Ladies, do you prefer the bad boy, or the nice guy?

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  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    A good mix. I want bad boy confidence but a nice guy personality!
  • Tanyawhite30
    Tanyawhite30 Posts: 473
    Love them bad boys
  • robot_potato
    robot_potato Posts: 1,535 Member
    there is a certain attraction to the bad boy, i loved that about my husband when we first met (at 14). i am so relieved that he grew up to be the nice guy. not by any means a doormat, and he is *ahem* assertive when he needs to be, but he is kind, loving, and gentle at the same time. he does his best to do the right thing, he is respectful. he is wonderful with the kids. he doesn't keep many friends but the ones he does have are very close.
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    Just one that has his **** together, doesn't belittle me and understands me.
  • 7funnygirl7
    7funnygirl7 Posts: 1,176
    I like and need them both :tongue: ~ I'm a Gemini, so I have two ladies to have to keep happy :bigsmile: :laugh:
  • terri0527
    terri0527 Posts: 678 Member
    I like and need them both :tongue: ~ I'm a Gemini, so I have two ladies to have to keep happy :bigsmile: :laugh:

    :laugh: gemini here also...we make our men work overtime :bigsmile:
  • DrowningMermaid
    DrowningMermaid Posts: 143
    I had both. All my teen years I always liked the bad boy. He was sexy, had the long hair and the attitude. I even married the bad boy. But the bad boy turned out to be BAD and... unfortunately just a little BOY. Then I married the nice guy and it's been bliss. He treats me well, he helps me when I need help, he works hard to get what he wants or needs and he is supportive in every possible way.

    And sometimes if I ask real nice, he'll play the bad boy role;)
    :devil: :love:
  • RoboLikes
    RoboLikes Posts: 519 Member
    I have always found myself attracted to genuinely nice guys. Niceties just do it for me.
  • Noki1024
    Noki1024 Posts: 302
    I prefer a nice guy. I have absolutely no problem standing up for myself, I don't need a man to be a bad *kitten*.
  • saraann4
    saraann4 Posts: 1,296 Member
    A mixture of the two. Bad boys are hot. Nice guys are simply just nice. Maybe too nice? Bad boys have that appeal to them. Granted, I want a guy who opens doors for me, but I don't want a guy who agrees with everything that I say or is too mushy. This could be a long discussion so I'll stop now. :)
  • saraann4
    saraann4 Posts: 1,296 Member
    i just want a man that is able to fix things around the house

    Yes! and can cook and clean preferably :)
  • Erisad
    Erisad Posts: 1,580
    My bf is a nice guy. The only "bad boy" trait about him is that he likes to drink and play violent videogames. He's such a sucker for his 1 year old niece, it's so cute to hear how he fusses over her. XD
  • sarah3333
    sarah3333 Posts: 222 Member
    HAD a bad boy.... now HAVE a nice guy :) I prefer the nice guy. I would rather be alone then with another bad boy.

    I should add that I am a nice girl :)
  • Mceastes
    Mceastes Posts: 303 Member
    Bad boys are hot, no doubt. But they're never good for much more than a night (sorry, it's the truth!). Nice guy all the way - that's why I married one!
  • snix1024
    snix1024 Posts: 81
    the bad boy...but nice will do.....
  • placebomonkey
    placebomonkey Posts: 104 Member
    Bad ! Bad! Bad! ;)
  • ShareeMorty
    ShareeMorty Posts: 324 Member
    Having had long term relationships with both a bad boy and a nice guy, I think I want someone in the middle of both.
  • shaynak112
    shaynak112 Posts: 751 Member
    Definitely both.
    But I'd prefer a nice guy
  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
    I have a bad boy who treats me nice.
  • veggiesaurus15
    veggiesaurus15 Posts: 152 Member
    A really good guy, with a slight edge, healthy confidence, and a big heart. :)
  • yelpat
    yelpat Posts: 414 Member
    Definately nice guy every time.
  • snoopytwins
    snoopytwins Posts: 1,759 Member
    I prefer the reformed bad boy.
  • missiemandy
    missiemandy Posts: 15 Member
    Be alpha...I'm never attracted to guys who treat me like I'm a gold encrusted angel! Guys these days try WAY too hard and then wonder why they have to pay for everything. Plus a girl who likes you for who you are and not what you 'buy' her or how you 'worship' her is a way hotter chick in my opinion :P
  • chameleon77
    chameleon77 Posts: 124
    I would very much like a combination of both, but since you are saying choose one.....it would be the nice guy. In the past, it would have definitely been the bad boy, but not so much anymore. :)
  • caraiselite
    caraiselite Posts: 2,631 Member
    My bf is a nice guy. The only "bad boy" trait about him is that he likes to drink and play violent videogames. He's such a sucker for his 1 year old niece, it's so cute to hear how he fusses over her. XD

    gamers aren't bad! violent video games.. pfft.
    gamers rock =]
  • Papalov100
    Papalov100 Posts: 1,593 Member
    Good guy that enjoys everything horse bake riding etc.
  • angelalawsons
    angelalawsons Posts: 30 Member
    A nice guy. But he cant be a push over. He needs to have that Alpha Male quality and be able to stand up for him self or... for what he believes is right.
  • robot_potato
    robot_potato Posts: 1,535 Member
    A nice guy, sweet but very confident. Doesn't get jealous easily. Doesn't start fights but can finish them. A gentleman with a wild side, they are few and far between these days. I got mine :)
  • caraiselite
    caraiselite Posts: 2,631 Member
    a funny article about nice guys.

    http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-things-girls-dont-seem-to-understand-about-nice-guys
  • foodfight247
    foodfight247 Posts: 767 Member
    I like the nice guy with a bit of edge to him! lol.

    Seriously though, it depends what you mean by bad boy. I've dated bad boys in the past. I like a nice guy with a slight risque side to him these days. Just a down to earth, honest, respectful guy.

    If he's been really naughty then.....well.......lol! Depends what kind of naughty.
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