Ladies, do you prefer the bad boy, or the nice guy?

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  • SmexAppeal
    SmexAppeal Posts: 858 Member
    If I can only pick one, then the obvious answer should be nice guy. I don't want some *kitten* that's going to treat me like @$$. BUT, perfect guy would be someone who is strong and can defend those he loves without being too "macho". He's got intelligence and a kind heart and knows how to treat his lady. I'm fairly certain I just described a non-existant man??
  • leahrochelle
    leahrochelle Posts: 218
    If I can only pick one, then the obvious answer should be nice guy. I don't want some *kitten* that's going to treat me like @$$. BUT, perfect guy would be someone who is strong and can defend those he loves without being too "macho". He's got intelligence and a kind heart and knows how to treat his lady. I'm fairly certain I just described a non-existant man??

    this^^
  • supatim
    supatim Posts: 239 Member
    If I can only pick one, then the obvious answer should be nice guy. I don't want some *kitten* that's going to treat me like @$$. BUT, perfect guy would be someone who is strong and can defend those he loves without being too "macho". He's got intelligence and a kind heart and knows how to treat his lady. I'm fairly certain I just described a non-existant man??


    You rang?
  • SmexAppeal
    SmexAppeal Posts: 858 Member
    If I can only pick one, then the obvious answer should be nice guy. I don't want some *kitten* that's going to treat me like @$$. BUT, perfect guy would be someone who is strong and can defend those he loves without being too "macho". He's got intelligence and a kind heart and knows how to treat his lady. I'm fairly certain I just described a non-existant man??


    You rang?

    I'm calling... pick up the phone sweetheart!
  • YokoJ
    YokoJ Posts: 253
    I think I'm envisioning an extreme of each...a super sensitive man and a hard *kitten*. Honestly, I would want the bad boy. I wouldn't be able to handle a man that had no back bone, I would have no respect for him. When I think bad boy I'm thinking macho and dominant, not a cheater. Guess I'm the odd woman out.
  • iLoveMyPitbull1225
    iLoveMyPitbull1225 Posts: 1,690 Member
    bad boy duh. its irresistable.
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    Just got my heart ripped out by a bad boy, so....no more for me. Ever.
  • Jain
    Jain Posts: 861 Member
    Nice guy in public and general daily life...bad boy in the bedroom...

    This. And they do exist, it's the naughty twinkle in their eyes that gives it away.:wink:
    Been married to mine 22 years & counting.:bigsmile:
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    If I can only pick one, then the obvious answer should be nice guy. I don't want some *kitten* that's going to treat me like @$$. BUT, perfect guy would be someone who is strong and can defend those he loves without being too "macho". He's got intelligence and a kind heart and knows how to treat his lady. I'm fairly certain I just described a non-existant man??


    Nah.....They exist.
  • LiftBigtoGetFit
    LiftBigtoGetFit Posts: 3,399 Member
    If I can only pick one, then the obvious answer should be nice guy. I don't want some *kitten* that's going to treat me like @$$. BUT, perfect guy would be someone who is strong and can defend those he loves without being too "macho". He's got intelligence and a kind heart and knows how to treat his lady. I'm fairly certain I just described a non-existant man??

    this^^

    we're not non-existent, we were snatched up quickly so we are already taken and since we are not douche bags we stay faithful so you wont see us out looking for a fling either. sorry, you'll have to find one and snatch them up quickly, we don't stay on the market for too long. :smile:
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I've lost out many times to the "Bad Boy".
  • RiannonC
    RiannonC Posts: 145 Member
    I think I'm envisioning an extreme of each...a super sensitive man and a hard *kitten*. Honestly, I would want the bad boy. I wouldn't be able to handle a man that had no back bone, I would have no respect for him. When I think bad boy I'm thinking macho and dominant, not a cheater. Guess I'm the odd woman out.

    I don't think that being sensitive precludes having a backbone. Most of the nicest men I know (of whom my husband is one) also have the most strength of character. Being considerate and kind is not in any way the same as being a wimp or a pushover.
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    If I can only pick one, then the obvious answer should be nice guy. I don't want some *kitten* that's going to treat me like @$$. BUT, perfect guy would be someone who is strong and can defend those he loves without being too "macho". He's got intelligence and a kind heart and knows how to treat his lady. I'm fairly certain I just described a non-existant man??

    this^^

    we're not non-existent, we were snatched up quickly so we are already taken and since we are not douche bags we stay faithful so you wont see us out looking for a fling either. sorry, you'll have to find one and snatch them up quickly, we don't stay on the market for too long. :smile:
    ^^^ lol.

    i'm guilty of always falling for the bad boys. ugh. i'm working on this!
  • quixoticmantis
    quixoticmantis Posts: 297 Member
    Nice guy, all the way!
  • Mom0fTwo
    Mom0fTwo Posts: 326 Member
    bad boy in the sack...good boy everywhere else :) and a very good sense of humor goes a long way
  • mminor77
    mminor77 Posts: 313
    Nice guy.... but I must be in all the wrong places because it doesn't seem like there are many of them left!!
  • ohmariposa
    ohmariposa Posts: 372 Member
    even though I know it is wrong..bad boy all the way...
  • volume77
    volume77 Posts: 670 Member
    Nice but confident! Not Bad or mean but motorcycles are always a plus!!
  • mamagooskie
    mamagooskie Posts: 2,964 Member
    Bad Boy all of the way.
  • CassiusKnox
    CassiusKnox Posts: 305 Member
    The age old question. I've been told I have the perfect mix, Being able to publicly exert my alpha-male dominance, and privately be able to be the type of dude that doesn't mind cuddling at night.....but assume you can't have both. Assume you have to pick one, what do you prefer your man to be, more of a bad boy, or more of a nice guy?

    Baahahahahahahahahahahahahaha !... sorry

    aaha...aahaha... "perfect mix".... Baaaahahahahahahahahahahah!.... sorry

    Baaaahahahahahahahahahahaha!
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    Nice!!!!! Oh, think I answered this already....
    Bad when the situation calls for it, never bad to me. :)
  • Allison22451
    Allison22451 Posts: 686 Member
    nice guy
  • ndnmomma
    ndnmomma Posts: 466 Member
    Oh well hell if I were being honest and o mean completely honest it would depend on what your looking for if its just sex bad boy no doubt, but if your looking for a meaningful relationship hell bad boy all the way ;)
  • thedancingleper
    thedancingleper Posts: 158 Member
    I have been married happily for seven years to a genuinely good person. I think it's important to NOT change a person you are in a relationship with. Choose someone you are really happy with as they are, not someone you need to "reform" in order for them to fit your ideal. I get incredibly irritated with people I know constantly picking people who are obviously ill suited to them and who are jerks simply because it's sexy. I wouldn't mind if they kept their mouths shut about it, to each his own, but the thing is I hear no end to their complaining about how horrible their partner is. It gets old. Fast.
  • D3vAnge1
    D3vAnge1 Posts: 104 Member
    a rugged gentleman 4 me!
  • GeorgiaOnlyDaughter
    GeorgiaOnlyDaughter Posts: 23
    Always the nice guy.
  • avir8
    avir8 Posts: 671 Member
    Bad boy, but it's never worth it. :frown:
  • AuddAlise
    AuddAlise Posts: 723 Member
    I pefer the nice guy that looks like a bad *kitten*.

    My husband is Italian and tall and when we walk together people make way for him. I LOVE it.

    ETA - Now that I think about it people make way for me too. Maybe I am the bad *kitten* and he is just tagging along with me? :wink:
  • CarleyLovesPets
    CarleyLovesPets Posts: 410 Member
    NICE GUY 100%

    I don't have the patience for a bad BOY.
  • deniseearheart
    deniseearheart Posts: 919 Member
    I don't know anymore... I think someone who is nice, funny, adventurous, fun, and FAITHFUL is my type of new guy..... nice being the main word....
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