is very close to what my fiance is and that's what I like :-)

10% and 14%

So reading over the pages of responses makes me a little irritated. I have always been attracted to heavier men. I was when I was 145lbs at 5'9" with 3 hrs of excercise daily and at my current weight (which is quite a bit more). It has never had to do with my size or fitness level its just what I have always found attractive. Furthermore I find it offensive that the 30% guy is often labeled "lazy". Just because he is heavier does not make him lazy. His fitness level may not be his top priority but who is to say he isn't heavier because he works two jobs (leaving no time or money for the gym) to make ends meet for his family? Who is to say that 30% guy doesn't spend all of his spare time volunteering or giving back to others instead of focusing on himself? I am not trying to bash those who like to workout and keep themselves fit. More power to ya. But please dont make assumptions about why I am attracted to heavier men or that heavier men are lazy....

I believe that people are more attracted to the others around the same fitness level mostly, because are the same goals and paths in life which makes them more suitable for each other. As far as I can tell, you're right. People should not judge. And that goes also for those 30% guys/girls toward the 10% one. If we were to get irritated, we all have reasons, because there is not a day that I go for shopping and when I look at a product and read their lables, I get a lot of eyes on me mostly from the normal looking people or higher, that seem to be annoyed because of that. My point is that if we feel comfortable with what we are and won't take on account bullies, we'd save ourselves some headache, because the truth is that everyone at some point will fall short. As long as this world is populated by different individuals, there always will be judgment. Fair or unfair it's up to you to ignore of continue this never ending battle.

Agreed, judgement is always present. I am not trying to fight a battle here but offer an alternative (my) opinion. I am not slamming men of any size. If we all liked the same look and body type the world would be in real trouble. I am just surprised by some of the ugliness from others on a weight loss site. Thats all and I am done commenting on it.

The 10% because he has a body very similar to a guy I like :P

Both of the 10% and the 14%
But really, if a guy if confident in themselves, that is equally as attractive.

10% - and honestly the "skinny fat" guy with 10% with about 20 more pounds of muscle would be very attractive to me. My husband looks good and he is about 5'9 120-125lbs, probably at about 10% body fat. But he definitely looks bigger and more muscular than that dude in the picture. I like little skinny guys lol. I also very much like the bigger and more muscular guys.

10% muscular - 14%

There seems to be a big difference between 14, 20 and 25%

14%

10% with muscle or 14% looks good to me.

agreed.

Hubby is 10% ripped so I'll go with that. He looks similar to 14% when he's not training for a fight and I think that's hot too.

Anywhere from 10-20, preferably 14.

My husband is about 12%...so i'm going with between the 10-14 :laugh: