Secret motivation!

HeatherDee92
HeatherDee92 Posts: 218 Member
edited December 25 in Motivation and Support
What is that one thing you don't tell people about because you think they will laugh, but you use it as motivation?

Mine is I want to be an actor! I love acting and wanna do go to Hollywood and show everyone what I have got! I wanna be tall tan and famous! :)

Share yours please?
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  • Amber_lee_81
    Amber_lee_81 Posts: 36 Member
    I don't tell loved ones (other than hubby) that I am trying to lose weight. Everytime I have I get the eye roll or that "look" like yeah right here we go again. It gives me total motivation to push harder for all the critics.
  • peachyxoxoxo
    peachyxoxoxo Posts: 1,178 Member
    Honestly I just want to go to the gym and have people look at what I'm able to do and think "wow that girl is in shape." I'm already one of just a few girls in the weight room at my gym, now I want to be the one that makes everyone else push themselves a bit harder :) haha
  • caseyjade88
    caseyjade88 Posts: 89 Member
    I can't really say that my motivation would make people laugh, per say. But my "secret" motivation is that my husband told me that I've gained too much weight. As much as it kills me to replay that in my head constantly, it gives me a reason to not give up on getting my old body back.
  • paintlisapurple
    paintlisapurple Posts: 982 Member
    Oh man please don't laugh too hard...mine is to get a great body like Jessica Simpson had in that vid where she's dancing around washing the car...hubby used to be obsessed by her.
  • seejulesrun
    seejulesrun Posts: 32 Member
    My motivation is to look wonderful in a wedding dress. I've been with my guy for three years now and while he may not be the one I marry, it's hard to imagine life without him. But I want to be healthy enough to stay around for a long time. :)
  • hothodgie
    hothodgie Posts: 258 Member
    Ok, since you asked, lol. My secret motivation is to become so hot my hubby won't care if he is tired, he will just have to have me. I want better sexual positions and more of it in general, lol! No, I don't tell anyone this, not even my hubby.
  • sds76
    sds76 Posts: 215 Member
    I have this secret dream of one daying running a race of some kind. I have been big my whole life so when I'm on the treadmill, I just think about me running a race with all my family there cheering me on.
  • HeatherDee92
    HeatherDee92 Posts: 218 Member
    Ok, since you asked, lol. My secret motivation is to become so hot my hubby won't care if he is tired, he will just have to have me. I want better sexual positions and more of it in general, lol! No, I don't tell anyone this, not even my hubby.

    I'm not married, but I am with you on the sexual positions thing! There are so many things I WANT TO TRY SO BAD! But It would be physically impossible at my size now! :(
  • kittyhasclaws
    kittyhasclaws Posts: 446 Member
    Mine is to be able to go a full round against my friend who is a pro MMA fighter with a 6-3-0 record. She's so entirely bad *kitten*. I want to be at least a fraction of that awesome.
  • benich3043
    benich3043 Posts: 252 Member
    Ok, since you asked, lol. My secret motivation is to become so hot my hubby won't care if he is tired, he will just have to have me. I want better sexual positions and more of it in general, lol! No, I don't tell anyone this, not even my hubby.

    This seems like a valid reason LOL. Maybe i should use this, too.

    I want to be the guy that people say "I want to be as fit as that guy."
  • kmm7309
    kmm7309 Posts: 802 Member
    My secret motivation is to be a really hot step-mom.

    If I was skinny, it wouldn't be a problem. I'm 23 and my step-kids are 15 and 14, both boys. I know it's weird, but I want my boys to bring friends over and catch crap because their step-mom is smokin'!

    No, not even my husband is aware of this!!
  • Bobby_Clerici
    Bobby_Clerici Posts: 1,828 Member
    I want to remain formidable and tough - ready for action when the chips are down.
  • DisputedEnds
    DisputedEnds Posts: 95
    To Be shredded like zyzz brah
  • 3laine75
    3laine75 Posts: 3,069 Member
    i really want superhero legs (like they are drawn in the comics not like halle berry or scarlett johansen in movies). :D
  • krazykristen123
    krazykristen123 Posts: 103 Member
    Not a secret but my modivation is to be
    a size 10 for my High School Graduation (:
  • freew67
    freew67 Posts: 348 Member
    I want to do an Ironman race.
  • MFPBrandy
    MFPBrandy Posts: 564 Member
    I had my child late in life. I don't want to be mistaken for her grandmother.
  • mlewon
    mlewon Posts: 343 Member
    The way I can feel my body jiggle now when I run... It never used to do that. Definitely motivates to make it go away again.
  • MichelleLee73
    MichelleLee73 Posts: 23
    I can't really say that my motivation would make people laugh, per say. But my "secret" motivation is that my husband told me that I've gained too much weight. As much as it kills me to replay that in my head constantly, it gives me a reason to not give up on getting my old body back.

    And when you DO get your old body back...he doesn't deserve it....
  • NeverGoingToQuit
    NeverGoingToQuit Posts: 49 Member
    My boyfirned and I are getting fit too and our reason is similar. To have better sex and more sex positions to explore. We joke all the time thinking that we are crazy for wanting this as our goal. Glad we aren't the only ones!!! :-D
    Ok, since you asked, lol. My secret motivation is to become so hot my hubby won't care if he is tired, he will just have to have me. I want better sexual positions and more of it in general, lol! No, I don't tell anyone this, not even my hubby.
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    underwear modeling..because i'm not tall enough for regular modeling :(
  • lachesissss
    lachesissss Posts: 1,298 Member
    I have two secret motivations - The first is, I want to complete an Ironman. I don't tell anyone this! But everytime I'm on a treadmill I think about how awesome that would feel to cross the finish line at Kona, knowing that I lost all this weight and then I became a tri-athlete, it's a complete 180 from where I've been. But that's my physical motivation. My other secret motivation is I want to finally be "that girl", the one who walks into a room and just shines and sparkles. I don't think I will ever attain this, but secretly I wish I could.
  • ChapinaGrande
    ChapinaGrande Posts: 289 Member
    I have a few, but the biggest is that I want my husband of 2 months to be able to carry me to bed.
  • DonnaBee20
    DonnaBee20 Posts: 6 Member
    Ok, since you asked, lol. My secret motivation is to become so hot my hubby won't care if he is tired, he will just have to have me. I want better sexual positions and more of it in general, lol! No, I don't tell anyone this, not even my hubby.

    I'm not married, but I am with you on the sexual positions thing! There are so many things I WANT TO TRY SO BAD! But It would be physically impossible at my size now! :(


    lol same here (not married) and i keep getting rejected by guys. I mainly want to lose around the breast & stomach. Its like they see huge boobs & there like I WANT but then see my tummy & they run away... i lose & gain guys for the wrong reasons
  • almart007
    almart007 Posts: 71 Member
    To lose weight and become a long lean lovin machine LOL really to be able to keep up with all that I want to do time to quit thinking and begin doing small steps one by one. Getting rid of my addiction to Little Debbie's Swiss Miss and Susie Q's They're mean mistresses always tempting and promising but never giving.
  • 3laine75
    3laine75 Posts: 3,069 Member
    I can't really say that my motivation would make people laugh, per say. But my "secret" motivation is that my husband told me that I've gained too much weight. As much as it kills me to replay that in my head constantly, it gives me a reason to not give up on getting my old body back.


    your husband sounds like a d ick
  • KeriW626
    KeriW626 Posts: 430
    I want my husband to love my body as much as I love his. Simple enough. He knows I have told him. It doesnt matter how much weight he gains or loses, I love everything about his body. He doesnt and never has mine. So that is my secret motivation.
  • seejulesrun
    seejulesrun Posts: 32 Member
    Ok, since you asked, lol. My secret motivation is to become so hot my hubby won't care if he is tired, he will just have to have me. I want better sexual positions and more of it in general, lol! No, I don't tell anyone this, not even my hubby.

    I'm not married, but I am with you on the sexual positions thing! There are so many things I WANT TO TRY SO BAD! But It would be physically impossible at my size now! :(

    I told my man I was going to buy a copy of the Kama Sutra when I get 50 lbs down. =P
  • LadyIntrepid
    LadyIntrepid Posts: 399 Member
    I want people to say "Damn, you look good for 50!!!!"
  • Darlis
    Darlis Posts: 191 Member
    I have MS...I am so afraid that my size will put me in a wheelchair much sooner than I would be if I was smaller and more fit. Although I have said this to many, no one knows how totally scared I really am!
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