Confession Time! ((ABSOLUTELY NO JUDGEMENT))

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  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    I'm trying to force myself into doing a paper and studying. I'm telling myself that if I do it, I can order one of the dresses off this site http://1861.ca/. I just discovered it recently and I have NEVER been a fan of clothes shopping, but I love their dresses!!!

    Ok. I don't know which one to get, but hopefully bribing myself will help me finish this semester.

    Yeah so I'm super procrastinating about work and I had to check out that site. Their line looks very similar to ModCloth (retro/vintage inspired) which features customer pics modeling the clothes so you can see what they look like on real people. You'd probably like their stuff too.
  • FluffySandwich
    FluffySandwich Posts: 1,293 Member
    I hate having to choose as well. I genuinely don't care when I say I don't care... and if I do have something in mind, I would rather the other person be happy with their choice then have a stupid argument over which restaurant to go to. Also, when someone forces me to choose, the conversation usually goes like this:

    "Where do you want to go?"
    "I don't mind."
    "PLEASE. You pick this time!!!"
    "Er.... ok... how about... uh... that place?"
    "Really????? You want to eat THERE? I'm not in the mood for that kind of food..."

    I don't understand. If I don't care where we eat, and you obviously do, then pick yourself! Don't force me to pick something you're not going to like!
  • FluffySandwich
    FluffySandwich Posts: 1,293 Member
    ythannah wrote: »
    I'm trying to force myself into doing a paper and studying. I'm telling myself that if I do it, I can order one of the dresses off this site http://1861.ca/. I just discovered it recently and I have NEVER been a fan of clothes shopping, but I love their dresses!!!

    Ok. I don't know which one to get, but hopefully bribing myself will help me finish this semester.

    Yeah so I'm super procrastinating about work and I had to check out that site. Their line looks very similar to ModCloth (retro/vintage inspired) which features customer pics modeling the clothes so you can see what they look like on real people. You'd probably like their stuff too.
    Ooh, thank you for s howing me this. They are very similar! I love the vintage look.
  • ellechim1
    ellechim1 Posts: 74 Member
    Lefty1290 wrote: »
    Jolinia wrote: »
    megsb1991 wrote: »
    I stand on the scales completely and utterly starkers. You never know, my clothing could be suppperrr heavy. I also once tried to tye my hair up to see if it made a difference....

    Also, for any friends or family who are non-MFP, when they ask how much I've lost, I say 1 extra pound than I actually have lost as inner-encouragment. Then when I actualy do lose it I can say 'Boom! See you could do it! That statement is now completely true' ;)

    I'm worse, I won't even have a watch on when I weigh in!

    I also weigh myself naked.

    Here, too, but before, not after my shower. I have very thick hair that holds about 8 oz of water, not to mention what's in my skin. Not too obsessive, huh?

    Same here and I have actually cut a foot off my hair just to weigh less :o
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    Wow, I'm finally caught up.!

    Confession: I am too tired and too lazy to work out today.

    Confession: I told a hard boiled egg "F--- you" and threw it in the garbage because it would not peel.

  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    I hate having to choose as well. I genuinely don't care when I say I don't care... and if I do have something in mind, I would rather the other person be happy with their choice then have a stupid argument over which restaurant to go to. Also, when someone forces me to choose, the conversation usually goes like this:

    "Where do you want to go?"
    "I don't mind."
    "PLEASE. You pick this time!!!"
    "Er.... ok... how about... uh... that place?"
    "Really????? You want to eat THERE? I'm not in the mood for that kind of food..."

    I don't understand. If I don't care where we eat, and you obviously do, then pick yourself! Don't force me to pick something you're not going to like!

    Yes! That is our conversation too. It's not chivalrous when I don't really care.
  • crosbylee
    crosbylee Posts: 3,455 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    Wow, I'm finally caught up.!

    Confession: I am too tired and too lazy to work out today.

    Confession: I told a hard boiled egg "F--- you" and threw it in the garbage because it would not peel.

    I feel the same way about an egg that won't peel!! I use some baking soda in the water and an ice bath immeditely after. Usually helps, but some of those d@%& things just won't peel.
  • LBuehrle8
    LBuehrle8 Posts: 4,044 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    Wow, I'm finally caught up.!

    Confession: I am too tired and too lazy to work out today.

    Confession: I told a hard boiled egg "F--- you" and threw it in the garbage because it would not peel.

    Hilarious, thank you for that!
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    ythannah wrote: »
    I'm trying to force myself into doing a paper and studying. I'm telling myself that if I do it, I can order one of the dresses off this site http://1861.ca/. I just discovered it recently and I have NEVER been a fan of clothes shopping, but I love their dresses!!!

    Ok. I don't know which one to get, but hopefully bribing myself will help me finish this semester.

    Yeah so I'm super procrastinating about work and I had to check out that site. Their line looks very similar to ModCloth (retro/vintage inspired) which features customer pics modeling the clothes so you can see what they look like on real people. You'd probably like their stuff too.
    Ooh, thank you for s howing me this. They are very similar! I love the vintage look.

    Hmm you may not thank me if you end up buying more clothes!

    I bought this dress a while ago for a wedding: modcloth.com/shop/dresses/bead-it-dress-in-grey
  • kellienw335
    kellienw335 Posts: 1,745 Member
    I hate having to choose as well. I genuinely don't care when I say I don't care... and if I do have something in mind, I would rather the other person be happy with their choice then have a stupid argument over which restaurant to go to. Also, when someone forces me to choose, the conversation usually goes like this:

    "Where do you want to go?"
    "I don't mind."
    "PLEASE. You pick this time!!!"
    "Er.... ok... how about... uh... that place?"
    "Really????? You want to eat THERE? I'm not in the mood for that kind of food..."

    I don't understand. If I don't care where we eat, and you obviously do, then pick yourself! Don't force me to pick something you're not going to like!

    Yes! That is our conversation too. It's not chivalrous when I don't really care.

    I'm so glad we aren't the only ones. Sometimes we let our 7 year old decide so we don't have to argue about it.
  • kellienw335
    kellienw335 Posts: 1,745 Member
    ythannah wrote: »
    ythannah wrote: »
    I'm trying to force myself into doing a paper and studying. I'm telling myself that if I do it, I can order one of the dresses off this site http://1861.ca/. I just discovered it recently and I have NEVER been a fan of clothes shopping, but I love their dresses!!!

    Ok. I don't know which one to get, but hopefully bribing myself will help me finish this semester.

    Yeah so I'm super procrastinating about work and I had to check out that site. Their line looks very similar to ModCloth (retro/vintage inspired) which features customer pics modeling the clothes so you can see what they look like on real people. You'd probably like their stuff too.
    Ooh, thank you for s howing me this. They are very similar! I love the vintage look.

    Hmm you may not thank me if you end up buying more clothes!

    I bought this dress a while ago for a wedding: modcloth.com/shop/dresses/bead-it-dress-in-grey

    And, Yay! The alpaca is BACK!
  • FluffySandwich
    FluffySandwich Posts: 1,293 Member
    ythannah wrote: »
    ythannah wrote: »
    I'm trying to force myself into doing a paper and studying. I'm telling myself that if I do it, I can order one of the dresses off this site http://1861.ca/. I just discovered it recently and I have NEVER been a fan of clothes shopping, but I love their dresses!!!

    Ok. I don't know which one to get, but hopefully bribing myself will help me finish this semester.

    Yeah so I'm super procrastinating about work and I had to check out that site. Their line looks very similar to ModCloth (retro/vintage inspired) which features customer pics modeling the clothes so you can see what they look like on real people. You'd probably like their stuff too.
    Ooh, thank you for s howing me this. They are very similar! I love the vintage look.

    Hmm you may not thank me if you end up buying more clothes!

    I bought this dress a while ago for a wedding: modcloth.com/shop/dresses/bead-it-dress-in-grey
    I'm usually good about that sort of thing :P I am fearful of spending a lot of money... but I love these dresses. I wouldn't mind if you gave me some suggestions on which dress to buy. A lot of them at Boutique 1861 get sold out super fast though... :frowning:
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    ythannah wrote: »
    ythannah wrote: »
    I'm trying to force myself into doing a paper and studying. I'm telling myself that if I do it, I can order one of the dresses off this site http://1861.ca/. I just discovered it recently and I have NEVER been a fan of clothes shopping, but I love their dresses!!!

    Ok. I don't know which one to get, but hopefully bribing myself will help me finish this semester.

    Yeah so I'm super procrastinating about work and I had to check out that site. Their line looks very similar to ModCloth (retro/vintage inspired) which features customer pics modeling the clothes so you can see what they look like on real people. You'd probably like their stuff too.
    Ooh, thank you for s howing me this. They are very similar! I love the vintage look.

    Hmm you may not thank me if you end up buying more clothes!

    I bought this dress a while ago for a wedding: modcloth.com/shop/dresses/bead-it-dress-in-grey


    How did that dress look on? Is it more fitted or does it have 20's vibe?
    Either way, very pretty though.
  • rungirl1973
    rungirl1973 Posts: 2,559 Member
    ythannah wrote: »
    ythannah wrote: »
    I'm trying to force myself into doing a paper and studying. I'm telling myself that if I do it, I can order one of the dresses off this site http://1861.ca/. I just discovered it recently and I have NEVER been a fan of clothes shopping, but I love their dresses!!!

    Ok. I don't know which one to get, but hopefully bribing myself will help me finish this semester.

    Yeah so I'm super procrastinating about work and I had to check out that site. Their line looks very similar to ModCloth (retro/vintage inspired) which features customer pics modeling the clothes so you can see what they look like on real people. You'd probably like their stuff too.
    Ooh, thank you for s howing me this. They are very similar! I love the vintage look.

    Hmm you may not thank me if you end up buying more clothes!

    I bought this dress a while ago for a wedding: modcloth.com/shop/dresses/bead-it-dress-in-grey

    I love this dress. I hate ordering clothes online, though. I like to try it on up front. I have a wedding over Memorial Day and should really start thinking about what I'm going to wear.
  • WestCoastJo82
    WestCoastJo82 Posts: 2,304 Member
    I love so many of these dresses! Anyone know how UK or Canada sizing translates to US? I think UK is 4 more, but don't know about Canada...
  • lastchancedance89
    lastchancedance89 Posts: 26 Member
    arditarose wrote: »
    sigh...When I found that I couldn't eat peanut butter in moderation, and had to get it out of my apartment ASAP, I not only threw it away-I drowned the jar in water first so I wouldn't be tempted...

    I can't believe I shared that.

    I should probably do this. Peanut butter is dangerous.
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    ythannah wrote: »
    ythannah wrote: »
    I'm trying to force myself into doing a paper and studying. I'm telling myself that if I do it, I can order one of the dresses off this site http://1861.ca/. I just discovered it recently and I have NEVER been a fan of clothes shopping, but I love their dresses!!!

    Ok. I don't know which one to get, but hopefully bribing myself will help me finish this semester.

    Yeah so I'm super procrastinating about work and I had to check out that site. Their line looks very similar to ModCloth (retro/vintage inspired) which features customer pics modeling the clothes so you can see what they look like on real people. You'd probably like their stuff too.
    Ooh, thank you for s howing me this. They are very similar! I love the vintage look.

    Hmm you may not thank me if you end up buying more clothes!

    I bought this dress a while ago for a wedding: modcloth.com/shop/dresses/bead-it-dress-in-grey


    How did that dress look on? Is it more fitted or does it have 20's vibe?
    Either way, very pretty though.

    It hangs beautifully because of the weight of the beading so it does drape in a fitted kind of way, if that makes sense. I have to avoid anything really fitted because, being tall, most dress waists end up sitting too high, at my ribcage. It has a total roaring 20s flapper vibe (which is perfect for my build).

    The other benefit is being able to wear a NORMAL BRA. So many formal dresses seem to be either strapless or backless or some other bra-preventing design.
  • LBuehrle8
    LBuehrle8 Posts: 4,044 Member
    Confession: I haven't been shopping for new clothes since gaining 20 lbs. Makes me too depressed.
  • brandi9172
    brandi9172 Posts: 61 Member
    I have super athletic looking legs, nice muscle definition/tone. too bad they're sitting on the rest of my body :/

    Me too! Ugh :(

  • smashley_mashley
    smashley_mashley Posts: 589 Member
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    ShibaEars wrote: »
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    I hate the gym this time of year. It's when all the princesses come in with a full face of make up, do 10mins casual walking on the treadmill, use the lightest weights on the machines (because they don't want to get too bulky) and criticise the fat-*kitten*' such as myself for lifting heavy. Today's comment "Don't you think she should do more cardio before she does that? The muscle will be too hidden under the layers of fat, which makes what she is doing pointless." In my head I'm thinking "Walking the speed of a 90year old pensioner so your face doesn't melt is a waste of your time so why don't you F*** OFF." Obviously I didn't say this, my gym is the only one in the area with a squat rack, not getting myself banned for them. They probably won't turn up ever again...

    People actually say things like this?! What a bunch of a-holes!

    Yea, I don't know if the fact I had earphones in they thought I couldn't hear them. It was the only part I caught in between songs. I don't really want to know what else they said. And apart from them, I was the only other girl in the gym (it's a small gym) so I know it was about me. It sucks. They suck. The whole situation sucked.

    That's ridiculous. I think I would've confronted them about it. But then again, back in my heaviest days probably not. Don't let idiots like that discourage you though. If what you're doing is working keep at it. In a few months time you'll be much improved and they will remain the same indefinitely. Walking at 2 mph on the treadmill does nothing but waste time. I don't judge anyone at the gym regardless of what kind of shape they are in if they're making an effort. But the slow treadmill walkers yeah I kinda judge that, haha. I think they do it just to be able to say they "go to the gym" like its the trendy thing to do.

    I've gotten more aggressive and confrontational since losing weight. Maybe my T levels are higher, lol, I dunno. I'm not a jerk or anything but I'll stand up for myself when appropriate whereas before I would just stay quiet and be very passive.

    I think this is a confidence thing. 24lbs ago I only wore jeans & flats to work. Now i'm in the nice dress pants & heals again. I feel more confident and am more willing to speak my mind and give opinions (especially toward my husband's idiot of a boss).
  • marissafit06
    marissafit06 Posts: 1,996 Member
    I love so many of these dresses! Anyone know how UK or Canada sizing translates to US? I think UK is 4 more, but don't know about Canada...

    The size chart shows UK to US. I thought Canada was the same as US without such bad vanity sizing. Is that not the case?
  • ShibaEars
    ShibaEars Posts: 3,928 Member
    FroggyBug wrote: »
    ShibaEars wrote: »
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    I keep a stash of chocolate in my office...and in my bedroom, and hidden in my closet. I've been good lately, but it's there, just in case.

    I keep a stash in my car boot. Which if fine through the winter, then I have to think of somewhere else for the summer because it melts and makes a big chocolate mess in my car... which can be mistaken for something else. :confounded:

    This reminded me of an embarrassing story... a few years ago I went out shopping with my cousin. I was wearing white shorts. We got to the mall, wandered slowly around, got ice cream then finally went into a store. A sales lady came up to me and discreetly told me that I had something on my shorts. There was a brown stain right in the center of my butt. Turns out that a younger cousin had been in the car earlier, eating chocolate covered almonds. I sat on it and melted it.

    I bought a new pair of pants in that store. I'm still paranoid about wearing white pants/shorts.

    Oh no, how embarrassing. At least you were somewhere that you could buy new pants right away.

    Hopefully you can laugh at it now.

    I think I laughed about it then... thankfully I was having a confident day lol. What amazed me was how nobody else said anything. I was walking around the mall for about half an hour looking like I sharted in my white shorts and no one said anything... Okay, I may not want to be the one to point that out to a someone else either, but still.

    Moral of the story: If you see someone with something on their clothes (or in their teeth), bring it to their attention. You can do it discreetly. They may be embarrassed at first, but in the end I'm sure they'd appreciate it!
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    I love so many of these dresses! Anyone know how UK or Canada sizing translates to US? I think UK is 4 more, but don't know about Canada...

    US and Canada sizes are the same. I believe UK is 4 larger (well, 2, because they jump by even numbers.
  • octopi28
    octopi28 Posts: 13 Member
    I'm trying to force myself into doing a paper and studying. I'm telling myself that if I do it, I can order one of the dresses off this site http://1861.ca/. I just discovered it recently and I have NEVER been a fan of clothes shopping, but I love their dresses!!!

    This shop has amazing stuff!!... Thanks for sharing it, I have been looking for a short white dress matching that style for a while now, and there, they have several of them I love!!!

    Feel free to share your favorites shop websites ladies :)

  • WestCoastJo82
    WestCoastJo82 Posts: 2,304 Member
    I love so many of these dresses! Anyone know how UK or Canada sizing translates to US? I think UK is 4 more, but don't know about Canada...

    The size chart shows UK to US. I thought Canada was the same as US without such bad vanity sizing. Is that not the case?

    Hmmm...I must be challenged. I'm looking at Modcloth and just seeing UK being specified. The "details" button is just giving me length.
  • FluffySandwich
    FluffySandwich Posts: 1,293 Member
    I love so many of these dresses! Anyone know how UK or Canada sizing translates to US? I think UK is 4 more, but don't know about Canada...

    The size chart shows UK to US. I thought Canada was the same as US without such bad vanity sizing. Is that not the case?
    I can't say I've done much clothes shopping here in Canada, even though I've been living here for years!!! I think, though, that they are the same in terms of sizes. I ordered a medium dress from Boutique 1861 and was not able to fit into it... and accidentally broke one of the straps trying to get the thing off of me! So hopefully I am able to lose enough weight to be able to fit into it... that's one of my motivations! :D

  • CooCooPuff
    CooCooPuff Posts: 4,374 Member
    81Katz wrote: »
    Confession: I told a hard boiled egg "F--- you" and threw it in the garbage because it would not peel.
    Pfft, this is why I don't make them often even though I love them.

  • FluffySandwich
    FluffySandwich Posts: 1,293 Member
    edited April 2015
    octopi28 wrote: »
    I'm trying to force myself into doing a paper and studying. I'm telling myself that if I do it, I can order one of the dresses off this site http://1861.ca/. I just discovered it recently and I have NEVER been a fan of clothes shopping, but I love their dresses!!!

    This shop has amazing stuff!!... Thanks for sharing it, I have been looking for a short white dress matching that style for a while now, and there, they have several of them I love!!!

    Feel free to share your favorites shop websites ladies :)
    No problem, they do have adorable clothes!!! The trick is getting them before they are all sold out. They have a lot of promotions too, from what I've seen :smile:

    EDIT: Also, they are delivered in awesome packaging with a handwritten note saying something kind. Mine was along the lines of "You are going to look so beautiful in this dress!'' It's just nice to see that kind of thing sometimes :P
  • WestCoastJo82
    WestCoastJo82 Posts: 2,304 Member
    I love so many of these dresses! Anyone know how UK or Canada sizing translates to US? I think UK is 4 more, but don't know about Canada...

    The size chart shows UK to US. I thought Canada was the same as US without such bad vanity sizing. Is that not the case?

    Hmmm...I must be challenged. I'm looking at Modcloth and just seeing UK being specified. The "details" button is just giving me length.

    Nevermind - I am challenged. "Size chart" in the bottom right corner. Sorry ;)
  • kellienw335
    kellienw335 Posts: 1,745 Member
    ShibaEars wrote: »
    FroggyBug wrote: »
    ShibaEars wrote: »
    Lois_1989 wrote: »
    I keep a stash of chocolate in my office...and in my bedroom, and hidden in my closet. I've been good lately, but it's there, just in case.

    I keep a stash in my car boot. Which if fine through the winter, then I have to think of somewhere else for the summer because it melts and makes a big chocolate mess in my car... which can be mistaken for something else. :confounded:

    This reminded me of an embarrassing story... a few years ago I went out shopping with my cousin. I was wearing white shorts. We got to the mall, wandered slowly around, got ice cream then finally went into a store. A sales lady came up to me and discreetly told me that I had something on my shorts. There was a brown stain right in the center of my butt. Turns out that a younger cousin had been in the car earlier, eating chocolate covered almonds. I sat on it and melted it.

    I bought a new pair of pants in that store. I'm still paranoid about wearing white pants/shorts.

    Oh no, how embarrassing. At least you were somewhere that you could buy new pants right away.

    Hopefully you can laugh at it now.

    I think I laughed about it then... thankfully I was having a confident day lol. What amazed me was how nobody else said anything. I was walking around the mall for about half an hour looking like I sharted in my white shorts and no one said anything... Okay, I may not want to be the one to point that out to a someone else either, but still.

    Moral of the story: If you see someone with something on their clothes (or in their teeth), bring it to their attention. You can do it discreetly. They may be embarrassed at first, but in the end I'm sure they'd appreciate it!

    Yes! Yes!