Don't read this if brutal honesty (or profanity) offends you..

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  • AsaThorsWoman
    AsaThorsWoman Posts: 2,303 Member
    I didn't find it to be terribly offensive, though.
  • PeachyCarol
    PeachyCarol Posts: 8,029 Member
    I didn't find it to be terribly offensive, though.

    It's not. My own internal dialog is far more profanity laced. I have such a potty mouth.

  • Spreyton22K
    Spreyton22K Posts: 323 Member
    MrM27 wrote: »
    facebook_like_button_big1.jpg

    Pretty much sums it up.

    This is great and true......wish something like this could be a part of MFP guidelines.
  • Spreyton22K
    Spreyton22K Posts: 323 Member
    Aw gawd I'm useless with the computer..... :'(

    I meant to also include MM27's like picture......le sigh
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    I didn't find it to be terribly offensive, though.

    It's not. My own internal dialog is far more profanity laced. I have such a potty mouth.

    Me too. Sometimes you just have to say F*** to get a point across strongly!!
    The horrible words that fly out of my mouth when I'm driving surprise me sometimes lol

  • tomatoey
    tomatoey Posts: 5,446 Member
    This is right on:
    ****

    You Don’t Know What a Treat Is



    Treat /tret/: defn: an event or item that is out of the ordinary and gives great pleasure

    You know the part about great pleasure. Chocolate tastes good. Wine goes down smooth. Nachos and wings are delicious. Cookies should be their own food group.

    But you missed a part I think.

    ‘An event or item that is out of the ordinary’

    100 years ago you had cake on your birthday and maybe a family member or two. 70 years ago you had a milkshake a few times a year at the drugstore soda fountain. 20 years ago you ordered Chinese food (the nasty deep fried North American version) a couple times a year as a family or at a party.

    Today is different. EVERY SINGLE ******* DAY you are exposed to ‘treats’. Donuts and chocolate milk on the way home from your kids sporting events. Trays of cookies in the office lounge. Bags of chips in the cupboard.

    Every. Single. Day.

    That’s without dinners and events every weekend or birthday parties, anniversaries, baby showers, sports events, holidays, and the plethora of celebratory events.

    ‘Treats’ are something out of the ordinary. If it happens more than once a month it is no longer out of the ordinary. Stop saying treat. You aren’t having a treat.

    It comes down to sacrifice and commitment, like we talked about earlier. Come on. You’re a grown *** adult making their own decisions. Don’t delude yourself in an attempt to justify the fact you are fully responsible for the **** you plow into your mouth.

    You are just eating ****. And that’s fine. I don’t care. It’s your life. Don’t cry over the blubber hanging over your belt though.
    ****
    (that last line is kind of unnecessary imo)
  • samthepanda
    samthepanda Posts: 569 Member
    MrM27 wrote: »
    facebook_like_button_big1.jpg

    Pretty much sums it up.

    Yup!
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    herrspoons wrote: »
    Laurend224 wrote: »
    I really want to post that like on FB, but I don't want to deal with the fallout excuses that will occur. :p

    Just posted it on mine and changed my profile pic to the "I'm not an a**hole" one.

    Awesome article and absolutely true. It should be a sticky in the sea of desolation and failure that is the so called Motivation forum.

    I'll be curious to hear what reaction you get.. hopefully positive ones :)

  • Springfield1970
    Springfield1970 Posts: 1,945 Member
    Pretty much sums up my attitude! I'm a teacher and I'm like that with my clients. They come back because they know that I want the best for them and I want them happy, and there's no time to be soft.
    That article didn't even make me bat an eyelid, I'm a single parent running a business in one if the most expensive cities in the world. Being tough and disciplined in ingrained.
  • PeachyCarol
    PeachyCarol Posts: 8,029 Member
    tomatoey wrote: »
    This is right on:
    ****

    You Don’t Know What a Treat Is



    Treat /tret/: defn: an event or item that is out of the ordinary and gives great pleasure

    You know the part about great pleasure. Chocolate tastes good. Wine goes down smooth. Nachos and wings are delicious. Cookies should be their own food group.

    But you missed a part I think.

    ‘An event or item that is out of the ordinary’

    100 years ago you had cake on your birthday and maybe a family member or two. 70 years ago you had a milkshake a few times a year at the drugstore soda fountain. 20 years ago you ordered Chinese food (the nasty deep fried North American version) a couple times a year as a family or at a party.

    Today is different. EVERY SINGLE ******* DAY you are exposed to ‘treats’. Donuts and chocolate milk on the way home from your kids sporting events. Trays of cookies in the office lounge. Bags of chips in the cupboard.

    Every. Single. Day.

    That’s without dinners and events every weekend or birthday parties, anniversaries, baby showers, sports events, holidays, and the plethora of celebratory events.

    ‘Treats’ are something out of the ordinary. If it happens more than once a month it is no longer out of the ordinary. Stop saying treat. You aren’t having a treat.

    It comes down to sacrifice and commitment, like we talked about earlier. Come on. You’re a grown *** adult making their own decisions. Don’t delude yourself in an attempt to justify the fact you are fully responsible for the **** you plow into your mouth.

    You are just eating ****. And that’s fine. I don’t care. It’s your life. Don’t cry over the blubber hanging over your belt though.
    ****
    (that last line is kind of unnecessary imo)

    Do you know, I've been bashed on the forums for pretty much saying this? (Not the last part, but the treat thing?)

    This was how I was raised. We had treats as treats. On special occasions and visits with the grandparents. Realizing that was a huge part in me making peace with sugar.

  • Laurend224
    Laurend224 Posts: 1,748 Member
    MrM27 wrote: »
    herrspoons wrote: »
    Laurend224 wrote: »
    I really want to post that like on FB, but I don't want to deal with the fallout excuses that will occur. :p

    Just posted it on mine and changed my profile pic to the "I'm not an a**hole" one.

    Awesome article and absolutely true. It should be a sticky in the sea of desolation and failure that is the so called Motivation forum.

    Is Facebook really that much of an issue with stuff? I'm constantly seeing people here say they posted stuff on Facebook and it became a s*** storm.

    Sorry, I've never had Facebook.[/quote/]

    My Facebook page is a daily dose of Cleanses, sugar is the devil, down with GMO, detox water recipes, and people who believe in the woo that I come here to get away from.

  • Laurend224
    Laurend224 Posts: 1,748 Member
    Laurend224 wrote: »
    MrM27 wrote: »
    herrspoons wrote: »
    Laurend224 wrote: »
    I really want to post that like on FB, but I don't want to deal with the fallout excuses that will occur. :p

    Just posted it on mine and changed my profile pic to the "I'm not an a**hole" one.

    Awesome article and absolutely true. It should be a sticky in the sea of desolation and failure that is the so called Motivation forum.

    Is Facebook really that much of an issue with stuff? I'm constantly seeing people here say they posted stuff on Facebook and it became a s*** storm.

    Sorry, I've never had Facebook.[/quote/]

    My Facebook page is a daily dose of Cleanses, sugar is the devil, down with GMO, detox water recipes, and people who believe in the woo that I come here to get away from.


    And I screwed up yet another quote! .....sigh......
  • Laurend224
    Laurend224 Posts: 1,748 Member
    MrM27 wrote: »
    MrM27 wrote: »
    herrspoons wrote: »
    Laurend224 wrote: »
    I really want to post that like on FB, but I don't want to deal with the fallout excuses that will occur. :p

    Just posted it on mine and changed my profile pic to the "I'm not an a**hole" one.

    Awesome article and absolutely true. It should be a sticky in the sea of desolation and failure that is the so called Motivation forum.

    Is Facebook really that much of an issue with stuff? I'm constantly seeing people here say they posted stuff on Facebook and it became a s*** storm.

    Sorry, I've never had Facebook.

    Yeah I always ask myself when I see that "If they have so much of an issue with the things you say then why are they your friends?"

    You can't unfriend your family.... I tried. I got yelled at by my mama. ;)
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    MrM27 wrote: »
    MrM27 wrote: »
    herrspoons wrote: »
    Laurend224 wrote: »
    I really want to post that like on FB, but I don't want to deal with the fallout excuses that will occur. :p

    Just posted it on mine and changed my profile pic to the "I'm not an a**hole" one.

    Awesome article and absolutely true. It should be a sticky in the sea of desolation and failure that is the so called Motivation forum.

    Is Facebook really that much of an issue with stuff? I'm constantly seeing people here say they posted stuff on Facebook and it became a s*** storm.

    Sorry, I've never had Facebook.

    Yeah I always ask myself when I see that "If they have so much of an issue with the things you say then why are they your friends?"

    These people aren't my friends. They're in the faceache groups I'm in. Mostly fasting/weight loss groups

  • obscuremusicreference
    obscuremusicreference Posts: 1,320 Member
    edited February 2015
    @laurend224

    Every fitness group I belong to has that detox/cleanse/sugar is evil nonsense and I should post this link to all of them.

    And then the anti-GMO folks are in every political group I'm in :neutral_face:
  • alienbabyjen
    alienbabyjen Posts: 36 Member
    I love this so much! It's entirely true.
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    @laurend224

    Every fitness group I belong to has that detox/cleanse/sugar is evil nonsense and I should post this link to all of them.

    And then the anti-GMO folks are in every political group I'm in :neutral_face:
    Ditto that!! :disappointed:
  • tomatoey
    tomatoey Posts: 5,446 Member
    tomatoey wrote: »
    This is right on:
    ****

    You Don’t Know What a Treat Is



    Treat /tret/: defn: an event or item that is out of the ordinary and gives great pleasure

    You know the part about great pleasure. Chocolate tastes good. Wine goes down smooth. Nachos and wings are delicious. Cookies should be their own food group.

    But you missed a part I think.

    ‘An event or item that is out of the ordinary’

    100 years ago you had cake on your birthday and maybe a family member or two. 70 years ago you had a milkshake a few times a year at the drugstore soda fountain. 20 years ago you ordered Chinese food (the nasty deep fried North American version) a couple times a year as a family or at a party.

    Today is different. EVERY SINGLE ******* DAY you are exposed to ‘treats’. Donuts and chocolate milk on the way home from your kids sporting events. Trays of cookies in the office lounge. Bags of chips in the cupboard.

    Every. Single. Day.

    That’s without dinners and events every weekend or birthday parties, anniversaries, baby showers, sports events, holidays, and the plethora of celebratory events.

    ‘Treats’ are something out of the ordinary. If it happens more than once a month it is no longer out of the ordinary. Stop saying treat. You aren’t having a treat.

    It comes down to sacrifice and commitment, like we talked about earlier. Come on. You’re a grown *** adult making their own decisions. Don’t delude yourself in an attempt to justify the fact you are fully responsible for the **** you plow into your mouth.

    You are just eating ****. And that’s fine. I don’t care. It’s your life. Don’t cry over the blubber hanging over your belt though.
    ****
    (that last line is kind of unnecessary imo)

    Do you know, I've been bashed on the forums for pretty much saying this? (Not the last part, but the treat thing?)

    This was how I was raised. We had treats as treats. On special occasions and visits with the grandparents. Realizing that was a huge part in me making peace with sugar.

    I don't doubt it, because it sounds too much like "eat 'clean'/homecooked/whatever and have cake sometimes" instead of "eat whatever you want as long as you hit your macros" which is SIX OF ONE HALF A DOZEN OF THE OTHER but the latter phrasing is just much more popular.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    MrM27 wrote: »
    herrspoons wrote: »
    Laurend224 wrote: »
    I really want to post that like on FB, but I don't want to deal with the fallout excuses that will occur. :p

    Just posted it on mine and changed my profile pic to the "I'm not an a**hole" one.

    Awesome article and absolutely true. It should be a sticky in the sea of desolation and failure that is the so called Motivation forum.

    Is Facebook really that much of an issue with stuff? I'm constantly seeing people here say they posted stuff on Facebook and it became a s*** storm.

    Sorry, I've never had Facebook.

    It probably depends on how whiny and bitchy your facebook friends are. Most of my FB friends are actual friends and family...I don't tend to hang with bitchy and whiny people, so for the most part anything I post is going to be ok...but sometimes the family can get a little uppity and I can't really do anything about them...just stuck with them.
  • PeachyCarol
    PeachyCarol Posts: 8,029 Member
    edited February 2015
    Laurend224 wrote: »
    MrM27 wrote: »
    MrM27 wrote: »
    herrspoons wrote: »
    Laurend224 wrote: »
    I really want to post that like on FB, but I don't want to deal with the fallout excuses that will occur. :p

    Just posted it on mine and changed my profile pic to the "I'm not an a**hole" one.

    Awesome article and absolutely true. It should be a sticky in the sea of desolation and failure that is the so called Motivation forum.

    Is Facebook really that much of an issue with stuff? I'm constantly seeing people here say they posted stuff on Facebook and it became a s*** storm.

    Sorry, I've never had Facebook.

    Yeah I always ask myself when I see that "If they have so much of an issue with the things you say then why are they your friends?"

    You can't unfriend your family.... I tried. I got yelled at by my mama. ;)

    That is why I quit facebook. No regrets.