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Does Anyone Notice The Rampant Negativity Here?
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emily_stew wrote: »
So you're saying you got some good advice, some not-good advice, and some junk thrown in there too? I'm not seeing what's so terrible about that. It sounds like just about every other life experience.
I see that so often in threads, and it frustrates me no end. Someone asks a question, a bunch of people give well thought out answers, others may be more harsh, the OP comes back, loses their *kitten* over the harsh posts, COMPLETELY ignores the well thought out ones, rage quits and poof. Makes you not want to bother with the well thought out answers, sometimes. If we're all adults, how about people learn to ignore the posts they don't like and appreciate the "nice" ones (nice is in quotes because I'm not inferring that the harsh ones aren't just as useful), rather than focussing on what they percieve as negative and completely negating the ones that they go on to admit were helpful?0 -
diannethegeek wrote: »It's been my experience that every single helpful poster on these forums, every single one, will eventually be called out as a mean, hateful, negative bully at some point or another no matter how many smilies they add to their posts.
Seriously, I've been called mean/troll for: using copy/paste advice posts, suggesting that someone who feels sick after eating breakfast doesn't need to eat breakfast, linking people to the sexypants thread, asking people further questions about what their routine looks like when they ask for help, because I called someone out when they implied that asking someone to open their diary is bullying.
Because the accusation gets thrown around so often, threads like this actually add to the negative atmosphere instead of helping it. When everyone on the boards gets called mean on a regular basis, any post that calls out the "mean people" without specifying who they are talking about will end up attacking everyone.
There is some negativity and aggressiveness on these boards that goes above and beyond what should be here. But it's not the norm and is often called out when these regulars that you seem to dislike see it. Report it (use the actual report function, not the flags that no one pays attention to) or call it out where you see it, but posts like this are never going to solve the problem that you think exists.
Very well said0 -
Are you new here?
And in what way is calling me names for not understanding your post an example of the positivity you wish to see in others?
You claim the negativity is a problem. I disagree and ask that you provide examples because I haven't seen them. Your response is to say I must be new because I haven't seen these examples you claim are so widespread.
Which reminds me...that I believe a common problem in disagreements in the forums here is a failure to use basic logic (in addition to an inability/unwillingness to provide support for even the most basic assertions).0 -
Aww, thanks. The same post earned me an abuse flag on a previous mean people thread :drinker:
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Then asking for examples of people being bullies, trolling, etc...is a rather silly thing to ask for. If you're not new to the forums, then you should know that the forums are full of trolls and "my new vegan diet is the only way to eat" know it alls...
I believe the point is... and jof is more than welcome to correct me here.... that IF there was bullying actually happening, then it's against the TOS and should be reported to the mods as such... OTHERWISE, it's all the perception of the reader... I personally, rarely see actual bullying around here... in fact, I can't even list an example that has happened in the general forums... but I see a lot of posters that get corrected and get all butthurt about it because it's not what they want to hear and then call those that challenged their preconcieved and misguided notions "bullies/haters/mean/etc.".... just because you precieve it to be doesn't mean it was actually happening...0 -
You must be new here...
Then asking for examples of people being bullies, trolling, etc...is a rather silly thing to ask for. If you're not new to the forums, then you should know that the forums are full of trolls and "my new vegan diet is the only way to eat" know it alls...
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Typical forum long-timer. Happens on every social media website.
Fact is, in most cases the forums are about the same, but the user is disenchanted and bored with status quo.0 -
sexymonicat wrote: »
*kitten* off bit ch
Hypocrisy. Delicious hypocrisy.0 -
sexymonicat wrote: »
*kitten* off bit ch
Now *there's* the positivity that's been missing from the forums.... NICE!0 -
sexymonicat wrote: »
*kitten* off bit ch
Really? Was this necessary? You are whining about mean people and then cuss out another? Hypocrite much? You should not use Lamby's image in vain....0 -
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sexymonicat wrote: »
*kitten* off bit ch
Complains about meanness... is the first person in the thread to tell people to **** off and call names.0 -
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bennettinfinity wrote: »
Now *there's* the positivity that's been missing from the forums.... NICE!
She must have reached her goal then and be a regular apparently.0 -
It gets more difficult to be really supportive when OPs (some trolls, some not) ask such silly questions - things they could easily answer in two minutes with a google search. It's also tough with so many off the wall "chit-chat" posts that come up in the feed. I try to be really nice and supportive...but there is a limit to the amount of stupidity I can take.0
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oh oh
this will not end well 0 -
Ypu keep replying to what im saying with bs . What do you expect ?-5
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Debate club. Keep your cool.sexymonicat wrote: »Ypu keep replying to what im saying with bs . What do you expect ?
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It's like rain on your wedding day...0
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sexymonicat wrote: »Ypu keep replying to what im saying with bs . What do you expect ?
You*
And cussing people out only shows your level of conversation.... that of a 6th grader... No one was calling names or cursing... until you did it..0 -
sexymonicat wrote: »Ypu keep replying to what im saying with bs . What do you expect ?
Basic human decency?
But yeah, that's my own character flaw that I'm still working on.0 -
diannethegeek wrote: »It's been my experience that every single helpful poster on these forums, every single one, will eventually be called out as a mean, hateful, negative bully at some point or another no matter how many smilies they add to their posts.
Seriously, I've been called mean/troll for: using copy/paste advice posts, suggesting that someone who feels sick after eating breakfast doesn't need to eat breakfast, linking people to the sexypants thread, asking people further questions about what their routine looks like when they ask for help, because I called someone out when they implied that asking someone to open their diary is bullying.
Because the accusation gets thrown around so often, threads like this actually add to the negative atmosphere instead of helping it. When everyone on the boards gets called mean on a regular basis, any post that calls out the "mean people" without specifying who they are talking about will end up attacking everyone.
There is some negativity and aggressiveness on these boards that goes above and beyond what should be here. But it's not the norm and is often called out when these regulars that you seem to dislike see it. Report it (use the actual report function, not the flags that no one pays attention to) or call it out where you see it, but posts like this are never going to solve the problem that you think exists.
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simplydelish2 wrote: »It gets more difficult to be really supportive when OPs (some trolls, some not) ask such silly questions - things they could easily answer in two minutes with a google search. It's also tough with so many off the wall "chit-chat" posts that come up in the feed. I try to be really nice and supportive...but there is a limit to the amount of stupidity I can take.
hahaha now there's some nice honesty.0 -
Who woulda thought if figggerred.0
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Cranquistador wrote: »It's like rain on your wedding day...
That's not ironic! That's just bad planning. Now maybe if you were marrying a weatherman, and he set the date...0
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