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    Relationship question

    Posts: 908 Member
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    Ok, here's the deal. I have been seeing this girl for like 18 months now. She is sweet, sexy, funny, sarcastic, outgoing, outdoorsy....everything I like. She is quite a bit younger than me, has a good job and her own house. She tells me that she has not seen anyone other than me since we have been together, and up until recently, I believed her. Well here's the thing...she hit me this weekend with the news that she is pregnant. She swears its mine, but guess what.....I am cut, and have been checked and rechecked and there is no way its mine. She is adamant that it is and that she has not been with anyone else but me. Now she is pushing me to leave my wife and wants to get married.

    My wife says that she is just a slut and has been cheating on me and that I really need to get a handle on her and get this stuff straightened out before things turn ugly. I really don't want to lose her, cause she is really an awesome girl and great in bed. She also makes a superb turkey and swiss sammich, toasted...with mustard. I don't want to lose her...but am concerned that she is cheating on me. My wife does not want to lose her either cause she helps out with the bills and keeps me out of my wife's hair on bunco night and for her girls' nights out.

    I really don't know what to do.....or how to make her come clean about the real baby daddy. Help!

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    • Posts: 2,339 Member
      Aww CB! Don't let her treat you like that! :P
    • Posts: 4,251 Member
      your sn says country boy

      your life is a country song

      Cut ties with woman, put money aside. Have DNA tests done ASAP and if is yours you have $ saved for your responsibility.
    • Posts: 1,617 Member
      What the what?! :noway: I'm in awe a bit here... :huh:

      Why is there a wife, a new girl, and another man??? Sounds like the could be yours baby is the LEAST of the problems listed???
    • Posts: 1,358 Member
      Does she know you've been snipped???

      There is still a possibility.. So a simple paternity test is all it takes.
    • Posts: 395 Member
      PATERNITY TEST!
    • Posts: 589 Member
      Can't you simply tell her it isn't possible because you're cut? Or have you done that already and she's claiming it's possible anyway?
    • Posts: 566 Member
      I'm lost!
    • Posts: 51 Member
      What?!?! :noway:
    • Posts: 269 Member
      WOW! There is so much that is not right with this entire situation I don't even know where to begin:ohwell:
    • Posts: 908 Member
      Does she know you've been snipped???

      There is still a possibility.. So a simple paternity test is all it takes.

      No, she does not know. Part of the attraction for her is that she wanted to eventually have kids. I couldn't tell her cause I was afraid she would cut me off, and that stuff is just too good to let go....
    • Posts: 687 Member
      since you've got a wife and one on the side with apparently your wife's blessing you should become a mormon if you're not already and call it good pending the results of the paternity test.
    • Posts: 441 Member
      Now you can fulfill your lifelong dream of going on Maury!!
    • Posts: 179
      I'm confused....your WIFE? And you concerned because you're GIRLFRIEND cheated? Very confused here.
    • Posts: 988 Member
      I really don't want to lose her, cause she is really an awesome girl and great in bed. She also makes a superb turkey and swiss sammich, toasted...with mustard. I don't want to lose her...but am concerned that she is cheating on me.

      You've got to focus on her sammich making ability - if it worth losing this over a baby??
    • Posts: 179
      Also, I know two women who got pregnant after their husbands got snipped, and no they didn't cheat.
    • Posts: 3,450 Member
      Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!
    • Posts: 11,788 Member
      Your WIFE says she's a slut?

      Dude?!?!
    • Posts: 377 Member
      Now you can fulfill your lifelong dream of going on Maury!!

      That or Springer. I think he's still around.
    • Posts: 554 Member
      The good news is that all the sex is cancelling out the calories from the turkey & swiss sammiches.

      Your wife needs to get a HRM to properly track those Bunco calories burned.
    • Posts: 425 Member
      Now you can fulfill your lifelong dream of going on Maury!!

      OMG Maury show is my guilty pleasure!
    • Posts: 561 Member
      I'm confused....your WIFE? And you concerned because you're GIRLFRIEND cheated? Very confused here.


      ME TOO!! You have a Wife and a Girlfriend and your WIFE is ok with it? Something is wrong in your part of the World
    • Posts: 760 Member
      I think it is a conspiracy that your wife and gf set up. Your wife went to a sperm bank and got a donation for the gf. She did this so she could keep the gf cause they have a side thing going.
    • Posts: 86 Member
      WWMPD = What Would Maury Povich Do?
    • Posts: 116
      What the hell!!!!??? This is so beyond mind blowing, your ENTIRE situation that is.
    • Posts: 101 Member
      WOW! There is so much that is not right with this entire situation I don't even know where to begin:ohwell:

      This
    • Posts: 541
      Ok, here's the deal. I have been seeing this girl for like 18 months now. She is sweet, sexy, funny, sarcastic, outgoing, outdoorsy....everything I like. She is quite a bit younger than me, has a good job and her own house. She tells me that she has not seen anyone other than me since we have been together, and up until recently, I believed her. Well here's the thing...she hit me this weekend with the news that she is pregnant. She swears its mine, but guess what.....I am cut, and have been checked and rechecked and there is no way its mine. She is adamant that it is and that she has not been with anyone else but me. Now she is pushing me to leave my wife and wants to get married.

      My wife says that she is just a slut and has been cheating on me and that I really need to get a handle on her and get this stuff straightened out before things turn ugly. I really don't want to lose her, cause she is really an awesome girl and great in bed. She also makes a superb turkey and swiss sammich, toasted...with mustard. I don't want to lose her...but am concerned that she is cheating on me. My wife does not want to lose her either cause she helps out with the bills and keeps me out of my wife's hair on bunco night and for her girls' nights out.

      I really don't know what to do.....or how to make her come clean about the real baby daddy. Help!

      Trololol!!!
    • Posts: 193 Member
      Now you can fulfill your lifelong dream of going on Maury!!

      LOL
    • Posts: 820 Member
      What the what?! :noway: I'm in awe a bit here... :huh:

      Why is there a wife, a new girl, and another man??? Sounds like the could be yours baby is the LEAST of the problems listed???


      !!!!!!!!!
    • Posts: 39 Member
      Sounds like something that can only be really sorted out by an appearance on the Jeremy Kyle show.
    • Posts: 46
      Have her do an in utero-paternity test.
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