Going all the way on the first date.

rhia575

Definitely would not do that. I'm the one man in a life time kinda gal

bio01979

hate to break it to you but this is sexist because you are completely dismissing the woman's sex drive

news flash, we have them. Many of us have as high or higher sex drives than men

Anyone who thinks women don't want to have sex (almost all the time) with a considerable amount of drive to boot has no understanding of women

for some reason people with your thinking believe we are supposed to suppress or hide our sex drives

Erik no longer thinks you are a 'lady'....where did I put my sadface?

well **** there goes my whole day

Thisisnotadiet

It depends on whether or not I shaved my legs that day.

Best reply ever

Ophidion

Fact is men are biologically programmed to try to have sex, it is a drive that goes beyond simple logic and conscious thought and ignoring that is ridiculous.

So are women or; no babies.

Not in the same way -- it is a male fantasy that women are driven to have sex as much as men are. In fact, testosterone, which is 10 times greater in men, is not being used as a way to INCREASE female sex drive.

Doesn't mean some women don't have more then others but by and by most do not even come close to the male sex drive.

I have the feeling this guy could be the cause that women around him have a low sex drive...just sayin'

Hate to quote my own quote but this guy deserves to...

loopylin32

hate to break it to you but this is sexist because you are completely dismissing the woman's sex drive

news flash, we have them. Many of us have as high or higher sex drives than men

Anyone who thinks women don't want to have sex (almost all the time) with a considerable amount of drive to boot has no understanding of women

for some reason people with your thinking believe we are supposed to suppress or hide our sex drives

Erik no longer thinks you are a 'lady'....where did I put my sadface?

not sure i wanna be a lady by that definition anyway

lithezebra

In for more moralising and perhaps a definition of what constitutes a 'lady'.......

Someone who decides for herself what she wants to do, and who she wants to do it with, and doesn't blather about it on the internet.

vtmoon

Mabie I'm strange.. but putting out on the first date seems kinda cheap to me. Selling yourself short. I purposely don't put out for the next month or two of dating(mabie even three)... helps me weed out the ones just tryin to hit it and leave. I like to get to know a man and really decide if I like/rrespect him enough to let him hit it.

I like cheap.

Hahaha. But mabie one day you want a girl who you know just doesnt put to just anyone? Less chances of stds and whatnot. Or like I said mabie I'm strange. Lol.

Just because a girl puts out on the first date doesn't mean she is banging a bunch of other guys. :laugh:

You're right. It just means she's a lot more likely to. Lol.

No it doesn't.

I hadn't had sex with anyone for two years before I met my BF. Since then, I haven't had sex with anyone but him.

"more likely to"

She did use a probability statement, she didn't say 100%.

KravMark

Go for it

GnomeLove

Mabie I'm strange.. but putting out on the first date seems kinda cheap to me. Selling yourself short. I purposely don't put out for the next month or two of dating(mabie even three)... helps me weed out the ones just tryin to hit it and leave. I like to get to know a man and really decide if I like/rrespect him enough to let him hit it.

I like cheap.

Hahaha. But mabie one day you want a girl who you know just doesnt put to just anyone? Less chances of stds or just someone who carries herself with respect.. like I prefer a man who enjoys my company for me and not just the puss. Like I said mabie I'm strange. Lol.

Iron_Lotus

Firstly if I want some and I like the guy, sure why not. 2 I don't really care how the guy will see me later I got what I wanted. 3 I married a guy l slept with on the first date so if a meaningful relationship is meant to flourish it will.

rml_16

Mabie I'm strange.. but putting out on the first date seems kinda cheap to me. Selling yourself short. I purposely don't put out for the next month or two of dating(mabie even three)... helps me weed out the ones just tryin to hit it and leave. I like to get to know a man and really decide if I like/rrespect him enough to let him hit it.

I like cheap.

Hahaha. But mabie one day you want a girl who you know just doesnt put to just anyone? Less chances of stds and whatnot. Or like I said mabie I'm strange. Lol.

Just because a girl puts out on the first date doesn't mean she is banging a bunch of other guys. :laugh:

You're right. It just means she's a lot more likely to. Lol.

No it doesn't.

I hadn't had sex with anyone for two years before I met my BF. Since then, I haven't had sex with anyone but him.

"more likely to"

She did use a probability statement, she didn't say 100%.

Either way, what she said is not true.

SteveJWatson

In for more moralising and perhaps a definition of what constitutes a 'lady'.......

Someone who decides for herself what she wants to do, and who she wants to do it with, and doesn't blather about it on the internet.

"Someone who is aware when others are being facetious"

vtmoon

Mabie I'm strange.. but putting out on the first date seems kinda cheap to me. Selling yourself short. I purposely don't put out for the next month or two of dating(mabie even three)... helps me weed out the ones just tryin to hit it and leave. I like to get to know a man and really decide if I like/rrespect him enough to let him hit it.

I like cheap.

Hahaha. But mabie one day you want a girl who you know just doesnt put to just anyone? Less chances of stds and whatnot. Or like I said mabie I'm strange. Lol.

Just because a girl puts out on the first date doesn't mean she is banging a bunch of other guys. :laugh:

You're right. It just means she's a lot more likely to. Lol.

No it doesn't.

I hadn't had sex with anyone for two years before I met my BF. Since then, I haven't had sex with anyone but him.

"more likely to"

She did use a probability statement, she didn't say 100%.

Either way, what she said is not true.

How do you know that?

whierd

Either way, what she said is not true.

How do you know that?

Burden of proof is on the person who makes the claim, not the person pushing the BS button.

SteveJWatson

I learned a lot from this thread today:

Honoring women = misogyny

You're only a slut if you have sex with six men in one night, not one. Unless you think you're a slut after one, then you are. (Brought to you by the same people who said: if you think it's a baby, it is, otherwise it's "tissue," and those who claim to use "reason")

Sex is for you, yourself, and you, to enjoy for your own selfish self. That there's another person in the room is incidental.

Women should be treated like men, I think. Don't open the door, don't honor her in any female way, because to be female is threatening - maybe because for some reason men are the ultimate gender and women want to be men? Either way, there should be no femininity in this world; and when I saw that girl fill her gas tank yesterday while her boyfriend sat on his *kitten*, I should not get mad, but raise my hands and shout with joy that women are finally free!

But then the TV man says we need to be sensitive and embrace islam and sharia law, where clitorectomies, stonings, hanging of female victims, battery acid in the face, honor killings (already happening in USA), and burqas are the norm. Rascals!

Hi, I'm from planet Earth. How are you today?

WhitneySheree88

I am now married but when I was dating No, I would never go all the way on a first date. I had been put in that situation though once or twice but I always felt that in order to have someone respect me I needed to have respect for myself. Having sex on the first date in my opinion just isn't right. My grandmother's always told me "No man wants to buy the cow if you give away the milk for free" I didn't like being compared to a cow, but I understood what they meant. I just don't think it's right, I think people should have more respect for themselves before sleeping with someone that hardly know, but like I said this is just MY opinion, and opinions are like a**holes everyone has one :happy:

Lesa_Sass

I cannot believe any of the ladies on here are providing answers! Inappropriate question in the first place. This is not a dating site.

Hello and welcome to My Fitness Pal. I highly suggest you stay away from the forums, or at the very least, the chit chat fun and games one.

Have a healthy and blessed day!

Lesa Sass

MsStang02

Depends on the chemistry. I had known a guy for a long time and we talked often. Lots of attraction that was mutual. We decided to go on a date and it ended nicely :bigsmile: Dated for awhile and that was that. I do not oppose the first date deed. Just depends :drinker:

Trechechus

When I say "men are pigs" I'm being honest about the male sex drive. That's all. Anyone who thinks men don't want to have sex (almost all the time) with a considerable amount of drive to boot has no understanding of the effects of testosterone.

Fact is men are biologically programmed to try to have sex, it is a drive that goes beyond simple logic and conscious thought and ignoring that is ridiculous. Being honest about it on the the other hand is honorable in my book.

I am a man, speak for yourself not me your comment specifically "Fact is men are biologically programmed to try to have sex, it is a drive that goes beyond simple logic and conscious thought and ignoring that is ridiculous." Well I think I can use logic and conscious thought to control my sexual urges and really your logic sounds *coughs* a little rapey in its logic....Thinking about sex and acting on it are two very different things my friend. Guess what this maybe shocking but women have sexual urges too and act on them. I know like woah does that mean women have a sex drive? yes it does and they also have a biological urge to procreate too.

Sex is healthy thinking about sex is healthy, thinking that a sex drive goes beyond simple logic and conscious is very unhealthy.

Women have sex drive????

Alex

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