If you could go back 10 years...

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  • frootcat
    frootcat Posts: 194 Member
    Keep the baby, lose the babydaddy.
  • Sirxx99
    Sirxx99 Posts: 43
    Don't Marry your future X-Wife she is evil...... Dont waste your life.
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    You're about to develop a very painful jaw problem. Don't bother with the TMJ specialists. Just go to your dentist. He rocks.
  • Ironman2be
    Ironman2be Posts: 140 Member
    Don't bet on the Cubs to beat the Marlins and go to their 1st World Series since '45.....damn Marlins...
  • myfitnessval
    myfitnessval Posts: 687 Member
    i would yell "QUIT EATING IN N OUT BURGERS, YOU'LL HAVE A HELLOVA TIME GETTING THAT FAT OFF LATER!" and also "WHEN YOU MEET A GUY JOHN, RUN." lmao
  • jjelizalde
    jjelizalde Posts: 377 Member
    Don't marry him! Run the other direction and just stay single and on your own.
  • kayleesays
    kayleesays Posts: 564 Member
    Well, I was eleven... I would probably tell myself to get therapy for my anxiety disorder NOW before it ruined my academic life.
  • reallymyBEST
    reallymyBEST Posts: 242 Member
    He will enter your life. Don't believe he is who he appears to be no matter how close it looks like he is to what you want. It's all smoke and mirrors. That's what they do - take on the persona of who they think you want them to be in order to make you want THEM. It's real for you. It's not for them. People that love you don't treat you like that. Never would you ever believe all the things you will learn about NPD. And never would you believe how long it will take for you to feel like yourself again. Listen to me!!!!!

    (That felt really, really good!)
  • foodfight247
    foodfight247 Posts: 767 Member
    If I could go back ten years, I'd yell....don't do it! lol! BUT, I would not have learnt as much as I have if It had not been for the mistakes I had made. Just a thought. So, in hindsight, perhaps, it would actually have been...."Do it, but be happy being you and don't let anyone take that away from you."
  • starcatcher1975
    starcatcher1975 Posts: 292 Member
    10 years ago...I would tell myself that no guy is worth what I allowed them to put me through, save money to buy a house, don't get married, go back to school NOW instead of waiting! All my choices have made me who I am today, and I try to not regret anything I've ever done, but I have to say there is one person I completely regret meeting and wasting 2 years of my life on...I try to pretend it was just a really long horrible nightmare...
  • Bankman1989
    Bankman1989 Posts: 1,116 Member
    Don't Marry your future X-Wife she is evil...... Dont waste your life.

    ^^^^THIS!

    Also I would tell myself to NOT buy houses in California buy a bunch of smaller houses in Texas instead. Oh and invest heavily in that Google thingy.
  • SPNLuver83
    SPNLuver83 Posts: 2,050 Member
    DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT PUT UP WITH THAT *kitten*'S *kitten*!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (but do sleep with him at least once in December so you can still have your amazing son)
  • jimmacdonald
    jimmacdonald Posts: 93 Member
    Invest in Goggle, Facebook, etc... Bike ride you enjoy it. Stop stress eating, you'll gain 70 lbs.

    Hug you mom more she'll be gone before you know it.

    Spend more time with family. Figure out what big data is.


    Cheers
    Jim
  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    Realize that he's addicted to pain pills and divorce him now rather than 10 years later when it's so much more painful and there is so much more to a divorce. Hanging in there will never change the way he is even though he's not using anymore (that you know of), so you need to move on. Though now it feels like you've wasted 20 years of your life.
  • fatchiick
    fatchiick Posts: 105
    stay in college, and lose 150 pounds and other very serious and emotional things you dont realize until well into your 20's :(
  • dsjohndrow
    dsjohndrow Posts: 1,820 Member
    Have the damn knee surgery that you will wait 10 years to get. You'll feel like million bucks!
  • twinteensmom
    twinteensmom Posts: 371 Member
    You are going to go through some very trying, exhausting and sorrowful times with your children, especially your daughter. You didn't cause it, you can't control it and you can't cure it!
  • Lushaholic
    Lushaholic Posts: 62
    DROP THAT DAMN SMOKE!
    WAIT FOR LOVE, YOUR LUCKY YOU WILL FIND IT AT 17 AND STILL BE WITH HIM AT 22!
    YOUR ADOPTED! HAHAHA
  • tistal
    tistal Posts: 869 Member
    Turn around, walk away and dont look back.
  • muppetsbear
    muppetsbear Posts: 80 Member
    retire from the military in 3 years and go work in the oil patch.
  • HotAshMess
    HotAshMess Posts: 382 Member
    STOP EATING DUMBASS!
  • emelypoynter
    emelypoynter Posts: 55
    Spend a little more time traveling! Don't give up on your dreams so fast, you just finished culinary school. It will be a while before you "make it". Gordon Ramsey didn't do it over night. Joining the military isn't bad thing, it's just not your ideal career.
  • snrose
    snrose Posts: 233 Member
    i would tell myself to get off the damn computer and get active! you will regret it! also, you will find out in 2 years you have a serious back condition, enjoy not having the pain while you can!
  • mommajolynn
    mommajolynn Posts: 353 Member
    don't give up on school. Fight to do what is needed for your son and leave your mother and her husband behind asap before bad things happen...
  • JanetLM73
    JanetLM73 Posts: 1,226 Member
    Things won't change

    Don't buy the house

    Leave your job now and go back to school

    After your daughter is born you'll go through a rough 5 years, but find strength you never thought you had.
  • fatpanda96
    fatpanda96 Posts: 77
    I would've told my 7 year old and 115 pound self to stop eating so much unhealthy foods because I'll regret it in the future.
  • EmilyDuby
    EmilyDuby Posts: 67
    There's only one thing that I currently would absolutely tell myself not to do, I've made lots of stupid decisions in the past ten years but almost every single one of them has probably gotten me to the best things I have now.
  • focus4fitness
    focus4fitness Posts: 551 Member
    Have two more babies, not just one. :)
  • Mubb
    Mubb Posts: 90
    Can I go back 17 and never meet my ex. Oh and don't move to NC go to Washington.
  • JoDeeD
    JoDeeD Posts: 391
    Don't Move to NC to try to form a relationship with your sister in law and DEFINITELY do NOT have a baby for her. Actually I only have to go back 7 years.
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