Couch to Half Marathon? Is this possible?

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  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member
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  • Roxiegirl2008
    Roxiegirl2008 Posts: 756 Member
    I would also suggest Jeff Galloway. He has a wonderful training plan and app that starts at 5k and goes all the way through marathon. He is more of the run/walk/run method which I used when I started to run.

    I have run many 1/2 marathons and going to run my fist full in three weeks. As part of my training plan I have two days of weight(cross fit, HIIT or TRX) built in. I also have two days of spin class as well. I have increased my pace time from 11 min to somewhere 8:45 min (shorter runs) and 9:30 marathon distance. My trainer came up with this plan to help me get strong for the marathon and to keep the injuries away. The strong you are the better you feel and shorter recovery time you will have at the end.

    Take it from me, my first 1/2 I did there was little strength training. I thought all I had to do was run and that is it. I finished the race however my shins hurts, my thighs killed and I could hardly sit down to use the bathroom for several days. When I laid down at night my legs were so painful I could not sleep. Training for the marathon has been very different. I ran 18 miles the other day just before my taper run and I felt like I could have run so much longer. My legs didn't hurt and I felt strong.
  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
    Of course! You could probably do it this March if you start practicing now.

    This sounds like terrible advice. From "really, really out of shape" to half marathon in two months for no real reason? Why invite inevitable injury like that?

    Meanwhile, now to read through the three pages to see that this has already been covered...multiple times.
  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    This OP... lol.
  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
    Does every person that chooses not to strength train collapse from brittle bones? I mean, once we're old everybody falls and hurts themselves. It's nothing to worry about till I'm past retirement age.

    You've already identified that you have joint problems and that you're significantly overweight, both of which exacerbate other conditions.

    Resistance training of some kind has benefits, you pick your objectives and train accordingly. Not all resistance training is about maxing out the weights.

    Okay, fair enough, being fat and having weak knees make probability higher.

    I just don't want strength training to get in the way of my goals. I'm also kind of puny and lifting weights would be a huge fail.

    Huh? :huh:

    This is actually the strongest argument *for* resistance training.

    I mean, do what you want. It's your call, obviously...but your reasoning for not doing it is fundamentally and logically flawed...

    ...IMHO, of course.
  • _Terrapin_
    _Terrapin_ Posts: 4,301 Member
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    Of course! You could probably do it this March if you start practicing now.

    This sounds like terrible advice. From "really, really out of shape" to half marathon in two months for no real reason? Why invite inevitable injury like that?

    Meanwhile, now to read through the three pages to see that this has already been covered...multiple times.

    March of......2016. So not so bad ;)

  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
    _Terrapin_ wrote: »
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    Of course! You could probably do it this March if you start practicing now.

    This sounds like terrible advice. From "really, really out of shape" to half marathon in two months for no real reason? Why invite inevitable injury like that?

    Meanwhile, now to read through the three pages to see that this has already been covered...multiple times.

    March of......2016. So not so bad ;)

    Reread. That's what OP is asking about...which is totally feasible.

    The post I replied to, however, is suggesting *this* March...as in March 2015. I believe this is a Very Bad Idea™.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    randomtai wrote: »
    This OP... lol.

    Ah, I remember you. So sorry that we're different.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    Does every person that chooses not to strength train collapse from brittle bones? I mean, once we're old everybody falls and hurts themselves. It's nothing to worry about till I'm past retirement age.

    You've already identified that you have joint problems and that you're significantly overweight, both of which exacerbate other conditions.

    Resistance training of some kind has benefits, you pick your objectives and train accordingly. Not all resistance training is about maxing out the weights.

    Okay, fair enough, being fat and having weak knees make probability higher.

    I just don't want strength training to get in the way of my goals. I'm also kind of puny and lifting weights would be a huge fail.

    Huh? :huh:

    This is actually the strongest argument *for* resistance training.

    I mean, do what you want. It's your call, obviously...but your reasoning for not doing it is fundamentally and logically flawed...

    ...IMHO, of course.

    It's more a question of being daunted. I realize there's a lapse in logic, but being puny to start with makes the idea of weightlifting extremely scary.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    LotusAsh wrote: »
    You have got to be trolling......

    Yup, "comfort zone" gave it away.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    dbmata wrote: »
    LotusAsh wrote: »
    You have got to be trolling......

    Yup, "comfort zone" gave it away.

    Um, no. Sorry if the idea of strength training daunts me. Some people are excited by the prospect, others are hesitant. People are different. Doesn't mean I'm a troll.
  • ash8184
    ash8184 Posts: 701 Member
    YES!!! I would recommend you start by challenging yourself to run a mile (yes, just 1!) and improve on your time every week. A few weeks in, try a 5k, and then start improving your time. Then, a few months later, try a 10k, 15k, 20k, and so on. You'll find that if you start NOW running 3-4 days/week, you'll be to 13.1 in no time. And if you have to walk part of it, that's ok too... as you run more, your walking speed will increase too. Set a goal for your finish time - whether it's 2 hours or 4. You can do it! :)
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    dbmata wrote: »
    LotusAsh wrote: »
    You have got to be trolling......

    Yup, "comfort zone" gave it away.

    Um, no. Sorry if the idea of strength training daunts me. Some people are excited by the prospect, others are hesitant. People are different. Doesn't mean I'm a troll.

    From your other posts, everything daunts you. Not plausible.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    dbmata wrote: »
    dbmata wrote: »
    LotusAsh wrote: »
    You have got to be trolling......

    Yup, "comfort zone" gave it away.

    Um, no. Sorry if the idea of strength training daunts me. Some people are excited by the prospect, others are hesitant. People are different. Doesn't mean I'm a troll.

    From your other posts, everything daunts you. Not plausible.

    Try social anxiety and extremely low self esteem on for size. It is possible to be daunted by things other people find easy.
  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.

    To some extent it may be impossible to get rid of your curves...I mean...depends on bone structure as well as actual fat/muscle %...

    I don't enjoy weights...I do strength training that doesn't involve weights but utilizes my own body weight. It's about finding something that works for you.

    When it comes down to it, if you really don't want to run, don't run. But if you are looking to achieve an overall slimming exercise, running is a good one.
  • AliceDark
    AliceDark Posts: 3,886 Member
    OP, you're in college, right? College is the time when you're supposed to try out a bunch of new things to see where your interests lie. With that in mind, I'd highly recommend that you try out a bunch of different exercise types and see what you enjoy. Going from the couch to running a half in 15 months is definitely possible, but only if you like running. Do you actually like running? (If not, this is not the goal for you.) Get the c25k program and try it out.

    But...

    Try other things too. Take a yoga class. Rent a bike. Look into all the resources that Jo listed earlier, and try 1-2 workouts from each. None of those programs will give you a body style that you don't want -- you're not going to get thick or curvy unless you really work to achieve that look. Don't limit yourself to just cardio, because you're cutting yourself off from a lot of other ways to be active that might be fun for you.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    MSeel1984 wrote: »
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.

    To some extent it may be impossible to get rid of your curves...I mean...depends on bone structure as well as actual fat/muscle %...

    I don't enjoy weights...I do strength training that doesn't involve weights but utilizes my own body weight. It's about finding something that works for you.

    When it comes down to it, if you really don't want to run, don't run. But if you are looking to achieve an overall slimming exercise, running is a good one.

    I'm running more for the feeling of accomplishment than anything else. I want to actually succeed at something, you know? Plus, hopefully it'll give my boyfriend and I an activity we can share--we don't have much in common interest-wise.

    I really hope I can get rid of my curves, they're really unattractive and inconvenient Hopefully they're gone once I reach goal weight, hopefully genetics are in my favor.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    AliceDark wrote: »
    OP, you're in college, right? College is the time when you're supposed to try out a bunch of new things to see where your interests lie. With that in mind, I'd highly recommend that you try out a bunch of different exercise types and see what you enjoy. Going from the couch to running a half in 15 months is definitely possible, but only if you like running. Do you actually like running? (If not, this is not the goal for you.) Get the c25k program and try it out.

    But...

    Try other things too. Take a yoga class. Rent a bike. Look into all the resources that Jo listed earlier, and try 1-2 workouts from each. None of those programs will give you a body style that you don't want -- you're not going to get thick or curvy unless you really work to achieve that look. Don't limit yourself to just cardio, because you're cutting yourself off from a lot of other ways to be active that might be fun for you.

    I don't really enjoy any physical activity, but I realize a lot of people don't. I want to do this to accomplish something. I may or may not get to the half marathon, but I could try.

    At the moment all I'm looking for is cardio, but I did look into the bodyweight stuff and kept it on file for future reference.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    MSeel1984 wrote: »
    blogilates.com

    I'd have to do this with the sound off, she is just way too happy about exercise. :)
  • AglaeaC
    AglaeaC Posts: 1,974 Member
    MSeel1984 wrote: »
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.

    To some extent it may be impossible to get rid of your curves...I mean...depends on bone structure as well as actual fat/muscle %...

    I don't enjoy weights...I do strength training that doesn't involve weights but utilizes my own body weight. It's about finding something that works for you.

    When it comes down to it, if you really don't want to run, don't run. But if you are looking to achieve an overall slimming exercise, running is a good one.

    I'm running more for the feeling of accomplishment than anything else. I want to actually succeed at something, you know? Plus, hopefully it'll give my boyfriend and I an activity we can share--we don't have much in common interest-wise.

    I really hope I can get rid of my curves, they're really unattractive and inconvenient Hopefully they're gone once I reach goal weight, hopefully genetics are in my favor.

    Mozart was born Mozart yet he wasn't. He practiced every single day.

    "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle.

    You will succeed once you have had small successes, have failed, have picked up yourself over and over, and done it all over again. You have to take risks and waltz outside of your comfort zone, live a bit dangerously to have the success you crave. You need to earn it by putting in the hard work.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    AglaeaC wrote: »
    MSeel1984 wrote: »
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.

    To some extent it may be impossible to get rid of your curves...I mean...depends on bone structure as well as actual fat/muscle %...

    I don't enjoy weights...I do strength training that doesn't involve weights but utilizes my own body weight. It's about finding something that works for you.

    When it comes down to it, if you really don't want to run, don't run. But if you are looking to achieve an overall slimming exercise, running is a good one.

    I'm running more for the feeling of accomplishment than anything else. I want to actually succeed at something, you know? Plus, hopefully it'll give my boyfriend and I an activity we can share--we don't have much in common interest-wise.

    I really hope I can get rid of my curves, they're really unattractive and inconvenient Hopefully they're gone once I reach goal weight, hopefully genetics are in my favor.

    Mozart was born Mozart yet he wasn't. He practiced every single day.

    "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle.

    You will succeed once you have had small successes, have failed, have picked up yourself over and over, and done it all over again. You have to take risks and waltz outside of your comfort zone, live a bit dangerously to have the success you crave. You need to earn it by putting in the hard work.

    You sound exactly like my boyfriend. I guess it's time to start taking his advice.
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    AglaeaC wrote: »
    MSeel1984 wrote: »
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.

    To some extent it may be impossible to get rid of your curves...I mean...depends on bone structure as well as actual fat/muscle %...

    I don't enjoy weights...I do strength training that doesn't involve weights but utilizes my own body weight. It's about finding something that works for you.

    When it comes down to it, if you really don't want to run, don't run. But if you are looking to achieve an overall slimming exercise, running is a good one.

    I'm running more for the feeling of accomplishment than anything else. I want to actually succeed at something, you know? Plus, hopefully it'll give my boyfriend and I an activity we can share--we don't have much in common interest-wise.

    I really hope I can get rid of my curves, they're really unattractive and inconvenient Hopefully they're gone once I reach goal weight, hopefully genetics are in my favor.

    Mozart was born Mozart yet he wasn't. He practiced every single day.

    "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle.

    You will succeed once you have had small successes, have failed, have picked up yourself over and over, and done it all over again. You have to take risks and waltz outside of your comfort zone, live a bit dangerously to have the success you crave. You need to earn it by putting in the hard work.

    I love this.

    OP - you can do this. Just have to be patient. I was sad to read that you hate your curves. I'm curvy, too. I used to hate them but then I realized there's no sense in hating myself. No matter how much weight you lose, you will never be able to change your body's structure. What you can do, however, is make it the best version of itself it can be at any given time.

    I love my curves now. Since I started lifting, everything looks better. I wouldn't change it - and I hope you come to the same conclusion some day.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    PRMinx wrote: »
    AglaeaC wrote: »
    MSeel1984 wrote: »
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.

    To some extent it may be impossible to get rid of your curves...I mean...depends on bone structure as well as actual fat/muscle %...

    I don't enjoy weights...I do strength training that doesn't involve weights but utilizes my own body weight. It's about finding something that works for you.

    When it comes down to it, if you really don't want to run, don't run. But if you are looking to achieve an overall slimming exercise, running is a good one.

    I'm running more for the feeling of accomplishment than anything else. I want to actually succeed at something, you know? Plus, hopefully it'll give my boyfriend and I an activity we can share--we don't have much in common interest-wise.

    I really hope I can get rid of my curves, they're really unattractive and inconvenient Hopefully they're gone once I reach goal weight, hopefully genetics are in my favor.

    Mozart was born Mozart yet he wasn't. He practiced every single day.

    "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle.

    You will succeed once you have had small successes, have failed, have picked up yourself over and over, and done it all over again. You have to take risks and waltz outside of your comfort zone, live a bit dangerously to have the success you crave. You need to earn it by putting in the hard work.

    I love this.

    OP - you can do this. Just have to be patient. I was sad to read that you hate your curves. I'm curvy, too. I used to hate them but then I realized there's no sense in hating myself. No matter how much weight you lose, you will never be able to change your body's structure. What you can do, however, is make it the best version of itself it can be at any given time.

    I love my curves now. Since I started lifting, everything looks better. I wouldn't change it - and I hope you come to the same conclusion some day.

    I have a thicker version of an hourglass shape (38-28-38), and I only really look good in giant lumpy sweaters or 50s style clothes. I can't wear any of the modern fashions that my sister (size 0) can. I'll never get to her size but I'd love to try, just to feel beautiful the way she does.
  • AglaeaC
    AglaeaC Posts: 1,974 Member
    AglaeaC wrote: »
    MSeel1984 wrote: »
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.

    To some extent it may be impossible to get rid of your curves...I mean...depends on bone structure as well as actual fat/muscle %...

    I don't enjoy weights...I do strength training that doesn't involve weights but utilizes my own body weight. It's about finding something that works for you.

    When it comes down to it, if you really don't want to run, don't run. But if you are looking to achieve an overall slimming exercise, running is a good one.

    I'm running more for the feeling of accomplishment than anything else. I want to actually succeed at something, you know? Plus, hopefully it'll give my boyfriend and I an activity we can share--we don't have much in common interest-wise.

    I really hope I can get rid of my curves, they're really unattractive and inconvenient Hopefully they're gone once I reach goal weight, hopefully genetics are in my favor.

    Mozart was born Mozart yet he wasn't. He practiced every single day.

    "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle.

    You will succeed once you have had small successes, have failed, have picked up yourself over and over, and done it all over again. You have to take risks and waltz outside of your comfort zone, live a bit dangerously to have the success you crave. You need to earn it by putting in the hard work.

    You sound exactly like my boyfriend. I guess it's time to start taking his advice.

    It is matter-of-fact logic. When you chip away bit by bit, the result will be huge. Choose 1+1+1+1+1=5 or 2+3=5, however you feel, but I bet the first alternative is an easier way to create a lifestyle change that is permanent as well as acceptable to maintain later. It boils down to knowing yourself, your strengths and weaknesses, then boldly facing what can be "fixed".
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    PRMinx wrote: »
    AglaeaC wrote: »
    MSeel1984 wrote: »
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.

    To some extent it may be impossible to get rid of your curves...I mean...depends on bone structure as well as actual fat/muscle %...

    I don't enjoy weights...I do strength training that doesn't involve weights but utilizes my own body weight. It's about finding something that works for you.

    When it comes down to it, if you really don't want to run, don't run. But if you are looking to achieve an overall slimming exercise, running is a good one.

    I'm running more for the feeling of accomplishment than anything else. I want to actually succeed at something, you know? Plus, hopefully it'll give my boyfriend and I an activity we can share--we don't have much in common interest-wise.

    I really hope I can get rid of my curves, they're really unattractive and inconvenient Hopefully they're gone once I reach goal weight, hopefully genetics are in my favor.

    Mozart was born Mozart yet he wasn't. He practiced every single day.

    "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle.

    You will succeed once you have had small successes, have failed, have picked up yourself over and over, and done it all over again. You have to take risks and waltz outside of your comfort zone, live a bit dangerously to have the success you crave. You need to earn it by putting in the hard work.

    I love this.

    OP - you can do this. Just have to be patient. I was sad to read that you hate your curves. I'm curvy, too. I used to hate them but then I realized there's no sense in hating myself. No matter how much weight you lose, you will never be able to change your body's structure. What you can do, however, is make it the best version of itself it can be at any given time.

    I love my curves now. Since I started lifting, everything looks better. I wouldn't change it - and I hope you come to the same conclusion some day.

    I have a thicker version of an hourglass shape (38-28-38), and I only really look good in giant lumpy sweaters or 50s style clothes. I can't wear any of the modern fashions that my sister (size 0) can. I'll never get to her size but I'd love to try, just to feel beautiful the way she does.

    Alright. I'm a 34 - 28 - 38. We have the measurements pretty much.

    Honey, you will never be a size 0. Even when I was anorexic, bulimic, on laxatives and 85 pounds, I wasn't a size 0. You have to let it go and just be you. Today, I'm a healthy size 4-6. Down from an 8-10 at my heaviest, and that's because I lift. I still pretty much weigh the same (135-140ish).
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    PRMinx wrote: »
    PRMinx wrote: »
    AglaeaC wrote: »
    MSeel1984 wrote: »
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.

    To some extent it may be impossible to get rid of your curves...I mean...depends on bone structure as well as actual fat/muscle %...

    I don't enjoy weights...I do strength training that doesn't involve weights but utilizes my own body weight. It's about finding something that works for you.

    When it comes down to it, if you really don't want to run, don't run. But if you are looking to achieve an overall slimming exercise, running is a good one.

    I'm running more for the feeling of accomplishment than anything else. I want to actually succeed at something, you know? Plus, hopefully it'll give my boyfriend and I an activity we can share--we don't have much in common interest-wise.

    I really hope I can get rid of my curves, they're really unattractive and inconvenient Hopefully they're gone once I reach goal weight, hopefully genetics are in my favor.

    Mozart was born Mozart yet he wasn't. He practiced every single day.

    "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle.

    You will succeed once you have had small successes, have failed, have picked up yourself over and over, and done it all over again. You have to take risks and waltz outside of your comfort zone, live a bit dangerously to have the success you crave. You need to earn it by putting in the hard work.

    I love this.

    OP - you can do this. Just have to be patient. I was sad to read that you hate your curves. I'm curvy, too. I used to hate them but then I realized there's no sense in hating myself. No matter how much weight you lose, you will never be able to change your body's structure. What you can do, however, is make it the best version of itself it can be at any given time.

    I love my curves now. Since I started lifting, everything looks better. I wouldn't change it - and I hope you come to the same conclusion some day.

    I have a thicker version of an hourglass shape (38-28-38), and I only really look good in giant lumpy sweaters or 50s style clothes. I can't wear any of the modern fashions that my sister (size 0) can. I'll never get to her size but I'd love to try, just to feel beautiful the way she does.

    Alright. I'm a 34 - 28 - 38. We have the measurements pretty much.

    Honey, you will never be a size 0. Even when I was anorexic, bulimic, on laxatives and 85 pounds, I wasn't a size 0. You have to let it go and just be you. Today, I'm a healthy size 4-6. Down from an 8-10 at my heaviest, and that's because I lift. I still pretty much weigh the same (135-140ish).

    I know I'll never be a size 0. It gets me down so much. I'm surrounded by size 0's everywhere I go. I range from a 6-10 depending on the garment, but it's my body type rather than my weight that's preventing me from wearing nice clothes. Big boobs, big hips (thankfully no butt).
  • Roxiegirl2008
    Roxiegirl2008 Posts: 756 Member
    PRMinx wrote: »
    PRMinx wrote: »
    AglaeaC wrote: »
    MSeel1984 wrote: »
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.

    To some extent it may be impossible to get rid of your curves...I mean...depends on bone structure as well as actual fat/muscle %...

    I don't enjoy weights...I do strength training that doesn't involve weights but utilizes my own body weight. It's about finding something that works for you.

    When it comes down to it, if you really don't want to run, don't run. But if you are looking to achieve an overall slimming exercise, running is a good one.

    I'm running more for the feeling of accomplishment than anything else. I want to actually succeed at something, you know? Plus, hopefully it'll give my boyfriend and I an activity we can share--we don't have much in common interest-wise.

    I really hope I can get rid of my curves, they're really unattractive and inconvenient Hopefully they're gone once I reach goal weight, hopefully genetics are in my favor.

    Mozart was born Mozart yet he wasn't. He practiced every single day.

    "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle.

    You will succeed once you have had small successes, have failed, have picked up yourself over and over, and done it all over again. You have to take risks and waltz outside of your comfort zone, live a bit dangerously to have the success you crave. You need to earn it by putting in the hard work.

    I love this.

    OP - you can do this. Just have to be patient. I was sad to read that you hate your curves. I'm curvy, too. I used to hate them but then I realized there's no sense in hating myself. No matter how much weight you lose, you will never be able to change your body's structure. What you can do, however, is make it the best version of itself it can be at any given time.

    I love my curves now. Since I started lifting, everything looks better. I wouldn't change it - and I hope you come to the same conclusion some day.

    I have a thicker version of an hourglass shape (38-28-38), and I only really look good in giant lumpy sweaters or 50s style clothes. I can't wear any of the modern fashions that my sister (size 0) can. I'll never get to her size but I'd love to try, just to feel beautiful the way she does.

    Alright. I'm a 34 - 28 - 38. We have the measurements pretty much.

    Honey, you will never be a size 0. Even when I was anorexic, bulimic, on laxatives and 85 pounds, I wasn't a size 0. You have to let it go and just be you. Today, I'm a healthy size 4-6. Down from an 8-10 at my heaviest, and that's because I lift. I still pretty much weigh the same (135-140ish).

    Yep right there with you! I wear a 4 now and weigh about 133ish. Give or take. I am much leaner than I have ever been and I am wearing super trendy clothes. Also, doing hand stand ups makes me feel like I am a bad a and like I can take the guys at the gym. HA!

  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    PRMinx wrote: »
    PRMinx wrote: »
    AglaeaC wrote: »
    MSeel1984 wrote: »
    jofjltncb6 wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    JoRocka wrote: »
    Almost anything is possible if you put your mind to it.



    I'm not interested in strength training.
    you should be- every fitness program should have some element of strength/resistance training and some element of cardiovascular training.

    I don't like running- I don't like cardio.

    I do it because it's good for me.

    Just like resistance training will make you a better runner and will increase bone density- which as a woman you should be extra concerned about.

    I understand that this site really promotes strength training, but at the moment it isn't part of my goals. I'm interested in becoming thinner, that's about all.

    who said anything about not being thinner? lifting weights won't make you bigger. it will make you stronger.

    You've progressed since the last time you posted- to wanting to do SOMETHING at all- so WIN! Big win.

    But the reality is- you need to have both. Period.

    It isn't about being thin- or not- it's about what's good for your body and health and wellness.

    I just don't like the kind of body that comes with strength training. I'm looking for a bonier sort of look, not a toned one.

    [yoovieblink.gif]

    I corrected myself and said that bony wasn't the right choice of words. I'm just not looking to retain my curves at all. I'm not a fan of them.

    To some extent it may be impossible to get rid of your curves...I mean...depends on bone structure as well as actual fat/muscle %...

    I don't enjoy weights...I do strength training that doesn't involve weights but utilizes my own body weight. It's about finding something that works for you.

    When it comes down to it, if you really don't want to run, don't run. But if you are looking to achieve an overall slimming exercise, running is a good one.

    I'm running more for the feeling of accomplishment than anything else. I want to actually succeed at something, you know? Plus, hopefully it'll give my boyfriend and I an activity we can share--we don't have much in common interest-wise.

    I really hope I can get rid of my curves, they're really unattractive and inconvenient Hopefully they're gone once I reach goal weight, hopefully genetics are in my favor.

    Mozart was born Mozart yet he wasn't. He practiced every single day.

    "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." - Aristotle.

    You will succeed once you have had small successes, have failed, have picked up yourself over and over, and done it all over again. You have to take risks and waltz outside of your comfort zone, live a bit dangerously to have the success you crave. You need to earn it by putting in the hard work.

    I love this.

    OP - you can do this. Just have to be patient. I was sad to read that you hate your curves. I'm curvy, too. I used to hate them but then I realized there's no sense in hating myself. No matter how much weight you lose, you will never be able to change your body's structure. What you can do, however, is make it the best version of itself it can be at any given time.

    I love my curves now. Since I started lifting, everything looks better. I wouldn't change it - and I hope you come to the same conclusion some day.

    I have a thicker version of an hourglass shape (38-28-38), and I only really look good in giant lumpy sweaters or 50s style clothes. I can't wear any of the modern fashions that my sister (size 0) can. I'll never get to her size but I'd love to try, just to feel beautiful the way she does.

    Alright. I'm a 34 - 28 - 38. We have the measurements pretty much.

    Honey, you will never be a size 0. Even when I was anorexic, bulimic, on laxatives and 85 pounds, I wasn't a size 0. You have to let it go and just be you. Today, I'm a healthy size 4-6. Down from an 8-10 at my heaviest, and that's because I lift. I still pretty much weigh the same (135-140ish).

    I know I'll never be a size 0. It gets me down so much. I'm surrounded by size 0's everywhere I go. I range from a 6-10 depending on the garment, but it's my body type rather than my weight that's preventing me from wearing nice clothes. Big boobs, big hips (thankfully no butt).

    I know you don't want to believe it, but a lifting program can and will change your entire outlook on your body if you give it a chance.
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