"Can't you just be normal?"
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RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.0 -
dougpconnell219 wrote: »You are also 19.
Everyone is at their thinnest at nineteen. In twenty years, your peers will not look the same.
Wut...
I'm thinner at 36 than I ever was at 19, 20, or 210 -
RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
hmm once again why are we still talking about the boyfriend. Do you know how much he makes? NO
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RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
There there...show me where the bad lady hurt you.0 -
yopeeps025 wrote: »RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
hmm once again why are we still talking about the boyfriend. Do you know how much he makes? NO
How is this a comment about the boyfriend?0 -
yopeeps025 wrote: »RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
hmm once again why are we still talking about the boyfriend. Do you know how much he makes? NO
How is this a comment about the boyfriend?
Refer to bold in previous quote since that is your issue with the OP. I thought you read for context not just the sentence?
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RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
Also, this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zjWbD9qC9E8
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RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.0 -
yopeeps025 wrote: »yopeeps025 wrote: »RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
hmm once again why are we still talking about the boyfriend. Do you know how much he makes? NO
How is this a comment about the boyfriend?
Refer to bold in previous quote since that is your issue with the OP. I thought you read for context not just the sentence?
Seemed more about her frugality and awesome chef skillz than a dig on the boyfriend. Plus you can be filthy rich and still prefer not to spend your money on certain things. It's not necessarily a negative
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RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
Don't you mean when you're not obsessing over your calories since you're in maintenance and don't need to. Schedule your ED consultation ASAP, please
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Your life would really be much better if you had a husband and children. Look into it.RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
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RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
Don't you mean when you're not obsessing over your calories since you're in maintenance and don't need to. Schedule your ED consultation ASAP, please
What?
I don't obsess over my calories. I also don't make jokes about ED. It's something I take very seriously in my personal life and on these forums.0 -
Your life would really be much better if you had a husband and children. Look into it.RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
I know, right?! I'm just so totally lost in this world. So I shop to soothe.0 -
RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
Don't you mean when you're not obsessing over your calories since you're in maintenance and don't need to. Schedule your ED consultation ASAP, please
What?
I don't obsess over my calories. I also don't make jokes about ED. It's something I take very seriously in my personal life and on these forums.
She is very confused.
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Your life would really be much better if you had a husband and children. Look into it.RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
I know, right?! I'm just so totally lost in this world. So I shop to soothe.
It's not your fault that your hormones are out of control. Don't beat yourself up.
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RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
Don't you mean when you're not obsessing over your calories since you're in maintenance and don't need to. Schedule your ED consultation ASAP, please
What?
I don't obsess over my calories. I also don't make jokes about ED. It's something I take very seriously in my personal life and on these forums.
It's the same thing jenlo was trying to explain to you earlier that went clear over your head - we could ask you all the same questions you're asking of the OP for tracking your calories, being accountable to your health and fitness etc even though you have no weight to lose.
And you've made plenty of jokes here. At people and things that I probably wouldn't. Must be a bit shocking that we're a bit different, right?
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Lmao! This thread is like a train wreck, I can't stop looking.0
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RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
Don't you mean when you're not obsessing over your calories since you're in maintenance and don't need to. Schedule your ED consultation ASAP, please
What?
I don't obsess over my calories. I also don't make jokes about ED. It's something I take very seriously in my personal life and on these forums.
It's the same thing jenlo was trying to explain to you earlier that went clear over your head - we could ask you all the same questions you're asking of the OP for tracking your calories, being accountable to your health and fitness etc even though you have no weight to lose.
And you've made plenty of jokes here. At people and things and I probably wouldn't. Must be a bit shocking that we're a bit different, right?
Um, what?
Please show me where I've made one joke about ED on this thread.
I have made two points:
1. OP says she has an unhealthy relationship with food. Let's address THAT issue.
2. We can't just blame the boyfriend and the friends because we don't know enough about the situation.
Other than that, I've laughed a bit at your blatant assumptions about people you don't know and your need to project your own dieting and exercise issues onto this OP's situation - and everyone else's comments.
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RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
Don't you mean when you're not obsessing over your calories since you're in maintenance and don't need to. Schedule your ED consultation ASAP, please
What?
I don't obsess over my calories. I also don't make jokes about ED. It's something I take very seriously in my personal life and on these forums.
It's the same thing jenlo was trying to explain to you earlier that went clear over your head - we could ask you all the same questions you're asking of the OP for tracking your calories, being accountable to your health and fitness etc even though you have no weight to lose.
And you've made plenty of jokes here. At people and things and I probably wouldn't. Must be a bit shocking that we're a bit different, right?
Um, what?
Please show me where I've made one joke about ED on this thread.
I have made two points:
1. OP says she has an unhealthy relationship with food. Let's address THAT issue.
2. We can't just blame the boyfriend and the friends because we don't know enough about the situation.
Other than that, I've laughed a bit at your blatant assumptions about people you don't know and your need to project your own dieting and exercise issues onto this OP's situation - and everyone else's comments.
Typo in my previous post: you've made plenty of jokes that I probably wouldn't. Not necessarily about ED but please don't make yourself out to be some kind of saint
Carry on laughing. I'm here to please 0 -
RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
Don't you mean when you're not obsessing over your calories since you're in maintenance and don't need to. Schedule your ED consultation ASAP, please
What?
I don't obsess over my calories. I also don't make jokes about ED. It's something I take very seriously in my personal life and on these forums.
It's the same thing jenlo was trying to explain to you earlier that went clear over your head - we could ask you all the same questions you're asking of the OP for tracking your calories, being accountable to your health and fitness etc even though you have no weight to lose.
And you've made plenty of jokes here. At people and things and I probably wouldn't. Must be a bit shocking that we're a bit different, right?
Um, what?
Please show me where I've made one joke about ED on this thread.
I have made two points:
1. OP says she has an unhealthy relationship with food. Let's address THAT issue.
2. We can't just blame the boyfriend and the friends because we don't know enough about the situation.
Other than that, I've laughed a bit at your blatant assumptions about people you don't know and your need to project your own dieting and exercise issues onto this OP's situation - and everyone else's comments.
Typo in my previous post: you've made plenty of jokes that I probably wouldn't. Not necessarily about ED but please don't make yourself out to be some kind of saint
Carry on laughing. I'm here to please
Please show me a joke that I've made that is offensive in this thread.
You may not be making jokes, but you certainly aren't helping the OP or anyone here by making incredible leaps about her situation so that you can feel better about your own.0 -
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RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
Don't you mean when you're not obsessing over your calories since you're in maintenance and don't need to. Schedule your ED consultation ASAP, please
What?
I don't obsess over my calories. I also don't make jokes about ED. It's something I take very seriously in my personal life and on these forums.
It's the same thing jenlo was trying to explain to you earlier that went clear over your head - we could ask you all the same questions you're asking of the OP for tracking your calories, being accountable to your health and fitness etc even though you have no weight to lose.
And you've made plenty of jokes here. At people and things and I probably wouldn't. Must be a bit shocking that we're a bit different, right?
Um, what?
Please show me where I've made one joke about ED on this thread.
I have made two points:
1. OP says she has an unhealthy relationship with food. Let's address THAT issue.
2. We can't just blame the boyfriend and the friends because we don't know enough about the situation.
Other than that, I've laughed a bit at your blatant assumptions about people you don't know and your need to project your own dieting and exercise issues onto this OP's situation - and everyone else's comments.
Typo in my previous post: you've made plenty of jokes that I probably wouldn't. Not necessarily about ED but please don't make yourself out to be some kind of saint
Carry on laughing. I'm here to please
Please show me a joke that I've made that is offensive in this thread.
You may not be making jokes, but you certainly aren't helping the OP or anyone here by making incredible leaps about her situation so that you can feel better about your own.
The joke she made that fail at calling someone older than her a kid was funny.
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awesomewastaken wrote: »JaneiR36, it seems to me you are under the impression that every single person out there has issues with their weight and thus should keep an eye on what they're eating. Hence your comments about eating out a lot and multiple slices of pizza (who has only a few slices, I eat the whole damn thing!) being bad. Of course, I am being an assumer (see what I did there
) and I don't mean this as a personal attack or anything, it's just that I think it's a bit misguided to want to dictate everyone's eating habits - and to me it seems like that's what you're trying to do by painting eating out/not cooking for yourself as a bad thing.
By the way, this post again. I totally agree with wanting to eat the whole damn pizza. How many times would you go out to a yummy sub and pizza place and eat a couple wings or have a salad since that's what you can make fit in your day before the whole experience is no longer even worth it? Or maybe your version of moderation could be going out twice a month instead and having decent quantities of good food? And the rest of the time make delicious meals at home? Hmm wonder who this reminds me of
But yeah I agree with another post that a potential solution would be to go for the hanging out, not necessarily for the food. Personally, I'd rather just do something else
Well hopefully you're not talking about the OP because you don't even know much about her to make that assumption, again.
Sure I do. Just like you feel you do when you call people lazy or say they're making excuses, etc etc. Have you spent every waking minute with them? Do you know what it's like to live in their body? We make assumptions all the time - it's how we detail hypotheses and later figure out if they align with known facts or otherwise try to prove them. I could detail many assumptions made by the other side in this debate but it's pointless. No one goes through a given day without making assumptions based on their background knowledge and the specifics of the current situation they're dealing with. I find most of the comments made here about assumptions rather amusing, really
Seems like you either lack the ability to type out posts without making assumptions every single time, you are being deliberately obtuse or you are just trolling. None of what you type ever makes sense. It's a joke at this point. You can't stay on track with one train of thought either, if you really do think the things your saying. Maybe because they just don't make sense. You are assuming a bunch of things about the OP when in reality the only thing we do know about her for sure is that she has an unhealthy relationship with food. We know that because she herself said it and you refuse to accept it. Because you obviously know the OP better than she does.yopeeps025 wrote: »RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
Don't you mean when you're not obsessing over your calories since you're in maintenance and don't need to. Schedule your ED consultation ASAP, please
What?
I don't obsess over my calories. I also don't make jokes about ED. It's something I take very seriously in my personal life and on these forums.
It's the same thing jenlo was trying to explain to you earlier that went clear over your head - we could ask you all the same questions you're asking of the OP for tracking your calories, being accountable to your health and fitness etc even though you have no weight to lose.
And you've made plenty of jokes here. At people and things and I probably wouldn't. Must be a bit shocking that we're a bit different, right?
Um, what?
Please show me where I've made one joke about ED on this thread.
I have made two points:
1. OP says she has an unhealthy relationship with food. Let's address THAT issue.
2. We can't just blame the boyfriend and the friends because we don't know enough about the situation.
Other than that, I've laughed a bit at your blatant assumptions about people you don't know and your need to project your own dieting and exercise issues onto this OP's situation - and everyone else's comments.
Typo in my previous post: you've made plenty of jokes that I probably wouldn't. Not necessarily about ED but please don't make yourself out to be some kind of saint
Carry on laughing. I'm here to please
Please show me a joke that I've made that is offensive in this thread.
You may not be making jokes, but you certainly aren't helping the OP or anyone here by making incredible leaps about her situation so that you can feel better about your own.
The joke she made that fail at calling someone older than her a kid was funny.
Yea I thought that was adorable.
She also knows that the boyfriend, described by the OP as in "excellent shape", is a slug that stuffs his face and waistline. Janei keeps ignoring what the OP admits and injecting invented details about the bf.0 -
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brianpperkins wrote: »awesomewastaken wrote: »JaneiR36, it seems to me you are under the impression that every single person out there has issues with their weight and thus should keep an eye on what they're eating. Hence your comments about eating out a lot and multiple slices of pizza (who has only a few slices, I eat the whole damn thing!) being bad. Of course, I am being an assumer (see what I did there ) and I don't mean this as a personal attack or anything, it's just that I think it's a bit misguided to want to dictate everyone's eating habits - and to me it seems like that's what you're trying to do by painting eating out/not cooking for yourself as a bad thing.
By the way, this post again. I totally agree with wanting to eat the whole damn pizza. How many times would you go out to a yummy sub and pizza place and eat a couple wings or have a salad since that's what you can make fit in your day before the whole experience is no longer even worth it? Or maybe your version of moderation could be going out twice a month instead and having decent quantities of good food? And the rest of the time make delicious meals at home? Hmm wonder who this reminds me of
But yeah I agree with another post that a potential solution would be to go for the hanging out, not necessarily for the food. Personally, I'd rather just do something else
Well hopefully you're not talking about the OP because you don't even know much about her to make that assumption, again.
Sure I do. Just like you feel you do when you call people lazy or say they're making excuses, etc etc. Have you spent every waking minute with them? Do you know what it's like to live in their body? We make assumptions all the time - it's how we detail hypotheses and later figure out if they align with known facts or otherwise try to prove them. I could detail many assumptions made by the other side in this debate but it's pointless. No one goes through a given day without making assumptions based on their background knowledge and the specifics of the current situation they're dealing with. I find most of the comments made here about assumptions rather amusing, really
Seems like you either lack the ability to type out posts without making assumptions every single time, you are being deliberately obtuse or you are just trolling. None of what you type ever makes sense. It's a joke at this point. You can't stay on track with one train of thought either, if you really do think the things your saying. Maybe because they just don't make sense. You are assuming a bunch of things about the OP when in reality the only thing we do know about her for sure is that she has an unhealthy relationship with food. We know that because she herself said it and you refuse to accept it. Because you obviously know the OP better than she does.yopeeps025 wrote: »RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
Don't you mean when you're not obsessing over your calories since you're in maintenance and don't need to. Schedule your ED consultation ASAP, please
What?
I don't obsess over my calories. I also don't make jokes about ED. It's something I take very seriously in my personal life and on these forums.
It's the same thing jenlo was trying to explain to you earlier that went clear over your head - we could ask you all the same questions you're asking of the OP for tracking your calories, being accountable to your health and fitness etc even though you have no weight to lose.
And you've made plenty of jokes here. At people and things and I probably wouldn't. Must be a bit shocking that we're a bit different, right?
Um, what?
Please show me where I've made one joke about ED on this thread.
I have made two points:
1. OP says she has an unhealthy relationship with food. Let's address THAT issue.
2. We can't just blame the boyfriend and the friends because we don't know enough about the situation.
Other than that, I've laughed a bit at your blatant assumptions about people you don't know and your need to project your own dieting and exercise issues onto this OP's situation - and everyone else's comments.
Typo in my previous post: you've made plenty of jokes that I probably wouldn't. Not necessarily about ED but please don't make yourself out to be some kind of saint
Carry on laughing. I'm here to please
Please show me a joke that I've made that is offensive in this thread.
You may not be making jokes, but you certainly aren't helping the OP or anyone here by making incredible leaps about her situation so that you can feel better about your own.
The joke she made that fail at calling someone older than her a kid was funny.
Yea I thought that was adorable.
She also knows that the boyfriend, described by the OP as in "excellent shape", is a slug that stuffs his face and waistline. Janei keeps ignoring what the OP admits and injecting invented details about the bf.
Well duh she hates men.
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brianpperkins wrote: »awesomewastaken wrote: »JaneiR36, it seems to me you are under the impression that every single person out there has issues with their weight and thus should keep an eye on what they're eating. Hence your comments about eating out a lot and multiple slices of pizza (who has only a few slices, I eat the whole damn thing!) being bad. Of course, I am being an assumer (see what I did there ) and I don't mean this as a personal attack or anything, it's just that I think it's a bit misguided to want to dictate everyone's eating habits - and to me it seems like that's what you're trying to do by painting eating out/not cooking for yourself as a bad thing.
By the way, this post again. I totally agree with wanting to eat the whole damn pizza. How many times would you go out to a yummy sub and pizza place and eat a couple wings or have a salad since that's what you can make fit in your day before the whole experience is no longer even worth it? Or maybe your version of moderation could be going out twice a month instead and having decent quantities of good food? And the rest of the time make delicious meals at home? Hmm wonder who this reminds me of
But yeah I agree with another post that a potential solution would be to go for the hanging out, not necessarily for the food. Personally, I'd rather just do something else
Well hopefully you're not talking about the OP because you don't even know much about her to make that assumption, again.
Sure I do. Just like you feel you do when you call people lazy or say they're making excuses, etc etc. Have you spent every waking minute with them? Do you know what it's like to live in their body? We make assumptions all the time - it's how we detail hypotheses and later figure out if they align with known facts or otherwise try to prove them. I could detail many assumptions made by the other side in this debate but it's pointless. No one goes through a given day without making assumptions based on their background knowledge and the specifics of the current situation they're dealing with. I find most of the comments made here about assumptions rather amusing, really
Seems like you either lack the ability to type out posts without making assumptions every single time, you are being deliberately obtuse or you are just trolling. None of what you type ever makes sense. It's a joke at this point. You can't stay on track with one train of thought either, if you really do think the things your saying. Maybe because they just don't make sense. You are assuming a bunch of things about the OP when in reality the only thing we do know about her for sure is that she has an unhealthy relationship with food. We know that because she herself said it and you refuse to accept it. Because you obviously know the OP better than she does.yopeeps025 wrote: »RockstarWilson wrote: »Hey, at least she is logical. She would probably be great for a guy who likes to, well, use money for other things than restaurants. Id take her...got my own personal chef as a girlfriend! And I dont have to tip her monetarily!
I dont think there is too much of a problem here. The girl is frugal, and very accountable. How many women in this world still are?
LOL. Just when I thought this thread couldn't get worse.
Holy crap. But hey, women be shoppin amirite?
That's all I do all day long. When I'm not being a slug or stuffing my face.
Because I'm never accountable to my fitness regime. Like ever.
Don't you mean when you're not obsessing over your calories since you're in maintenance and don't need to. Schedule your ED consultation ASAP, please
What?
I don't obsess over my calories. I also don't make jokes about ED. It's something I take very seriously in my personal life and on these forums.
It's the same thing jenlo was trying to explain to you earlier that went clear over your head - we could ask you all the same questions you're asking of the OP for tracking your calories, being accountable to your health and fitness etc even though you have no weight to lose.
And you've made plenty of jokes here. At people and things and I probably wouldn't. Must be a bit shocking that we're a bit different, right?
Um, what?
Please show me where I've made one joke about ED on this thread.
I have made two points:
1. OP says she has an unhealthy relationship with food. Let's address THAT issue.
2. We can't just blame the boyfriend and the friends because we don't know enough about the situation.
Other than that, I've laughed a bit at your blatant assumptions about people you don't know and your need to project your own dieting and exercise issues onto this OP's situation - and everyone else's comments.
Typo in my previous post: you've made plenty of jokes that I probably wouldn't. Not necessarily about ED but please don't make yourself out to be some kind of saint
Carry on laughing. I'm here to please
Please show me a joke that I've made that is offensive in this thread.
You may not be making jokes, but you certainly aren't helping the OP or anyone here by making incredible leaps about her situation so that you can feel better about your own.
The joke she made that fail at calling someone older than her a kid was funny.
Yea I thought that was adorable.
She also knows that the boyfriend, described by the OP as in "excellent shape", is a slug that stuffs his face and waistline. Janei keeps ignoring what the OP admits and injecting invented details about the bf.
I think at this point if she is being serious it's a matter of siding with the OP simply because she's a female. Like a girl power type of thing.
Hey, don't lump us all together!
I've already been told I'm not frugal or accountable today. Let's not add to the list.0 -
"I'm in constant anxiety "
"Because "eye-balling" or guessing freaks me out, I never go out to bars/restaurants."
"He hates I never join him, but was never so blunt about until today."
"I know I don't have a healthy relationship with food "
-- the OP's own admissions of her emotions and relationships with food.
The only details she gives of her bf are "He eats out for almost all 3 meals at super nice places and is in excellent shape, so he doesn't "get it". "0 -
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