Does your SO CARE how much you weigh?

Nope. He cares that I'm happy, and that's about it. He still loved me just as much at my highest weight, although he has mentioned that he really digs the confidence I'm showing as I get down to a healthier weight.
ETA - He also knows how much I weigh. Before I started the journey, neither of us knew.

My husband doesn't care about the number at all. We've been together for 14 years, so he's seen me at my smallest, largest, and everywhere in between. He told me I'm still beautiful and if it got to the point where he thought my health was seriously at risk he'd tell me. Granted he doesn't get as excited about a 2 lb loss as I do, but when I've lost enough to notice, he will mention it.

My fiance knows my weight. There was a time period when I wouldn't tell him only because I didn't want to know myself. It wasn't until I joined MFP that I was ready to face the number. Admitting my weight to myself was my first step.

Now, he's reminded of how much I don't weigh. :happy: It's possible I go running through our house doing a happy dance each time I lose a pound.

My husband does know how much I weigh, only because I take the time to tell him. We've been together for just over 5 years now, and he's seen me at my best and my worst (weight and in general), and still loves me and is attracted to me. So no, I don't think he cares one bit how much I weigh. He just wants me to be happy and feel good about myself.

Mine cares..he doesn't ask me how much I weight neither knows my number..but if he sees me getting heavier, he will nicely say something. If I was really an overweight woman I will be miserable next to him. He gets very concerned about our overall health and he's lucky that I am too..

No and yes, we've been together for nearly 10 years I was (9 stone 7) 133 pounds when we started going out and he's seen me at as little as 126 and as much as 166, i'm 144 now aiming for 126 again for our wedding. He's never made comments that I've been too fat always makes me feel attractive but when i asked him at my biggest if he'd noticed that i'd put weight on he said we both have and maybe we should diet, which was fair enough. He's also very encouraging now I'm losing and making comments on how good I look now I'm exercising and it helps motivate me, especialy since I've only lost 4 pounds since starting MFP. Truthfully I don't think my OH would leave me if I was obese because we love each other unconditionally me but I definatley feel he's more attracted to me the slimmer I am even if he wouldn't actually say it or make me feel bad if I was overweight.

She says she doesn't care... I call bull****. But I'm losing it anyways!

Yes, he cares. Not as in not loving me or being mean to me kind of way. But as I gained weight I became less active and less happy so it affected us both, I used to love being outdoors doing all kinds of things.

Yes and no. I was always big since the day we started dating, but he really liked my personality (when I lose this weight, I never want to have to hear how 'great my personality is' again!) and so we got serious.

However, I know I'm not really his 'type'. I know he'd be much happier with my body if I lost all this weight (and then did the Brazilian Butt Lift a few times), but he loves me even if I don't.

Yeah he cares but he's supportive about it. He's very honest with me so if he sees me gaining a little weight he will offer to do workouts together just to get me more motivated. He's extremely supportive and loves to work out with me. But I do the same for him. I love how we motivate each other.. we definitely have a good support system.

Technically, I'm underweight and I always have been, but not enough that it's unhealthy. He always tells me how "beautiful" I am, occasionally how "beautiful and thin," which is a lot stupid, but whatever.

Occasionally though, he'd tell me that I'd look good thinner, and when I tell him that'd be really unhealthy, he says it would be fine... little comments here and there. I'm focused on getting more toned, lowering my body fat percentage, and creating more lean muscle mass. When I tell him I'm going to start lifting, he always tells me I don't "need to," which I think means he doesn't want me to be stronger than he is (he's 6 feet and 130 pounds, so tiny).

Now that I'm committed to eating better and working out, he's seeing the changes in my body, and he likes them a lot. Now he tells me that he wants to go to the gym together so he can bulk up

He knows exactly what I weigh and he cares. He wants me to be happy and is 100% supportive of my journey here. I tell him my weight every time I weigh. 1) So he can pat me on the back for doing well. 2) So he can remind me not to eat all the cookies if I am doing poorly.

This! :happy:

My husband definitely cares what I weigh. He doesn't know the number, but his first wife weighed 430 lbs. (He paid for her weight loss surgery--she was supposed to lose 30 lbs to show her commitment to the process so the insurance would pay for it, but she couldn't do it, so he ended up paying for it. She lied and told him she did lose the weight, and then presented him with a $25k bill!) Then, he paid for her skin removal, tummy tuck and boob job as part of their divorce. Now, several years later, she's getting very heavy again. I think it scarred him. He's very supportive and tells me I look "hot" all of the time, but he would really care if I got big.

Well..He's never showed signs of caring. I got up to 60 lbs over what I was when we got together, and he never said anything. He knows the number, but doesn't give it any special attention. He's very supportive of me losing weight without, but isn't pushy about it.

My SO has joked that if I were fat it would be a problem for him, but the amount that my weight fluctuates doesn't bother him at all. I think he's more bothered by my eating habits.