Do guys ever turn it down?
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my bf never does no matter how tired he is...0
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Sick is the ONLY valid excuse!0
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Can't see why not, the insatiable male appetite for sex is only a stereotype after all. A man is just as capable of turning down sex as a woman is capable of always being in the mood. It depends on the guy, and if he never seems to be in the mood, your libidos might be a bad match.0
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Believe it or not, guys are human beings too, not sex machines.
Maybe he's stressed out or something. Good luck figuring out what the deal is, though. There could be a ton of reasons why a person isn't in the mood.0 -
No
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Mine never turns me down... but he also never initiates - which is also frustrating. He says it's because he doesn't want to wake me up. I think we should both just go for it when we want, and not be afraid of rejection!0
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Sounds like he's got a medical issue. Low testosterone or something. I was dealing wth the same kind of thing in my relationship and I was unhappy. I broke up with him last weekend!0
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Yes, when I'm no longer into her. It happens sometimes.0
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Honestly the only reason I've ever had was if she pissed me off lol
Im not the type of guy thats all about make-up sex.
I guess I hold grudges lol0 -
My ex turned me down all the time - he was too tired from the other girl he was banging, which is part of the reason I made him an ex.0
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I'm just curious if a man would ever turn down sex with his girlfriend after she initiated it, I don't mean if you're tired or you're sick. I seem to always be the one making the move on my boyfriend...we haven't done it in a couple of weeks :I
Dead is the only excuse. Sick or tired, I'd still give it a go! If he's not initiating even once in a while, he's not into you anymore but doesn't have the stones to break it off.
Of course I could be completely wrong, but you're asking the internet for dating advice.0 -
Never turned it down....ever. But I am the one usually initiating.0
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There have been times I simply hadn't been in the mood, and I've turned it down. We're not all "sex sex sex", you know. Just like women, we need to be in the mood for it. So yeah, there are guys that turn it down. I'm one of them.0
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Mine has. But he has his reasons. But I just give him a few minutes and then try again until he gives in. I'm persistent if I want it bad enough :laugh: :blushing:0
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Omg story of my life! Bf has been so tired we like never do it and he turns me down all the time.. But I try not to take it to heart, I know he loves me and thinks I'm sexy, just he is honestly tired. We have been together over 5 years now though, lived together three, but I hate always being the one to have to push for it lmao0
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There have been times I simply hadn't been in the mood, and I've turned it down. We're not all "sex sex sex", you know. Just like women, we need to be in the mood for it. So yeah, there are guys that turn it down. I'm one of them.
This ^^^^. Plus, I turned own a recent booty call. Maybe I'm just getting old. I don't know. I gotta be into her.0 -
this guy has and it has NOTHING to do with being sick or tired or whatever. Some of us real men just like to cuddle and have meaningful conversations. Sex will not make a relationship last long term but meaningful conversation and sharing will.0
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I should also add that I always want to. Always. Always lmao but at the moments it's been almost a week since and before last it was almost 2 so I feel ur pain! I quit letting him see me undress, stop taking showers with him, and that worked lol0
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Maybe if he is married
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My ex turned me down all the time - he was too tired from the other girl he was banging, which is part of the reason I made him an ex.
"Part of the reason"? There's more?
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Depends on what we are doing if I'm relaxing and getting serviced then no, but if I have to work for it then it's based on the mood. But a lot of things come in play, how long have you been together and all that, is the person boring in bed or are they over the top crazy.0
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My ex did when he was pissed with me for being out late with guy friends (he was a control freak). And then at the end right before I found out he had been seeing someone else.. Guilty conscience.
On the flipside: If I'm pissed enough, I'll withhold. Or if I feel fat. Or if it's that time. :P0 -
yep, I turn it down,so she can beg,then i say NO again ,and laugh while standing on a chair with my arms at my side ,like a super villain
bwuahahahaha
"what,whats that? NO! no sex for you! BWUHAHAHA"
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In a word - Yup.
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got turned down today as a matter o fact ~>.<~ sad face...0
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It happens, especially if you are the person to initiate a lot more than the other person. Men are people too. They have their own issues inside their head. The biggest problem women have when something like this occurs, is that they think its them. 8/10 times it has nothing to do with you.0
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@ brianmo ... Well said0
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Can't see why not, the insatiable male appetite for sex is only a stereotype after all. A man is just as capable of turning down sex as a woman is capable of always being in the mood. It depends on the guy, and if he never seems to be in the mood, your libidos might be a bad match.
This.0 -
There have been times I simply hadn't been in the mood, and I've turned it down. We're not all "sex sex sex", you know. Just like women, we need to be in the mood for it. So yeah, there are guys that turn it down. I'm one of them.
Agreed0 -
They aren't machines. But if it's a constant thing I'd be concerned.0
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