Do you peek at grocery carts to see what other people buy?

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  • NO! It annoys me to no end when I find ppl checking out my cart. I mean dang I know we look good but go and get your own.
  • kdeaux1959
    kdeaux1959 Posts: 2,675 Member
    quite frankly, I could care less what others buy... I have more important things to be concerned with. But to each his own... If you would like, I'll give you a list of what I buy and save you the time and effort (not really but... LOL>)
  • Mrrwmoo
    Mrrwmoo Posts: 44
    I usually don't, but sometimes some things you can't ignore. I passed by a morbidly obese mother who had her four children with her running around (all seem to have been probably a year or two a part from one another,) and her cart was chock full of cookies, ice cream, chips, and a load of other junk food. Her children weren't showing signs of being overweight yet, but maybe she should think of her children more . . .
  • Cold_Steel
    Cold_Steel Posts: 897 Member
    Never thought to even care on any level other than to check how much stuff is in their basket or cart to let them ahead of me if I have full shopping cart.

    Funny thing is I have done that on countless times, I have yet to have someone offer to let me go ahead when I have one or two things.
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    I do, and sometimes I judge, but I try not to.
  • dvisser1
    dvisser1 Posts: 788 Member
    I try not to be obvious, but I am always curious what other people buy at the grocery store.

    Peek? No....I stare! I'll be obvious. My cart isn't always the healthiest, partly because I get almost all my fruit and veg from a local farm, but I can't help but stare when I see someone pushing a cart full of nothing but frozen dinners and pizza and chips.
  • Cold_Steel
    Cold_Steel Posts: 897 Member
    I do, and sometimes I judge, but I try not to.

    I am guilty of this at restaurants and convenience stores, never cared at a grocery store. I think I know so many people that shop for other people in their families or other people in general and I don't want to judge in the event that it is not for them.

    Chowing down on a double XL burger with fries and that x large diet coke is when I judge.
  • Amy_nz
    Amy_nz Posts: 145
    When I was a check-out chick at a supermarket I'd always notice what people were buying - it's a boring job and it made it more entertaining!

    The most confusing combination was a tin of catfood, a packet of drinking straws and a box of condoms.
  • The reason I do is because I often graciously get called out for buying healthy food. People remember a stranger who made them laugh, so I always make a joke out of it by saying, "I'm just try'n to melt me some lard'. Sometimes that below average attempt at comic relief sparks some good conversation. So, since I know people are paying attention to what I'm getting, I take sneak peaks too. I especially do it in liquor stores to see what kind of what people are drinking.
  • Sometimes, especially if I'm in line after them at the checkout. Sometimes I think, "Somebody's either throwing a party, or having a really bad week." :laugh: People probably think I'm strange, since I always seem to have equal parts health food and convenience food.
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
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  • Girlwithnoname77
    Girlwithnoname77 Posts: 108 Member
    I think it is sad that you all have the time to judge people. If you were looking for ideas, or to see you forgot items I can understand as sometimes when things are on the belt it will remind me I too need something. But to think that people actually JUDGE people ... based too on that persons dimensions ... sad. Very sad!

    My family eats really well, but I am large. So when I have a party or something, and I go the shops to get chips and soft drink and what not for my guests, are you saying that because you see that stuff in my cart you assume I am a bad mum (if I am with my kids, or am this size because I eat like that)? COME ON. This is rubbish.

    Seriously guys, if you took the same amount of time to try and know or love someone as you spend judging them the world will be a much better place ..........
  • Minifeet
    Minifeet Posts: 18 Member
    I do, but more out of curiosity than to judge.

    After all, if you looked in my trolley (British for cart!) you would see no produce or healthy stuff, mainly cat food, magazines, snack a jacks, diet coke for hubby.

    I eat tonnes of veggies and fruit, I just don't buy it at the supermarket.
  • Cold_Steel
    Cold_Steel Posts: 897 Member
    Seriously guys, if you took the same amount of time to try and know or love someone as you spend judging them the world will be a much better place ..........

    I can't judge any of you. I have no malice against you and no ribbons for you. But I think that it is high time that you all start looking at yourselves, and judging the lie that you live in.
    Charles Manson
  • I'm a cashier in a small town so you could say I know just about everyone's eating habits here. Sometimes I do take note when it's 300 dollars worth of debbie cakes, pop, and chips. It's hard not to, but I know it's really none of my business. Those same people are sometimes the friendliest people that make me smile every time they come through my line.
  • RmYWarrioR
    RmYWarrioR Posts: 36 Member
    Why funny you should ask ....................... my wife and I both do. Being military we shop at the Commissary, the equivalent of a grocery store. To see what other people have in their carts is not for dinner ideas but, to see why we make and eat from a healthy menu and plan our grocery shopping. It seems that processed foods are a staple for a large percentage of Military families. My wife uses many fresh ingredients such as vegetables and fruits in her dishes. There are many overweight spouses and children amongst Military families .................... maybe more of the spouses should check this site out.
  • Girlwithnoname77
    Girlwithnoname77 Posts: 108 Member
    Seriously guys, if you took the same amount of time to try and know or love someone as you spend judging them the world will be a much better place ..........

    I can't judge any of you. I have no malice against you and no ribbons for you. But I think that it is high time that you all start looking at yourselves, and judging the lie that you live in.
    Charles Manson

    I suppose you are right. I am naive on many things. Just makes me sad (not angry, just sad). Sorry this was a bad day to be posting as my son is being "judged" at school by his peers because he is "different" and I am just sick of it all. It really is very very sad ...
  • carld256
    carld256 Posts: 855 Member
    Nope. I'm a strictly "get in, get what I need, get out" kind of shopper.
  • MooMooooo
    MooMooooo Posts: 306 Member
    I don't look, I couldn't be bothered. But people are free to look in mine - it's pretty boring in there. Bread, milk, cat food, sometimes soap, basic cuts of meat (one tray only) and 2 apples, bunch of bananas. YAWN.

    But one time I saw a heavily overweight child shopping with his mother and she was encouraging him to get anything he wanted.

    YES I admit to judging - I was disgusted.
  • jess393
    jess393 Posts: 220 Member
    I also work in a grocery store, so I see a lot of carts in a day! I don't judge based on what people buy, because I've had healthy, unhealthy, and a big old mix of it! But it is sad when I ring up giant orders that consist of JUST junk food. And even then, it only makes me sad because I think of how miserable I made myself buying it, and the fact that a lot of kids are potentially gonna end up like me is an aweful thought.
  • DeadEyedSuburbanite
    DeadEyedSuburbanite Posts: 34 Member
    I used to be paranoid that people were checking out my shopping basket but then I convinced myself that nobody in the world gives a damn.

    Guess I'm back to hiding my protein bars under a magazine again. :ohwell:
  • kimgravel
    kimgravel Posts: 32
    Seriously guys, if you took the same amount of time to try and know or love someone as you spend judging them the world will be a much better place ..........

    I can't judge any of you. I have no malice against you and no ribbons for you. But I think that it is high time that you all start looking at yourselves, and judging the lie that you live in.
    Charles Manson

    I don't judge, but I do look. I make a game of it and try to guess what they're making. It also give me good ideas when I see something that I haven't purchased in a while.
  • dls06
    dls06 Posts: 6,774 Member
    Yep. I know I am wrong but I even find myself judging.
  • _Elemenopee_
    _Elemenopee_ Posts: 2,665 Member
    No, but maybe I should start..lol
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    I usually don't pay attention, but I will admit that sometimes when I see a buggy packed full of boxed and frozen dinners, everything processed and no fresh foods, it usually draws my attention. Especially if it's someone with overweight children in tow. :frown:
  • Emancipated_Tai
    Emancipated_Tai Posts: 751 Member
    Don't hate me for this, but when I see a larger person/family I try to peek in their cart to see what's going on. Its always full of fatting processed foods, cookies, chips, sodas, boxed meals & such.

    What is more interesting to me is that people always comment about what is in my cart, like “Wow, that’s a lot of green stuff” or “My kids would never eat that kind of stuff”

    That’s because you feed them processed crap all the time, of course they would hate you if you tried to feed them otherwise.
  • lauralizzy829
    lauralizzy829 Posts: 215 Member
    I totally look, but not to judge. Most of the time I see something and go oh! I forgot that, or hmm wonder if that's on sale. I'm a people watcher too at the airport.
  • lilcupcake213
    lilcupcake213 Posts: 545 Member
    Nope. I never knew other people did it, either.

    me neither !I never thought of that, but actually I'm totally going to do that now ! Oh God, I wonder how many people have looked into my cart when I used to buy a bunch of crap. That's embarassing !
  • CourtLiv
    CourtLiv Posts: 68 Member
    I used to a lot more when I shopped at standard grocery stores. But I recently moved to an area where there are more organic and healthier option stores, I don't notice myself doing it when I'm there.

    Obviously there is a judging correlation there :ohwell:
  • librarygoddess2
    librarygoddess2 Posts: 145 Member
    All the time now! It doesn't make me judge them though... it simply makes me proud of the healthy choices I have made!
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