Secret motivation!

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  • abeautifulmess
    abeautifulmess Posts: 37 Member
    I want to go parties and have guys all over me... and then turn them all down. Aspiring man-eater? Quite possibly :devil:
  • DPernet
    DPernet Posts: 481 Member
    I would like the body of a greek god and be able to carry my wife up the stairs over my shoulder and #### the #### out of her for a whole weekend :heart:
  • rooster70460
    rooster70460 Posts: 206 Member
    My motivation? IMPLANTS!!! I have swore that I will not get them til I reach my goal!! I want to be that smoking hot redhead that turns heads!! And I will oneday!! LOL
  • needamulligan
    needamulligan Posts: 558 Member
    I want to shop for clothes in a size that doesn't have any kind of X in it!
  • Julaya
    Julaya Posts: 1 Member
    Do it for yourself first. If you are happy with you then others will sense your joy as well. Attitudes will change ..... It is great, but takes consistent effort.
    Don't give up or get discouraged.
  • vade43113
    vade43113 Posts: 836 Member
    Wait, if I told... then it wouldn't be a secret now would it?
  • cathiaflock
    cathiaflock Posts: 112 Member
    I used to want to keep my weight loss secretive; but then people at work started noticing. I don't see it yet but that is helping. Actually one my secret motivation is my scale. MFP is helping me keep accountable too. I'm also going by 5 lb small goals without a set time frame.

    Ok my motivation; is I desire to get my BMI to overweight level; and I'm 2 lbs away from that! I found that vitamin B12 has helped me considerably stay energized. Yesterday my husband joined me to walk a 5 k on our own. It brought us closer and the more we do together maybe it will help us both get out of our depression. I haven't been skinny since turning 21 and I'm tired of being unhappy and heavy.

    My motivation is myself and to feel free from being locked in a fat suit. I love being driven to working out and sweating my *kitten* off. One month until school starts again and I need to have this drive in me thoughout my semester so maybe by Christmas I will be halfway to my goal. But like I said no time frame. It took me years to get this weight on and it will take me awhile to lose it all.

    Feel free to add me as a friend; I am so motivated it isn't funny it's like crazy exciting.

    Cathi

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  • chaverland77
    chaverland77 Posts: 22 Member
    I've always thought that I was sexy and ok looking! I don't need for anyone to tell me that. But my 2 secret motivations are...

    1) My mom just moved to Texas and I was shocked at how big she'd gotten! I refuse to turn into my mother! She has more health problems and her pill bag is full of more pills than my make up bag has make up! (And I have fettish about make up)

    2) My first 20 pounds lost and I woke up husband up in the morning because I was feeling a little frisky....later that night after I got off work he told me that when he went to put his arms around me that morning he had to look twice because he said that " i knew you were loosing weight but "everything" on you feels so different!!!:devil: :smooched: :heart: :blushing: So now, my motivation is that when we're home alone I can feel confident and sexy running around the house in my birthday suit and seeing that he is looking and watching me!!!:devil:
  • AABru
    AABru Posts: 610 Member
    No secrets here...doing it to avoid the obesity related diseases the rest of family suffers from, to maintain my energy and mobility, and to be the best role model for my children that I can be.
    I also wantto cut 45 minutes from my half-marathon time. (down to 3 hours)
  • becomingbeautifultoday
    becomingbeautifultoday Posts: 131 Member
    I don't want my boyfriend to keep his hands off of me. At the moment it's like he's indifferent about my body and sex. I want him to go crazy when he sees me naked or undressing, not just continue to watch tv.
  • akaporn
    akaporn Posts: 231 Member
    I want to be able to play soccer competitively 'til the day I die.
  • sexy_RN88
    sexy_RN88 Posts: 58 Member
    1) Sex. Sex with my husband is good now, but it's vanilla. I really can't do too many fun positions because it ends up being painful or uncomfortable for me thanks to my weight.

    2) I am tired of wearing the "fat uniform" of big black shirts and big black pants. I want to wear something cute, form-fitting and bright-colored!

    3) I'm the fattest wife in my husband's squadron and although he's a doll who doesn't care, I'm tired of being the fat wife. I want to be the wife that the other men in the squadron are drooling over when they see me come to pick up my husband.
  • seejulesrun
    seejulesrun Posts: 32 Member
    I want to become a boxer. I can't afford a membership to a gym. I don't want to teach myself bc I will most definitely do it wrong. I'm hoping that in a couple of years we will be able to afford a trainer or gym membership so I can learn.

    I also would no longer like to be the fattest (or one of the fattest) girls in the room. I am sick of being the fat chick.

    I so want to be a boxer too. One of my friends has been teaching me. :)
  • jcbgrange
    jcbgrange Posts: 20 Member
    My hubby is a very supportive man and has never once told me that he is unhappy with my appearance. Years ago, I remember kneeling on the floor changing my first baby.. I looked up just in time to see his friend gawking at me and give my hubs the "thumbs up" sign. My hubs nodded his head in proud approval. I want to be the wife that all the other men want to have. Hahaha. Don't get me wrong. I am very devoted and would never do something like that but I want to be a MILF!
  • SPNLuver83
    SPNLuver83 Posts: 2,050 Member
    One of my goals originally was to get all thin so the next time I went to a Supernatural convention I would have a much better photo op with Jensen Ackles... I dream of catching his eye and fantasize about him thinkin of me when he is doin his wife... LOL sick I know, but truth.

    My last photo op with him I was at my heaviest and just looked awful.
  • ixchel78
    ixchel78 Posts: 57 Member
    My secret motivation that I wouldn't say to anyone in person is that I want to leave the "Plus size" section of the clothing stores FOREVER.

    Been there since a teenager, tired of dressing like an old lady! lol
  • SPNLuver83
    SPNLuver83 Posts: 2,050 Member
    I can't really say that my motivation would make people laugh, per say. But my "secret" motivation is that my husband told me that I've gained too much weight. As much as it kills me to replay that in my head constantly, it gives me a reason to not give up on getting my old body back.

    And when you DO get your old body back...he doesn't deserve it....

    he doesn't deserve it why? for being honest and truthful? get real. if we can't expect complete honesty from our spouses you aren't in a good marriage, not the other way around.
  • purpleplum1214
    purpleplum1214 Posts: 38 Member
    I am motivated by others success! Also I want to look good in a bikini next year, and be the hottest girlfriend for my man!
  • marywanoKC
    marywanoKC Posts: 176
    *laugh* After I finish losing all of this weight, I want to be a stripper. I've got a great job, and hobbies, but I really, REALLY want to dance on stage.
  • purpleplum1214
    purpleplum1214 Posts: 38 Member
    I don't want my boyfriend to keep his hands off of me. At the moment it's like he's indifferent about my body and sex. I want him to go crazy when he sees me naked or undressing, not just continue to watch tv.

    I feel the same! I want my boyfriend to drool! lol
  • polishmehappy
    polishmehappy Posts: 92 Member
    I work in healthcare. One of my motivations is to never reach the state I see a lot of patients in :( because of obesity :( God help me I never want to stroke or have an MI because fat is blocking my arteries :(
  • michaelalalalala
    michaelalalalala Posts: 32
    I want to be able to be "that girl" who can post a photo to facebook and everyone goes "wow, you look great", not just my friends who are always supportive and telling me i'm beautiful!
  • thinnnnnnner
    thinnnnnnner Posts: 89
    My two best friends are super thin. I always feel like the fat friend even though I know I'm not THAT big, but secretly I'm insanely jealous of both of them and I want us to all be the same size. Sometimes I avoid hanging out with them because I feel too fat.

    Wow that is shallow! And depressing! haha but it's a secret so I guess it's allowed to be.
  • miadvh
    miadvh Posts: 290 Member
    My hubby is a very supportive man and has never once told me that he is unhappy with my appearance. Years ago, I remember kneeling on the floor changing my first baby.. I looked up just in time to see his friend gawking at me and give my hubs the "thumbs up" sign. My hubs nodded his head in proud approval. I want to be the wife that all the other men want to have. Hahaha. Don't get me wrong. I am very devoted and would never do something like that but I want to be a MILF!

    Yes! This! :)

    My SO has never made me feel bad about my weight..on purpose haha. But we both joke with each other about the weight we've put on. Well..there's an old pic of me from around the time we got together that he just LOVES showing off to his buddies to this day! and I would love to have new sexy pics for him to show off! That way he can say "Heck yeah, my wife's sexy as hell!" Rather than "This is what she used to like like....." :laugh:
  • mogletdeluxe
    mogletdeluxe Posts: 623 Member
    - I want to look good in the buff.

    - I want to shock all those people who commented about my weight; not only with my loss but because of the GUNS.

    - I know this sounds a bit sad, but my zumba girls have done nothing but cheer and champion me. I don't want to let them down.

    - I want to be the sleekest, slinkiest, strongest mofo The Man has ever laid hands on.
  • follmer20
    follmer20 Posts: 129 Member
    I wanna be able to say I did it!
  • Malinky
    Malinky Posts: 8 Member
    Oooh - I've got a few:

    1. I really, really want to do a triathlon and not totally humiliate myself

    2. I want to go to theme parks and fit on the rides (same goes for airplane seats as well)

    3. I want to go in any shop I like to buy clothes and wear whatever I like

    4. I want my husband to be able to carry me to bed!

    Bring it on!!
  • Lonewolf1507
    Lonewolf1507 Posts: 507 Member
    lachesissss
    I have two secret motivations - The first is, I want to complete an Ironman. I don't tell anyone this! But everytime I'm on a treadmill I think about how awesome that would feel to cross the finish line at Kona, knowing that I lost all this weight and then I became a tri-athlete, it's a complete 180 from where I've been. But that's my physical motivation. My other secret motivation is I want to finally be "that girl", the one who walks into a room and just shines and sparkles. I don't think I will ever attain this, but secretly I wish I could.

    Don't give up on your last motivation, your face is enough to brighten up a room :wink:
  • sunshine_gem
    sunshine_gem Posts: 390 Member
    One of my goals originally was to get all thin so the next time I went to a Supernatural convention I would have a much better photo op with Jensen Ackles... I dream of catching his eye and fantasize about him thinkin of me when he is doin his wife... LOL sick I know, but truth.

    My last photo op with him I was at my heaviest and just looked awful.

    OMG you've actually met him?? I am so jealous...

    My secret is to be the girl who turns heads when I walk down the street. I also just want to feel good about myself and comfortable in my skin. I haven't felt that way for a long, long time.
  • misslou7
    misslou7 Posts: 42 Member
    I've got a wedding to go to in late September, which I don't really want to go to as the bride and groom were rude to me and the bridesmaid is a cow too. Unfortunately I have to go as groom and bridesmaid are future in laws! I'm very unforgiving so I want to go and know that I look better than them all.. :-D

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