Ladies, do you prefer the bad boy, or the nice guy?

YaBoiMUGS
YaBoiMUGS Posts: 237
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The age old question. I've been told I have the perfect mix, Being able to publicly exert my alpha-male dominance, and privately be able to be the type of dude that doesn't mind cuddling at night.....but assume you can't have both. Assume you have to pick one, what do you prefer your man to be, more of a bad boy, or more of a nice guy?
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  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
    How about a nice guy that looks like a bad boy??
  • LivetoRun07
    LivetoRun07 Posts: 183 Member
    I don't like an extreme of anything, a balance of both is wonderful. I like someone similar to me in the sense of being a little bit of everything. Keeps things interesting!
  • NYChick84
    NYChick84 Posts: 331 Member
    I prefer the genuine type. But if I had to choose, definitely the nice guy.
  • Chari_Jan
    Chari_Jan Posts: 157 Member
    I'll have more bad boy thank you! Yummy!!
  • Bridge_CG
    Bridge_CG Posts: 429 Member
    I would prefer a man who is a gentleman, so more of a nice guy.
  • sazzyp1973
    sazzyp1973 Posts: 517 Member
    the nice guy that knows how to be bad would be my choice ;o)
  • rm830
    rm830 Posts: 531 Member
    A balance is always preferred but if I HAD to choose one....the nice guy...
  • PrncessBre
    PrncessBre Posts: 444 Member
    Nice guy :love:
  • Im_NotPerfect
    Im_NotPerfect Posts: 2,181 Member
    Nice guy in public and general daily life...bad boy in the bedroom...
  • Angie_1MR
    Angie_1MR Posts: 247
    nice guys finish last
  • PittShkr
    PittShkr Posts: 1,000 Member
    thisthreadagain.jpg

    Let it go!
  • lauraparr
    lauraparr Posts: 112
    i'd have to say a nice guy that looks like a bad boy too!!
  • bethmakesmusic
    bethmakesmusic Posts: 164 Member
    If I HAD to I'd say nice guy. :)
  • fitforlife34
    fitforlife34 Posts: 331 Member
    i usually go for the bad boy, unf. maybe why i'm not married at 33. but i do like nice guys if they have had a slightly checkered past and changed their ways. but sometimes nice guys can be too giving, or clingy. or feminine. but they make me happier.
  • fatgirlslove
    fatgirlslove Posts: 614 Member
    nice guy! Only, he can't be stuffy and a collar button buttoned kind of guy...if that makes sense lol.
  • tweetybaby69
    tweetybaby69 Posts: 258 Member
    In the words of Mary J. Blige "Bad boys ain't no good, good boys ain't no fun" :ohwell:
  • AlbaAngel25
    AlbaAngel25 Posts: 484 Member
    i want both. But, since your making us choose, I would say the bad boy:love:
  • avrobin03
    avrobin03 Posts: 135 Member
    the nice guy that knows how to be bad would be my choice ;o)

    ^^ LIKE!
  • Katbaran
    Katbaran Posts: 605 Member
    Since you specified that I can't have both---the nice guy. The good man who is a great friend and a great Dad. The guy who likes to cuddle. The guy who will comfort you when someone dies. The guy who you KNOW you can count on. It doesn't hurt that he might be the bad boy in bed once in a while either.:bigsmile:
  • MileyClimb
    MileyClimb Posts: 414 Member
    I prefer the nice guy. I dated bad boys before. they pulled me down with them.
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    The trick is to be a good guy but not a pushover, and pick the right women who will appreciate it.
  • Nikkerz620
    Nikkerz620 Posts: 212 Member
    Good guy that has a touch of a bad boy.. can't be boring. :glasses:

    But the bad boy look is a def turn on.. :tongue: :love:
  • cessnaholly
    cessnaholly Posts: 780 Member
    nice guy with ability to be a bad boy when needed. my husband, nice guy, now has a tatoo, rides a motorcycle and yelled at a priest for me. but has a superdad sticker on the back of his helmet. LOL
  • MikeM53082
    MikeM53082 Posts: 1,199 Member
    http://www.shakesville.com/2007/12/explainer-what-is-nice-guy.html?m=1

    read. learn.

    /thread
  • MissFit0101
    MissFit0101 Posts: 2,382
    Nice guy!
  • LuckyAng
    LuckyAng Posts: 1,173 Member
    The nice one. I married him. There are too many pricks in the world.
  • xYumzx
    xYumzx Posts: 953 Member
    That alpha male thing can be hot but can get annoying after awhile(my ex ughhhhh)... so I wouldnt want that alone.. same as the sweet cuddler.. You start to think they have no manly-ness to them... Now if you mixed them both that would be the perfect match and that would be totally awesome... soooo can I just take you??? lol

    NO OFFENSE FELLAZ!
  • Windy32
    Windy32 Posts: 54
    Nice guy. Never failed when I was dating the bad boy would do something stupid that would make me have to end relationship.
  • chocolateandpb
    chocolateandpb Posts: 438 Member
    I've always been attracted to the bad boy type--I swoon for guys with tattoos and piercings, but they gotta have pretty faces too. :love: I am single but I would love to find a perfect combo of the bad boy/nice guy, because I'm so over dating jerks or losers with no future, but I also don't want some boring accountant type with no style or personality. I think that I am the perfect bad girl/nice girl combo, so I just need to find the male version of myself! :heart:
  • chelseyjoan
    chelseyjoan Posts: 79 Member
    Bad boy :love: .. unfortunately :grumble:

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