What's YOUR Deal-Breaker

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  • wareagle8706
    wareagle8706 Posts: 1,090 Member
    Among others:

    Smoking
    skinny legs
    dislikes animals
  • Bobby_Clerici
    Bobby_Clerici Posts: 1,828 Member
    I had a ton of deal breakers...
    Most never made the cut.
    1. She must be in peak condition and attractive in the face - 20% body fat
    2. College educated w/advance degree - Lawyer, MBA, Doctor, CPA
    3. Strong and independent - not needy or clingy
    4. Wealthy - women with their own money won't be nickel and diming me
    5. Family and marriage oriented....

    GOT HER!:drinker:
    Married - 5 kids - very happy!
    Go out and get EXACTLY what you want.
    Don't "settle" for anything less.
    Good Luck!
  • DonniesGirl69
    DonniesGirl69 Posts: 644 Member
    has male genetalia

    THIS cracked me up.....
  • ChrisRS87
    ChrisRS87 Posts: 781 Member
    insecurity
    smoking
  • half_moon
    half_moon Posts: 807 Member
    My deal-breaker is if he is an atheist or if the basis of all of his jokes is putting someone down. Also if he is cruel or unkind to animals.
  • ramgi
    ramgi Posts: 196 Member
    Wow. I had no idea being religious was a quirk.
  • Carofab16
    Carofab16 Posts: 16 Member
    hairy back and wonky teeth :)
  • barbielovesgym
    barbielovesgym Posts: 43
    STD's
    Hard Drugs
    Manwhore
    Bad Hygiene
    Bad Teeth
    Broke
  • SammieGetsFit
    SammieGetsFit Posts: 432 Member
    The inability to change/grown -- so you smoke, can you quit? so you don't workout, can you start?

    If our goals and lifestyles can blend together because we both can listen and learn from each other -- you're in. If not...take a hike!
  • MizSaz
    MizSaz Posts: 445 Member
    Stupidity/willful ignorance, and making excuses over and over again. I can't get over that.

    Holy crap, so many of you would never date me lol!! :p
  • heyitsadam
    heyitsadam Posts: 70 Member
    When it comes to being with or dating someone - what is YOUR deal breaker - the personality trait or quirk or habit (whatever) that you just can't stand enough to stay in it?

    For me:
    * Listens to Country Music
    * Smokers

    GO!

    Country music and smoking are BIG ones.

    I'll say "Intolerant of sports" & "not a 'dog-person.'"
  • cobracars
    cobracars Posts: 949 Member
    Deal breakers for me, someone who:

    smokes and won't quit
    does drugs and/or drinks to excess
    hates country music

    Looks like we are one anothers Deal breaker... :wink:

    Now hold on a minute, just because its a deal breaker doesn't mean I'm ready to walk away from the table...
    I could always turn off the radio when you're around? :wink: :laugh:
  • paintlisapurple
    paintlisapurple Posts: 982 Member
    Someone who would need "extracurricular" activities and or puts themselves above and beyond all others (selfish). Those traits are intolerable.
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    No sense of humor...those of you who know me, can understand why that is a total deal breaker for me.

    Immaturity…I have 2 kids…3 if you count my ex-husband. I don’t need another 30+ year old child.

    The “one-upper”…this grinds my gears like none other.

    No job...I'm not in the position to be anyone's sugar mama...sorry.
  • usera1365
    usera1365 Posts: 146 Member
    Smokes

    No sense of Humor

    Body Odor

    Hates Kids....
  • sexyrosey
    sexyrosey Posts: 137
    sexist
    racist
    homophobe
    drugie (hard drugs...I have no issue with an occasional toker) LOL
    abusive


    That's pretty much it.....

    Oh, yeah....Republican.....that could be a deal breaker if there was no "agree to disagree"

    Doesn't take care of his kids or does not like kids.
    No goals in life.
  • ChrisRS87
    ChrisRS87 Posts: 781 Member
    STD's
    Hard Drugs
    Manwhore

    Where are you finding men that these occur often enough to be legitimate concerns when you start dating someone? lol
  • TallyGal97
    TallyGal97 Posts: 80 Member
    city slicker

    not an animal person

    not handy
  • cobracars
    cobracars Posts: 949 Member
    hairy back and wonky teeth :)

    So if I shave and visit the orthodontist, we're good to go, right? :laugh:
  • dward2011
    dward2011 Posts: 416 Member

    Can't make me a sandwich.



    ^^ HAHAHAHA!! hilarious
  • FTClown
    FTClown Posts: 181
    A sour attitude or personality
  • yelpat
    yelpat Posts: 414 Member
    SMOKING
    Poor hygiene
    Spitting
    Short
  • braign
    braign Posts: 89
    Anyone who has a deal-breaker list. :P
  • taylor5877
    taylor5877 Posts: 1,792 Member
    1. Inconsiderate of others
    2. crosses the line of outgoing into obnoxious (and these people usually don't care much for me either, so almost never a problem)
    3. complains about the activities I do as a man instead of making at least token attempts to join. I play sports and fish, if you can't deal with that, I'm not going to be with you.)

    Luckily my wife is none of these (except on occasion #3 hehe).
  • ErinBeth7
    ErinBeth7 Posts: 1,625 Member
    is dumb

    bahahahah! this is me too. use your brain, don't be a freakin idiot. if you can't help yourself (be resourceful to answer your own questions), then i cannot help you. move on.

    Also, smokers, listens to screamo music (blegghhh), extreme hate towards others who are different (race, sexuality, religion etc).
  • kennethmgreen
    kennethmgreen Posts: 1,759 Member
    Self-righteous posturing, unrealistic expectations for a mate, and general douche-baggedness.
  • Treesy72
    Treesy72 Posts: 230
    Religious
    Bad temper
    Alcoholism
    Is in any way creepy when young girls are around. (dated a guy who used to ogle my teenage daughter, it was over right then)
  • ki4yxo
    ki4yxo Posts: 709 Member

    Can't make me a sandwich.



    ^^ HAHAHAHA!! hilarious


    Good eye. :wink:

    Actually I do all the cooking in the house. :tongue:
  • CountryBoy65
    CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
    When it comes to being with or dating someone - what is YOUR deal breaker - the personality trait or quirk or habit (whatever) that you just can't stand enough to stay in it?

    For me:
    * Listens to Country Music
    * Smokers

    GO!

    She thinks my tractor's sexy
    it really turns her on
    She 's alwasys starin at me
    as I'm chuggin around
    She likes the way its pullin
    as I'm tillin up the land
    she's even kinda crazy
    bout my farmers tan....
    She's the only one who
    really understands..what gets me.....

    Oh, well...it was fun while it lasted....:tongue:
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    Oh, yeah....Republican.....that could be a deal breaker if there was no "agree to disagree"

    ^^ This. And: short, smoker, non-sexual
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