asking the men

I prefer my women strong with not a ton of bf. 6-packs can be hot on a woman.

LOL It isn't like I am listing the options for a car I want to buy.

They have to have a vagina and not be repulsed by me. Just about everything else can be variable.

Not a guy, still I feel inclined to answer. I usually go for women who are on the bigger side of things, as long as they're not sloppy about it. I don't find skinny women attractive at all. If I wanted a bag of bones, I would eat some KFC chicken and love the remains. Growing up around big women might have something to do with that. I like what I'm trying to get to. A fit, toned (or somewhat toned) woman. I think you can be fit and still have something to hold on to.

I'm not a guy but know my hubby's opinion. He likes curvy, and by curvy I don't mean big, I mean what you would typically see in a men's calendar or with Victoria Secret models (not the stick figure runway fashion models). That being said, he loves me, loved me when I was bigger or smaller. If I get ripped he would still love me but won't likely think "sexy" when he sees me. We've been together for 23 years, his opinion is important to me and I also don't personally find too much muscle on women to be attractive, so don't plan on getting to that point.

So to the ones thinking some guys don't think this way... I know several that do and it's not about being "intimidated" (my hubby is 6'4" and very muscular so there's not too much that intimidates him), it is just honestly what they find attractive. But I also have to agree with the guy that said diversity is sexy, I know of another guy who prefers small boobs. Just an opinion though.

I always like women who work on their bodies to make themselves happy as opposed to doing it for someone else. THAT'S hot.

women should do what makes *them* happy, reach *their* goals, and not give a flip about what makes men happy. that's true confidence. and that's damn sexy.

I seriously love that both of you are on my FL.

All these guys that say they like a little extra on their women, I'm willing to bet their browser history tells a different story.

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I think most of us agree that defining our goals with your own happiness in mind and deciding what is right for us as individuals based on our own standards, rather than society, the opposite sex, whatever, is a positive thing.

Having said that, what exactly is wrong with asking what women or men want or are looking for? There will always be statistical outliers but that doesn't mean to say that identifying general trends isn't of some worth or interesting.

If you are doing it for you then bravo!

If you are making your way to that mindset then bravo!

If you are interested in what other people think then bravo!

Reading the responses on this has made my day! Fit yet soft that has always been my goal. Woo woo

Fit but soft for sure.

Depends on the woman.

Some women look amazing with the abs showing....others do not....

And then there are some women who can look sexy as hell with something to hold.


Every woman has her way of looking amazing..

Why should anyone ONLY like this or that...

Diversity for me please!

This is a great answer.

Sorry, not a guy. Just wanted to see the consensus.

Not a guy either...but love his answer!

Ok, just out of curiosity.

My bf HATES abs/too much bone on girls...is he an alien?? haha I just don't get it! I think female six pack look phenomenal!

What do you guys think?

Dump him now.

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Ok, just out of curiosity.

My bf HATES abs/too much bone on girls...is he an alien?? haha I just don't get it! I think female six pack look phenomenal!

What do you guys think?

Everybody is different on this. My preference as far as appearance is a "fit" appearance (which I do not yet represent myself so I could not use that as a barrier for anybody else... that being said, this is a physical PREFERENCE... that is all) No, I don't like hard sculpted abs on anybody really HOWEVER, I would like to see abs Again, some men like CHUNKY... others like 5% body fat... Personally, I am somewhere in between. As long as it is a healthy look, it would fit my preferences... It is the personality within that matters most anyway...

As I get more and more in shape, I ironically find myself attracted to women who are slightly overweight. But just slightly. Let's call them full figured. With a nice smile, very friendly, etc.

In Czech they have a wonderful expression for this type of woman: "krev a mleko" (literally translated: "blood and milk").... :-)

--Prahasaurus

How you doin'....

Ok, just out of curiosity.

My bf HATES abs/too much bone on girls...is he an alien?? haha I just don't get it! I think female six pack look phenomenal!

What do you guys think?

It's disgusting.

All these guys that say they like a little extra on their women, I'm willing to bet their browser history tells a different story.

HAHAHA

Anytime I show my fiance a pic of a woman that has more abs than me( I really don't have any lol) he says it turns him off..

To each their own, that's not going to stop me from getting where I want to be.