Going all the way on the first date.

lithezebra

I would never tell, if I did, or did not.

Ant_the_old_keith_lemon

I get them to wait so long they are begging for it haha! Seriously

whierd

I only go all the way to the restaurant of his selection. -I was young once, but now (at 42 years old and never having been married) I want to be able to still count to the number on my bedpost if you catch my drift.

You know, I find this interesting. Most older women are more apt to not want to waste time.

Did you just call me OLD????

I think you forgot something...

"You know, ma'am, I find this interesting..."

Old-er. And it's cool, I like cougars.

Also, I use ma'am as a matter of habit for any woman.

jonbobfrog

I cannot believe any of the ladies on here are providing answers! Inappropriate question in the first place. This is not a dating site.

Wanna go for drinks sometime? You sound like so much fun.

Thank you! I wanted to say something but didn't know what ... this was great! ]

tehboxingkitteh

if there's enough alcohol involved, yes. if he sent me junk pictures beforehand and he measured up to my standards, I might just skip the date

I kid, of course. I have no set 'limit' on how long I wait. First date. Twentieth date. Whenever it feels right.

You got Kik and low standards?

Of course. However, my self esteem might start getting better with the more weight I lose. Chubby girls got to put out to keep up, you know :laugh:

PunkyRachel

lol my now husband waited 11 months to go "all the way" with me. No it wasn't our wedding night either, but I did make him wait until he proposed, this way I knew he wasn't gonna just sleep with me and ditch me. That hurts when guys do that because sex is more than just sex for most of us ladies like myself. After the guy I was with prior to my husband used me like that and then never talked to me after I gave it up to him. I was not gonna put out unless I knew the next guy was here for the long haul.

I wish more people realized the wisdom in this. Thanks for sharing!

As a guy I am often appalled at men (even myself sometimes -- in the past mind you) and that is why I've taught my daughters (and continue to remind my beautiful wife) men are pigs -- ALL men are pigs.

Sadly, sex has become a simple form of entertainment and with modern methods has little consequence other then damaged pride and hurt feelings.

I'm a firm believer in responsibility and honor, my wife is too

My husband tells me and my friends that might be having guy issues how horrible men are. lol Yea, plus I had a ex friend who was married but had a open relationship. they kept trying to get me to join in with them. I was like HELL NO, I am a one guy kinda of girl. It's disgusting in my opinion. Maybe I'm just too prideful of my body, idk. Thank-you for the kind words :flowerforyou:

rml_16

I cannot believe any of the ladies on here are providing answers! Inappropriate question in the first place. This is not a dating site.

Awwww.

*pats the newbie on the head*

Bankman1989

I would. Because I like to rock out with my taco out.

hahahahahahaha!!!

loopylin32

I get them to wait so long they are begging for it haha! Seriously

thats the way... dont let em obectify u hun lol

iulia_maddie

lol my now husband waited 11 months to go "all the way" with me. No it wasn't our wedding night either, but I did make him wait until he proposed, this way I knew he wasn't gonna just sleep with me and ditch me. That hurts when guys do that because sex is more than just sex for most of us ladies like myself. After the guy I was with prior to my husband used me like that and then never talked to me after I gave it up to him. I was not gonna put out unless I knew the next guy was here for the long haul.

I wish more people realized the wisdom in this. Thanks for sharing!

As a guy I am often appalled at men (even myself sometimes -- in the past mind you) and that is why I've taught my daughters (and continue to remind my beautiful wife) men are pigs -- ALL men are pigs.

Sadly, sex has become a simple form of entertainment and with modern methods has little consequence other then damaged pride and hurt feelings.

I'm a firm believer in responsibility and honor, my wife is too

So you've had your share of fun while young, but now you're teaching your daughters that "all men are pigs" and that having sex is somehow affecting how "honorable" they are.
Cool beans.

blackgirlfit

Generation Z are all going to be easy sluts. I have my reasonings. I would list them.. but i don't want to derail this thread with my social conformist theories..

Ophidion

Yes there is exceptions , like buying me expensive gifts..plastic surgery , diamonds, or vacations ........lol

I'm just kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

operation_cute

well I did with my boyfriend I'm with now, and we've been together for almost 4 years now It was really out of character for me though considering he's the third guy i've been with The connection was really strong though, felt like I had known him forever after just one date He's been nothing but a gentleman our entire relationship, so definitely no effects there

rml_16

Question for the ladies. How many of you will go all the way on the first date? If not; why? If you do, do you feel that the guy will look at you differently and you won't be able to form a meaninful relationship?

I never go all the way on the first date. No bs. Why? Because, first off, for me at least, dating is to see if me and this guy are compatible for a relationship. I wanna get to know him. I want to know about his family, his dog, his friends, I want to be friends with him first. You can't get to know a guy if you let him hit first night.


Do you get all your vacation benefits, sick time, and what not the first day you work?

Thanks for this post It's nice to see there are 'ladies' on this site!

(note for the other ladies, I won't quote all of you but I'm glad to see you exist in numbers here!)

It's lovely to see misogyny alive and well and right out there in the open. :-)

freebirdjones

All the way to where?

My first date we went for coffee and then a movie and we walked all the way.. We are now married

It would be funny to see someone stop on their way to a restaurant.. Guy: why are you stopping, we are almost there, Im hungry. Girl: I never go all the way on the first date, I just can't walk any further, sorry maybe next date :laugh:

I think I'm too funny but in all honesty, I think it's all up to the person and I would just suggest some damage control in case you have lots of first dates, don't want to spread anything icky around you didn't know you had :sick:

cbarn025

You think it's just generation Z or is history just repeating itself?

cherryd69

Question for the ladies. How many of you will go all the way on the first date? If not; why? If you do, do you feel that the guy will look at you differently and you won't be able to form a meaninful relationship?

I never go all the way on the first date. No bs. Why? Because, first off, for me at least, dating is to see if me and this guy are compatible for a relationship. I wanna get to know him. I want to know about his family, his dog, his friends, I want to be friends with him first. You can't get to know a guy if you let him hit first night.


Do you get all your vacation benefits, sick time, and what not the first day you work?

Thanks for this post It's nice to see there are 'ladies' on this site!

(note for the other ladies, I won't quote all of you but I'm glad to see you exist in numbers here!)

You can still be a 'lady' if you have put out on the first night :huh:

Depends on how many times you put out in my eyes... For me it was a one off.

Girl i used to work with on the other hand... she used to put out to about 6 diff blokes in one night :sick:

randomtai

Generation Z are all going to be easy sluts. I have my reasonings. I would list them.. but i don't want to derail this thread with my social conformist theories..

whierd

lol my now husband waited 11 months to go "all the way" with me. No it wasn't our wedding night either, but I did make him wait until he proposed, this way I knew he wasn't gonna just sleep with me and ditch me. That hurts when guys do that because sex is more than just sex for most of us ladies like myself. After the guy I was with prior to my husband used me like that and then never talked to me after I gave it up to him. I was not gonna put out unless I knew the next guy was here for the long haul.

I wish more people realized the wisdom in this. Thanks for sharing!

As a guy I am often appalled at men (even myself sometimes -- in the past mind you) and that is why I've taught my daughters (and continue to remind my beautiful wife) men are pigs -- ALL men are pigs.

Sadly, sex has become a simple form of entertainment and with modern methods has little consequence other then damaged pride and hurt feelings.

I'm a firm believer in responsibility and honor, my wife is too

So you've had your share of fun while young, but now you're teaching your daughters that "all men are pigs" and that having sex is somehow affecting how "honorable" they are.
Cool beans.

Heh.