Ladies, how long do you make him wait?

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  • juliecat1
    juliecat1 Posts: 3,450 Member
    3 date rule. Duh.
  • bluegrasschica
    bluegrasschica Posts: 224
    Probably like 5. :laugh:
  • 4x4play
    4x4play Posts: 200 Member
    Do people still date?? I'm confused!
  • IamSheaMc
    IamSheaMc Posts: 1,273 Member
    When an exclusive relationship has been established. No tapping before committment!
  • Sissy4EverX3
    Sissy4EverX3 Posts: 247
    Not necessarily. I met a guy back in February. Took him home with me that night, but NOTHING HAPPENED. We stuck together like glue the next day and *that* night was when the world rocked. We were together 3 months, until I got tired of being treated like his servant and walked away without so much as a "See Ya, Kiss my *kitten*".. which sucks, because I was out $500.. but well worth it.


    ...damn this made me sound like I'm an easy tramp. :grumble: Point is, I let him tap it when I feel comfortable with the connection.. or I make the first move.
  • YaBoiMUGS
    YaBoiMUGS Posts: 237
    3 date rule. Duh.

    A lot of women follow this. Luckily for me, tonight is date #3
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    tbh, depends on how bad I want him, how much chemistry is there immediately and how good the timing is. Ive made a guy wait 3 months and there was another guy who I kissed for the first time and then shortly afterwards... slept with for the first time - cause, well, there was just no stopping it.
  • PrncessBre
    PrncessBre Posts: 444 Member
    When an exclusive relationship has been established. No tapping before committment!

    Exactly this!!!!
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    I have a 5 date rule!
  • littlepinkhearts
    littlepinkhearts Posts: 1,055 Member
    case by case basis
  • Jbjessi
    Jbjessi Posts: 288
    I make my husband wait all of 5 minutes. lol. but thats just me
  • YaBoiMUGS
    YaBoiMUGS Posts: 237
    tbh, depends on how bad I want him, how much chemistry is there immediately and how good the timing is. Ive made a guy wait 3 months and there was another guy who I kissed for the first time and then shortly afterwards... slept with for the first time - cause, well, there was just no stopping it.

    :noway: 3 months?!?!
  • HellsKells
    HellsKells Posts: 671 Member
    case by case basis

    This for me too. I don't have a "rule" per se.
  • shaynak112
    shaynak112 Posts: 751 Member
    A couple dates? But that was only cuz I was getting out of a relationship at that time.
    It depends on the guy, the situation, etc.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    no tapping before commitment?

    there's no way I would commit to a man without knowing his tappin skills....well.
  • akaOtherWise
    akaOtherWise Posts: 110 Member
    3 date rule. Duh.

    A lot of women follow this. Luckily for me, tonight is date #3

    Good luck, op!
  • HellsKells
    HellsKells Posts: 671 Member
    no tapping before commitment?

    there's no way I would commit to a man without knowing his tappin skills....well.

    amen :laugh:
  • 76tech
    76tech Posts: 1,455 Member
    Man, if she doesn't let me smash that before the third date, I'm outta there. I mean, I'm sort of old fashioned, so there's got to be a classy meal and clean(ish) sheets before I bring her home and get a good drilling in, but a guy's got to do what a guy's got to do.

    *snort*

    ok. sarcasm off. what was the question again?
  • SammyW89
    SammyW89 Posts: 15 Member
    I slept with the last guy i dated on the first date and we're still together 2+ yrs later...

    It felt right at the time, i don't think it matters about time its about whether it feels right or not...


    ps.we were friends before the alcohol fuelled night that changed everything :)
  • lavieboheme1229
    lavieboheme1229 Posts: 448 Member
    My boyfriend and I waited 8 months... still together and incredibly happy 5.5 years later.

    First and only.
  • Steve_Runs
    Steve_Runs Posts: 443 Member
    i'm a rule breaker!
  • freezee2010
    freezee2010 Posts: 16 Member
    3-6 months
  • JDMPWR
    JDMPWR Posts: 1,863 Member
    The last guy I went out with let me tap it that night.......Dam was it worth it.
  • Twilightsunflower
    Twilightsunflower Posts: 324 Member
    i never made them wait....


    my hub made me wait till we got married though
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    My fiance and I it was 5 months we were "dating" online before we met. So 5 months.
  • sevsmom
    sevsmom Posts: 1,172 Member
    My Husband waited 8 months and 23 days. . . and one ceremony with ring!

    It was excruciating, but worth it!!!

    Wouldn't have had it any other way.
  • Candi8099
    Candi8099 Posts: 178 Member
    i'm a rule breaker!

    ^THIS^

    I'm engaged to my one night stand! He had to go & mess things up by proposing on our 3 year anniversary this year!! :heart:
  • YaBoiMUGS
    YaBoiMUGS Posts: 237
    I'm sorry, but where are you finding these guys who wait for months?

    Yeah, I know the cliche, a good guy is one who is willing to wait, but a real man is good enough to get in there a lot quicker.
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    Man, if she doesn't let me smash that before the third date, I'm outta there. I mean, I'm sort of old fashioned, so there's got to be a classy meal and clean(ish) sheets before I bring her home and get a good drilling in, but a guy's got to do what a guy's got to do.

    *snort*

    ok. sarcasm off. what was the question again?
    :mad: I'm so offended by this.. :explode:


    (:wink: )
  • lindsy721
    lindsy721 Posts: 350 Member
    For my husband, it cost 16 diamonds and the rest of his life. :-D
    (there are 3 diamonds in my engagement ring and 13 small diamonds in the wedding band)

    We saved sex for marriage :) We started dating when we were freshmen in college (I was 18), got married the summer we graduated (age 22). And have been happily married for 5 years, with many more to come :-D And as much unlimited, on-demand sex as he (or I!!) wants :-D

    I'm with you, sevsmom!! Excruciating, but worth waiting for!!
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