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Ladies, do you prefer the bad boy, or the nice guy?

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  • bulbadoof
    bulbadoof Posts: 1,058 Member
    I prefer the kind of guy who is true to himself even if it means not being what somebody else wants them to be.
  • vivie72
    vivie72 Posts: 127 Member
    Always went for the bad boy...and usually the wrong choice. :)
  • heykaraoke
    heykaraoke Posts: 191 Member
    Nice guy in public and general daily life...bad boy in the bedroom...

    Ditto! And lucky me, I got one :P
  • In between. Cannot be tooo nice or too out of control.
  • Neets086
    Neets086 Posts: 60
    I would say i defiently loved the bad boys.... but that clearly isn't working haha, might be time for a change??
  • Tennessee2019
    Tennessee2019 Posts: 676 Member
    My first husband was "the bad boy" & I ended up being physically, mentally & emotionally abused by him.
    My current husband is "the nice guy" & we have been happily married for 20 years.

    So what do you think my answer is??
  • missworld95
    missworld95 Posts: 131 Member
    I *really* don't know what determines what a bad boy is. If you mean bad @ss, then sure. Much more fun. If you mean treats you like complete crap, then no.
  • _Sara_A_
    _Sara_A_ Posts: 113 Member
    i usually go for the bad boy, unf. maybe why i'm not married at 33. but i do like nice guys if they have had a slightly checkered past and changed their ways. but sometimes nice guys can be too giving, or clingy. or feminine. but they make me happier.

    I chose the nice guy, and he can be all of those at times, but he definitely makes me happier than a lot of other guys I've dated. He'd do anything for me to make me happy, and I'd do the same for him.
  • I tend to go for the different guys. My husband is a nice, nerdy guy.
  • I like a gentleman in public and in general..but a bad, bad boy in the bedroom. Rawr!
  • Carlyannabelle
    Carlyannabelle Posts: 621 Member
    How about a nice guy that looks like a bad boy??

    ^^^^^ Yes! This, perfect!!!!
  • missworld95
    missworld95 Posts: 131 Member
    But just looking like one means they're sort of a fake, no?
  • Candi_land
    Candi_land Posts: 1,311 Member
    I've dated both..at least with the bad boy what you see is what you get..the good guy is basically the *kitten* in disguise and will turn around and surprise you when you least expect it.

    Someone with a little bit of both in them is the ideal at least IMO..
  • Laura_Suzie
    Laura_Suzie Posts: 1,288 Member
    I like the nice guys!
  • I've dated both..at least with the bad boy what you see is what you get..the good guy is basically the *kitten* in disguise and will turn around and surprise you when you least expect it.

    Someone with a little bit of both in them is the ideal at least IMO..
    Yup! I've had that. He is a good guy, and then once he has you...he is the bad guy.
  • ElizaRoche
    ElizaRoche Posts: 2,005 Member
    a combination of both would be awesome!
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
    How about a nice guy that looks like a bad boy??

    Yeah, how bout that?
  • LuckyAng
    LuckyAng Posts: 1,173 Member
    The nice guy, 100%. I married him almost 15 years ago.
  • I'd do the bad boy, but marry the nice guy. So I guess the NICE GUY!! But It wouldnt hurt if he looked like a bad boy :wink:
  • aqua_zumba_fan
    aqua_zumba_fan Posts: 383 Member
    I prefer the nice woman ;)
  • I don't have to choose 'cause my fiance is a bad boy with a heart of gold who proves that chivalry is not dead yet. :laugh:
  • Pebble321
    Pebble321 Posts: 6,423 Member
    Nice.
  • alleycat88
    alleycat88 Posts: 756 Member
    None if they are to an extreme.

    Can I get the guy that treats me well yet has that sarcastic *kitten* sense of humor? if so, one of those please! :laugh:
  • caraiselite
    caraiselite Posts: 2,631 Member
    geeky, nerdy, socially awkward.
  • SurfinBird1981
    SurfinBird1981 Posts: 517 Member
    geeky, nerdy, socially awkward.
    ^ This!

    This sums up my fiancé perfectly :laugh:
  • peles_fire
    peles_fire Posts: 501
    I'll take a nice guy please. Then I can show him how to be bad! :devil:

    Bringing out the bad in a nice guy is way more satisfying than bringing the nice out of a bad guy.
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    But just looking like one means they're sort of a fake, no?

    no not be fake just look tough enough like he can kick anyone's butt if need be :)
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    I don't have to choose 'cause my fiance is a bad boy with a heart of gold who proves that chivalry is not dead yet. :laugh:


    aww this almost gives me hope lol
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