Relationship question

CountryBoy65
CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
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Ok, here's the deal. I have been seeing this girl for like 18 months now. She is sweet, sexy, funny, sarcastic, outgoing, outdoorsy....everything I like. She is quite a bit younger than me, has a good job and her own house. She tells me that she has not seen anyone other than me since we have been together, and up until recently, I believed her. Well here's the thing...she hit me this weekend with the news that she is pregnant. She swears its mine, but guess what.....I am cut, and have been checked and rechecked and there is no way its mine. She is adamant that it is and that she has not been with anyone else but me. Now she is pushing me to leave my wife and wants to get married.

My wife says that she is just a slut and has been cheating on me and that I really need to get a handle on her and get this stuff straightened out before things turn ugly. I really don't want to lose her, cause she is really an awesome girl and great in bed. She also makes a superb turkey and swiss sammich, toasted...with mustard. I don't want to lose her...but am concerned that she is cheating on me. My wife does not want to lose her either cause she helps out with the bills and keeps me out of my wife's hair on bunco night and for her girls' nights out.

I really don't know what to do.....or how to make her come clean about the real baby daddy. Help!
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  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    Aww CB! Don't let her treat you like that! :P
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    your sn says country boy

    your life is a country song

    Cut ties with woman, put money aside. Have DNA tests done ASAP and if is yours you have $ saved for your responsibility.
  • AwesomelyAmber
    AwesomelyAmber Posts: 1,617 Member
    What the what?! :noway: I'm in awe a bit here... :huh:

    Why is there a wife, a new girl, and another man??? Sounds like the could be yours baby is the LEAST of the problems listed???
  • Kitten2629
    Kitten2629 Posts: 1,358 Member
    Does she know you've been snipped???

    There is still a possibility.. So a simple paternity test is all it takes.
  • Maude_Lewbowski
    Maude_Lewbowski Posts: 395 Member
    PATERNITY TEST!
  • DeeVanderbles
    DeeVanderbles Posts: 589 Member
    Can't you simply tell her it isn't possible because you're cut? Or have you done that already and she's claiming it's possible anyway?
  • 2143661
    2143661 Posts: 566 Member
    I'm lost!
  • chesneyfan01
    chesneyfan01 Posts: 51 Member
    What?!?! :noway:
  • DrewMaxwell
    DrewMaxwell Posts: 269 Member
    WOW! There is so much that is not right with this entire situation I don't even know where to begin:ohwell:
  • CountryBoy65
    CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
    Does she know you've been snipped???

    There is still a possibility.. So a simple paternity test is all it takes.

    No, she does not know. Part of the attraction for her is that she wanted to eventually have kids. I couldn't tell her cause I was afraid she would cut me off, and that stuff is just too good to let go....
  • minkakross
    minkakross Posts: 687 Member
    since you've got a wife and one on the side with apparently your wife's blessing you should become a mormon if you're not already and call it good pending the results of the paternity test.
  • Expialidojess
    Expialidojess Posts: 441 Member
    Now you can fulfill your lifelong dream of going on Maury!!
  • foxy2311
    foxy2311 Posts: 179
    I'm confused....your WIFE? And you concerned because you're GIRLFRIEND cheated? Very confused here.
  • Pookylou
    Pookylou Posts: 988 Member
    I really don't want to lose her, cause she is really an awesome girl and great in bed. She also makes a superb turkey and swiss sammich, toasted...with mustard. I don't want to lose her...but am concerned that she is cheating on me.

    You've got to focus on her sammich making ability - if it worth losing this over a baby??
  • foxy2311
    foxy2311 Posts: 179
    Also, I know two women who got pregnant after their husbands got snipped, and no they didn't cheat.
  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Your WIFE says she's a slut?

    Dude?!?!
  • MustBeTheRows
    MustBeTheRows Posts: 377 Member
    Now you can fulfill your lifelong dream of going on Maury!!

    That or Springer. I think he's still around.
  • jillica
    jillica Posts: 554 Member
    The good news is that all the sex is cancelling out the calories from the turkey & swiss sammiches.

    Your wife needs to get a HRM to properly track those Bunco calories burned.
  • clairyfairy247
    clairyfairy247 Posts: 425 Member
    Now you can fulfill your lifelong dream of going on Maury!!

    OMG Maury show is my guilty pleasure!
  • SPBROOKS68
    SPBROOKS68 Posts: 561 Member
    I'm confused....your WIFE? And you concerned because you're GIRLFRIEND cheated? Very confused here.


    ME TOO!! You have a Wife and a Girlfriend and your WIFE is ok with it? Something is wrong in your part of the World
  • Myslissa
    Myslissa Posts: 760 Member
    I think it is a conspiracy that your wife and gf set up. Your wife went to a sperm bank and got a donation for the gf. She did this so she could keep the gf cause they have a side thing going.
  • ClarkAddison
    ClarkAddison Posts: 86 Member
    WWMPD = What Would Maury Povich Do?
  • AmadaLynn
    AmadaLynn Posts: 116
    What the hell!!!!??? This is so beyond mind blowing, your ENTIRE situation that is.
  • ldg323
    ldg323 Posts: 101 Member
    WOW! There is so much that is not right with this entire situation I don't even know where to begin:ohwell:

    This
  • Sockimobi
    Sockimobi Posts: 541
    Ok, here's the deal. I have been seeing this girl for like 18 months now. She is sweet, sexy, funny, sarcastic, outgoing, outdoorsy....everything I like. She is quite a bit younger than me, has a good job and her own house. She tells me that she has not seen anyone other than me since we have been together, and up until recently, I believed her. Well here's the thing...she hit me this weekend with the news that she is pregnant. She swears its mine, but guess what.....I am cut, and have been checked and rechecked and there is no way its mine. She is adamant that it is and that she has not been with anyone else but me. Now she is pushing me to leave my wife and wants to get married.

    My wife says that she is just a slut and has been cheating on me and that I really need to get a handle on her and get this stuff straightened out before things turn ugly. I really don't want to lose her, cause she is really an awesome girl and great in bed. She also makes a superb turkey and swiss sammich, toasted...with mustard. I don't want to lose her...but am concerned that she is cheating on me. My wife does not want to lose her either cause she helps out with the bills and keeps me out of my wife's hair on bunco night and for her girls' nights out.

    I really don't know what to do.....or how to make her come clean about the real baby daddy. Help!

    Trololol!!!
  • Keegansmum6
    Keegansmum6 Posts: 193 Member
    Now you can fulfill your lifelong dream of going on Maury!!

    LOL
  • squishycow7
    squishycow7 Posts: 820 Member
    What the what?! :noway: I'm in awe a bit here... :huh:

    Why is there a wife, a new girl, and another man??? Sounds like the could be yours baby is the LEAST of the problems listed???


    !!!!!!!!!
  • RoybieOfTheRovers
    RoybieOfTheRovers Posts: 39 Member
    Sounds like something that can only be really sorted out by an appearance on the Jeremy Kyle show.
  • xuashe
    xuashe Posts: 46
    Have her do an in utero-paternity test.
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