<<<weight progress leading to cheating???

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  • Posts: 566 Member
    I'm a big flirt...I flirt with men and women...women seem to be more fun!
    I've finally been noticed at the gym by the one guy that has always caught my eye...he told me to not stop what I was doing bc I was looking good! damn way to make a girl feel good!
  • Hey, OP - do you want me to send you more pictures? I hope you enjoyed the first ones I sent you. I *love* showing off my blue waffle.

    *chokes*

    You're awesome.
  • Posts: 557 Member
    I flirt ... therefore ... I am
  • Posts: 138
    I flirt with everyone and I have no standards.



    well hello im aaron and im a pisces!!
  • Posts: 603 Member
    I find myself wanting to swap pics with strangers online more.
    YES.... LMAO
  • Posts: 139
    CORI...you're a trip. lol!


    I flirt all of the time. All these girls losing weight and feeling sexy. They're blowing up my inbox wanting to swap pics with me. I mean, calm down ladies! There's enough to go around.
  • Posts: 7,870 Member

    *chokes*

    You're awesome.
    Apparently it wasn't memorable (pouts)
    He sent me a PM asking for more.
  • ur nuts lady.....i did not, and i didnt even ask you for anything in the first place, so get over yourself
  • Posts: 139
    ur nuts lady.....i did not, and i didnt even ask you for anything in the first place, so get over yourself

    Whoa! I hope your kidding! lol! Won't get any hot married women that way!
  • Posts: 274 Member
    I don't notice many more looks, my old man does thou. I don't tend to do much flirting anymore, when I waitressed, that was a key to bigger tips, but it was also reading people before doing it. I guess I'm obliviouse to people checking me out, as I am doing this for me, and could care less about others.
  • Posts: 1,629 Member
    Holy crap you said blue waffle lol
  • Posts: 7,870 Member

    Whoa! I hope your kidding! lol! Won't get any hot married women that way!
    He doesn't want me now that he knows I just got divorced.
  • Posts: 7,870 Member
    Holy crap you said blue waffle lol
    I wonder how many people are going to go google that term now?
  • Posts: 17,121 Member
    Actually, when I hit 90 pounds lost, everyone was pushing me to start dating again (I havent been in a relationship since 05) - just trying to flirt sent me ito a tailspin of self-hate.

    I still feel like someone is mocking me when they flirt with me. I have the "she's All That"/"Carrie" phobia that any interest show in me is a setup for my humiliation. Like the second I believe it, the joke's on me.

    Ive been working VERY hard on this. But, shrug, experience is a hard thing to overcome.
  • Posts: 664 Member
    While, I feel much better about myself that has more to do with being comfortable in my skin than my weight loss. I've truly learned to love myself no matter what size.

    So, while I do flirt a lot I'm gonna stick with the man who stuck with me when I gained 46lbs on him...the crazy thing is he didn't even notice! He had no idea that I weighed much less when we started dating. Gotta love him.
  • Hey...ur the one showing ur blue waffle to everyone
  • Posts: 2,105 Member
    I was wondering if other people on here have found themselves flirting a little more since they have made progress with their weight? Are you in a relationship and still flirting? Are you getting more attention from others due to your new fitness....Just sparking some convo....

    No, but then again I have two layers of protection. I'm already happily married and most people around me know that, and I'm also ugly. So no worries.
  • Posts: 17,121 Member
    Sorry- just realised this was for married people, my apologies. wasnt paying enough attention, my fault.
  • lol....i like that...lmao
  • OP sent me this:

    From: sugabear123789
    Received: Tue 05/22/12 12:59 PM
    Subject: pics
    I WANT SOME PICS TOO!!!!. you are SMOKIN hot. why are you trying to lose weight?
  • Posts: 17,121 Member
    OP If your next message to me is indecent, im blocking you.
  • Posts: 175 Member
    No - I probably wouldn't realize if they were :-)
  • im a guy who jokes around all the time. im not being indecent....also you were giving pics to everyone, so i would except them if you were giving them....tell me one guy who wouldnt.....this thread isnt about any of that tho
  • Posts: 2
    I flirt more with my husband. I am the same weight but my clothes fit better and I feel better. The weight will come in time. I don't want some guy flirting with me and I don't want to flirt with other guys....just doesn't feel right to me.
  • Posts: 3,801 Member
    Well, my wife is flirting with me more, does that count? She keeps telling me my butt looks cute. :happy:

    lol
  • I flirt more with my husband. I am the same weight but my clothes fit better and I feel better. The weight will come in time. I don't want some guy flirting with me and I don't want to flirt with other guys....just doesn't feel right to me.

    i really respect that
  • Posts: 138
    OP sent me this:

    From: sugabear123789
    Received: Tue 05/22/12 12:59 PM
    Subject: pics
    I WANT SOME PICS TOO!!!!. you are SMOKIN hot. why are you trying to lose weight?




    hahahahahahahahahaha.........i used that line all the time in junior high.....60% of the time it worked everytime
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    Hey, OP - do you want me to send you more pictures? I hope you enjoyed the first ones I sent you. I *love* showing off my blue waffle.


    Oh my I just spit my drink out.. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :noway:
  • its all good...you guys are really something lmao
  • Posts: 994 Member
    CORI...you're a trip. lol!


    I flirt all of the time. All these girls losing weight and feeling sexy. They're blowing up my inbox wanting to swap pics with me. I mean, calm down ladies! There's enough to go around.

    Lol...I love this reply.
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